JustPearlyThings - June 23, 2023


Feminine Beauty Says The Most Logical Thing Ever


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9 minutes

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192.75377

Word count

1,878

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1

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Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

1

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3

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In this episode, we discuss the dangers of false accusations and how to deal with them in the modern world. We also talk about the sexual assault scandal that has been going on around the world recently and how we need to change the way we look at them.

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00:00:00.000 I just think marriage is supposed to be like selfless yeah like it's supposed to be you give
00:00:05.240 as much as you can you know you don't worry about the other side because a lot of times like as
00:00:10.920 girls we don't always think about the stuff they do for us because we're so self-centered really
00:00:14.940 I love it when a guy does like little things for me even if it's just like a text or he comes to
00:00:19.820 pick me up yeah I mean I'm not talking about you personally I'm just saying in general that's why
00:00:25.560 I say we can't really make generalizations they I mean well it's like when you start to talk to
00:00:31.180 hundreds of people in a year you just start to see patterns but yeah I just had that realization
00:00:40.500 though the other day I was like it's actually a red flag when she's saying how much she did for
00:00:44.940 him because it's like what he didn't do anything for you yeah yeah come on and he also you should
00:00:49.080 be enjoying it and enjoying serving your partner um instead of thinking of it like a chore like oh
00:00:56.700 I did this because I had to no it's not because you had to if you're in love with a man you
00:01:02.580 should you would want to you generally want to do that for the man you love exactly you don't sit
00:01:09.200 there and you start tap like making marks down and I've done this I've done that he needs to do that
00:01:14.320 for me it doesn't work like that if you generally love someone you want to give them the world
00:01:18.540 yeah that's that's how it should be that's how I that's how I see it personally that's how when
00:01:24.120 I've grown up that's how I've seen my parents actually my parents relationship was not the best
00:01:28.500 but my mum held it down for a very very long time for the sake of me and my little sister
00:01:34.160 and that just showed me as a lady marriage is very very very precious and you do do the most for the
00:01:42.140 person you love even if they're not the greatest how common do you think false accusations are
00:01:48.760 what what do you think is more common a man being falsely accused or a woman not being believed
00:01:57.380 both I think they're both as bad as we got more common it's like we got to pick one I think um
00:02:06.440 I think a man being accused a man being accused definitely a man being accused what do you think
00:02:12.200 man being accused of something versus someone not believing a woman yeah well I get people like 1.00
00:02:17.840 biologically like you know will believe woman no matter what like just in our nature to like protect
00:02:23.720 women you know what I mean like as men like if you if you ever watch any like world star video or
00:02:30.060 like a dude punches a chick in a public place like 50 dudes swarm on that guy so psychologically
00:02:37.720 it's kind of the same way I mean that's a good question I don't know I really don't know that's
00:02:42.780 a good one maybe I would say I mean I know what I'm supposed to say no I mean give me your honest
00:02:48.580 opinion if you don't I don't know I'm just sitting around thinking about it right now I don't know because
00:02:52.820 I know that there have been a lot of cases recently coming to light of women around the
00:02:59.960 globe pretending to be innocent when they're not I've seen a lot of those come to light and the
00:03:06.040 other side of this coin is like the women if they're not listened to or believed then it doesn't 1.00
00:03:10.940 make any headlines so it's hard to say except oh yeah yeah I agree sorry I know
00:03:17.220 it's uh it's kind of a sword with two edges like men are typically uh accused of even false things and
00:03:28.660 they're they're they're not even given the chance to defend themselves but women when they do this 1.00
00:03:34.840 they're uh or when they are not um how can I say that when they're not um when when they are not
00:03:42.400 innocent and they pretend to be but they're given credit for this I mean it's kind of a sword with two
00:03:49.020 with two edges if you know do you know what case I was thinking about recently I'm bad that too
00:03:55.980 that too I was thinking of Weinstein the real victims are the girls that didn't take the role
00:04:04.840 I'm like wait so wait let me get this straight these girls slept with him got famous and now 1.00
00:04:11.140 we're gonna paint them as victims why'd you sleep with him he wouldn't be able to do what he did if
00:04:15.680 all the chicks didn't sleep with him but there was no accountability on the women it was only on the 0.98
00:04:20.460 men like the real victims are the women that didn't get the parts did he actually grape them
00:04:25.880 or would just like let's just do this no like sure I want to be a star it was it was um he was
