JustPearlyThings - June 23, 2023


Harsh TRUTH When Accepted CHANGES Life


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

204.9267

Word count

1,808

Sentence count

3

Harmful content

Misogyny

4

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Hate speech

1

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about the power of harsh truths and how they can make you change your life. We talk about how we can use harsh truths to help us make life changes and how to deal with harsh truths in our everyday life.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 i think harsh truths that time can make you make life changes yeah like like i i was i was pretty
00:00:05.920 heavy at one point and what made me like 200 club yeah what was your weight um what was the highest
00:00:12.320 that you've got like like 210 maybe 215. that would be a dream for me what pounds pounds i don't know
00:00:20.400 what that is like 90 92 93 kilos i saw a picture of myself no that was personally well i'll tell
00:00:26.960 me too natalie that happened to me i'll tell you i'll show you the picture
00:00:33.120 so i played i played volleyball my whole life so i was training like five hours a day from the time i
00:00:38.480 was like i don't know 10 years old so i was just an athlete and when i stopped playing my eating
00:00:43.520 habits were horrible like absolutely horrible so i gained weight like really really fast because i
00:00:48.640 just couldn't burn off all the calories i was burning before and i was working a sales job and there was
00:00:53.040 a guy i had a crush on at work i had the biggest crush on this guy's and i heard i heard him laughing
00:00:58.720 with um the other guys at work saying oh like the the one guy was like oh i'm like 190 or something
00:01:05.680 and he's like you can't be that big that's so that's so heavy i would never like and then they were
00:01:10.000 talking about girls and they're like i would never date a girl over 200 and i was like they didn't think
00:01:14.880 i was that big because i'm tall so i carry it a bit better yeah but really but that but that harsh truth
00:01:20.000 like i lost a bunch of weight after that and i and i've kept it off ever since yeah so you know
00:01:25.280 sometimes you need that kick don't you just to make you realize yeah and like you know it might
00:01:29.520 have been harsh at first but it was true if we're talking about self-esteem doesn't you mentioned
00:01:33.760 being weak-minded earlier hearing your crush or people that you might fancy and and realizing that
00:01:39.280 your type doesn't like you back does that not make you weak-minded then if self-esteem is really in
00:01:44.320 self and you're hearing people you find desirable talk about you in an undesirable way and you're
00:01:49.680 saying that made you change even though the change was for the positive let's say does that not make
00:01:54.560 you weak of mind because no i think it makes me strong because i made me do something strong i ran
00:01:59.360 a marathon because i was like you know if those are the type of guys i want to date this is what they
00:02:03.680 want and the difference is women have never heard what men want but men always change to try to get us
00:02:08.960 like they try to make more money they try to get better shade they take steroids they learn how to
00:02:16.640 talk to women and it's like we have never heard what men want like ever because the media is constantly
00:02:23.600 telling us what we want to hear so no i i don't think it makes me a weak person i think i could have
00:02:29.200 it would have been weak to go and cry but i went and did something about it yeah but taking on someone's
00:02:34.000 opinion and letting that influence your lifestyle and your actions is not weak i i don't think it's
00:02:40.240 a bad thing to be maybe it's not an opinion i mean i mean it's a fact yeah i think i think because then
00:02:45.840 you you kind of fall into the school of thoughts like you know because like if you're getting fired
00:02:50.160 from job after job after job you're like well these people have a poor opinion of me like but that's
00:02:56.080 what's can i just say something that's what's that's what's wrong with the world people care too
00:03:00.960 much yeah yeah and and and i think people don't care enough i think people don't care enough like
00:03:05.840 you said earlier but i think you i think we should care about outcomes especially as women because
00:03:10.800 it's like yeah if we don't in our 20s and like early 30s get our together like we don't get to have
00:03:16.160 children but power and so it's like like one obesity affects effects if you get to have kids and two it
00:03:21.600 affects the type of husband you you get because geriatric pregnancy starts at 35. don't ever assume
00:03:28.240 big people can't they're honestly big people likely to come as a big guy i'm not even gonna i felt ugly
00:03:34.160 most of my life but when i went knightsbridge i'm not gonna i learned the power of being big all these
00:03:41.920 people from uae they'd be beeping the car so they'd be saying hello there's numbers on this at least for
00:03:48.160 women i i don't research it as much for men but like i research it more for women like men that
00:03:52.880 don't make as much money tend to date bigger but like it's really yeah because they get free food
