FEMINIST gets the SHOCKED by FACTS
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In this episode, we talk about feminism and the impact it has had on our society. We discuss the role of women in society, the benefits of feminism, and why we need more women in the workplace, society, and in society in general.
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in a way because because i i really think it's a result of feminism because feminism implies we're
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equal and and i don't think we're equal i think men are above women i think they're better at us
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at everything yes why yeah because every stat shows they are name something women are better at
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well it depends what you mean by men and women are equal because we're equal in the sense that
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we deserve respect but in terms of our strengths for example there's been studies that have shown
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that women are typically better with say empathy women are better with women are more women are
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more likely to kill newborns than the elderly well women can only have abortions but if you look at
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even even just newborns i mean it's estimated they killed a quarter of their kids like a hundred
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years ago like this idea that women are more empathetic it's like saying it's like saying
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one per one party has a gun it's not that women are more empathetic it's that typically women are
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usually because of the way the female brain is wired we're more suited towards things like
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cooperation that's where there's a higher level of women and things like the art but that's
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that's why i think that women can only be great under the authority of men because when we're on
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our own we just don't do well well we don't want to you know be like undermining women i mean we can
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say that women have strengths and men have strengths as well no i'm saying like i can't think of a way
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that women are their best selves without men like i think women say the same but men also need women
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no so there's you can have examples of history of men that have been great did advancements in
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society and didn't they like they avoided women so they could they could um like i think isaac newton
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died a virgin there's some women are better at men than child's child bearing yeah i mean they but it's
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equal it's equal value because men like men you need a sperm and an egg that's 50 50. so there have been
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some societies for example that were matriarchal that were matrilineal in which there was a big presence of the
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the mother and that was passed on by the grandmother that stood the test of time well not in the west
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for example like in small tribes like for example in india in china in fact in china there's still a
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tribe i think it's called the massua tribe and you have this very kind of female-led tribe and it's
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not really feminist because it's not it doesn't stand the test of time though plus keyword keyword
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small tribes they don't advance that's the point well yeah because they keep the whole society within
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the frame of the tribe so it's not really the same but they don't but they don't advance that's the
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whole point so so what i think i think that women women genuinely are not the best versions of
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themselves unless they're under the authority of the men look at what happens when we raise kids by
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ourselves we suck as single moms yeah well look what happens when we we try to start companies
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ourselves it's like we can't even i couldn't even do what i'm doing without being in the in the building
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that a man built it's like women cannot be great without men but feminism tells them that we should be
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equal to men and so basically feminism is saying we are equals when they are our superiors and i
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think it translates into relationships and now you have women thinking that they should be leading
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relationships and having an equal say men men uh men do better work when women are watching that's
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been noted and studied yes it has also as well boys as well in school are much better when there are
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goals and that's absolutely that's actually not true that's absolutely the opposite uh but men
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perform better at sports when there are female spectators men give more money to charity when
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there are women this has been tested in fact like something like 20 females on a working team
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increases the performance of the team but it really increases the performance of the males right
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so you also need women for men to compete amongst themselves to be selected and to be the best
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version but none of the things you mentioned actually build society where are the women watching
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the men building the buildings where are the women cheering on the people come on we all work a little
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harder when a girl is in the room no but where are the women where are the women you know i'm not
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making that argument i'm not making i'm not making that argument yeah you know to me like the way that
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i look at the way that i looked at let's say i sort of had to rationalize through this again because
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you know as as we grow up we all have to like find our place in the world like where we fit in and how the
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world relates to us and i had to like really think and understand like what women represented for me
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i mean again a personal anecdotal thing but for me it's like women were the feedback that were sent
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by the universe or by whatever higher power you believe in to tell me how i'm doing in life you
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know women are for a man like women let me finish that point i'm serious i'm serious i'm serious because
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like if you're a guy and women are not choosing you like that's a problem and that's your problem
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like it's your damn problem if women are not choosing you right so there's definitely a feedback
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mechanism that women give to men and what women are saying to a man all the time is like here's
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how you're really doing man here's how you're really doing in society here's how you rank among
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you know women don't have realistic standards today sure and and so i don't i don't think i'm not making
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this as a relative argument saying on an absolute scale no but no but you're saying you're saying you're
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saying today that women will tell you how you're doing in life so but i'm saying but i'm saying that argument
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might have worked wait wait let me finish that argument might have worked a hundred years ago
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but i'm saying i don't think that works today it does it's just way more polarized because women
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because women um it's like our standards are crazy high we only swipe so you're telling me if we only
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swipe five percent of the time on dating apps 95 of men are not good enough well so so the standards
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i'm not saying the standard is fair anymore it's changed good enough used to be good enough right
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good enough is not good enough anymore now there's a more sort of a binary look at this
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it's like you're either in the top 10 or you're damn not right but the point is we cannot have a
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function like i just don't like shitting on the average man and i don't i don't like saying like
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that they're doing something wrong when we could not have a society without them like i i genuinely
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think we need to be thankful for the average man and saying they're not doing good enough because they
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have an average i'm not making that argument no no but you're saying that like women like will tell you if
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you're doing good enough and like well good enough but therefore therefore women are are the primary
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like they get to decide what's good enough but i think it's men i think men decide what's good enough
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well i'm talking about like just and and also women and women criticize like we totally i mean there's
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a reason they put a muzzle on all of it all everything you're saying is 100 correct i'm just saying the
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outcome of it today like yes back let's say a hundred years ago more men would fit into the category of
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being given some positive feedback for their contributions to life and society obviously
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right obviously today's standards are skewed and and completely like delusional obviously right