00:04:30.900 exchanging sex for roles so is that illegal if he was graping them I get it but is that the
00:04:39.640 why is he in jail for that that's what I thought it was I don't know
00:04:43.320 um for me there's no there's not there's no amount of money no opportunity that any man could
00:04:52.100 offer me for sex 100% I could be offered as far as my life I could be offered a billion pounds and
00:05:00.040 I would say no if I don't love him no I'm not doing it regardless because to me my dignity and my
00:05:09.860 um self-esteem no I cried I can't think of the word not even pride just my it's like uh pure
00:05:21.340 my purity is more important to me than any amount of money because money can't buy that
00:05:27.540 and I'd rather literally live on a hill with some cows and and a family and not have to think that I
00:05:37.480 actually you know gave my body away for money or for or for gain like so for me there's literally
00:05:43.400 no amount of money anyone could pay me to do that so if they're choosing to if that's what happened I
00:05:48.300 don't know what the case is but if if that is the case and they chose to sleep with him and he didn't
00:05:53.260 grape them he chose they chose to sleep with him for a role I what do you what do you think of women 1.00
00:06:00.460 that come out years later and accuse a guy of grape yeah that's just fucked up I mean because it's just 0.58
00:06:07.600 like if if it happened I get it but what are the statutory limits on that what are the like you know
00:06:16.260 what's the legal limit on that and then also it's just like if you're saying something happened in the
00:06:21.340 70s like how are you gonna prove it yeah like I don't have a fucking DeLorean you know it's familiar
00:06:26.700 with the Jimmy Savile case no who's that Jimmy's Jimmy's have a friend of the BBC actually Tate
00:06:34.460 mentioned it earlier on so to give you like a small synopsis he was again like this sort of like
00:06:40.720 presenter and years later similarly a load of women came out and was just like yeah he did xyz like all
00:06:48.600 of this stuff to me um and I thought the same thing I was the same as you guys I was like why the
00:06:53.500 hell did they not just say something while he was alive you could have easily put him in jail then
00:06:57.960 do you know what I mean you could actually question him but then you know they started to speak out
00:07:02.240 about the fact that people just wouldn't believe him that that was where it came from because this
00:07:07.140 guy was like so loved by the British public if they were to come out and be like well Jimmy Savile
00:07:12.000 like he did this to me and touched me here and that and the other they were just literally getting
00:07:16.260 shut down and people were like you're either being attention seeking or they were like well that's just
00:07:20.100 Jimmy Savile and I think that's where it comes from where like a lot of these women don't speak 1.00
00:07:24.600 out at the time it's through fear yeah but how do you know if you if you don't try though but how do
00:07:30.440 you know they're not thinking like that if you're scared and it's like some you really have to put
00:07:34.160 yourself in someone's shoes to understand this if someone's really really scared and there's
00:07:38.500 somebody very powerful like this Prince Andrew stuff that's going on right yeah you're not gonna
00:07:43.520 openly just be like yeah this is what happened and that happened because look what we were talking
00:07:47.640 about the CIA and all of these people that can just hunt you down and kill you whatever people
00:07:52.580 are scared I do think you have to have like I was thinking about it no I was more thinking that I
00:08:00.060 think we have to have like you have to file it within three months that's what I think because
00:08:05.900 I just think we're in a sticky it's not a perfect system but I just think you're in a sticky situation
00:08:11.320 where you can come out years later and accuse someone of something like a movement as well bill
00:08:16.880 cosby I think that's another example of that right like yeah I think unless it's like minors maybe
00:08:21.800 like I think you should there has to be something where you have to come out at the time someone said
00:08:28.020 about the Harvey Weinstein they said they said it was great but then when it came out they said it was
00:08:33.680 an exchange and then some said it was great but the stories changed once it was out in the public eye
00:08:38.280 at first it was up in the air and Rose McGorman who led the me to charge took settlements
00:08:45.300 is he in jail though I feel like he is isn't he let me look I can look
00:08:52.560 I think so wasn't he connected with Epstein as well yeah but I don't know I just think there should
00:08:59.480 be equal energy if you're taking sex for a part should she be in jail isn't she doing the same thing 1.00
00:09:04.920 yeah because he's leveraging power but she's leveraging beauty isn't she doing the same 0.99
00:09:08.600 thing yeah yeah no she she is yeah so it's like why is it prostitution yeah yeah it is it's 0.82
00:09:16.560 prostitution but it's like but it's like these women are what they're victims when you you gave him 1.00
00:09:21.580 no if they gave the man consent to be recorded and for them to do what they was doing I don't think
00:09:29.000 um they should class it as whatever it was classed as unless I don't know maybe a knife was put to
00:09:35.820 their neck and it was forcefully made to consent then I don't know and that classifies as grape
00:09:41.760 uh I'm gonna read super