JustPearlyThings - April 06, 2023


Girl Gets Cheated On In The Most CRUEL Way


Episode Stats

Length

14 minutes

Words per Minute

215.79669

Word Count

3,040

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

10

Hate Speech Sentences

8


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 you ever been cheated on and how did you find out yeah I've been cheated on I've had two
00:00:07.300 boyfriends and they've both cheated on me I think the first time I found out was through my friend
00:00:13.700 she found some messages and sent them to me and the second time a video of my boyfriend actually
00:00:20.660 got put on YouTube of him on FaceTime to another girl doing not so good things
00:00:27.480 how did you like how how was he filmed like who filmed it it was like someone's screen recorded
00:00:35.600 the FaceTime call and I got a message on Instagram and this woman basically said like if you don't
00:00:41.620 give me money I'm gonna post it I was like go ahead post it I said if he's cheating on me why
00:00:46.500 I'm not gonna help him yeah is he famous why did they put him on YouTube
00:00:51.080 I think she just wanted like like attention but it got taken down anyway so
00:00:58.380 what was he doing on there well you know you know when you go on FaceTime sometimes like guys go on
00:01:05.180 FaceTime to a girl and though you know he pulled out his schlong he was having phone sex with this
00:01:11.760 girl oh what is he is he a grower or a shower he said he was a grower but no that's a lie
00:01:18.000 so yeah I've been cheated on before um once to my knowledge um and basically it was a long time
00:01:33.340 ago but I found out two years later because I started dating without knowing again one of his
00:01:39.480 friends and then his friend told me oh by the way three years ago what what a waste man
00:01:44.720 what was the reason yeah it's crazy and you're not with that guy no more are you
00:01:49.120 nah nah yeah because you're pussy off what's the point of doing that yeah it's crazy obviously by that
00:01:54.300 time I didn't care about what's the point maybe actually maybe you thought it would make him look
00:01:58.740 better or something yeah probably I mean it did to be fair would you girls respect a man that does
00:02:02.660 that no way no way shows he's not loyal I mean I won't even respect a girl doing that do you get
00:02:07.880 what I mean like I would come to you as a woman not not even that like if me if I if my friend
00:02:12.660 cheated on a guy and then he was then dating me I wouldn't be talking about her especially at the
00:02:18.820 time if I didn't tell him why am I telling him after you wouldn't really be dating him anyway I
00:02:22.760 wouldn't date him but just say even if it was yeah even if by coincidence I didn't know that was her
00:02:27.300 man and he was to come in my life I wouldn't then because if I didn't tell him then why would I
00:02:31.800 tell him now do you get what I mean no point fetching up the past yeah I kind of wish he didn't
00:02:35.940 because I just got hurt for no reason basically but it is what it is charge it did you break up
00:02:42.160 with him immediately um but I wasn't I wasn't with him anyway like I found out three years later
00:02:49.120 so I wasn't even with him it's such a weird one so yeah I guess it was good that you found that
00:02:54.160 later yeah I mean it's less heartbreaking in that sense but it still hurts like oh okay then
00:02:59.940 you just don't really need to know yeah like I just I'd rather have not known that's the truth
00:03:04.020 I was fine but it is what it is
00:03:09.320 that's crazy um yes I have been cheated on before I just had that instinct to be honest I just went
00:03:17.540 through his phone and literally just went on his phone and I saw everything I needed to see
00:03:22.800 when you seek you shall find innit yeah that's what a guy told me a guy told me if you look at any
00:03:27.700 time you'll always find something you have an issue with I don't think you will no but I just
00:03:31.140 got handed the phone and it was right in front of me it was right in front of me oh damn so it's
00:03:35.880 like I just I was like oh what did you what did you find um a lot of messages okay he was like
00:03:42.220 what are you doing for valentine's day um I'm going to take him so you're going with that bitch over
00:03:47.320 there okay have fun that was literally how it was did you did you dump him right away um or did you
00:03:53.500 did you stay with him for a little bit for how long um it's always the way for four more months
00:04:01.840 and then did he cheat again or then you just got really toxic from there it's just the trust was
00:04:08.200 lost and it was just like that's always the way um if you went through his phone and you didn't find
00:04:13.740 anything would you have told him you went through his phone the thing is so he just kind of like gave
00:04:18.460 me his phone and it was like on open yeah that makes sense like all the messages were right in
00:04:23.240 front of me that was god that was god so it's like I don't know maybe I would have told him I
00:04:29.780 went through his phone okay like if yeah yeah okay go ahead oh gosh my story is a bit long I don't
00:04:37.020 know how much time I've got are you can you can if it's interesting go ahead yeah it's okay so
00:04:42.420 basically his cheating was never confirmed he's always denied it even though I've got substantial
