JustPearlyThings - July 18, 2023


Ex Pr0nstar PIMPS His Wife Out For Money


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11 minutes

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2,287

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229

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Misogyny

12

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Toxicity

21

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On this episode of Behind The Bum? , the boys talk about a recent viral video that went viral featuring a man and his wife having sex with another man. They also talk about what it's like being in a relationship with someone other than your significant other.

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00:00:00.000 So recently, recently he was in the news because he, him and his wife, um, do corn together.
00:00:08.180 They're corn stars. And normally they would just do corn with the two of them.
00:00:13.080 He had said, I could never do corn with another guy, but recently he pimped out his wife. 0.85
00:00:22.820 Yeah. So he, yeah. So he decided that, um, his wife basically came to him and was like other men, you know what I mean?
00:00:35.360 She was talking, they were bringing up like swinging, that sort of thing. They're kind of into the open stuff.
00:00:40.900 And so they decided that she was going to go have sex with another man. 1.00
00:00:46.840 What do you guys, and this is them talking about it. So this is. 0.70
00:00:52.820 Pull the video up. There we go.
00:00:59.640 Oh, do you have it King?
00:01:12.080 And a lot of people seem to think that it being him or it being a black dude was the thing.
00:01:17.980 But what people don't know is that when we were talking about it, there was a couple of different people that were considering and it's not like they were all black dudes.
00:01:25.980 No, there was, there's only a few guys in the industry who were like big on social media, very well known by like, just right when you look at them, you know, that guy, you know, and I wanted my first scene to be like, you know, a big scene.
00:01:38.420 And it's worth mentioning that we did a tick tock in Vegas back in January where then and this might have been like the first time we ever even joked about it on camera.
00:01:48.320 But I said to him, doing a little tick tock, I said, who's the hottest girl here? 0.72
00:01:53.080 And then he like put his arm around you and walked away with you.
00:01:56.300 And that I believe has like 9 million views on tick tock.
00:01:59.880 And that if we were trying to like minimize the amount of people who were suggesting that you do a scene with another guy, that was probably not the best idea.
00:02:07.400 Because that made everybody want to talk about it, right?
00:02:10.280 Yeah.
00:02:11.300 He was like the obvious choice.
00:02:13.020 I was like, oh, I have to go with him.
00:02:14.540 This is what the audience wants.
00:02:16.280 9 million views on this video.
00:02:18.320 Definitely.
00:02:19.120 So, okay.
00:02:20.280 Going into it.
00:02:22.040 How did you feel?
00:02:23.260 Okay.
00:02:24.160 So, I didn't really know the shoot was going to happen until the day before the shoot.
00:02:28.340 That is your point.
00:02:28.700 It all happened so fast.
00:02:29.880 Because in my head, I was like, oh, this is going to be my debut scene.
00:02:32.600 I'm going to need like two months out.
00:02:33.740 I'm going to go hard in the gym.
00:02:35.060 I don't know about debut scene.
00:02:36.600 I mean, I am a human being, right?
00:02:38.420 No, but like.
00:02:40.580 Sorry.
00:02:42.720 But like everyone's talking about it like it's my first scene.
00:02:45.400 And obviously, it's not my first scene.
00:02:47.420 I've been doing this for seven years with you.
00:02:49.680 But like my debut scene with another man.
00:02:52.600 Another man.
00:02:53.120 There we go.
00:02:53.720 A different man.
00:02:54.560 A different man.
00:02:55.180 A different but equal.
00:02:56.620 Yes.
00:02:57.160 Right?
