JustPearlyThings - June 23, 2023


Harsh TRUTH When Accepted CHANGES Life


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

204.9267

Word Count

1,808

Sentence Count

3

Misogynist Sentences

4

Hate Speech Sentences

1


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 i think harsh truths that time can make you make life changes yeah like like i i was i was pretty
00:00:05.920 heavy at one point and what made me like 200 club yeah what was your weight um what was the highest
00:00:12.320 that you've got like like 210 maybe 215. that would be a dream for me what pounds pounds i don't know
00:00:20.400 what that is like 90 92 93 kilos i saw a picture of myself no that was personally well i'll tell
00:00:26.960 me too natalie that happened to me i'll tell you i'll show you the picture
00:00:33.120 so i played i played volleyball my whole life so i was training like five hours a day from the time i
00:00:38.480 was like i don't know 10 years old so i was just an athlete and when i stopped playing my eating
00:00:43.520 habits were horrible like absolutely horrible so i gained weight like really really fast because i
00:00:48.640 just couldn't burn off all the calories i was burning before and i was working a sales job and there was
00:00:53.040 a guy i had a crush on at work i had the biggest crush on this guy's and i heard i heard him laughing
00:00:58.720 with um the other guys at work saying oh like the the one guy was like oh i'm like 190 or something
00:01:05.680 and he's like you can't be that big that's so that's so heavy i would never like and then they were
00:01:10.000 talking about girls and they're like i would never date a girl over 200 and i was like they didn't think
00:01:14.880 i was that big because i'm tall so i carry it a bit better yeah but really but that but that harsh truth
00:01:20.000 like i lost a bunch of weight after that and i and i've kept it off ever since yeah so you know
00:01:25.280 sometimes you need that kick don't you just to make you realize yeah and like you know it might
00:01:29.520 have been harsh at first but it was true if we're talking about self-esteem doesn't you mentioned
00:01:33.760 being weak-minded earlier hearing your crush or people that you might fancy and and realizing that
00:01:39.280 your type doesn't like you back does that not make you weak-minded then if self-esteem is really in
00:01:44.320 self and you're hearing people you find desirable talk about you in an undesirable way and you're
00:01:49.680 saying that made you change even though the change was for the positive let's say does that not make
00:01:54.560 you weak of mind because no i think it makes me strong because i made me do something strong i ran
00:01:59.360 a marathon because i was like you know if those are the type of guys i want to date this is what they
00:02:03.680 want and the difference is women have never heard what men want but men always change to try to get us
00:02:08.960 like they try to make more money they try to get better shade they take steroids they learn how to
00:02:16.640 talk to women and it's like we have never heard what men want like ever because the media is constantly
00:02:23.600 telling us what we want to hear so no i i don't think it makes me a weak person i think i could have
00:02:29.200 it would have been weak to go and cry but i went and did something about it yeah but taking on someone's
00:02:34.000 opinion and letting that influence your lifestyle and your actions is not weak i i don't think it's
00:02:40.240 a bad thing to be maybe it's not an opinion i mean i mean it's a fact yeah i think i think because then
00:02:45.840 you you kind of fall into the school of thoughts like you know because like if you're getting fired
00:02:50.160 from job after job after job you're like well these people have a poor opinion of me like but that's
00:02:56.080 what's can i just say something that's what's that's what's wrong with the world people care too
00:03:00.960 much yeah yeah and and and i think people don't care enough i think people don't care enough like
00:03:05.840 you said earlier but i think you i think we should care about outcomes especially as women because
00:03:10.800 it's like yeah if we don't in our 20s and like early 30s get our together like we don't get to have
00:03:16.160 children but power and so it's like like one obesity affects effects if you get to have kids and two it
00:03:21.600 affects the type of husband you you get because geriatric pregnancy starts at 35. don't ever assume
00:03:28.240 big people can't they're honestly big people likely to come as a big guy i'm not even gonna i felt ugly
00:03:34.160 most of my life but when i went knightsbridge i'm not gonna i learned the power of being big all these
00:03:41.920 people from uae they'd be beeping the car so they'd be saying hello there's numbers on this at least for
00:03:48.160 women i i don't research it as much for men but like i research it more for women like men that
00:03:52.880 don't make as much money tend to date bigger but like it's really yeah because they get free food
00:03:59.360 probably and they get hugs and cuddles because i get like i mean what what guy with money power and
