A woman writes in about leaving her husband because she has feelings for her co-worker. Why did she leave her husband and why did she decide to leave her family to start a new life with a new man?
00:00:00.000Now, speaking of modern relationships and the breakdown of the family, you know, I've spoken time and time again about the nature of women, the nature of men.
00:00:07.980You know, guys, there's a reason we have phrases like a man of his word, right?
00:00:12.600Because men just tend to stick things out more.
00:00:16.560They tend to do the right thing more than women.
00:00:19.020I know, I know this is this is never talked about in the mainstream, but but there's a reason by respect, duty, honor are all masculine traits.
00:00:28.280Um, and there's a reason why women filed divorce 70 to 80 percent of the time.
00:00:33.740And it's not the reason that the media will tell you, because it's often when I bring up these stats, I'll say women leave 70 to 80 percent of the time.
00:00:41.360The gut reaction from the other side, from the left and from even from trad cons is, well, why did she leave?
00:00:48.260Because it's always assumed that women are doing the right thing.
00:00:51.920And I don't know why it is always assumed women are doing the right thing and men are doing the wrong thing.
00:00:56.620In my opinion, it's 100 years of propaganda.
00:00:59.440But we see story after story after story in the news of women leaving over nothing.
00:01:04.700So today, this woman is thinking about leaving her marriage for a co-worker.
00:01:44.580Of course, things are going well with your co-worker because y'all don't have the same complexities.
00:01:51.180Y'all not trying to build a life together.
00:01:53.020Y'all not trying to run a house together.
00:01:56.060Y'all are not trying to raise kids together.
00:01:57.920So he doesn't have the same responsibilities to you as your husband.
00:02:01.800So don't allow that to fool you to thinking that if y'all are around each other all day like you and your husband are, that it's going to be the same energy.
00:02:10.000Understand that only 11% of affairs actually turn into relationships.
00:02:15.300And of those 11% of people who end up getting in a relationship and getting married, 75% of those marriages end in divorce.
00:02:22.280You're looking from the situation like, oh, it's so great.
00:02:25.520And he listens to me and he validates me and we have a great time together.
00:02:28.860It may feel good to you right now because you have a void and you're not receiving it from your husband.
00:03:15.760You know, but we've been we have a generation of women told that you can leave because you feel like you have a right to leave for your happiness.
00:04:27.920We have a nature to leave marriages when a better thing comes along.
00:04:32.500We don't have the nature to stick it out when left to our own devices.
00:04:37.100And I want to be clear, when left to our own devices.
00:04:40.360You know, in the last hundred years, we've had more choice than ever.
00:04:43.360And when left to our own choice, we tend to leave.
00:04:47.620But when we submit to men's authority, that's when you see the great wives, the great mother.
00:04:52.440It's when, by listening to, you know, your husband or your father, whoever it is.
00:04:57.480But the problem is, you know, we have a generation of women that are told we should just do whatever we feel like.
00:05:04.180And our feelings are always in the right when typically guys, you know, they're just not.
00:05:11.740So, next on the list, Fresh and Fit got demonetized.
00:05:16.860So, as you guys know, I actually am a big fan of Fresh and Fit.
00:05:20.860So, you know, it's funny because in my early days, some of the stuff that Myron would say would be a bit, like, triggering.
00:05:28.260Like, I think there's some lefty channels that have pulled up clips of, you know, because when you first see red pill advice or red pill, I guess, content, it really does switch your entire worldview.
00:05:40.820Because you think the world is one way and it's not.
00:05:43.640So, when I would first hear about, for example, guys not wanting to get married, getting married is stupid.
00:05:47.640I would think, well, I have married parents.
00:05:52.680But, you know, when it comes down to it and you look at the state of the modern chick, the state of the average woman, most women have had sex with multiple men.
00:06:01.220Most women, one out of three has had an abortion.
00:06:04.940One out of, you know, one out of three or four has had an STD.
00:06:09.000And it's just, when you start looking at these stats and realizing that men are just reacting to the modern woman, it really puts the onus on women to become better so men want to get married again.
00:06:24.160But, you remember, early on, yeah, I just, I just, a lot of the stuff was triggering to here.
00:06:31.520But, then you watch more and more and you see how much these guys really do care about men.
00:07:25.280You know, fortunately, we, you know, we made some moves, etc., you know, and we kind of saw, knew that the type of content that we make, for us to be able to give you this content, we have to.