JustPearlyThings - June 02, 2023


Evil Woman Manipulated This Man’s ENTIRE Family

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Margaret Thatcher
Pearl EXPOSES This Fact About Modern Women You Would NOT BELIEVE What She Said

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10 minutes

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173.3

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1,766

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Misogyny

15

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Toxicity

1

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1

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Summary

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In this episode, I speak about my experience of losing my son and how I dealt with the court order that was placed against me by my mother in law. I talk about how the court ordered me to hand my son over to her custody and how that played into her plan of keeping my son out of contact with me.

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00:00:00.000 she manipulated your mom and your sister and my father and your father and my cousins and your 1.00
00:00:07.440 cousins wow i had no one so they all turned on you and didn't want you to see their your son
00:00:15.120 they every time i asked them that i need you to support me here i stopped communication with the
00:00:20.880 ex because obviously that plays into her court they all said no we're going to continue contacting
00:00:27.120 her because then she what she was doing she was carrying on communication with my family and i 0.99
00:00:32.780 go she said this what she's saying this for i don't know um so what would she tell your family
00:00:40.280 would she say that you abused her yeah so i was abusive and all the same thing i was financially
00:00:44.840 abusive um oh so she's basically started brainwashing your family that's the best way of 1.00
00:00:51.080 explaining it yes you get into thinking that and like because she's a woman basically
00:00:56.800 she she was like kind of crying wolf in a way yes exactly and um your mother your sister your
00:01:03.360 father and your cousins okay and um and then basically she would use them to get you to break 0.97
00:01:11.180 the order yeah so like she would make it so you didn't see your son through your family because she 0.99
00:01:18.340 made your mother the primary like care like person so your mom had to pick up your son and she was 1.00
00:01:26.460 speaking to your mom and making it so and then she could go to court and say you broke the order
00:01:32.000 correct it was it was my mother who broke the order if you imagine if that now happens that shows a
00:01:37.380 dysfunctional family oh okay and that's the route she was going so then you go to the second court date
00:01:46.500 and what happens um uh she then said to me so on the first few um days i had my son weekends when we
00:02:00.240 kind of asked for can you bring some toys with him because i hadn't seen him for five months i didn't
00:02:04.660 know what's toy tastes had changed you know i asked for clothes i asked for wellies welly boots
00:02:10.200 and asked him for a jacket she put that against me in the courtroom said to me that was demanding 1.00
00:02:14.820 behavior wow that's the worst she could put against me at that point demanding behavior demanding
00:02:21.960 behavior okay and i had to discuss to the court so out of those three obviously the court judiciary
00:02:28.460 system has to go had to choose a topic i had to explain to the court why i asked for toys to
00:02:33.480 accompany my son um which was i just wanted to support him i didn't know the toys i had were
00:02:42.920 now too young for him um i wanted to be able to know roughly what his tastes were make it comfortable
00:02:49.500 for him and then i'd be able to go to toys russ yes afterwards you know um in fact i didn't even know
00:02:56.740 what his nappy size was i didn't know what his clothes size was when i picked him up it was just
00:03:03.160 literally in his clothes in his jacket and a toy in his hand and that was it
00:03:07.740 he was two and a half then uh yes it would have been two and a half yes okay so then what did the court
00:03:16.840 what did the court tell you so the court asked me to explain why i asked for toys
00:03:21.140 so i went into why i explained why i asked for toys um uh and then they said um
00:03:32.420 due to the breakages in the court order um due to the disagreements going on
00:03:42.240 they only gave me then once a fortnight and that was it now why i had so once every other week they
00:03:50.520 gave you i also had to go in the advice was to go in to ask for that as well because otherwise i
00:03:55.260 could get nothing because of type because leading up to the so it was a christmas period
00:04:00.820 um i was supposed to see him christmas day it all broke down the night before
00:04:06.440 um and then my mother started to try and reduce the amount of contact i was getting 0.99
00:04:11.460 um so eventually she cancelled all contact which obviously played into my ex's hands and i didn't
00:04:17.100 see my son for another two and a half months so you saw him once at two and when he was two and a
00:04:22.340 half years old and then you didn't see him so i saw him for about eight to nine weeks okay and
00:04:28.100 then because it was like four months yeah okay for four and a half month period for the next court
