JustPearlyThings - November 01, 2023


Don't Make The Mistake Kanye West Made


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

173.33058

Word count

1,682

Sentence count

139

Harmful content

Misogyny

28

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Toxicity

33

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Hate speech

21

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Summary

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In this episode, I discuss why women should not be able to get divorced and why they should not even be allowed to get married at all. I also talk about why Kim Kardashian is not a good wife and mother and why she should get a divorce.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I think I would be lying if I said that men of the past never accepted sex work.
00:00:05.380 You know, I've heard of women that used to be strippers that got married, right? 1.00
00:00:09.460 I've absolutely heard of this.
00:00:11.360 I've heard of this too high value men.
00:00:14.640 However, men are increasingly watching the men of the past 0.99
00:00:19.040 and watching the outcomes that happen for the men that wife up whores. 0.99
00:00:25.060 I'll give you an example. 0.99
00:00:26.200 So many men watched Kanye wife up Kim Kardashian.
00:00:30.640 Now, Kim Kardashian is not wife material. 1.00
00:00:34.120 She does not have the ability to get married and stay married. 0.97
00:00:36.980 This is not a knock on Kim Kardashian.
00:00:39.400 But I don't know how you could say that someone that's been married three times
00:00:42.800 has the ability to be a good wife and mother. 0.94
00:00:46.180 So many men watched what happened when they picked the good-looking chick 1.00
00:00:50.160 that had dabbled in sex work before and the outcomes that it led for Kanye.
00:00:55.380 Now you see Ye fighting for his kids in the public square, in the public eye.
00:01:01.120 He's complaining that his wife is letting his children be on TikTok.
00:01:04.860 He is complaining about the schools his wife is sending his children to.
00:01:08.760 He still pays astronomical amounts of child support.
00:01:13.000 And men will ask themselves, if this is the outcome for a billionaire,
00:01:17.020 what are the outcomes for me?
00:01:18.920 Men are not looking for marriage and relationships like they used to,
00:01:22.480 and they're putting up with less and less and less.
00:01:24.460 So, there's a former NBA star, Joe Smith,
00:01:29.300 found out his wife had a secret OnlyFans account.
00:01:33.600 Let's pull it up.
00:01:34.700 You did it. 1.00
00:01:36.040 That's bullshit, though. 1.00
00:01:37.320 That's fucked up, please. 1.00
00:01:38.960 I'm telling you, though. 1.00
00:01:39.680 That's fucked up. 0.99
00:01:40.700 Wait. 1.00
00:01:41.300 Wait.
00:01:41.600 No, no, no.
00:01:41.980 Calm. 1.00
00:01:42.300 You're not going to say fuck me or that's fucked up. 1.00
00:01:44.720 It's not fucked up. 1.00
00:01:45.400 You're calling me? 1.00
00:01:46.160 What the fuck are you doing? 1.00
00:01:46.860 Listen, it's not fucked up, and we're going to... 1.00
00:01:53.640 Okay, look.
00:01:54.400 So, I have an OnlyFans page, and he's mad because he's just now finding out about it.
00:02:01.140 Of course I'm mad when you just find out about it.
00:02:03.460 I'm not doing it with anybody but myself, so why should I have to tell you my choice, 0.99
00:02:07.220 my body, my body, my fucking choice. 0.99
00:02:08.880 I'm your lover. 1.00
00:02:09.180 I'm your partner.
00:02:09.880 You're supposed to come to me and talk to me.
00:02:11.020 Joe, I've been talking to you about mad things. 0.99
00:02:13.500 I've been asking for solutions to shit. 0.99
00:02:15.240 You're not giving me none, so I created one. 0.99
00:02:17.220 That's no solution.
00:02:18.340 Not in my book.
00:02:19.860 That's no solution. 0.99
00:02:20.300 You knew who the fuck I was when you met me. 0.99
00:02:22.880 Before, before, before, yeah, before, and I thought that I would never have to go back 0.96
00:02:28.820 to anything like this again, but unfortunately, that's not the case right now.
00:02:32.880 After that, everything's supposed to change.
