Girl Gets Cheated On In The Most CRUEL Way
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating on a partner and how to deal with it and what to do if you find out you've been cheated on by your partner. We also talk about cheating on your partner and what we would do if we found out that our partner was cheating on us.
Transcript
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you ever been cheated on and how did you find out yeah I've been cheated on I've had two
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boyfriends and they've both cheated on me I think the first time I found out was through my friend
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she found some messages and sent them to me and the second time a video of my boyfriend actually
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got put on YouTube of him on FaceTime to another girl doing not so good things
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how did you like how how was he filmed like who filmed it it was like someone's screen recorded
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the FaceTime call and I got a message on Instagram and this woman basically said like if you don't
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give me money I'm gonna post it I was like go ahead post it I said if he's cheating on me why
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I'm not gonna help him yeah is he famous why did they put him on YouTube
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I think she just wanted like like attention but it got taken down anyway so
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what was he doing on there well you know you know when you go on FaceTime sometimes like guys go on
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FaceTime to a girl and though you know he pulled out his schlong he was having phone sex with this
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girl oh what is he is he a grower or a shower he said he was a grower but no that's a lie
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so yeah I've been cheated on before um once to my knowledge um and basically it was a long time
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ago but I found out two years later because I started dating without knowing again one of his
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friends and then his friend told me oh by the way three years ago what what a waste man
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what was the reason yeah it's crazy and you're not with that guy no more are you
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nah nah yeah because you're pussy off what's the point of doing that yeah it's crazy obviously by that
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time I didn't care about what's the point maybe actually maybe you thought it would make him look
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better or something yeah probably I mean it did to be fair would you girls respect a man that does
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that no way no way shows he's not loyal I mean I won't even respect a girl doing that do you get
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what I mean like I would come to you as a woman not not even that like if me if I if my friend
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cheated on a guy and then he was then dating me I wouldn't be talking about her especially at the
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time if I didn't tell him why am I telling him after you wouldn't really be dating him anyway I
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wouldn't date him but just say even if it was yeah even if by coincidence I didn't know that was her
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man and he was to come in my life I wouldn't then because if I didn't tell him then why would I
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tell him now do you get what I mean no point fetching up the past yeah I kind of wish he didn't
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because I just got hurt for no reason basically but it is what it is charge it did you break up
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with him immediately um but I wasn't I wasn't with him anyway like I found out three years later
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so I wasn't even with him it's such a weird one so yeah I guess it was good that you found that
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later yeah I mean it's less heartbreaking in that sense but it still hurts like oh okay then
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you just don't really need to know yeah like I just I'd rather have not known that's the truth
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that's crazy um yes I have been cheated on before I just had that instinct to be honest I just went
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through his phone and literally just went on his phone and I saw everything I needed to see
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when you seek you shall find innit yeah that's what a guy told me a guy told me if you look at any
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time you'll always find something you have an issue with I don't think you will no but I just
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got handed the phone and it was right in front of me it was right in front of me oh damn so it's
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like I just I was like oh what did you what did you find um a lot of messages okay he was like
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what are you doing for valentine's day um I'm going to take him so you're going with that bitch over
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there okay have fun that was literally how it was did you did you dump him right away um or did you
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did you stay with him for a little bit for how long um it's always the way for four more months
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and then did he cheat again or then you just got really toxic from there it's just the trust was
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lost and it was just like that's always the way um if you went through his phone and you didn't find
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anything would you have told him you went through his phone the thing is so he just kind of like gave
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me his phone and it was like on open yeah that makes sense like all the messages were right in
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front of me that was god that was god so it's like I don't know maybe I would have told him I
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went through his phone okay like if yeah yeah okay go ahead oh gosh my story is a bit long I don't
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know how much time I've got are you can you can if it's interesting go ahead yeah it's okay so
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basically his cheating was never confirmed he's always denied it even though I've got substantial
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evidence to say that he's cheated on me he will still deny it um he so at uni there was three of
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us or four of us that were friends there was three guys and then me um and then when I broke up with
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my partner at the time I was only about 19 or something um I started dating him he was like a
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friend that obviously I'd known him for about two years like homie hopper yeah yeah yeah because me
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I like I like to be connected to your mind you get what I mean and and he was he was like the friend
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didn't work out so you're like oh there's his friend and then no no no no no so he was my friend
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you're so we were all mutual friends he like made it out of the he made out the friend zone oh but but
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he was friends with your ex too no no he was all so we were just a uni friends we were just a bunch of
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friends and then so yes when I became single they all approached me and I chose him oh okay okay
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okay yeah but then you're there was there was no connection with that yeah it was just I was single
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for the first time and it was just like okay cool um so I was dating him we were together for about
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I'll say two years and in between that I found a few things but he will always deny it cool I then
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moved into a property with one of our mutual friends girlfriends so one of the girl guys from the circle
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his girlfriend and me and her lived together they then moved in with us because they were meant to
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get their own property but it was just like we might as well just like all live in one place so it
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was like cool everyone used to come to our house it was like the uni little hot spot my friend that was
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dating the girl he went away so he went to his country and he was there for some time and I started noticing
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a different behavior in her like her her pajamas started getting shorter they started going out at the
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same time or they'll start try stay in at the same time and I thought this is getting a bit awkward
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like anyway she they then disappeared one day at the same time she said she's going to see her mom he
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said he's going to see his mom and we had a group chat they're not responding on anything you know at
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the same time so I thought is it me or like is this too much of a coincidence anyway um when I when I
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asked him well I said to him there's definitely someone she's cheating with because she's you know
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dressing up a bit more she came home that night and she was talking about like you know she was
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talking about some crazy stuff so I was messaging him like oh I think I know like she's definitely