00:03:59.360 probably and they get hugs and cuddles because i get like i mean what what guy with money power and
00:04:06.080 status married a big girl someone who has a preference yeah but nobody but i'm saying i'm saying nobody the
00:04:13.280 guys that have all the options nobody does it just like a beautiful woman is never gonna pick a 1.00
00:04:17.680 broke man in the same way the most the top the top 10 15 no no it's not agree it's like if we look
00:04:23.920 at the men that have everything the most desired men in society they don't typically pick big girls 0.80
00:04:29.040 the same way the most desired women in society don't typically pick broke men yeah just like i've
00:04:35.040 actually got my own pam pam disagrees i want to hear what because it's it falls down to to your
00:04:40.480 preference what you actually like so if you know yourself and you know what you like whether that person
00:04:46.480 is money or not it wouldn't even matter yeah just like it from from women to men or men what are
00:04:51.200 you talking from women's like from my from women to men to men so if you don't have any money or you
00:04:56.480 need a bit of help but i like you anyway i'm gonna like you for who you are yeah first i've got a theory
00:05:01.440 by the way guys can i share my theory data it just doesn't like it's really nice when we could say this
00:05:06.400 and maybe that applies to you but at large it just doesn't like women when women get a promotion at work 1.00
00:05:11.360 they're more likely to divorce their husband when i'm out earn their man that's really why i think
00:05:16.000 that people are crazy i think the world has gone mad my theory is okay people who have come up to me
00:05:23.120 like a lot of people have come up to me and i don't know why once i asked one of them how long were you
00:05:29.120 breastfed for four and they replied saying oh a bit older and i realized everyone that likes big people
00:05:37.920 yeah they've been breastfed for long and or their mom or they are they had a big auntie or a big mom
00:05:44.960 so and they used to like that sort of feeling so as an older adult that's what they seek and that's
00:05:51.120 the truth and it's unfortunately it's a cycle i don't know if it's also unfortunate but it is a cycle
00:05:56.080 only fat fat fat people raise fat children because they pass you you pass your ways on you know but
00:06:01.760 sometimes the parents that's why rich people typically their children are also rich because
00:06:07.200 they pass on the knowledge of being but sometimes i know families i know families where the parents are
00:06:13.120 like twigs and the kids are like monsters i literally and i don't mean that in a bad way but
00:06:18.720 compared to the parents this whole physical this is an open invite look at anybody that thinks they
00:06:26.640 cannot lose weight for whatever reason it's impossible look at i'll pay for it come come to
00:06:31.680 london and eat the client come on down you need to be careful what you say because there might be a
00:06:38.480 lot of big people that start messaging you let's start messaging okay okay first first two first two
00:06:49.760 can i say something there yeah um i just wanted to um touch on the point of food the reality is it
00:06:58.160 doesn't really matter what you eat processed foods healthy foods the reality is the science is clear
00:07:05.200 if you eat more calories than your body can can convert to energy you're gonna get fat yeah
00:07:10.560 does that's irrefutable that's not i don't believe i'll tell you i i mean it look it looks like he
00:07:15.600 doesn't believe that though it's true i'll give you my anecdotal experience agreed for the most part of
00:07:20.400 my life i have i have been eating unhealthy like i don't eat healthy the only times i really ate healthy
00:07:25.920 was when i was young but for most of my adult years i don't have time to cook i don't have time to do
00:07:31.280 all of that but i eat once a day and i exercise so it's the science is clear i don't know if anyone
00:07:38.400 here is repeating the science does anyone here disagree that the more calories you consume and
00:07:42.240 you don't exercise yeah we all agree on that at least i think sugar pop said he disagreed okay
00:07:51.040 you can't put calories on a leaf you can't put calories on spinach you can't do that you see
00:07:56.480 you just eat it it goes from the ground that's when i think with all this calorie counting and
00:08:01.760 stuff like that how do you actually calorie count a carrot because each carrot is different or each
00:08:09.760 also did you know calories did you know you know you weigh the food you know food calories when they
00:08:15.680 say on the label like whatever calories it is did you know each person consumed in their body when they
00:08:22.240 consume food the calories change and it's different for each person it then boils down to your metabolism
00:08:27.360 yeah but you can do a metabolism tag like my whole point is this is all we can all fit like this is
00:08:32.880 something that can be fixed it can be changed and that's the great thing about like women most of 1.00
00:08:38.320 the things that men want can be fixed like men want fit feminine friendly women those are all things
00:08:44.240 that can be fixed we're faithful