00:02:34.700 Where on earth does this woman think she has any leverage in this relationship? 1.00
00:02:40.520 Change.
00:02:41.240 Everything did change.
00:02:42.320 No, no, no, no, no.
00:02:43.680 Obviously, it hasn't.
00:02:44.640 No, it hasn't.
00:02:45.660 I had to do something.
00:02:46.420 Obviously, it hasn't.
00:02:46.940 You stood out there showing your body.
00:02:48.360 You stood out there doing stuff like this on camera.
00:02:52.520 You act like that's the only thing that I do.
00:02:54.660 I have mad jobs, but they're not facilitating everything that needs to be done, so I got
00:02:58.700 something extra.
00:02:59.680 OnlyFans be breaking me off. 1.00
00:03:01.180 What the fuck? 1.00
00:03:01.380 Man, come on, Kish, whatever. 1.00
00:03:02.740 It don't matter what they're breaking you off.
00:03:04.380 It's the disrespect that comes with it.
00:03:06.020 What disrespect?
00:03:07.140 You couldn't come and talk to me about it.
00:03:09.220 Okay, well, we're talking about it now.
00:03:11.420 Because I had to find out on the fly.
00:03:13.640 All right, then, but now, okay.
00:03:15.220 No, because I had to find out on the fly.
00:03:17.300 So now you know.
00:03:24.240 Yeah, now I know.
00:03:26.580 Okay.
00:03:29.180 And so?
00:03:34.060 Whatever.
00:03:35.780 I've been doing what I have to do, period.
00:03:37.760 Like, that's bottom line.
00:03:38.760 That's what it is.
00:03:39.460 This is grounds for a divorce.
00:03:43.080 She is publicly committing adultery.
00:03:45.160 This is absolutely, I'm very anti-divorce, guys, but this is grounds for a divorce.
00:03:51.080 And this is why I believe that, in general, men should be able to divorce women, but women 1.00
00:03:55.660 should not be able to divorce men. 0.99
00:03:57.220 I know that sounds crazy, but women will continue to test the men that they are with, and push 1.00
00:04:04.460 the boundaries, and push their buttons, and women continue to act up if they don't think 1.00
00:04:10.480 that divorce is on the table.
00:04:12.380 The same way that an employee will act up if they don't think they can get fired.
00:04:16.500 This is grounds for a divorce, and, you know, one thing that she said was, you knew I was
00:04:22.420 like this when you met me.
00:04:24.100 Why do women think that they should be able to act the exact same when they're married and 1.00
00:04:29.300 when they're single?
00:04:30.460 Women of the past knew this. 0.94
00:04:32.740 They knew there was a way that you act when you're single, and you act when you are married.
00:04:38.000 Being married was a role that women realized they had to fulfill that had specific duties. 1.00
00:04:43.760 And now you have a woman that is married to an ex-NBA player that was complaining about money.
00:04:51.820 Now, I know that sometimes NBA players have money problems after, but, you know, she has 1.00
00:04:57.660 fake nails on, she has fake hair, she has heavy makeup on. 0.82
00:05:01.560 You know, maybe she just wants a lifestyle they can't afford anymore. 1.00
00:05:05.460 And women care more about the lifestyle that they love to live than they do about their own 1.00
00:05:10.640 families.
00:05:11.300 She has brought shame upon her entire family.
00:05:14.740 Where are we at in society when wives and mothers have zero shame? 1.00
00:05:19.680 And really, I think that men need to learn an important lesson from this.
00:05:23.960 And the comments section are telling them, once a hoe, always a hoe. 0.99
00:05:27.500 Like, if you agree, you cannot change women. 1.00
00:05:30.620 You can't.
00:05:31.220 Bluegrass says, stop trying to make a hoe a wife. 1.00
00:05:34.620 Yes.
00:05:35.220 You know, Gunn, I wouldn't argue with her.
00:05:37.380 Just leave.
00:05:38.420 Exactly.
00:05:39.520 Because when you argue with a chick, you're basically saying you're on her level. 0.97
00:05:43.180 The same way when a boss is actually arguing with an employee, you know, it's on the boss
00:05:48.260 too.
00:05:49.220 But men have been told that they are doing the right thing by wifing up single mothers and 1.00
00:05:55.380 born-again virgins.
00:05:56.520 It is not the right thing.
00:05:58.960 And it has catastrophic effects on your family, on your children.
