JustPearlyThings - ENTITLED Modern Woman Gets Put In Her Place

00:00:00.000 but i definitely feel like society has lost that importance of like measuring someone by

00:00:05.500 their relationships and how it's working so with that being said i 100 agree with what you were 0.80

00:00:11.220 saying but on the lower scale a man can come along and be absolute trash let me just use 1.00

00:00:18.660 like all right cool so the way that my dad has worked yeah um he's got with someone and he's

00:00:26.200 married them and it's like okay she's not worthy he's just settled down with her because it's

00:00:32.520 convenient do you get what i'm saying so if she was to measure that by oh yeah i'm great you're not

00:00:37.660 great babe you don't have a lot going on but he's married you because he's getting old and because

00:00:42.040 all of these different factors on the larger scale what you're saying 100 i agree with you and it

00:00:46.960 makes sense but there are the uh the lower percentage of men that are low quality i just

00:00:53.460 want to make it clear i think what i was trying to say is if you're in a healthy marriage i'm not

00:00:56.880 going to sit here and say if a guy just chose you because he wanted to settle right right no there's

00:01:01.220 definitely some circumstances where there's people that are married and they are below average because

00:01:05.680 again they're abusive or the guy has settled or whatever yeah but for the healthy marriages and

00:01:09.980 there's it is a lot of healthy marriages um it definitely goes to show your ability to be an

00:01:14.700 above average person and another thing i realized i feel like a lot of people focus too much on the

00:01:19.420 negatives i feel like the negative situations of abusive partners and whatever

00:01:23.000 well they're like a small percentage i think women are more abusive than men in 2023 i think 0.96

00:01:27.980 there's no i think there's more women that hit men than men that hit women i just don't think

00:01:31.960 it's reported yeah i agree with that actually because women hit men like in this when they're 0.82

00:01:36.000 angry and when they're having arguments and they do like pushing and shoving but the men just don't

00:01:39.300 retaliate so the thing is as well for a man do you know how degrading it is to bring up that

00:01:43.640 your woman has hit you exactly you're not going to bring that up you're just going to keep it quiet

00:01:48.000 yeah so a lot of women they brag oh you know my man hit me a man ain't gonna do that so it's very

00:01:52.740 very different and usually it's like the last straw because you've actually got him to that peak at

00:01:56.440 that point so he's had to do something they also don't talk about the women that get a man do a 0.99

00:02:00.640 certain point by verbally abusing him and then he snaps one day and then they label him as abusive

00:02:06.260 or crazy when it's like you've what's worse being hit like the scars heal the things that people

00:02:11.200 say to you you you can't take that back and can i also say that like sorry and even if you are like

00:02:17.200 an average woman i think what we need to understand like it's actually okay to be average that basically 0.99

00:02:21.880 just means you're a working person so for everyone here he's probably like single this is not me

00:02:26.140 trying to say that there's like something wrong with you you're probably still a work in progress

00:02:29.600 just like me and i think that's something like us as people need to learn to admit a little bit

00:02:34.520 rather than just having this mindset of okay i'm a cat today so now i'm gonna be a cat or i'm a dog like

00:02:39.660 let's you can be realistic in the present so yeah to answer that question because i was kind of

00:02:43.940 waffling i'm definitely average yeah but i think you know when you said about like we focus on the

00:02:49.840 negative like for me personally like someone might say oh you focus on the negative because i'm not

00:02:54.320 like definitely keen to have get married and have kids right now and i've always been that girl that's

00:02:58.940 like live your life travel do what you want like to all my friends to women young girls that i meet i'm

00:03:04.140 like i'm very much an advocate for that and then people may think oh it's because you've never had a

00:03:08.100 healthy relationship in your life or you've not got that example actually no my parents have been

00:03:12.460 together since they were 16 and they're married and i live with them so i have had the best example

00:03:16.880 actually but i have the most realistic example as well but that's a modern mindset that's a below

00:03:21.860 average mindset which which to travel and explore the world and stuff men don't want that yeah but why