00:04:48.880 evidence to say that he's cheated on me he will still deny it um he so at uni there was three of
00:04:58.060 us or four of us that were friends there was three guys and then me um and then when I broke up with
00:05:02.840 my partner at the time I was only about 19 or something um I started dating him he was like a
00:05:08.040 friend that obviously I'd known him for about two years like homie hopper yeah yeah yeah because me
00:05:14.040 I like I like to be connected to your mind you get what I mean and and he was he was like the friend
00:05:18.900 didn't work out so you're like oh there's his friend and then no no no no no so he was my friend
00:05:23.880 you're so we were all mutual friends he like made it out of the he made out the friend zone oh but but
00:05:28.680 he was friends with your ex too no no he was all so we were just a uni friends we were just a bunch of
00:05:33.520 friends and then so yes when I became single they all approached me and I chose him oh okay okay
00:05:39.140 okay yeah but then you're there was there was no connection with that yeah it was just I was single
00:05:43.780 for the first time and it was just like okay cool um so I was dating him we were together for about
00:05:49.580 I'll say two years and in between that I found a few things but he will always deny it cool I then
00:05:55.600 moved into a property with one of our mutual friends girlfriends so one of the girl guys from the circle
00:06:01.360 his girlfriend and me and her lived together they then moved in with us because they were meant to
00:06:07.700 get their own property but it was just like we might as well just like all live in one place so it
00:06:11.420 was like cool everyone used to come to our house it was like the uni little hot spot my friend that was
00:06:17.040 dating the girl he went away so he went to his country and he was there for some time and I started noticing
00:06:23.300 a different behavior in her like her her pajamas started getting shorter they started going out at the
00:06:28.320 same time or they'll start try stay in at the same time and I thought this is getting a bit awkward
00:06:33.080 like anyway she they then disappeared one day at the same time she said she's going to see her mom he
00:06:40.140 said he's going to see his mom and we had a group chat they're not responding on anything you know at
00:06:44.540 the same time so I thought is it me or like is this too much of a coincidence anyway um when I when I
00:06:51.600 asked him well I said to him there's definitely someone she's cheating with because she's you know
00:06:56.940 dressing up a bit more she came home that night and she was talking about like you know she was
00:07:01.520 talking about some crazy stuff so I was messaging him like oh I think I know like she's definitely
00:07:05.080 cheating but I think I know who he was like yeah try find out I was like okay so obviously you know
00:07:11.060 then the next day he disappeared for the whole night she disappeared for the whole night so I thought
00:07:14.940 nothing of it cool I went back to the flat alone um the week later we had all our uni friends come
00:07:21.640 around and one of her dopey friends came and she didn't know how to use just eat so she's taking her
00:07:26.480 laptop now to go and just eat as she's gone on to put the postcode in she obviously doesn't know
00:07:31.920 how to use the laptop so I said okay let me try use it I've gone to click on the postcode and it
00:07:36.380 says cr0 and I'm thinking she doesn't have no friends in Croydon like who the hell where's she
00:07:40.920 going in Croydon so I've now memorized the postcode and I'm now going to him like yo yo give me your phone
00:07:46.500 I think I know who she's cheating with and he was like yeah yeah yeah like try it try it like see what
00:07:50.240 you know so I've now gone and put in the postcode and oh sorry before I get there basically when he
00:07:57.260 came back from his night away we had a massive argument he left the house I went through his
00:08:01.780 pocket and I saw a receipt for Hallmark Hotel right so obviously he came back he explained that he was
00:08:07.440 at his mum's but he needed um some time away from her so he just booked a hotel for himself I said why
00:08:12.680 didn't tell me anyway yeah cool long story short he needed some time alone so as I've now gone to put
00:08:17.320 the postcode on his phone the pin drops at Hallmark Hotel oh wow oh so they were together
00:08:24.100 well this is it so straight away in the whole group of friends I've now confronted her and I said
00:08:28.720 how the hell do you know Hallmark Hotel and because he's such a good prolific liar he goes I made her
00:08:35.760 order me food I said sorry and then he's now told me that he's got her to order food because he
00:08:42.260 couldn't trust anyone else to order food because everyone else would have told me he's at the hotel
00:08:46.400 so long story short yeah I found that he was cheating with my flatmate and did you break up
00:08:52.340 with him no because he convinced me that that it was that it wasn't did he really like come on no
00:08:58.360 he convinced when I said when I said you wanted to be convinced no no I why I say he convinced me I
00:09:04.340 called my friend straight away and I said listen your girlfriend's a cheat blah blah this is what's
00:09:07.940 happened he then spoke to her apparently she showed proof that they were uh they called for the food or
