JustPearlyThings - He Got SCHOOLED For Saing THIS

00:00:00.000 thing there let's reverse this reverses let's go on instagram yeah right are you a cheater if

00:00:15.020 you've got an instagram profile i think girls are in a relationship yeah people aren't paying 1.00

00:00:20.060 for instagram to have a wank over you no i don't think i know they get it for free

00:00:25.020 but i mean if i'm in a relationship with a girl and she's like i'm going on onlyfans i know what

00:00:31.440 people are going to pay for so i'm going to and if i've proposed to her and we're going to get married 0.94

00:00:35.320 i don't care if you're working with other people people are going to be wanking off to you that's

00:00:39.140 going to bother me so yeah but we had a conversation if i did it behind her back on a lowkey yeah and i

00:00:45.000 was like right i'm going to change my alias they're going to use a different social media account so

00:00:47.900 she doesn't find out then i'm a cheater i'm a real man because i sat down i said babe this is what i

00:00:52.320 want to do and this is how i want to incorporate you into my future my five-year plan and had she

00:00:56.460 stayed she would have benefited from the millions that i've made 100 facts he was honest with her

00:01:00.900 honestly there is nothing glamorous about cheating i do respect that i'm telling you respect that

00:01:06.140 and this is from an ex-serial cheater my exes will tell you in the comment section

00:01:09.640 i rate the fact that you're honest though i rate that you have to be yeah yeah i've seen do you know

00:01:17.640 what final thing sorry i'm taking the mic here if i hadn't seen my sister break down i thought i was

00:01:23.500 going to lose her like she was suicidal if god works in mysterious ways that's why i said karma is

00:01:27.900 a bitch when i saw that my own two eyes i said i'll never do this to another girl right never so if i 1.00

00:01:33.420 want to keep sleeping with tom oh no tom jesus it's all coming out then i would do that but the day i 0.99

00:01:45.920 commit to a girl that's it i'm staying and the day i don't want to i have an open conversation babe

00:01:50.280 you're not for me anymore and i go do you ever think a girl's going to take you serious with 0.97

00:01:54.380 you doing the content that you do guess what i don't care i don't care my mom is retired and i've

00:02:00.660 got a lot of money on my bank account women are everything about that obviously it's a situation 1.00

00:02:04.240 where obviously we come to a stage in life where we all want to settle down and just have that

00:02:07.760 perfect feeling well a lot of people do you want to be a lot of people and be alone

00:02:11.400 would i be alone i have two wonderful nieces that i provide for when i pay for private school 0.76

00:02:15.640 i have my sister who loves me no no i understand unconditionally i understand that family's

00:02:19.980 different but obviously some people want like a not me have you come to terms with with the fact

00:02:24.680 that you your career yeah may land you alone later on in life not in a couple it's just a general

00:02:31.400 question okay i'll tell you right the two years that i deprived myself from any social interaction

00:02:39.080 were the two years i was able to retire my mom and make more money in 24 months than i made in

00:02:43.240 30 years socializing with women my priorities as a human being here it's to provide for my family

00:02:49.800 that's it you're not sure if god should afford me the luxury of having a woman in future then

00:02:54.360 great but if i don't have it who cares no no but i say are you but but in later on in life

00:02:59.960 do i look like i'm going to struggle for women be honest i used to be that guy obviously no not

00:03:07.640 bringing no depression to the show but my mom recently passed but what i've done is um make

00:03:12.360 sure i've sorted a house for her make sure i've done all this stuff for her but obviously the

00:03:15.880 affection that she can give me is not always the affection that a female genuine female can give 0.99

00:03:20.680 yeah but the right woman will come along so at the right time yeah that's me so you can have your 0.70

00:03:25.080 nieces and all this stuff and be like with the actual genuine female you want to actually feel 0.98

00:03:30.840 that affection no it's not that you're going to struggle but obviously no you're you're a decent

00:03:34.680 looking guy bro do you know what i mean so it's a thing where that i know girls are gonna attract to 1.00

00:03:40.680 you but when they see things online yeah and if they're so enough if they're ignorant enough to base 0.98

