JustPearlyThings - March 21, 2023


Feminists will cancel Pearl for this


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12 minutes

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177.394

Word count

2,181

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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Hate speech

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a good single father and why it s important to have a dad in your child s life. We also discuss the difference between being a single mother and a single father in the modern era and the differences between the two.

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00:00:00.320 and even a lot of numbers suggest that men are better single fathers than single mothers
00:00:05.680 and they put the kids especially financially they're they're much better with their money
00:00:11.040 and yet women win them in custody battles when it's not it's not apparent that they're better 1.00
00:00:17.040 parents because of the maternal instinct which goes i was literally thinking this on the train today
00:00:23.680 that a lot of people forget that men love their kids too and that's really weird
00:00:27.920 that's really strange men are better parents over the age of like seven yeah because because women 1.00
00:00:34.800 were chemically different every single day we all know whose mom was moody at times yeah
00:00:42.160 and honestly a lot of people i talked to if i said would you rather if your parents got divorced would
00:00:46.960 you rather live with your mom or your dad a lot of people that i've talked to would say dad
00:00:52.960 it's true yeah because even though the dad gives the quote unquote tough love that everyone wants
00:00:57.600 to be oh you're so heartless but the advice given to you by your dad a lot of times is the advice
00:01:03.520 that you probably need to hear the most because it's like he's coming from a place of you know you
00:01:08.400 have to if you want to be successful you have to do this where the mom's coming from a place of if you
00:01:12.160 want to be happy you have to do this i think and that's like the girl's new religion is selfish and
00:01:19.280 happy yeah i think i think a dad's advice will keep you out of joe 100 like as a boy edit and uh
00:01:26.000 maybe for a girl keep you off a stripper pole or something like that like we'll keep you off the 1.00
00:01:29.600 streets but so um you know like i think you're right i think a dad does come has to come in in the
00:01:38.000 later stages of a child's life another phrase i'm a 10
00:01:46.480 no i'm serious what is that that's me that's selfish that's that's narcissism i am the table
00:01:52.320 yeah it's like narcissism is women's new religion that's a better word for it narcissism is women's 0.98
00:01:59.280 new religion yeah the phrase i am the table makes me laugh because every time someone says that to me
00:02:04.880 i was like you know what you should do change the word table to relationship and see if that makes
00:02:08.160 sense to you i am the relationship that's that's a that's a good one change the word from table to
00:02:17.520 relationship and see if that makes sense to you i am the relationship no you're not
00:02:23.840 no no no you're not this is a mutual thing or it should be at least and then we feminine feminism 1.00
00:02:28.480 feminizes men too they even even when we advocate for men we do it selfishly because
00:02:34.400 we want them to be more emotionally available for us so even even like the men didn't say we want
00:02:41.280 to be more emotionally available like you know i never i bring men on the time all the time on my
00:02:46.240 show i've never heard a guy say i want to be more emotionally available it's the girl saying i want them
00:02:51.760 to be more emotionally available so even when they're advocating for men it's still about women
00:02:57.840 but they'll say that but they'll say it will be good for us yeah it's good for you
00:03:06.640 and then you do it and we leave like we're not that emotionally available in front of me again
00:03:14.960 they want it but with stipulations if you don't bring the what they want wrapped up how they want it
00:03:21.520 then i'll be like i don't want like that i want that but let me tell you how i want it so you can
00:03:27.840 give it to me how i want it and it's not natural and usually guys will just not do it yeah if you're
00:03:34.000 giving me anything with stipulations i'm just not gonna do it again that's some guys a lot a lot of
00:03:41.440 guys out here might just fold and bend the wheel and those are the ones that are not getting they're not
00:03:46.720 getting any you know guys are like that sounds too complicated i'm just gonna do what works
00:03:52.960 yeah and that goes along with women guys wanting women to be their piece and one of them feel calm 0.74
00:04:00.160 around them if there's too many stipulations and all these boxes they got to check before they walk
00:04:05.360 through the front door it's like that's tired you're already tired before you interact with her
00:04:11.520 i'm tired from fighting everyone in the world coming to the house and i'm still fighting still
00:04:17.760 fighting where's my rest can i sleep and that's when i started listening to mandosphere content
00:04:24.880 and they started talking about like what men want it's so easy compared to what women want they just 0.74
00:04:28.720 want a girl that's fit feminine and friendly and yet we still complain that men are too picky even
00:04:37.120 though they swipe right 50 of the time on dating apps where women swipe right between 5 and 20 1.00
00:04:42.800 depending on the study but they're the two picky ones and every time i talk to them they're like
00:04:47.840 men they want the kim kardashian hourglass shape and the guys are like just not obese please
00:04:56.480 not a whale and girls are like fat phobic and they're like look i mean 35 and under please and 1.00
00:05:03.280 they're like you're ages i just i want a girl that can give me kids ages all right you know what
00:05:11.280 what if she can't have kids so yeah okay fine which is like a minority of women well she has both 1.00
00:05:18.800 genders like we can like what's the exception in the rule yeah yeah like like gino what's his name
00:05:27.920 do you know the campos said if my grandma had will should be a bike like hey what was that that
