JustPearlyThings - Feminist Finally Agrees With Pearl

00:00:00.000 talking about this as a woman and i'm i'm almost siding with a man talking about this woman because

00:00:04.640 i know people that have done this where the woman on purpose will miss taking her pill and they're

00:00:12.240 you know whatever else she's doing she will make the situation so it actually happens how do you 0.99

00:00:18.080 how do you like did they tell you this or how do you know they did it well if we're talking about

00:00:23.520 my um the guy i know from the gym i don't know what happened there but i do my most recent ex um

00:00:30.960 you know we kept going back you know on off on off and in between one of the times where he

00:00:36.160 ended up dating someone else then we got back together she actually did that she claimed she

00:00:42.320 was taking her pill and there was all these sorts of things um she tried to trap him yeah she stopped 0.59

00:00:50.080 she yeah this is this is my ex um yeah she tried to trap him and she fell pregnant and um

00:00:57.840 he and i ended up getting back together again for a millionth time um and then sadly which i would

00:01:04.560 never wish on any man or any woman um she missed she miscarried but um things i i don't i can't say

00:01:13.200 i'm not going to go into medical things why things happen but i do know that she was

00:01:18.240 my latest say taking uh i don't know what my last time usually she she was taking drugs oh you can 0.99

00:01:27.120 am i like to say oh god i didn't know what i can say you can talk about drugs in the bar

00:01:32.000 she she was taking a certain type of drug um and i can only guess i can't say over definite but i i could 1.00

00:01:40.000 say that what she was taking and her lifestyle and the alcohol and the things that she was doing may 0.99

00:01:46.400 have this is may but necessarily contributed to that stress on the body will induce an abortion

00:01:53.600 i mean there's a there's a reason drake puts hot sauce in his condom like there's a reason

00:01:58.720 girls do that yeah i didn't know you guys do you think that a girl that lies to a man about being on 1.00

00:02:03.600 the pill um and gets pregnant should be pursued for fraud no but it's disgusting it's disgusting 0.83

00:02:11.280 it's just it's disgusting let's say let's say it could be proven like she admitted i told him i was

00:02:18.480 taking birth control and i was like i say because it's not consensual and pretends to wear a condom

00:02:26.080 and he's not that is sa so if you pretend to take the phone you're not that's i say yeah it'll have

00:02:32.000 its own name but it's definitely you need i think again uh why did i decide to agree once with pearl

00:02:38.640 because now i seem to agree with her on a lot i do think that sometimes turning you no you're not

00:02:43.680 turning me i think we're just finding common ground because there's gray areas in the world as

00:02:47.440 you know but i do think that there's a lot of um things that in the relationship between women and 1.00

00:02:53.600 men where women are actually favored and they do then kind of get away with taking we're not taking 0.86

00:03:00.640 accountability for certain stuff so that is why i would then just say from the moment go pick somebody

00:03:08.000 that will be a good father to your children and a good man to you and that doesn't mean he needs

00:03:13.440 to be with you that's all you need to do in fact forget about the good man just let him be a good

00:03:17.360 father that's all you need because it's that kid forget about your relationship with him don't how

00:03:22.000 would the fraud thing work like just like thinking out like uh and it makes sense but is it like

00:03:27.600 would the fraud payments counsel out the i don't know i don't know how would you ever prove that

00:03:36.480 and then what would happen with a baby um i would guess the only way you could prove it is a text

00:03:42.240 if she told someone you recorded her yeah i don't that's how i would guess um it's quite common

00:03:49.040 this but then that just becomes controlling you said visually recording hello what visually

00:03:52.400 recording i have no idea a girl admitted it on national tv she asked if she asked it was on a

00:04:02.080 talk show a couple years ago and she asked the host if she should i think it was wendy williams maybe or

00:04:07.840 maybe a different host um and she basically asked them if she would she could stop taking the pill she 0.98

00:04:14.560 she her husband doesn't want more kids she does should she stop taking the pill and just get pregnant 1.00

00:04:20.240 and literally they told her yes wow if the if the man's unsure and like i don't know like if you're

00:04:25.840 that unsure that your wife's gonna do that he didn't want any more kids and like i don't know i don't

00:04:29.920 know the situation but yeah he either gets a vasectomy or he just starts wearing condoms if

00:04:34.480 you were that unsure like obviously i don't know i don't think i don't think most men expect their

00:04:38.640 wife to do this yeah yeah i feel like if you're he's watching tv he's like what if you're managing

00:04:47.120 that kind of it's entrapment why are you there like if you're like you you have an idea she could

00:04:51.680 do this so i'm gonna get the snip or i think i'm like bro like why are you with this you shouldn't have

00:04:55.680 to think like that but you know what i think on this subject yeah talking as a guy i think there's

00:05:01.760 there's also needs to be um i guess more accountability from from from from both sides because i feel like

00:05:08.800 a lot of this falls on the women um because you know if you don't if you don't want to take like if 0.64

00:05:14.800 you don't want to take pills then what you do i mean like most guys would not go through the same

00:05:20.800 equivalent and there are those options so i feel like it's about balancing that in a way because

00:05:25.600 yes i do agree if you say you're on the pill and you don't take the pill even the pill itself isn't

00:05:29.920 100 so do you know what i mean so i think it's a bit foolish to rely on a pill on a pill and

00:05:36.640 with the expectation that you will never have a child yeah and this just opens up the the idea

00:05:41.040 should men have to kind of do something about contraception other than just like wearing a condom 0.79

00:05:45.040 because it's all the responsibilities on the woman when they could have temporary vasectomers 1.00

00:05:49.840 and my girl we got like we got 41 forms of birth control you can get you can i don't you can i don't

00:05:57.040 you can get an iud that's 99 points from what exactly then where then have the guys you sleep

