Girl Goes Through the Most Toxic Break Up
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the breakup of one of the most famous exes in the world, Tom Brady and his divorce from his wife, Kelly Kelly. We discuss the fallout from the breakup and the hate that will come if he moves on with someone else. We also discuss how to move on after a breakup and how to deal with the aftermath.
Transcript
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can i say something um tom brady so if you've specified it's a high profile breakup then i'm
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guessing we're talking about money here most of the time i talk about popularity yeah um can i
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ask when they actually got divorced do you know when um officially october 2022. okay okay right
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because i was gonna say because as an athlete tom brady's spotlight the reason why he's in
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spotlight is always going to constantly change like when he when he said he was going to retire
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the spotlight was on just retiring ain't nobody mentioned about him breaking up but i don't it
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was all over the like my youtube feed yeah like it was it was just on um right kelly just did a special
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on it yeah right so i think my main part so i'm trying to say here is that the spotlight as an
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athlete for tom brady is going to change constantly so people are gonna eventually forget that he's
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been divorced if he moves on with another person so i think for the female it's more so like she's
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the one that broke up with tom brady is such a big deal and i think the hate that's gonna come for the
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women is more than it is for the men just considering the fact that he's such a high profile athlete would
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you say in society men are valued more for what they build where women are more valued for the
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relationships they can keep a hundred percent a hundred percent because tom brady can now do
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sign crazy and invest in this many stuff invest like a billion dollar company maybe that's what's
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going to be that's what he's going to be in the spotlight for or it's like elon musk i mean how
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many baby mothers does he have but no one each to their own isn't it but no one really talks about it
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right but if the roles were reversed and it was a woman and she had the same company but she had
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like three i don't know how many he has but like three four baby fathers people would still look at
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her funny no matter how successful she is it's going to be long for her and that's just how it is
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unfortunately bar have have any of you ever looked at an ex's instagram or facebook to see how they're
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doing after a breakup yeah all the time has anyone ever done that anyone two okay so the majority oh
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what are you what are you i shouldn't put my hand up really because nobody i've been out
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because i don't know if i should say too much i'm joking i'm joking anybody that's watching i'm joking
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i promise i think you promise but um yeah i haven't do you guys get mad if the girl you feel like is
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prettier than you or better looking not just happy you're you're happy for them i feel like for me
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personally it depends on how soon after yeah break up yeah so how how soon would would piss you off
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versus how soon would make you happy for them after she's moved on yeah if i haven't moved on you can't
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or you can just not someone better looking than me does it depend on the ex too like how much you
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liked the ex whether you're happy for them or mad no no just happy to move on yeah so i i kind of look
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at life as lessons so for me not to be with someone i mean it's taken me a while to get here to be fair
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but it's my stance now it wasn't previously possibly maybe before but i think everyone there's a reason
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behind everything and a why and i think if we're not meant to be together then we're not meant to be
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together be happy good luck to the next person i mean i'm still kind of mad i mean i don't wish you
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the best it's taken me a long while to get here but yeah i just think yeah i don't think that at all
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i think if it's a bad breakup you think you see with somebody else you think yeah she i'm glad she's got
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you i ain't got you yeah i was gonna say the same it works both ways but then if it was a good breakup
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you know you just spit you just think to yourself okay i got you there you deserve her because she
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ain't gonna be as good as me but well done because women are bitches and they're always gonna say things
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like that anyway you're not gonna say you're gonna be happy for someone you split up with them come on
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but it's a bad breakup better than a good one i don't know is it bad what do you mean it's a bad like
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if i if i and i was to break up with someone there's either two ways i can break up one we
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have like the most craziest fight and i say fuck you and i leave or it could be right we're gonna
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sit down and talk we're gonna figure this out why it didn't work out by the end of the day i just don't
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want to be with you and it's both on both parties it's the same what's going to help me like in which
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circumstance am i going to be like yeah you know what if you moved on to another girl i'll be like
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yeah good for you do you get it because either way if if we end up in a fight and you left i'll be like good
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for you you know which would you prefer the the bad breakup or the i think i prefer amicable okay
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sit down and talk like i that's what i'd prefer anyway well sometimes if it's a bad breakup it's
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just like it makes you get over it faster you think so that's why i'd prefer the bad ones because it's
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just like done and out of the way i mean it's like you don't because you don't want to deal with the drama
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of it but at the same time then you're just over it you've got things to say oh no no what's a bad
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breakup what entails a bad breakup it sounds all crazy can i hear what everybody's what's your worst
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breakup ever been like um because it sounds like you's like they do some crazy my ex broke into my
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flat after i ended it two months i think two months after i ended it he broke into my flat and hid in my
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wardrobe oh my god wow stop waiting wow that is okay okay okay let me is this she spoke oh she
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you're looking over there okay wait so so okay what who broke up with you i so it was quite bad i ended
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it with him but he had nowhere to go and i said oh i will support you you live to get was he a bum
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um was he living with you yeah okay i was paying the rent okay okay so um i should just put clown
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on my forehead was he hot how tall was he damn a bit taller just a couple of inches you don't say
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that pearl you say was he good in bed i was better in bed i was better in bed no wonder he broke in
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okay okay so you break up with him then what happened um so i supported him
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through the breakup obviously so he could get his own place because i knew if i kicked him out
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he'd turn back up on my doorstep don't want that so he moved out everything was fine i was even
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praying to god like please just let this go nicely he left about two a month later i'm hearing my name
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outside my house i'm thinking what the hell calling my family everyone's saying are you sure you're not
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having a mental breakdown they actually believed i was losing my my mind um and then on my birthday
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which was like a month after that he'd broke into my house he was hiding in my wardrobe and um
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yeah it just went like he didn't come out but i could smell him in my house how long was he there
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i don't know no seriously because he was outside and i run up the like i took my heels off and run up four