00:02:59.440 Everybody in the room is laughing just in case anybody wants to know where the snickering is coming from.
00:03:04.580 But anyways, in my head, every girl does this, right?
00:03:06.700 You have a photo shoot.
00:03:07.460 You're like, I'm preparing for my photo shoot.
00:03:09.260 I'm going to look good.
00:03:09.960 This, this, that. 0.99
00:03:10.540 I had all this shit in my head of like what I was going to do to prepare. 0.98
00:03:13.080 But for me, I'm getting excited. 0.98
00:03:14.980 It's Saturday and I'm about to play poker tournaments on Sunday.
00:03:17.960 So I'm excited for that.
00:03:19.380 And then Saturday morning, we're going to get breakfast.
00:03:21.160 And you're like, hey, Jason is in town.
00:03:23.460 I might shoot that scene tomorrow.
00:03:24.760 And I'm like, huh.
00:03:26.100 Okay.
00:03:26.720 Yeah.
00:03:26.900 It was awkward.
00:03:27.820 My sister was there.
00:03:28.500 She's like, I don't want to be here for this conversation.
00:03:31.320 Okay.
00:03:31.820 And so, yeah, I don't know.
00:03:34.060 Continue.
00:03:34.540 I mean, and then we, I just walked away.
00:03:35.920 I was like, I think I'm going to shoot with Jason tomorrow.
00:03:37.380 And you were like, okay.
00:03:38.640 And I walked away.
00:03:39.420 I went to wash the dishes or something.
00:03:40.500 And then I come back and you're just like, no facial, no kissing.
00:03:44.300 Okay.
00:03:44.660 That was like the extent of the conversation.
00:03:46.800 Right.
00:03:47.820 And then I left the next day to do it.
00:03:49.440 And you barely said bye to me because you were playing poker.
00:03:51.420 I said bye.
00:03:52.780 I mean, I'm playing eight tables at the same time.
00:03:54.820 I mean, it's kind of hard, but.
00:03:56.100 And then.
00:03:57.260 I'm so glad that I was doing something that is like requiring of the most cognitive load possible.
00:04:03.500 So it made it kind of hard to think about it while it was happening.
00:04:06.280 And then by the time you got back home, I'm like basically like finishing up poker then.
00:04:10.380 So I didn't really have a ton of room to think about it while it was occurring, which was nice.
00:04:14.400 It was the best place for you to be for sure.
00:04:16.260 Because that is kind of my happy place that I don't get to do very often.
00:04:19.440 Yeah.
00:04:19.740 Yeah.
00:04:20.300 Okay.
00:04:20.940 And so.
00:04:21.820 I was so nervous, like beyond nervous.
00:04:25.940 And I'm still, now I'm even nervous that it's going to come out because I'm like, I wonder if it showed in the scene.
00:04:30.900 But I was there for a couple hours getting hair and makeup or whatever.
00:04:34.500 And then I had to go and get Jason and bring him in.
00:04:37.160 And we had to take photos and we just started taking pictures.
00:04:40.540 And I was like, stop, like leave.
00:04:42.520 I have to take pictures by myself.
00:04:43.560 I cannot take pictures with you right now.
00:04:45.040 There was like so much guilt, even though I knew that you had said, yes, you'd given me your blessing.
00:04:50.680 The cameraman's like, it's not cheating.
00:04:52.260 He's just like trying to remind me.
00:04:54.260 He's like being my, like, you know, I had no girls with me to like just cheer me on or anything.
00:04:58.440 He was being my little.
00:04:59.020 You said something about how your makeup artist or your, your hair person was like your, uh, your, your therapist.
00:05:04.760 Oh yeah.
00:05:05.000 They were being my therapist.
00:05:06.480 So you're like talking through it with him.
00:05:08.320 Like, Oh, I feel terrible. 0.98
00:05:09.580 I'm about to fucking cheat on Adam. 0.98
00:05:11.580 Yeah. 0.98
00:05:11.900 I was super, super nervous.
00:05:13.320 I don't know.
00:05:13.900 I just felt really uncomfortable.
00:05:15.200 I mean, I told you that like when we were in France last month, we went to the club and
00:05:19.320 these guys were trying to dance with me.
00:05:20.400 And I literally left the dance floor and I sat on the couch by myself because I felt so uncomfortable.