00:06:02.800 with wear condoms yeah but condoms don't always work okay then get a plan b yeah but why does it

00:06:08.000 have to always fall on me like why does it always have to be my body because we have the freedom it

00:06:12.240 it comes with responsibility but men could also just get a temporary vasectomy and it's

00:06:16.160 completely reversible you want them to have celibacy is the safest bet thank you

00:06:21.360 wait wait you think you think okay you think you think a vasectomy is the same thing as birth

00:06:26.400 control temporary vasectomy it has hasn't got a side effect me taking loads of forms of birth

00:06:31.360 control i could gain weight i could be emotional i could feel just like you could also you could be

00:06:35.840 celibate come on celibacy is 100 you also we also have the option of abortion we're the ones

00:06:40.880 that put them on child support keep your parents locked men and men and women keep your pants 0.98

00:06:46.160 locked put a padlock this is my said been my saying for a year for a year or two now to anybody who

00:06:52.880 asked me put a padlock on your pants that's the new saying answer as well you could only just have

00:07:01.840 sex with people you are okay having a child with yeah yeah that's an abortion like but that temporary 0.85

00:07:07.120 vasectomy option you said i don't know about that yeah he's like he's like we're not doing the

00:07:12.560 padlock and you you can't just have a temporary vasectomy that doesn't make you feel any different

00:07:19.600 exactly why do why do guys have the sexual liberation to whoever they want sorry literally

00:07:25.440 whereas a woman has to worry about the repercussions of having sex with her whoever she wants whether 1.00

00:07:29.600 she like has a child because of that like she just wanted to go out and have sex and have fun 1.00

00:07:33.200 because she has those consequences where the man can nut in her and then just he can be he can be

00:07:39.280 wait he could be on child support for 18 years they're men that have committed suicide over the

00:07:43.600 amount of child support that they pay they're financially incentivized in court to overestimate

00:07:48.160 the cost that it takes to raise a child so that they can hook men on child support they actively had

00:07:52.880 sex and i'm not talking about like long-term things i'm talking about like hookup situations like

00:07:56.480 they actively if they're having sex with her and like you you like cummed in her and you actively did that 0.95

00:08:01.440 and she has to go the next morning get the morning after pill or if she's too late for that 0.97

00:08:05.200 she has to get the abortion maybe you don't know him like what repercussions does he have

00:08:09.520 okay but she she gets she gets that choice men if they if they they're both doing the same thing 0.98

00:08:15.040 right they're both irresponsible in this situation so the woman gets to have the freedom to get the 0.99

00:08:20.320 plan b or the abortion he has no choice like if he got her pregnant he doesn't believe in abortion

00:08:25.040 what choice does he have none if she wants to put him on child support what choice does he have none

00:08:28.800 if he doesn't believe in abortion she has to live with those consequences so she has to get 1.00

00:08:33.120 pregnant she has to no no she could give it up for adoption my mom got pregnant at 17 she gave the 1.00

00:08:37.360 kid up even the process of getting pregnant i think giving quite yeah it can be quite a strain in your

00:08:43.200 psychology but then you can get an abortion even that has a strain free psychology because loads of

00:08:47.680 people will say to you now you're now you're just asking to undo biology you can't how about this one

00:08:52.560 i was just saying that as a combat to like you were all saying like just be celibate then but

00:09:00.240 like what if you do just want to like go out and have sex with people then you have to deal with

00:09:04.160 you can do that i say fine but if you're going to do that i would say get an iud

00:09:10.480 the contraceptive falls on the woman yeah it's always because she's the one that has to give birth and 1.00

00:09:18.160 stuff and she has to deal with like being pregnant but why does contraception have to fall on her when 1.00

00:09:22.480 all these contraceptive methods most likely like they call cause like hormonal imbalances and they

00:09:28.080 have side effects on her whereas the man most men are more likely to look for one like one night stand

00:09:33.040 and stuff and they can just go and fuck this girl and then one out of three men are either virgins or 0.76

00:09:38.000 having had sex in the past year under 30 so it's not and women are having more sex than men yeah and even 0.64

00:09:43.920 male contraception that that has been trialed has had side effects of female contraception no so that

00:09:49.040 the issue like a lot of times they say that but that's not true it's no it's they were sterilized

00:09:54.000 from it and i think one or two guys died oh my god so it was a pretty you know yeah but also death

00:09:59.040 is a side effect of some contraceptions they do say it does write inside effects it could right but but i

00:10:04.640 think it was like a sample of a thousand um roughly or maybe it was a thousand or less i if i'm it's off the

00:10:10.960 top of my head but it wasn't a big sample size so if you're taking birth control and you knew it was

00:10:14.880 one out of a thousand you probably i wouldn't do it but it is true why do women have to take 1.00

00:10:19.680 responsibility okay okay let's let's go from the beginning every every step of the way women have 1.00

00:10:27.280 choice men don't okay so let me let me just i know i know wait please let me let me finish this and i'll

00:10:32.560 explain so if we both want to have sex after the sex men lose the choice because women have the choice

00:10:39.360 to be on birth control actually before even before women have the choice to be on birth control or not

00:10:43.760 that's our choice right we have the choice to track when we're ovulating we know when we're

00:10:47.920 ovulating they don't that's a choice right we have the choice to go get the plan b he can't make you

00:10:53.520 take it that's a choice we have the choice to say hey if outside of essay i don't have sex without

00:10:59.840 condoms that's a choice then if i if i get pregnant you can get an abortion that's a choice

00:11:05.600 no choice him being on child support for 18 years no choice no choice he goes to jail if he doesn't

00:11:12.000 pay it here i think they seize your assets in the u.s they go to jail it's peak as many of you know i

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JustPearlyThings - March 26, 2023

Feminist Finally Agrees With Pearl

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