00:06:03.380 This is a woman that you are trusting with the most important thing on the planet, your
00:06:07.980 kids.
00:06:08.880 So again, this is why I have the controversial opinion.
00:06:12.240 Men should be able to divorce women, but women should not be able to divorce men, except in 1.00
00:06:17.620 cases of abuse.
00:06:18.780 Yes.
00:06:19.300 Fine, guys.
00:06:19.980 I'll give you divorce from an abuser. 1.00
00:06:23.300 All right.
00:06:23.740 A real abuser, not the abuse you guys call abuse nowadays.
00:06:28.400 Okay.
00:06:28.980 So teenager who murdered boyfriend in a hundred mile per hour crash had a toxic relationship 0.52
00:06:35.480 with him.
00:06:35.920 The prosecutor said Mackenzie Shrilla, a 19 year old from Ohio was found guilty of 12 counts,
00:06:41.820 including four counts of murder for intentionally crashing her car at a hundred miles per hour in
00:06:46.900 July of 2022, resulting in the death of her boyfriend, Dominic Russo, and his friend, Davion
00:06:53.000 Flanagan.
00:06:54.100 Prosecutors argued that Shrilla had a toxic and tumultuous relationship with Russo, including
00:06:59.480 violent threats, and she deliberately crashed the car to end their relationship.
00:07:03.380 During the trial, security video of the crash was presented as evidence.
00:07:07.540 The judge strongly condemned Shrilla's actions, characterizing the crash as methodical, deliberate,
00:07:13.200 and intentional and purposeful.
00:07:14.740 The judge stated that this was not reckless driving, but an act of murder, emphasizing that
00:07:20.640 the deliberate nature of the crash and its devastating consequences.
00:07:24.800 Some key quotes and details from the case include her actions were controlled, methodical, deliberate,
00:07:30.960 intentional, and purposeful.
00:07:32.720 This was not reckless driving.
00:07:34.300 This was murder, said the County Common Pleased Judge Nancy Margaret Russo.
00:07:40.140 She had a mission and she executed it with precision.
00:07:45.520 The mission was death, Judge Russo added.
00:07:48.700 Shrilla's father expressed a desire not to see Shrilla's life ruined and called her actions 1.00
00:07:53.860 a damn stupid thing. 0.98
00:07:55.880 Incidents highlighted in the trial included Shrilla's threats to crash the car in the weeks 1.00
00:08:01.140 leading up to the fatal crash and videos from Russo's cell phone capturing vertebral abuse
00:08:06.380 and threats from Shrilla.
00:08:08.340 Shrilla had posted on social media expressing her grief over Russo's death and remorse for
00:08:13.880 her actions with statements like, I miss you, Nug.
00:08:16.820 I wish you were just going to walk through the door any second. 0.60
00:08:19.640 Please wait for me.
00:08:22.020 So women are much more violent and much more calculated than we give them credit for. 1.00
00:08:28.280 And I think one archetype that I see in society is the enabling father.
00:08:35.980 And this is the father that constantly babies and caters to his daughter.
00:08:41.980 He puts his daughter on a pedestal as a princess that can do no wrong to the point where you 1.00
00:08:47.520 have a dad referring to murder as a damn stupid thing. 1.00
00:08:51.940 However, typically these dads, if they had a son that did the same thing and killed a load 1.00
00:08:58.780 of women, they would have a lot less empathy for them and realize that when you commit a 1.00
00:09:05.320 crime, you have to do the time.
00:09:07.360 But women are so used to being bailed out of their bad decisions. 1.00
00:09:10.420 And for a lot of women, it starts at birth. 0.69
00:09:12.900 It starts at birth when their parents treat them differently than the boys in the family.
00:09:17.560 And really, we have such a gynocentric social order that we say to young women, you are 0.99
00:09:23.360 so special and amazing and awesome all the time, even if you've done nothing to deserve
00:09:28.720 it.
00:09:29.160 And enabling fathers lead to bratty daughters. 0.98
00:09:33.020 That is why you have the children throwing temper tantrums. 1.00
00:09:35.700 That is why you have the children doing things like this, because they have a lack of discipline
00:09:41.140 in their life.