00:05:24.620 I didn't know what to do.
00:05:25.900 And it felt like it was cheating. 0.96
00:05:27.300 Like, even if I just bumped into a guy dancing and here I am, I have to have sex with somebody 0.96
00:05:30.960 and it's going to be filmed and put it online. 0.98
00:05:32.860 Right.
00:05:33.360 So yeah, it was a lot.
00:05:35.540 It was really hard.
00:05:36.740 Uh, hard.
00:05:38.200 Yeah.
00:05:38.820 What was, what was hard?
00:05:40.660 The nerves.
00:05:41.600 I don't know.
00:05:44.420 So this is them talking about the sea.
00:05:48.280 Look at her face.
00:05:49.240 No, I, that's a bit, I'm a bit disturbed.
00:05:51.660 I'm going to show you guys one more, one more.
00:05:53.600 So then she also went on another stream with some other like big streamers to talk about
00:05:58.760 her experience.
00:06:00.300 Yeah.
00:06:00.800 So pull this up.
00:06:07.060 And your personal opinion.
00:06:08.640 Okay.
00:06:09.200 What should you perform?
00:06:10.440 What do you perform more?
00:06:11.720 Uh, the BBC or, uh, Mr.
00:06:13.860 Uh, husband over here.
00:06:15.680 Is this why you put us in two different rooms?
00:06:18.880 Exactly.
00:06:19.560 We can just be truthful here, guys.
00:06:21.200 Truthful.
00:06:21.680 Okay.
00:06:21.860 Um, I did enjoy, uh, Jason's new, everything not new is interesting and fun, but, uh, what?
00:06:34.520 You made him leave.
00:06:35.220 Look at that.
00:06:35.720 I'm sorry.
00:06:36.360 I'm just trying to catch a breath.
00:06:37.560 So wait, did you choose Jason over your husband?
00:06:39.560 I had one person for seven years.
00:06:44.380 And although Adam is very exciting to me, like a new experience is always going to be
00:06:50.260 a little more interesting and different.
00:06:51.720 And Adam could attest to that.
00:06:53.420 Like a lot of the things we have are probably a lot more fun than him just me on a regular
00:06:58.680 night.
00:06:59.100 Right?
00:06:59.500 Yeah.
00:06:59.920 Yeah.
00:07:00.140 So I had fun with Jason, but I still have a lot of fun with my partner and I don't prefer
00:07:05.480 Jason's over Adam.
00:07:07.280 And your personal opinion.
00:07:08.840 Okay.
00:07:09.380 Okay.
00:07:09.800 What should you perform?
00:07:10.260 That one's done.
00:07:10.880 What do you perform more?
00:07:12.220 Yeah.
00:07:12.760 So what do you guys think?
00:07:14.180 That's literally disgusting. 0.56
00:07:16.360 That's actually disgusting.
00:07:18.200 I'm not going to know.
00:07:20.000 No, I'm actually that disgusted.
00:07:21.680 That's actually disgusting.
00:07:23.460 What do you, what do you think?
00:07:24.880 What do you guys think?
00:07:26.860 About what?
00:07:27.640 About the clip, about the like open, open marriages, her saying she preferred.
00:07:33.680 Yeah, that bit I felt really bad for her husband.
00:07:36.220 I thought that was a bit out of order.
00:07:37.900 It's like women will lie with makeup, BBLs and Botox, but they can't just lie and say 1.00
00:07:43.080 that she liked her husband better.
00:07:44.860 Yeah.
00:07:45.040 I think like she should have thought that out.
00:07:48.180 Like, that was not nice.
00:07:49.720 Yeah.
00:07:50.740 I felt that for him.
00:07:51.120 It must be for clout though, because what the hell, like, you're just doing, you're doing
00:07:56.980 a bit too much.
00:07:58.840 That's a lot though, I'm not going to lie.
00:08:00.560 That was a lot.
00:08:01.860 But did he like make her like sleep?
00:08:05.320 Is it not what they do as a living though?
00:08:07.280 Are they like?
00:08:08.880 So they have a daughter. 0.97
00:08:10.560 That's disgusting.
00:08:11.100 They have a daughter and she's like young and I think they want to have more kids. 0.92
00:08:16.140 And I know it's crazy, right?
00:08:17.740 And, and they, like basically she brought it up to him, but he agreed to it.
00:08:25.480 So he, he told her she could go.
00:08:26.860 Oh, she asked him.
00:08:28.240 Yeah.