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cheating but I think I know who he was like yeah try find out I was like okay so obviously you know
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then the next day he disappeared for the whole night she disappeared for the whole night so I thought
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nothing of it cool I went back to the flat alone um the week later we had all our uni friends come
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around and one of her dopey friends came and she didn't know how to use just eat so she's taking her
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laptop now to go and just eat as she's gone on to put the postcode in she obviously doesn't know
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how to use the laptop so I said okay let me try use it I've gone to click on the postcode and it
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says cr0 and I'm thinking she doesn't have no friends in Croydon like who the hell where's she
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going in Croydon so I've now memorized the postcode and I'm now going to him like yo yo give me your phone
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I think I know who she's cheating with and he was like yeah yeah yeah like try it try it like see what
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you know so I've now gone and put in the postcode and oh sorry before I get there basically when he
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came back from his night away we had a massive argument he left the house I went through his
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pocket and I saw a receipt for Hallmark Hotel right so obviously he came back he explained that he was
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at his mum's but he needed um some time away from her so he just booked a hotel for himself I said why
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didn't tell me anyway yeah cool long story short he needed some time alone so as I've now gone to put
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the postcode on his phone the pin drops at Hallmark Hotel oh wow oh so they were together
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well this is it so straight away in the whole group of friends I've now confronted her and I said
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how the hell do you know Hallmark Hotel and because he's such a good prolific liar he goes I made her
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order me food I said sorry and then he's now told me that he's got her to order food because he
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couldn't trust anyone else to order food because everyone else would have told me he's at the hotel
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so long story short yeah I found that he was cheating with my flatmate and did you break up
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with him no because he convinced me that that it was that it wasn't did he really like come on no
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he convinced when I said when I said you wanted to be convinced no no I why I say he convinced me I
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called my friend straight away and I said listen your girlfriend's a cheat blah blah this is what's
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happened he then spoke to her apparently she showed proof that they were uh they called for the food or
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whatever so he then convinced me that his girlfriend wasn't cheating on him she he then made me feel
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bad that I'm even making such a big allegation I still said yeah I'm still moving out I'm not gonna
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lie like I gave him my notice um so yeah he convinced me that they didn't do a thing so how long did you
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stay with him after that a good two more years two more years and are you are you the most interesting
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far all right all right um what made you switch like from being convinced to not convinced I was
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never not I was never fully not convinced okay so yeah so I still had my dad you said he convinced
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you yeah he tried convincing me so obviously I still stayed there so okay this is where I'm a little
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confused you were you were convinced or you were not I was still like I'll say I thought you maybe
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found more evidence later no I found more evidence later oh okay I definitely found more evidence so I
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know that he definitely did but he still would deny it okay okay yeah yeah what was the interesting
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so what was interesting is um so a couple of years later now university has happened and we've all
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graduated you know she was a bitch on graduation cool um we've all me and my friend we broke up
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because he felt like we I broke up the friendship cool um then a couple of years later I was at home
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we like we were living together and then I was going through I was on laptop and we used to download
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you know like we had limer or whatever then so you download shows and as I was going on um a show to
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watch the profile a folder came up and it said please insert usb and her name was a show that we
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used to watch so I won't say the show because obviously it will disclose who she is but it was
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she had so I thought it's the show that he was watching right it was on his recently viewed so I've
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gone to click it and it says oh please insert the usb so he used to always have usb on his keys so I've
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now inserted the first one and it wasn't showing so I inserted the second one and it came up with a
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folder and it had all her pictures oh wow so I've now gone onto my computer to go see what like what's
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on what else is on there and there was no folders like no files and I was like this is so confusing
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and I was I'm not tech savvy like I don't do technology so I've had to now go on google find how
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to unhide folders I've gone to unhide folders and there was about 60 folders of girls pictures that he
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must have been chatting to over the time and he was saving them wow wait so he just had a file
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oh were they like naked explicit yeah whatever like whatever folders he had like so so when so
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when was that that was that was the end of our relationship okay that then it actually ended yeah
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okay yeah then I found out that he was actually then cheating on me with his ex oh so that's when
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how many how many girls total a lot I I still wouldn't he'll still deny but I what did you
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with the weights wait wait let me get this straight so so you found you found a picture like a whole
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folder of naked girls multiple pictures not even just naked the some might have been just oh okay
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innocent ones but it was a part of his collection he said and he said that this is nothing yeah he
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told me that he she only like the girl the flatmate only sent him pictures because he was giving her
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advice on what to wear I was like what you got like what do you mean you're advising her but yeah
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there was it was obviously you know um he tried lying as much as he could okay and then that was the end
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of the relationship yeah yeah okay um I can't I can't even was there wait wait actually was there
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anything we missed in the story okay so basically I just felt sorry I'm gonna I just felt like you
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so basically his girl his ex at the time I used to see messages from a girl called S coming up and I
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had doubts it was his ex right and he was like no no no it's not anyway when I found that them pictures
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he then said you know what I can't do this anymore like I'm done you're always doubting me I said
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yeah because there's reasons cool then obviously he broke up with me then the next day I had taken
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the number S's number and I called it the next day and I said oh hey so and so is you know who with
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you and I heard him start laughing in the background oh dear and he had a very specific laugh so it
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confirmed that he was with her but obviously she denied it she was like why would I be with him
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but yeah so so you kind of had like red flags like all four years would you say
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pretty much yeah pretty much yeah okay and I stayed like a dumb girl yeah okay but the first
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instance you caught him cheating you stayed well obviously I had the doubts over the four years
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yeah yeah yeah go ahead um no I've never had an experience like that um or I don't know if a man's
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cheating on me I don't know about it I don't search you know many of you know I was just banned on
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