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obviously i'm talking from my experience growing up i had to think like why are women treating me this
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way and and then at some point i have to realize well if every woman is treating me this way then maybe
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i'm the problem i'm the lowest common denominator in all of these expressions okay so no i agree with you
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though the standards are are completely who was it somebody said on your show maybe it was sterling
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cooper that like a woman has no a man has to work four times harder to get a woman that's like
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four times of lower quality than your grandfather that's 100 correct but so my my whole point is that
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men and women aren't equals i think men are our superiors and i think right now we treat them in society
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like we're equals when none of women all the jobs we do we could not do without men even when like like women
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can be great wives and mothers but i think a woman's natural role is to be a guy's help make
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whether that's in the workforce whether that's in the house like i i just think like women cannot be
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the best versions of themselves unless they're under the authority of a man even even me with like
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running this like my i listen to my dad like 90 of the time what he tells me to do i think the
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point he makes about like women being there as a really good motivator for men is good but also
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saying that men are superior to women really negates all of the qualities that women bring
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because i personally think that women should learn to have more responsibility and i think this is a
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problem that feminism brings it doesn't make women have responsibility actually undermines women
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because it turns women into victims it says that we're victims of the patriarchy rather than teaching
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women to recognize our innate feminine power and if we look at the power of women you know women do have
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a level of raw power it's just a power it's not it's not saying but it's not it's not saying it's not
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saying that we don't have power it's not saying that we don't have great qualities it's just saying
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i i think that men in general are superior i cannot i cannot find one thing that is evidence
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based that women are better at than men i was gonna say beauty pageants but that was proven wrong
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recently well apparently men are better than that well you could argue monetizing beauty but usually
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the only way you can monetize beauty is through things that men made the men run the industries men
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run the infrastructure like if women left the workforce tomorrow men would be okay men even
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raise better children there's some well men perhaps are needed to raise children for certain relationships
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but women are certainly better at raising children and and before you interject i'm not i'm not making
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the argument for single mothers at all i'm saying that like so let me explain something so i was
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can i can ask you a question please yeah so why do you think that when the data shows that single
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father homes turn out better than single mother homes i agree data definitely shows that single
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father homes definitely so why would we but but i'll tell you what is so so i was doing some research
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for the book i'm writing and um i was looking into the gender pay gap right and of course like women
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make 76 cents of the dollar the man i'm like huh that's interesting and i started looking into more
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multivariate analysis and more like actual academic studies not just some angry raging feminist writing
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about things they don't like and i learned the highest paid subgroup within any subgroup were lesbians
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they make way more money than anybody else i'm like oh that's interesting right well they have
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some call they're disagreeable etc etc but then i looked at one other study and then i kind of
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followed the trail and it said that once you introduce working hours into the working relationship
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like men outwork women on average 160 hours a month and 99 of the gender wage gap can be expressed
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because of the fact that men simply way outwork women and then i looked at myself i'm like i'm a worker
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right like i'm high conscientious high disagreeable so i work work work work work work all the time
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and like i can handle inordinate amounts of stress in my business that like most people think is insane
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and then i look at my wife right and we got four kids and they're nine and down nine seven i guess
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four and two and it's insanity at home and it really only takes me about 20 minutes of a screaming household
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of kids before i'm like i'm going outside to sit on the porch and smoke a cigar i can't put up with this
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but the patience that my wife exhibits with children and i understood something right there's a natural
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ability for me to participate and act strong in my war which is my business but there's a significant
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natural inclination for her to be able to put up with children she's under your authority though
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correct fair but that's that's the whole point well she's just better women but no but my whole point
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is women are not the best versions of ourselves unless we're under a man's authority well you could
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very easily say for example in india it's rather common actually this is very common in asian societies
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as well in fact most non-messen societies for the man to defer to his wife in fact this is how it
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always was and actually you could turn around and say well actually men need their wives they need to
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almost the factors is that in the home is that the the man does what he does to care for his wife and
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you could say that is the power of the feminine that is the man defers to his wife the man does what
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he does to love and care for his wife so this brings it back to the idea that men are not superior to
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women and women need each other because they're supposed to i think i think men are superior to
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women i think they're because every everything like well they can't have children okay but but we
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can't like i'm so tired of hearing women say like because we're a godsend because we have kids dogs have
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kids okay are we do we do we worship dogs do we say the dogs are are so no come on so so the the kid
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part is equal we need an egg we need a sperm giving birth equal equal equal equal because and if you think
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about it men can impregnate a bunch of women women can only carry one child so in a way like what what
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what's really more yeah but a man doesn't go through the nine months of carrying a baby exactly that's a
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lot it is carrying carrying a child is a lot but my but my my whole point is it's still equally do we
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need the sperm and the egg equally yes or no it's equally because it takes two people to tango but
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the woman still carries a lot more because she's if there's carrying the baby for nine months okay
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she has to deal with a sickness she has to deal with and the pains and what's the man actually doing
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he just should be working through that time okay but what's what's what's harder to give birth or to
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raise a kid why would you want to believe that men are superior to women because i haven't given birth
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but from like speaking to my friends i think giving birth is a lot like labor and everything
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is crazy like they've come out of it i would argue i would argue 18 years is worse than a day
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like that's that's what i would argue but i don't but like why do we have to have this gut reaction
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like oh it's a bad thing if there are superiors we are your boss is your superior you're almost
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power of the feminine and if you look it's not negating the power of the feminine again
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your boss is your superior does that mean you hate your boss you're you're when you when you talk
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to a police officer you listen to them because you look at them as we've just listed ways in which
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men are not superior to women and i know you haven't you haven't listed you haven't listed anyway