00:08:29.240 Do you know, like my opinion on those kind of interactions is the other person, the person
00:08:36.240 that brings it up, they want to, um, reflect their infidelity into the relationship.
00:08:42.480 So they kind of bring it up and ask like, it's just a fun thing they're trying to do.
00:08:46.480 But really you just want to cheat and bring that into your relationship.
00:08:50.720 That's not going to be the first man.
00:08:52.180 There's going to be multiple men.
00:08:54.020 I bet she's going to start sleeping with a couple more guys, more videos. 1.00
00:08:58.920 She's going to become normalized in their relationship.
00:09:01.940 Yeah. 0.92
00:09:02.320 No, that's disgusting.
00:09:03.440 Especially if they've got a daughter.
00:09:04.780 What'd you say?
00:09:05.400 A daughter.
00:09:06.180 Yeah.
00:09:06.500 Yeah.
00:09:06.920 No, you're normal.
00:09:07.720 That's wild.
00:09:08.680 Influences everything.
00:09:09.300 Yeah, that is wild.
00:09:11.180 What do you think, Dimitri?
00:09:12.320 Well, I mean, we had a girl here right now on the edge of the couch. 1.00
00:09:14.520 It's like, why does a woman's sexual past matters? 1.00
00:09:16.560 That's why, like, you marry a porn star, you get a porn star. 0.97
00:09:20.400 Like, oh, but she's so good at sex because she's had lots of experience and she'll have more. 0.97
00:09:24.860 And it's like, why do men value chastity?
00:09:27.600 Well, that might be one reason right there.
00:09:30.060 Why do you care what other people do with their marriages? 0.97
00:09:33.320 I don't care.
00:09:33.860 I'm not, I was asked to comment on this.
00:09:35.760 I have no business with what people do in their marriages.
00:09:37.660 They can do what they want.
00:09:38.620 I don't care.
00:09:39.300 I can only speak from my perspective.
00:09:40.600 I care because I think it affects children.
00:09:42.340 I think a lot of people make selfish decisions that affect kids later.
00:09:46.340 And I think if you want to do what you want in your marriage, fine.
00:09:49.160 But when there's consequences for the kids, and it's so funny because they're all like,
00:09:53.580 oh, the kids will be fine.
00:09:54.980 Like, we'll wait till they're older to tell them.
00:09:56.700 But it's like, you don't know that.
00:09:58.020 So now you're playing with your kids' mental health.
00:10:02.200 Well, there are a couple that records themselves publicly and puts it out there.
00:10:05.660 So, like, we're dealing in a different realm to start with.
00:10:08.100 That's not a traditional realm, but it's a pretty good, like, you know, it's a pretty
00:10:12.380 good consideration.
00:10:13.560 Like, you're not going to, well, how do I, how do I put this politely?
00:10:18.480 I don't think there's a way to say it, but like, you're not going to marry the chick 1.00
00:10:21.280 that's the best in bed.
00:10:22.560 Like, that's not the metric that you put on your checklist. 0.80
00:10:24.980 Like, ah, she's got to be the best sex I've ever had.
00:10:27.200 Like, like it could be, but probably that's not going to be top of your list for a wife. 1.00
00:10:31.920 Would you say that in the past?
00:10:33.840 Because, for example, prostitution was very common in the past, and it was quite common
00:10:37.960 for a lot of men to have, say, a wife, but then also go to a prostitute. 0.90
00:10:42.120 Why would a man who was in a sexually satisfying marriage feel the need to go to a prostitute? 0.91
00:10:47.140 Do you think there could be perhaps a correlation between, say, the obsession with female purity
00:10:52.720 and will say, um, I don't know, men almost seeing women, dividing women into two categories, 0.93
00:10:58.700 you know, the wives and the whores, and how this could actually be quite harmful 1.00
00:11:02.480 because it almost divides women into chattel. 1.00
00:11:04.460 You end up with the man having his wife who is the good girl and the prostitute who is the bad girl 1.00
00:11:08.900 as opposed to having both of the women in one woman. 1.00
00:11:11.420 Thank you.