00:03:27.220 is it about what men want because like men are the buyers you have to learn the buyers in order to be

00:03:31.560 bought yeah but i i just so i so strongly disagree with that because i'm not going to live my life

00:03:35.700 depending on what a man wants like absolutely no and that's a below average mindset that's a

00:03:40.240 problem with modern women is that who said it's below average the men oh no man wants a girl that 1.00

00:03:45.500 won't live okay let's ask him anyway let's ask him you're a man is that a below average mindset

00:03:50.680 because as a woman i feel like it's important to you know take care of yourself first when you're

00:03:55.040 young at least not i'm not talking when you're older i'm saying you're like early 20s teens like

00:03:58.680 travel learn about yourself and don't focus so much on trying to get into a relationship and get

00:04:03.060 married by 25. no i disagree you know i think i'd want to be the one that takes on that experience

00:04:08.560 so she experiences with me for the first time so you think that's a below average mindset i'm still

00:04:13.960 going to stand on my point because i still disagree with all of you so i'm just no i'm just telling you

00:04:18.840 how men see it and like men see if you traveling around men see that as you're sleeping around

00:04:23.660 like men it's like then i'll just wait so so men see it if you're in a different in all these

00:04:28.200 different cities that you're riding something in all these different cities that's how men see it

00:04:32.440 it's also if you've been single for a long time men see it as oh she's been doing she's been doing

00:04:36.540 something she's been up to something like that's how the guys see it and can i also sorry can i also

00:04:41.220 mention something you also mentioned how your end goal is to be a wife and a housewife and have kids

00:04:45.900 so if that's your end goal don't you think it is important to consider how men are viewing you

00:04:50.140 um yeah but it's like for example if my end goal was my career then i would have to focus on career

00:04:55.480 oriented things but if your end goal is marriage and kids don't you think you have to focus on how

00:05:00.160 men view you and i think that's why can't i have a career and have marriage and kids no but i'm

00:05:04.600 talking about like your end goal like what do you want as the end is it just the career long term or

00:05:09.200 is it yeah i think marriage and kids will outweigh the career for sure yeah so considering the fact

00:05:14.860 that like by 30 women's eggs start to you know expire whatever and you know that is your end goal 1.00

00:05:20.500 just all these other factors you may lose your youth and beauty wrinkles don't you think is

00:05:24.740 important to consider what men would think about you if that's your end goal yes but i feel like

00:05:28.980 the right man would not be judging me because i've gone to france and spain like what the hell is that

00:05:35.340 about like like that that is just like like the guy i'm with he just doesn't care about this social

00:05:40.900 media stuff he just thinks it's a load of crap like he's met me and he probably had a few people say

00:05:47.560 like out of jealousy or whatever because i'm a popular figure certain things and it's like no i'm gonna 0.86

00:05:53.360 he's strong-minded i need a strong-minded man that's the thing i can't be dealing with these

00:05:57.080 men that'd be swayed by what they hear by he she or her so if a man was there in a hall yeah does that 0.98

00:06:02.520 make him strong-minded because he's it actually does i don't agree with that but it does i think

00:06:07.280 it's not to call you and that no no no no no no i know i'm just saying i actually think it i'm not 0.96

00:06:12.540 saying i'm not agreeing with men being with whores by the way that's what i'm saying i'm saying but i do 1.00

00:06:16.920 i actually do think it it is very strong-minded for a man to get with one because he's clearly

00:06:21.280 saying i like you for you and despite what you've done and what everybody says about you i'm gonna

00:06:26.660 stand by you and i can actually respect that just that to a degree and i've said it so many times

00:06:32.680 when i've seen people do it where i've seen these men go for these women and everyone's like why would

00:06:35.920 he go for her but maybe she is actually a good girl like maybe good-hearted girl like maybe she has

00:06:41.280 made a lot of mistakes i think do you think it's unwise knowing the stats that i told you where there's

00:06:45.460 only a 20 chance that he'll be happy with her in 10 years you don't think that's simping a bit 0.99

