JustPearlyThings - June 30, 2023


EVIL Justice System DENIED This Man THIS Right


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

197.07623

Word Count

2,130

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

10

Hate Speech Sentences

9


Summary

In this episode, we talk about the men in our community and how they need to do more to support men. We also talk about how women should be doing more to help men and give them the support they need in order to be a better man.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 most of the men are homeless and on top of that their entire community thinks
00:00:03.920 they're an abuser with no evidence but are they homeless
00:00:07.280 though because you've said two things like the woman's in the house and he's
00:00:10.000 paying the mortgage or is she in a woman's shelter which
00:00:11.920 which one no no they go sorry they go to the women's
00:00:14.960 um it's not women's shelter it's like a women's
00:00:19.280 charity to help refuge there's a name for it but it's like it's a women's
00:00:23.600 group basically yeah and so she's in the house he's
00:00:27.520 officially homeless and now he's paying two grand a month and one guy i
00:00:30.400 interviewed it was actually the saddest interview
00:00:32.400 he had um three kids and he was a mile away and he couldn't see them
00:00:37.600 he was a mile away from them and he this man was fighting but he lost his job
00:00:41.040 because he worked in electricity and imagine if you're homeless
00:00:44.160 and you can't see your kids and now you like
00:00:48.720 mentally how are you going to do that yeah and so it's like it's like we have
00:00:52.160 this narrative and a lot of like feminists honestly push this narrative
00:00:55.440 where it's like men need to be more men need to do more why
00:00:58.640 when the systems are against them and he could go through all of that not see his
00:01:01.840 kid for a year one more phone call she can just do it again and sign him up for
00:01:05.360 another year and you know i think how long is he
00:01:08.400 expected to do that tell you how long is he expected to
00:01:11.440 financially ruin himself the average guy makes 35 000 a year that costs more than
00:01:14.880 30 000 what is he supposed to do he doesn't have the money
00:01:18.560 i think we're preparing i think going back to what you said in terms of when you
00:01:21.520 were saying you'd want you'd push your female friends to support men and you'd
00:01:25.440 want your male friends to go for someone that does do that
00:01:28.080 i think it's kind of devil's advocate and what you're saying reality is
00:01:31.840 is that you have to prepare the men around you for what can happen which is
00:01:35.520 that and i think there's a fine line between
00:01:37.840 having an opinion off of what you would do and what actually happens in society
00:01:41.920 and that's one out of six divorces that that happens and they and they
00:01:44.960 factor in um like women that do it for like a
00:01:47.760 good reason right like maybe he actually was abusive or so so they take out those
00:01:51.600 but it's one in six divorces
00:01:56.080 so it's really depressing it's actually really sad i'm gonna read super chats for
00:02:00.240 a second um guys make sure you like the video um
00:02:05.520 and subscribe to the channel um a thousand likes and we will open up the
00:02:09.040 chat also guys um make sure that you are signing up for our memberships to be a
00:02:16.800 part of the live chat tonight um also wait let me
00:02:22.560 okay i think we just have a couple um sam g i would want my man to open up we
00:02:27.440 can't use it against him if we are only complaining and being weak that's
00:02:30.720 different manny f men don't want you to open up because women will use it
00:02:34.240 against you and in the end temporary feelings to justify permanent decisions
00:02:38.240 um johnny yelp um reaching out to men is the way to go they can relate
00:02:42.240 interracial relationships uh men want a woman that brings a hundred
00:02:46.080 percent femininity which equals submission submission respect peace love
00:02:50.080 food and sex lots and lots of sex men want a woman that brings a hundred
00:02:53.680 percent femininity with equal oh he said the same thing three times
00:02:57.840 okay
00:03:01.840 youngin got a good head on her shoulders for the most part men want respect and
00:03:05.600 trust if a man feels like you don't respect trust or love them
00:03:08.800 they will treat you a cold as ice um walks game central if a man
00:03:12.800 makes money you need to stay in the house at that level he wants influence you can
00:03:16.400 provide doing charity connections only part-time
00:03:19.200 um sewer loss um single mothers are recreational use only um walks of games
00:03:24.720 most wealth is old with older men jobs make you look
00:03:28.560 jobs you look down on make more money the plumber makes 80k
00:03:32.320 and more the teacher makes 40k put away your preferences
00:03:36.880 carlos men create most things i had the same thought
00:03:40.800 silly sausage um honestly it's so sad to hear that
00:03:43.760 you think men should clean up the clean up the consequences of your own actions
00:03:47.360 lives and deceptions if you had a baby you should go to jail the baby's bad
00:03:51.680 life after that is your fault than metra money-minded girls are refer
00:03:56.800 or in for a rude awakening later in life the original back in gaming
00:04:00.880 yes birth control was under congressional
00:04:04.720 scrutiny in 2019 when they found there were adverse effects
00:04:07.760 yet doctors were paid to stay quiet i watched my mom go through this
00:04:11.360 before baby um shut down yes lying about being on birth control is coercion and
00:04:16.560 should be punished stop trapping men that's the point
00:04:18.960 y'all trap men when you do that i'm gonna refresh it real quick
00:04:22.480 um guys make sure you like the video that is the most important metric that
00:04:25.600 youtube uses to push out these shows
00:04:28.240 um okay i read all of these going back to the actually i'm curious because i
00:04:35.680 meant to ask you this earlier out of the answers that everyone gave
00:04:39.040 for what men want what do you feel like we got right and
00:04:42.560 what do you feel like we got wrong uh the main ones that you got right is
00:04:46.320 definitely loyalty peace is key um someone that looks after
00:04:52.720 themselves is also key and i think you actually said someone
00:04:56.800 that's fun that kind of keeps you young i don't know if somebody said that
