JustPearlyThings - March 20, 2023


Do Modern Women DESERVE Respect？？


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00:00:00.000 do modern women deserve respect now what made me what made me think of this topic all right was i
00:00:05.740 was thinking do people deserve do women deserve respect just for being women no no what do you
00:00:12.420 so let's go here go around i know we had some initial reactions let's start here and then go
00:00:18.080 around and say why i personally think not um i think women nowadays tend to be like
00:00:26.460 very feminist focused you know what i mean they don't be thinking about the men
00:00:31.020 which like understandable we're women we think about ourselves that's that's just life
00:00:35.100 in my opinion um i think with everything that's going on in the world and everything that they're
00:00:40.380 expecting a lot from men a lot of respect for men when they're not bringing anything they just think
00:00:45.400 you know what he has money he's gonna have me because of what i bring to the table but what do
00:00:50.500 you bring to the table absolutely nothing you bring personality and that's about it that's why i feel
00:00:54.700 like most of the women nowadays can bring um women who are out here like run their own business stuff
00:01:00.040 like that like go for you like i understand that you're bringing other stuff to the table then like
00:01:04.260 building empire together that's fine no problem but for the women who don't have stuff like that
00:01:08.780 you think men care about if women are building and yeah they don't care about that um but for women i
00:01:15.280 feel like women really think that men care that they have to have something you know when that's not
00:01:20.060 the truth okay what do you think i see you thinking over there she's like she's not um i feel like
00:01:28.160 try to speak into your mic just you know i feel like women don't do not deserve respect off the bat
00:01:33.940 i feel like you need to earn the respect um however i feel like a certain level of respect should be given
00:01:41.340 to you sort of immediately um because you cannot respect someone if they do not respect you
00:01:47.060 so i then feel like if a man doesn't give you a certain level of respect you can't respect him
00:01:54.720 back and there's not really going to be any respect in that scenario and that's all i'm going to say
00:02:01.640 can i comment on that yeah do you think that see the way like you're saying like if a man can give
00:02:07.680 do you not think it's like the other way around in general everyone men and women the respect should
00:02:11.980 be there straight away yeah if you're focused with that person more you obviously get more respect put
00:02:16.780 into you but i feel like with women it's kind of like why would i give him respect when he's done
00:02:21.600 this that and the other would they have done this that and the other and they're respecting their
00:02:24.180 respect straight away straight off the bat and women don't do that most times i feel like generally
00:02:30.060 um women tend to respect men more sorry women tend to respect men more than men tend to respect
00:02:40.860 women off the bat you think most women respect men
00:02:44.080 i wouldn't say most i'm gonna be i'm gonna be careful with my words here because i wouldn't say
00:02:50.900 no most women don't respect the the average guy but i feel like more women respect men than men
00:02:57.260 would respect women off the bat um what makes you say that i'd say that it's more like i feel like
00:03:06.720 women need men more than men sort of need women so women are willing to give respect immediately or
00:03:14.020 give trust immediately rather than the man trying to give it to the woman because men i feel like
00:03:19.520 men sort of want to explore different women so if that's if that's true like why do we have phrases
00:03:24.960 in society like men are trash men are the problem men stupid men men are dumb men are idiots yeah i feel
00:03:31.720 like but we don't have like you know i mean well in my space of youtube women are whores is a bit
00:03:37.320 common but in the general public and media it's it's really not and even even on the train like
00:03:42.880 you'll see um things that are signs that call men predators on the tube here it's wild um i'd say
00:03:50.400 i think our general society as a whole right now is failing i think you can say a lot of women are
00:03:57.060 whores and a lot of men are trash i feel like we're in a society now that is favoring like
00:04:03.180 prostitution like modern prostitution to the point where it's like women are not even committed to this
00:04:11.400 guy they just want this guy for money and this man wants this girl just because of her body or her face
00:04:17.360 like people are not actually loving each other for who they are as a person anymore do you think
00:04:22.860 that's ever happened yeah i feel like the thing is i don't like generalizing because i feel like
00:04:28.980 everyone's different so i i feel like there's relationships out there where they don't care
00:04:35.540 about how the other person looks they care about that person as that person like how that person
00:04:41.640 acts how that person is like how that person makes them feel some people just generally want women