00:05:35.280 white guy that said that yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah my grandma had a wheel it should be a bike
00:05:46.720 british tv did you get it nah at some point i'll send it to you guys
00:05:53.920 the other so the other thing with feminism is that the the um grape statistics are incorrect 1.00
00:06:02.480 the one in four i don't were you guys on shows where i talked about this yeah so maybe you weren't
00:06:07.920 so the feminism will preach that women are oppressed right and that women are in danger in society and 1.00
00:06:17.680 that men are violently attacking women and that we should be scared but men are more likely to be
00:06:22.080 victims of a violent crime than women and so often when i talk to when like i was doing street
00:06:28.960 interviews the other day and i was like what are we fighting for and they said the ability to walk
00:06:32.960 alone at night i'm like i walk alone at night all the time i'm chilling like i'm not in a bad if i'm in
00:06:39.040 too sketchy of a neighborhood i'm i'm gonna be more careful but if if he walks alone at night in a bad
00:06:45.760 neighborhood he's gonna get jumped too like shitty right where are you from bro 0.89
00:06:54.400 i was like like i'm not saying that you deserve whatever is and i hate when people construe like 0.61
00:07:00.160 what what were you wearing to tell she deserved it it's like no because i can't walk down brixton
00:07:06.160 06 with bear chained my watch out that's true because why because i have the sense knowing that something
00:07:11.680 might happen right and like a lot of people don't have that sense and it's like when something does
00:07:17.040 happen is the other person's fault like yeah of course the other person should not have done that
00:07:20.480 but to some extent you could have prevented a lot of situations a lot of people get in you could have
00:07:26.480 prevented yourself no i mean that's and i people hate that term like what was she wearing and like
00:07:31.120 they get mad and i'm not i would never blame someone but i i think there's steps we can take to
00:07:36.800 prevent things and if we're not honest like you like you're right with the chains like someone's
00:07:43.760 more likely to rob you if you have chains out it's just common sense if your whole body if you're
00:07:47.920 walking around at the slut march naked you might like you might someone that's someone might grab you 0.89
00:07:55.280 that's an another thing is when um growing up when the shorts got shorter to where you can see like the
00:08:01.520 undercup of the butt and then they'd be upset that someone touched them and it's just like 0.63
00:08:08.000 you're showing it why why are you upset someone like if someone said something or like did something
00:08:14.880 out of the norm it's like if you don't want them to do that then don't show up but then they'll say
00:08:19.520 it's my body i can do what i want it's just like well then don't get upset if someone says i'm like oh
00:08:24.000 girl i see your your booty hanging out oh you sexualized me i'm like what do you mean what do 0.79
00:08:32.000 you then wear a nun outfit like what the i think touching is a whole different thing though yeah 0.89
00:08:40.400 it doesn't give you the right to yeah touch somebody nobody likes to just unless you into that
00:08:46.320 just in general that's somebody's personal space well i'm not saying it gives them the right but i would
00:08:50.960 say it's probably more likely to happen yeah it is more and i i just don't think it's honest to say
00:08:57.840 like wear whatever you want nothing's gonna happen like i think there's steps we can take to prevent
00:09:03.200 things because shitty people are gonna be shitty we can't get rid of them like i'm not i'm not i can't 0.86
00:09:08.800 go up to grapeists and say please don't grape yeah i think all women have the right to not be touched 1.00
00:09:16.400 or sexualized in any type of way but if you understand um men's mindsets men are like dogs like
00:09:24.400 when it comes to sex and things like that um post-not clarity comes into play and like men
00:09:30.960 post-not clarity comes after the fact so the whole time they're probably in their own like sex drive
00:09:36.160 especially if they see some type of body bum or anything sexualized so it's very hard for a man that
00:09:44.560 has no self-control to not try to try and control his urges yeah and so you'll find this is the weaker
00:09:54.480 men in society as such but what does happen is they will end up committing forms of sexual assault
00:10:02.880 on the basis that they can't control their urges so it goes back to the idea that women can 1.00
00:10:08.480 put measures in place to protect themselves from mold like assaults in general yeah but it just also
00:10:17.440 makes me think though that it gives men an excuse though like because i can't control my urges yeah
00:10:23.760 i can do yeah no they're not saying like i can do this but like just because i couldn't or i didn't
00:10:28.960 have no self and i could see it exactly i don't i go back to my point with wearing the chains and
00:10:34.160 bricks in the 3am because obviously the the guys who would rob me i'm giving them the option to by
00:10:40.640 walking through the area but if i didn't walk through that area a or b if i didn't walk through
00:10:48.240 with as much things out i'm less of a target you paint a bigger target on your back depending on the
00:10:53.760 stuff that you wear and no one wants to say these things right but it's true right yeah in a in a if i
00:10:59.120 go to a if i go to a store a clothing store and i've got a tracksuit on my hoodies up i've painted
00:11:05.040 a target to myself to the security guards yeah i mean because they're gonna come to me and be like
00:11:10.240 yo you look like you're gonna do blah blah blah blah blah is that fair no but because of the way i
00:11:16.080 presented myself i presented a target on my back different places have different targets i just don't
00:11:21.520 think grapists are are thinking oh i need an excuse to do this yeah yeah i just think i think
00:11:28.160 it's a very small part i think one another law i would like to see i would like to see longer
00:11:33.280 sentences maybe castration oh maybe cat like it maybe cat just i think if you grape a girl
00:11:43.200 like it yeah less people would do it yeah as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we
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