00:04:59.760 um but yeah those are definitely the ones that you guys got right
00:05:03.680 um i'm trying to think of the ones that you got wrong
00:05:06.800 what were some of the other ones they're all perfect answers
00:05:09.680 they were all quite solid answers to be fair there wasn't anything that
00:05:12.720 that screamed out at me i thought oh gosh no so no here pretty good answers
00:05:17.280 okay um so this article discusses a study that found women who take
00:05:22.720 hormonal contraceptives
00:05:24.720 prefer men with less masculine features such as a softer jar line
00:05:28.480 and smaller brow ridges compared to women who are not taking contraception
00:05:33.680 contraceptives the preference may be due to the way hormonal
00:05:37.680 contraceptives affect a woman's hormones and the type of
00:05:41.360 partner she sleeps with during her menstrual cycles
00:05:44.720 this study suggests that the use of hormonal contraceptive
00:05:49.600 may alter women's preferences for mates which could
00:05:52.880 have implications for attraction and relationship outcomes aka she meets a man
00:05:57.200 while on the pill gets married decides to have a child and gets off the pill
00:06:01.440 to have a baby only to become disgusted with her partner leading to divorce and
00:06:06.240 infidelity
00:06:09.360 how do you think a woman's natural menstrual cycle affects her attraction to
00:06:13.520 masculine versus feminine facial features
00:06:19.120 is there different types of men that you're attracted to based on like where you are in your
00:06:24.480 cycle i mean i think definitely you can i think it's not about different facial features but
00:06:31.600 when you are ovulating and you're ready to procreate i think you definitely there's definitely
00:06:37.920 i find men more attractive like walking down the street you'd be like
00:06:40.960 i'd walk down the same street twice and if i'm ovulating i wouldn't see any guys
00:06:43.840 so if a guy takes you on a date he should like try
00:06:47.920 check my cycles
00:06:50.000 but i don't think it if i've not noticed i mean it's quite a nuance isn't it to know
00:06:53.600 what kind of men you're have you ever met a guy and not found him attractive but then found him attractive later
00:06:59.200 she's like she's like couldn't be me couldn't be me i mean i know like people grow on you but i think
00:07:08.480 there has to be an initial spark of something yeah have you ever heard a guy make it out of the friend
00:07:13.520 zone no no no once you put him there he's yeah i've had guys i've dated that then have gone into the friend
00:07:20.080 zone but not the other way around what about you um are you always attracted to the same guy or does
00:07:26.960 your type change i wouldn't say my type changes off of my hormonal state i think it would maybe just
00:07:34.000 change off of maybe experiences or things i might see other people go through or i don't know like
00:07:38.960 stuff like that but i wouldn't say it changes off of like my hormonal state i think my level of
00:07:43.920 attraction to anyone might change but my type doesn't change do you prefer more masculine features
00:07:50.240 or more of a pretty boy yeah like a pretty boy pretty boy yeah i don't know there's just something
00:07:57.040 about them actually i'm curious because you're you you said you're on birth control yeah uh what pretty
00:08:02.880 boy or masculine i was gonna say masculine masculine and you're not okay i'm just i'm just curious
00:08:08.160 masculine or pretty boy pretty boy pretty boy okay masculine masculine
00:08:13.920 i'm not i i'll do it both i'm not very like looks oriented okay it's money first well people
00:08:20.240 can grow on me i i've i've definitely dated people i've not been attracted to initially yeah how did
00:08:24.240 that go fine like with my my boyfriend now i didn't know what he looked like when we started
00:08:29.520 talking really how uh because he was just somebody that messaged me and i didn't he didn't know any
00:08:34.080 pictures i didn't know anything wait so he messaged you on instagram i'm guessing i'm like through my
00:08:39.680 discord because i do twitch okay um so like i started speaking to him through them and we just
00:08:44.480 got talking for like a week we had phone calls and i didn't know who looked like um i'm like that's
00:08:49.200 a cute story yeah i'm very attracted to him but like if i saw him walking down the street would i
00:08:54.480 like be like oh my gosh this man is drop dead gorgeous maybe not i don't know like that's hard
00:08:59.120 to say because i didn't know but like i was instantly attracted to him from when i met him
00:09:02.160 because i had all this like build up of like getting to know him but yeah i've definitely
00:09:07.200 dated men i've not been like initially attracted to and then formed attraction based on how we get
00:09:11.040 on and the things we're doing who here has had a guy make it out of the friend zone that you weren't
00:09:15.120 attracted to raise your hand so you yes right i'm guessing yeah yeah yeah yeah okay okay so one for
00:09:22.720 five okay so so odds odds for a guy it's not good if he's in the friend zone yeah um what about you
00:09:31.360 have you ever made it out of the friend zone i'm not even trying to be arrogant i'm not a friend
00:09:36.160 of a guy no you've never been in the friend zone really every girl you've pursued has been into you
00:09:43.600 no like don't get me wrong do you know what the ones the one example i can think of i'm not saying
00:09:48.960 this obviously i've obviously gone up to a girl and she doesn't fancy me or whatever but like the
00:09:52.960 one example you won't stay there you're just i just move on i say fair enough respectfully move on
00:09:57.680 but i remember one girl i got with and um ah this is a bit of a wild story but she wanted me to be
00:10:05.760 more aggressive and i was like do you know what that's just not me that's not what i'm into and
00:10:11.680 she actually lost attraction for me because of that um so yeah that's that's my my one story
00:10:19.440 that's weird now i think i think that's more common than you think
00:10:23.600 i think there's a couple i've dated a couple of girls that said some wild stuff and i've been like
00:10:27.600 well no i don't really want to go that way because of all the things that you kind of said like if
00:10:32.160 something goes wrong further down the line yeah and they you know they they say something against
00:10:37.200 you you could be in deep water so
00:10:46.480 you