00:04:47.220 for status and for that power wait you think who just again some men men want women for status and
00:04:55.540 power uh some men yeah okay do you think that's the majority i'd agree with you on status i don't know
00:05:01.660 about power i wouldn't say majority um but i'd say i'd probably say more i wouldn't say high value men but
00:05:09.920 men that perceive themselves as high value would rather have a woman of sort of higher status or
00:05:19.900 i wouldn't say status i probably think status isn't the right word but sort of are you still gonna say
00:05:25.220 that you would say the majority of women respect most men or respect more men than men do women
00:05:30.880 because that was the initial question yeah um that i asked not the general again i think i maybe might
00:05:38.060 have we i might have phrased that a bit wrong i feel like women seek out men like need men more than
00:05:45.900 men would say they need women yeah i think that's sort of what i was trying to say there okay go ahead
00:05:51.960 okay so just to restate because we didn't went down on a rabbit hole a little bit yeah um do do women
00:05:57.180 deserve respect just for being women correct okay so um i think yes not just because they're women
00:06:02.800 though but because we should all give a basic level of respect to anybody that we're meeting not
00:06:06.860 because they're just women or men we should respect each other period so yes okay what do you think
00:06:11.840 um i don't think they should get it just for being women i think as lauren said it's just for being
00:06:16.680 a person um and you should respect them until they give you a reason not to respect them such as maybe
00:06:22.660 they don't respect themselves they don't carry themselves in a great way so maybe your respect level
00:06:27.400 would go down for them and that's okay because that's your judgment on them okay
00:06:31.240 yeah um respect to me is just is it's genderless um you know i think everybody deserves a um you know
00:06:41.720 that deserves respect and it's all about what are you doing to remove respect off of the actions that
00:06:47.420 you that you take okay go ahead uh i think the better question is what what what we what we defining as
00:06:56.600 respect like is it what is respect disrespect value like uh that's why i'm confused that because like
00:07:04.460 she's a dog deserves respect so i don't think you supposed to just disrespect nobody but
00:07:11.900 like what type of respect i guess my question is more is respect given or is it earned well i think
00:07:20.040 it's both you get a basic level of respect just for being a human you know saying for not disrespecting
00:07:26.260 me like if you don't disrespect me i'm gonna respect you because you're respecting me but if you
00:07:30.880 disrespect me then it's fuck you you know what i'm saying yeah yeah okay melanie what do you think
00:07:36.960 um i i think we say the question because i like i lost like the women do women deserve respect for
00:07:43.580 being women no like because you're born with a vagina like what does that mean like i mean it's just
00:07:50.880 human anatomy and a lot of women fight for they say respect me for my mind respect me for
00:07:55.520 my accomplishments and we're just as equal as men but then at the same time they'll say because i'm a
00:08:00.920 woman born with a vagina i deserve respect it's like it's it's a dichotomy it's like double
00:08:06.800 minded and it's illogical like you have to earn respect like if you are everybody's not going
00:08:13.000 to get the same level respect i do think there's a for human nature yes but i think women want a
00:08:19.120 respect that they do not give to men i think respect might be the wrong word yeah maybe women look to
00:08:25.480 be valued i do do you want to be valued just because you're a woman well i think what the question is
00:08:30.560 getting at is there's so many modern women today that just call themselves a queen for existing yeah
00:08:35.740 and you give participation trophies just based off of you having
00:08:39.380 a viscous innerts a viscous innerts which is which is completely trash right like and i think like
00:08:49.060 you know we have a society that panders to one gender so much um of course it's easy to accept your
00:08:55.460 your participation trophy for being a queen but if you are if you are a queen and you are
00:09:01.420 doing unsavory things during the night during the street time activity i think you deserve less
00:09:08.780 respect for me and to be considering you within a relationship what would you define as a queen
00:09:14.780 what do you mean by queen when you say that yeah so like queen is earned right like so if you think
00:09:22.640 like the concept of king and queen you know um you know there's a history within that um i don't think a
00:09:29.480 queen can be a queen without a king i think that it is necessary to have a king first that's all
00:09:36.520 um and within that um when we live in a culture of men ain't ish i miss independent all of this other
00:09:45.320 all of these other things that continue to put men down um and then you meet with the unrealistic
00:09:50.400 standards of most most modern women today there just seems to be many of you know i was just
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