00:04:06.080 status married a big girl someone who has a preference yeah but nobody but i'm saying i'm saying nobody the
00:04:13.280 guys that have all the options nobody does it just like a beautiful woman is never gonna pick a
00:04:17.680 broke man in the same way the most the top the top 10 15 no no it's not agree it's like if we look
00:04:23.920 at the men that have everything the most desired men in society they don't typically pick big girls
00:04:29.040 the same way the most desired women in society don't typically pick broke men yeah just like i've
00:04:35.040 actually got my own pam pam disagrees i want to hear what because it's it falls down to to your
00:04:40.480 preference what you actually like so if you know yourself and you know what you like whether that person
00:04:46.480 is money or not it wouldn't even matter yeah just like it from from women to men or men what are
00:04:51.200 you talking from women's like from my from women to men to men so if you don't have any money or you
00:04:56.480 need a bit of help but i like you anyway i'm gonna like you for who you are yeah first i've got a theory
00:05:01.440 by the way guys can i share my theory data it just doesn't like it's really nice when we could say this
00:05:06.400 and maybe that applies to you but at large it just doesn't like women when women get a promotion at work
00:05:11.360 they're more likely to divorce their husband when i'm out earn their man that's really why i think
00:05:16.000 that people are crazy i think the world has gone mad my theory is okay people who have come up to me
00:05:23.120 like a lot of people have come up to me and i don't know why once i asked one of them how long were you
00:05:29.120 breastfed for four and they replied saying oh a bit older and i realized everyone that likes big people
00:05:37.920 yeah they've been breastfed for long and or their mom or they are they had a big auntie or a big mom
00:05:44.960 so and they used to like that sort of feeling so as an older adult that's what they seek and that's
00:05:51.120 the truth and it's unfortunately it's a cycle i don't know if it's also unfortunate but it is a cycle
00:05:56.080 only fat fat fat people raise fat children because they pass you you pass your ways on you know but
00:06:01.760 sometimes the parents that's why rich people typically their children are also rich because
00:06:07.200 they pass on the knowledge of being but sometimes i know families i know families where the parents are
00:06:13.120 like twigs and the kids are like monsters i literally and i don't mean that in a bad way but
00:06:18.720 compared to the parents this whole physical this is an open invite look at anybody that thinks they
00:06:26.640 cannot lose weight for whatever reason it's impossible look at i'll pay for it come come to
00:06:31.680 london and eat the client come on down you need to be careful what you say because there might be a
00:06:38.480 lot of big people that start messaging you let's start messaging okay okay first first two first two
00:06:49.760 can i say something there yeah um i just wanted to um touch on the point of food the reality is it
00:06:58.160 doesn't really matter what you eat processed foods healthy foods the reality is the science is clear
00:07:05.200 if you eat more calories than your body can can convert to energy you're gonna get fat yeah
00:07:10.560 does that's irrefutable that's not i don't believe i'll tell you i i mean it look it looks like he
00:07:15.600 doesn't believe that though it's true i'll give you my anecdotal experience agreed for the most part of
00:07:20.400 my life i have i have been eating unhealthy like i don't eat healthy the only times i really ate healthy
00:07:25.920 was when i was young but for most of my adult years i don't have time to cook i don't have time to do
00:07:31.280 all of that but i eat once a day and i exercise so it's the science is clear i don't know if anyone
00:07:38.400 here is repeating the science does anyone here disagree that the more calories you consume and
00:07:42.240 you don't exercise yeah we all agree on that at least i think sugar pop said he disagreed okay
00:07:51.040 you can't put calories on a leaf you can't put calories on spinach you can't do that you see
00:07:56.480 you just eat it it goes from the ground that's when i think with all this calorie counting and
00:08:01.760 stuff like that how do you actually calorie count a carrot because each carrot is different or each
00:08:09.760 also did you know calories did you know you know you weigh the food you know food calories when they
00:08:15.680 say on the label like whatever calories it is did you know each person consumed in their body when they
00:08:22.240 consume food the calories change and it's different for each person it then boils down to your metabolism
00:08:27.360 yeah but you can do a metabolism tag like my whole point is this is all we can all fit like this is
00:08:32.880 something that can be fixed it can be changed and that's the great thing about like women most of
00:08:38.320 the things that men want can be fixed like men want fit feminine friendly women those are all things
00:08:44.240 that can be fixed we're faithful