Entitled Female REJECTS Cheese Cake Factory First Date
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about a woman who has a guy take her on a date to the Cheesecake factory and she doesn't want to go. We also talk about the importance of being on time on a first date and how important it is to be on time.
Transcript
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Moving on to the next topic today, we're going to be taking a look at a video of a woman who,
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she basically got taken on a date by a guy, and he brought her to the Cheesecake Factory,
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which I think is like a, I don't know if they actually do cheesecake, but I think it's like a TGI Friday's type place.
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I think they do do cheesecake as well. That's what I've heard.
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Anyway, it's a restaurant nonetheless, and this lady got taken to this restaurant,
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and she is very unhappy with her situation. Even though she's on a date,
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you would think it would be ladylike and polite to just be happy to be on the date,
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but she seems to have a different idea. Let's take a look.
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So you expect a man to go all out on the first date, is that right?
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You know, she, she's, she's admitting to everything that she did wrong,
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and she's saying that she's not ready for him to come up to her apartment.
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If we're, if we're not ready for that, then maybe you're not ready for me to splash all my money out
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on a fancy date. And well, I think that's fair enough.
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Yeah. I think I understand what she's saying on a first date. You don't want someone don't want me
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anyway. I would sort of feel a bit uncomfortable having a man come into my place because obviously,
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But be on time then, because he's saying he was waiting for her for a whole hour.
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So be on time. If you don't want him coming inside your flat, be on time.
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Be downstairs at the right time that you both agreed to be there for.
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And, you know, go on a date. Don't keep him waiting around because then, yeah, he's not going
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to take you to a fancy restaurant. He's going to take you to the Cheesecake Factory.
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And also, I'm sorry, but, are you thinking what I'm thinking?
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She's saying she's doing everything that she should be doing for a woman.
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I mean, she was like, does it look like I belong in the Cheesecake Factory?
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Yeah. You look like pretty much any other girl.
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And from what I know of the Cheesecake Factory, it's just a normal restaurant.
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I'm trying to think of what the equivalent is over here.
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She is acting like she is the type of woman that is...
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And I think something really important to note here is this woman is not interested in this man.
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Because if she was interested in him, he could have taken her anywhere.
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Women, when they are interested in a man, it doesn't matter where you are.
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I remember when me and my boyfriend first started dating, he made a joke once.
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And he was like, I'm taking you to the Golden Arches.
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And I thought, oh my God, that sounds so fancy.
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I'd never heard McDonald's be referred to as the Golden Arches.
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And when he said it, I was kind of thinking, I'm not dressed for a Golden Arches type place.
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And not only was I relieved because I thought, oh, you know, I am not dressed for a fancy place.
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It didn't matter because I was just happy to be with him.
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And any girl who's actually interested in a guy, it doesn't matter where you are.
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So, you know, I think this guy has dodged a billet here.
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And you can tell just from her entitlement and her attitude, the type of woman she is.
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But yeah, these are what the comments are saying.
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Get her doing some hard label with that dollhouse mindset.
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Another one says, she looks dressed for McDonald's.
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She looks dressed like she's going to the cheesecake factory.
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So I'm a bit confused as to why she thinks that she belongs in a fancy restaurant when she doesn't even.
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And this is what we're doing to women is that we're telling all women.
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We're telling all women beauty has nothing to do with about.
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We're telling all women beauty has nothing to do with how you look.
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And as long as you can emulate that feeling of empowerment and self-love and confidence,
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then that somehow equates to how you look on the outside.
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It's good if you are happy within your own skin.
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I would never wish for anyone to be uncomfortable in their own skin.
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And you just have to accept your circumstances for what they are.
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Be grateful that you are in the position that you are.
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Because let's not forget, you know, you might not be the prettiest person in the world,
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There's always going to be someone worse than you.
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And we've seemed to have fallen prey to this mindset of teaching girls that we're on a pedestal.
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And that all men have to kind of flock and climb on top of each other to try and reach you.
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And it expects nothing of the women, which is completely unfair to the men.
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And I actually feel really bad for this guy because he's waited around an hour for her.
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And he even got out of the car to open the door for her.
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He says, do you want me to open the door for you?
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You can tell he's so genuine and she's just like deluded.
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I don't know, there's kind of something weird there.
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The way she's filming herself the entire time and making faces.
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Yeah, it's really like, I think she's deluded in more ways than one.
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Like she thinks she's better than she is as well, which is also a delusion.
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I think what's scary is the fact that she's not a rare type of woman.
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I think what's scary is the fact that there's probably loads of these videos out there.