00:06:49.920 it's a bit unwise no not if not if you want no no if your son came to you the whore would you be 0.99

00:06:56.540 happy with that of course not i just told you i don't think i don't necessarily agree with it 0.98

00:06:59.860 but if he came to you and he said to you mom he's a good woman and whatever and like it depends on how

00:07:03.480 um no i would say no personally because i think there's enough women out there for you to find a good 1.00

00:07:08.440 woman that isn't a whore yeah i think you know what's so funny in this like modern world 0.99

00:07:13.120 um it's either we have fun or i'm taking it's like can you not be can you not find your man 0.87

00:07:19.720 and travel and learn like i think i can enjoy my life and learn and have knowledge and still have

00:07:25.180 fun and still enjoy my youth with a man yeah i don't think there's anything wrong with it i feel

00:07:33.000 like it's better to make memories than you know have no memories and getting and i've had experience

00:07:38.720 and he had experience you have memories of your friends you have memories of your friends absolutely

00:07:41.820 but i think it's nice to have that's not valuable to a guy though like it's not valuable to a guy

00:07:49.280 that you have memories about the guy in order to have a happy marriage you have to care what the

00:07:56.220 man wants unless if you want to do this like 50 50 partnership type shit where your opinion is like 0.93

00:08:01.800 yeah you don't you don't want to do that right you want to be a housewife so if you want to be a 0.88

00:08:05.900 housewife only 20 percent of women get to be housewives so that means that means it's it's 0.99

00:08:10.540 competitive right that means not a lot of girls are going to get it and so like you have to know 1.00

00:08:15.900 the buyer in order to compete and you also mentioned how you can do both i have an example for you say

00:08:24.260 for example i wanted to have a six pack and you know compete for the olympics can i do both things

00:08:29.400 like be at mcdonald's every three times a week or it's not it's kind of the same on the rare occasion

00:08:34.940 yeah i can i feel like because i've got a low metabolism what i'm trying to say is like when you

00:08:40.420 have an end goal and you have an end point when you focus on other things it hinders you getting

00:08:45.960 to that point so what i'm trying to say is for the ladies who's um you know your your goal is to 0.85

00:08:50.580 just to be a career woman i feel like focusing on your career and traveling that will work for you

00:08:54.620 but if your end goal is to like be your wife like i'm saying your end goal that's what you want 1.00

00:08:59.040 when you settle down that you have to make them steps to actually work towards that yeah and i

00:09:04.000 think that's where modern women get it like you know messed up so going back to that example like 1.00

00:09:08.520 if my end goal is to have a six pack does it make sense to be um balancing mcdonald's and salad um

00:09:14.100 you know half of the week it would make sense but i disagree in that in that sense i don't see

00:09:19.620 anything wrong with finding like you you know we are interested let's get married let's let's grow 0.85

00:09:25.080 up together i you know it's fine there's nothing if you're young of course you can still focus on

00:09:31.420 university or or your career but if you're oh that's a different story it's like you should

00:09:36.120 have had it it's too late now yeah but you know it's fine it's fine in the moment but when you're

00:09:40.860 like 30 and you're single like is it still going to be fine what do you mean so like you're saying

00:09:45.520 like having fun and whatever is fine is single um by 30 should have your life together okay i have

00:09:51.440 a question if you want you you said you want to be married you'd be married oh absolutely how many

00:09:55.320 dates do you go on in a week um i don't you don't okay so how on earth would you get the results of

00:10:01.460 married if you don't do anything to get there it's hard is he just going to magically find you at

00:10:06.260 your parents house my brother yesterday as well it's like look fine um i find it a bit hard because

00:10:14.740 i i just find i feel i think my husband is just not in london you know okay sorry i feel like it's a

00:10:20.920 bit hard i feel like the way i think and the standards and the way i brought up i don't think

00:10:25.400 they got the same it's gonna be a bit hard as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we

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JustPearlyThings - May 21, 2023

ENTITLED Modern Woman Gets Put In Her Place

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