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flights of stairs and then i've gone in shut the door behind me and everyone's trying to get in
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and i was just like when i find you it's over um i could just smell him in my flat and i couldn't
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find him and then i left and he broke out afterwards oh my gosh i've heard of a woman breaking into a man's
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house i've heard of a woman breaking into a man's but it's the first time i've heard of a man breaking
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into auntie what are you doing if someone stands out your house like that and comes inside into your
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way now you're inside your mind that's the law that's the law isn't it my property you're inside
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i never invited you you know i'm i'm not leaving you have to get past me are we fighting them i'm not
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fighting i'm defending myself because i'm at the door there's a difference okay legally that's what
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i mean i know what i'm saying i know what i'm saying what else what who else anyone you're crazy
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worst breakup is it worse breakup or is it worth the person if the person is bad yeah the worst breakup
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i want to hear yeah i want to hear that i'd say are there nice breakups are they ever nice breakups
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has anyone had a nice breakup i've had a nice breakup have you yeah most of them have been nice yes there
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is there is such a nice breakup guys so tell me tell me about the one that wasn't nice what happened
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uh do i really want to go into that um just move over it you do yeah so
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way back in my past i'm not going to go to my recent way back in my past um i had someone that
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was a bit obsessive actually he left he finished the relationship and then he thought he could go
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away for the weekend mess around a bit and come back and i'd had enough and i said no and then um
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he was finding me in the streets on his hands and knees crying begging you know yeah it's a bit messy
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and he would try and break in but he didn't ever succeed he was trying to break it yeah he put a
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ladder up to the window and also there was a lot there was a lot there was a lot yeah he didn't get
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in but it was weird so he put a ladder onto your door and tried to or up to the second yeah and then
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tried to get get to get in yeah did you call the cops did i call it do you know it was a long time
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no i don't think i did i think i just got out of the way of the way he couldn't get in so what was
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he gonna do it's just stupid it was just such a stupid thing to do okay you go up a ladder go back
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down again see ya yeah all right have fun wow that's i can't believe there's two people in here
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yeah he didn't succeed though and he didn't hide in a wardrobe i mean he did do some weird things
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over the years but i'm not gonna go into stuff okay um is dating a younger more attractive man
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than your ex considered a win why or why not doesn't it depend on how he treats you and what person he is
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um how he carries himself whether he's holding doors open for you whether all those nice things
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that you like from a man to be treated like a woman um is he doing those things does age really matter
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can i just say if i was to date a younger guy than i am like was dating or i'm dating whatever the
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situation may be i'd probably catch a case yeah you're young now you're at that 17 is crazy i've
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got a bit of leeway you've got no leeway i've got some leeway sorry the question's based on the um
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tom brady and giselle so okay let's catch your case she was dating a 24 year old what do you mean
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catch your case how old is she she's 40 something i mean i don't know if i'd want to date a man that's
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that much younger because it takes a man it takes men a while they have to get some things out of
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their system before they settle down and yeah they mature a lot slower i don't know if i'd want to do
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that no but then you've got to look at is are you actually looking to have a are you for this younger
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person you're actually looking to have a relationship i don't i don't date without having a relationship i
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don't get involved with anyone unless i see a relationship potential i don't do that sorry one thing
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that i would point out is women typically don't want younger men and second attractive is somewhat
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secondary um i think for men if they had a you know a younger more attractive um new person than
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their ex then it would be a win for them because that is kind of their dating metric that's what they
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look for whereas with women i would typically look for someone that's older like my partner's a little
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older than me um and attraction you know a lot of times women can replace that with for example
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you know status or money whereas with men if you're not attractive they won't even give you the time
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of day so it's the question was kind of asked in reverse it wouldn't be you know a win for women
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but definitely for men i think i think that would be a win for women if the younger person oh it's a
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younger person if the younger person was um more mature because sometimes you get a younger man he's
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more mature than the other man you've left is it rare it's rare though isn't it i'm a rarity
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yeah but is the man rare i know you're a rarity but no sometimes no there's a lot of good young men
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out there no but then if you're actively going out seeking a younger guy saying oh yeah this is
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going to make my husband thought like i'm going to go that he's going to be like oh he's probably
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more sexually active probably more good looking probably has better things coming for him i think
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that's kind of that's kind of low key tapped like high key in fact like if you're thinking about getting
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with someone to degrade someone that you've been with before it kind of just shows your character and
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i don't think that's how we should be approaching it especially right now and as women i don't think
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that's how we should approach it before we get there with our stuff we don't want to so i agree
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for the different reason that's slag behavior if it's if it's like a 40 year old woman and a 25
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year old man what could what future could there be no matter how nice of a young man he is she'll get
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good sex for about 10 years before he leaves her i'll i'll be up for that
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but no i mean okay would you say that's a win then for her it's a win for her good on her
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they talk about equality in it and that younger man well good on him he's out there of an older
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woman who's got a bit of dosh why not i think some men like older women and i don't know whether
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it's mummy issues but i feel like they like to be mothered and i think older women tend to wrap them
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up and look after them yeah no i just think that older women and knows how to look after a man rather
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than young people nowadays so what you might see as mother it might be just a traditional woman looking
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after a man and that's what it is because if you get an older woman now and she decides to go and
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give her man dinner on a go and cook dinner and put it on the tray you'd be like see what i mean and
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you might think oh she's mothering him but that's what women do well and younger guys like the guys
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that i know that will go for older women is typically because they want casual sex and they just think
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it's easier to get it from them yeah that's what i said good sex for 10 years and if it lasts longer
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