00:04:34.640 hearing um and then uh i didn't see him for about two months yeah i thought yeah about about two two
00:04:42.460 and a half months um and then they ordered you that you can only see him every other week yeah
00:04:49.080 and because of the she was then trying to stop me i wasn't allowed to pick ernie up to hand to do 1.00
00:04:55.280 handover because your mother was the primary and also because she was scared
00:05:00.020 wow that i might cause an argument in a in a in in the entrance of a supermarket
00:05:07.420 wow when my primary objective was just go collect my son say hello and go you know so i had so i had
00:05:17.580 put myself into a child contact center to do have purely handover um which obviously then that goes
00:05:24.440 against me anyway it's either i see my son or i don't so i had to accept that um uh so yes we did
00:05:32.560 so i was there i was doing handover i was there 20 minutes before 20 minutes after um and then i was
00:05:40.300 out the door again but i did that for two years it's two years once every other week you would see
00:05:45.540 yourself so you'd see him twice a month yes for two years and then what would happen next
00:05:51.840 because you said this whole thing took five years i think you said the divorce yeah the divorce itself
00:05:56.740 um or it's been how long has everything been total till now five years so today yeah today
00:06:04.300 uh
00:06:05.840 probably talking five and a half six years now okay so i'll do six to round it so six years the first
00:06:15.900 two and a half years you had the six month period of not seeing him and then two years of seeing
00:06:20.440 him once every other week yeah okay so then what happened um dead on the two years she found out that
00:06:27.720 i'd had to sell my car um i was also had a girlfriend at the time and she got in contact with the ex
00:06:36.420 girl with my girlfriend's uh family and just started to cause a lot of trouble between me and the 0.97
00:06:42.480 eventually after a year we had a breakup it got too bad she was giving um making the same allegations
00:06:52.640 even though i explained it to my to my girlfriend at the time what had happened um gave her every
00:06:59.360 quarter piece of document even showed how the contradictions were between what she was saying
00:07:03.440 and what actually happened um but i had to end the relationship because in the end even her own her 0.96
00:07:10.960 girlfriend's girlfriend's family were starting to believe your ex how did she get in contact with
00:07:18.860 them so it turns out my well there's two routes i think so my mother knew one of my girlfriend's
00:07:29.180 friend's mothers i think then my mother then made contact that way um and my mother said to me
00:07:35.840 um then started to make up even more allegations and then sent me email saying well if you don't
00:07:42.900 call me i'll have to keep saying it basically trying to coerce me and speak to her make it as horrible 0.66
00:07:48.520 as possible um so and then also then making her sister would actually make direct contact with my ex 0.99
00:07:55.860 wife as well father my mother um and then i was being told and then every every couple of days it
00:08:05.600 would be i've just been told this i said we've already gone through this we've gone through this
00:08:09.640 eventually i thought that's cool because it's probably too much to have to defend yourself every
00:08:15.800 single day every single day to have to find myself something yeah it is and what do you attribute 0.54
00:08:19.680 like what do you attribute everyone be believing her to like was it is she a narcissist a crazy
00:08:26.340 good liar what do you think it's just the way that the world views women like what do you i think 1.00
00:08:32.540 it's a i think it's a mixture because to me like this is so like i i think you also matter so if i
00:08:37.780 that's in you're okay i just i think of my brother in this situation and i just like i don't know if
00:08:44.620 someone told me that he did something like i would have i just wouldn't really believe it so like
00:08:49.560 what what do you think like why did all these people take her seriously i think in i don't know
00:08:57.180 too much about the u.s but in the uk with obviously the media and that sort of thing if
00:09:02.920 a woman says i've been domestically abused no automatically everybody believes it well why
00:09:11.700 she's saying it because there was someone in the 80s um the prime minister at the time was margaret
00:09:17.940 thatcher and women's age said that um a mother would not say anything bad about the father unless
00:09:26.920 it was necessary unless it was true hence why the mother should always children with the mother 0.98
00:09:32.120 of course i'd imagine that now gets manipulated so you think it was brainwashing basically about
00:09:37.280 media oh social social yeah okay so um it doesn't help you know i think there's other factors but
00:09:43.040 yeah after the two years like it was um did you try to restrict your contact further yeah um so after
00:09:50.660 i sold my car um because i needed to pay bills because at this point i've been defrauded at work
00:09:56.500 and um still trying to deal with those cases at work at work i was being told that because i was
00:10:03.420 quite open with what had happened um we as i worked in a in a fairly female environment that meant i could be at risk to them