00:09:14.420 whatever so he then convinced me that his girlfriend wasn't cheating on him she he then made me feel
00:09:20.180 bad that I'm even making such a big allegation I still said yeah I'm still moving out I'm not gonna
00:09:24.640 lie like I gave him my notice um so yeah he convinced me that they didn't do a thing so how long did you
00:09:31.400 stay with him after that a good two more years two more years and are you are you the most interesting
00:09:37.640 far all right all right um what made you switch like from being convinced to not convinced I was
00:09:42.920 never not I was never fully not convinced okay so yeah so I still had my dad you said he convinced
00:09:47.720 you yeah he tried convincing me so obviously I still stayed there so okay this is where I'm a little
00:09:53.840 confused you were you were convinced or you were not I was still like I'll say I thought you maybe
00:09:58.940 found more evidence later no I found more evidence later oh okay I definitely found more evidence so I
00:10:03.340 know that he definitely did but he still would deny it okay okay yeah yeah what was the interesting
00:10:08.180 so what was interesting is um so a couple of years later now university has happened and we've all
00:10:13.360 graduated you know she was a bitch on graduation cool um we've all me and my friend we broke up
00:10:19.720 because he felt like we I broke up the friendship cool um then a couple of years later I was at home
00:10:25.200 we like we were living together and then I was going through I was on laptop and we used to download
00:10:30.520 you know like we had limer or whatever then so you download shows and as I was going on um a show to
00:10:36.120 watch the profile a folder came up and it said please insert usb and her name was a show that we
00:10:41.940 used to watch so I won't say the show because obviously it will disclose who she is but it was
00:10:46.500 she had so I thought it's the show that he was watching right it was on his recently viewed so I've
00:10:50.900 gone to click it and it says oh please insert the usb so he used to always have usb on his keys so I've
00:10:56.440 now inserted the first one and it wasn't showing so I inserted the second one and it came up with a
00:11:01.180 folder and it had all her pictures oh wow so I've now gone onto my computer to go see what like what's
00:11:07.880 on what else is on there and there was no folders like no files and I was like this is so confusing
00:11:12.600 and I was I'm not tech savvy like I don't do technology so I've had to now go on google find how
00:11:17.800 to unhide folders I've gone to unhide folders and there was about 60 folders of girls pictures that he
00:11:24.660 must have been chatting to over the time and he was saving them wow wait so he just had a file
00:11:31.620 oh were they like naked explicit yeah whatever like whatever folders he had like so so when so
00:11:39.660 when was that that was that was the end of our relationship okay that then it actually ended yeah
00:11:43.940 okay yeah then I found out that he was actually then cheating on me with his ex oh so that's when
00:11:49.720 how many how many girls total a lot I I still wouldn't he'll still deny but I what did you
00:11:55.800 with the weights wait wait let me get this straight so so you found you found a picture like a whole
00:12:03.180 folder of naked girls multiple pictures not even just naked the some might have been just oh okay
00:12:08.260 innocent ones but it was a part of his collection he said and he said that this is nothing yeah he
00:12:13.960 told me that he she only like the girl the flatmate only sent him pictures because he was giving her
00:12:20.080 advice on what to wear I was like what you got like what do you mean you're advising her but yeah
00:12:24.980 there was it was obviously you know um he tried lying as much as he could okay and then that was the end
00:12:30.460 of the relationship yeah yeah okay um I can't I can't even was there wait wait actually was there
00:12:37.220 anything we missed in the story okay so basically I just felt sorry I'm gonna I just felt like you
00:12:42.760 had more to say
00:12:43.460 so basically his girl his ex at the time I used to see messages from a girl called S coming up and I
00:12:51.580 had doubts it was his ex right and he was like no no no it's not anyway when I found that them pictures
00:12:56.340 he then said you know what I can't do this anymore like I'm done you're always doubting me I said
00:13:00.400 yeah because there's reasons cool then obviously he broke up with me then the next day I had taken
00:13:05.780 the number S's number and I called it the next day and I said oh hey so and so is you know who with
00:13:12.540 you and I heard him start laughing in the background oh dear and he had a very specific laugh so it
00:13:18.660 confirmed that he was with her but obviously she denied it she was like why would I be with him
00:13:22.740 but yeah so so you kind of had like red flags like all four years would you say
00:13:27.280 pretty much yeah pretty much yeah okay and I stayed like a dumb girl yeah okay but the first
00:13:33.440 instance you caught him cheating you stayed well obviously I had the doubts over the four years
00:13:37.800 yeah yeah yeah go ahead um no I've never had an experience like that um or I don't know if a man's
00:13:45.760 cheating on me I don't know about it I don't search you know many of you know I was just banned on
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