00:03:45.160 me upon my past yeah yeah and how i made my money then that's a reflection of your ignorance and you 0.81

00:03:51.080 don't deserve to be in my presence are you saying you would stop it for the right girl a hundred 0.94

00:03:54.840 billion percent well then i think that's a hundred billion bro yeah that doesn't really so you think

00:04:01.240 it's a reflection of them if they judge you for being an only fan yes but no wait wait no no no no

00:04:09.400 because to me it's like your morals and your values and like what you put out into the world

00:04:13.400 you know what i mean like it's not to me it's not a positive thing okay cool that's to you right

00:04:17.640 okay can we all agree on the fact that if you were born in a single parent family your mom was

00:04:23.000 raised in a council estate and you used to work in tesco and you retired her is that an admirable

00:04:26.520 thing forget how you got the money is that an admirable thing yes or no listen i graduated from

00:04:31.720 king's college university with a 2-1 right it's a it's a russell group university to get there you need

00:04:37.400 straight a's right i'm academically savvy i'm a good brother i'm an awesome son i'm a great uncle

00:04:45.240 i'm a wonderful multi-faceted human being if someone is ignorant enough to judge me in all

00:04:51.000 my existence based on something as insignificant as how i make my money then that's a reflection

00:04:56.040 of you living in the dinosaur era because it shows that you can be bought and that's the thing it's

00:05:01.080 like when you have morals principles and values like there's some things you can't be paid to do and

00:05:04.680 it's not no offense i'm not trying to be rude but it's just like but i don't i don't think you

00:05:08.520 could say wait wait wait so i i'm saying like i don't think you can say oh i can make any decision

00:05:13.560 i want and and and anyone that judges judges me it's on them like that doesn't make sense

00:05:18.520 no trust me you see like it doesn't matter how good you are as a person bruv if your missus knows you're

00:05:22.840 out there clapping cheeks for three pound 49 bro come on bro it's true like you're my point bro

00:05:29.160 no no that's but but i'm just saying bro most women can't handle that there's multiple 1.00

00:05:33.320 women that can't handle that that's not a reflection of another female of because 1.00

00:05:38.520 you know i know many people that were in your same situation and and they went on but they just

00:05:42.360 didn't take like to me that's kind of a cheat code it's like a shortcut like i you know my dad he was

00:05:47.240 on the south side of chicago he's one of 13 kids on a fireman's salary it wasn't like he grew up rich

00:05:52.520 and he ended up employing 200 people in like a company you know and so it's like some people are in

00:05:57.560 your exact situation they don't take the easy way out my only problem with that is is is the phrase the

00:06:02.600 easy way and trust me every content creator is going to come to my defense here i used to be

00:06:06.760 and you can google check me an english teacher fully qualified went to university gtp the whole lot

00:06:12.040 then i was a managing director in the city so i can tell you i've done the social norms and running

00:06:18.440 a successful only fans account is 10 listen to 10 times harder than being a fully qualified english

00:06:27.720 teacher so when i say so when i no no that's not what you're saying so when i hear phrases like

00:06:31.320 you took the easy way out relax it's not an easy way okay but it's easier than okay so it's easier 0.54

00:06:36.760 than selling selling sex is easier than not selling sex sex is the easiest sell if i if i wanted to

00:06:45.640 make more money i could take off my clothes tomorrow and i would make more money question and i know it's

00:06:50.680 harder for a guy so it's not necessarily the same guy versus girl but i'm assuming you have women in your

00:06:55.160 content right okay sex sells yeah question do you think everyone can jump on only fans and make

00:07:00.040 millions if it's that easy if it's the easy way no no i'm not saying that every single person can make

00:07:05.080 a ton of money i'm saying it's easier than not doing it because if if there was an easier for way

00:07:10.440 if there was an easier way for you to make millions you would have did it but when you say easy don't

00:07:15.000 you think it's difficult having to deal with like people's perceptions of you family judgment social

00:07:19.400 i mean i think isn't that difficult that's the trade-off for easy money but it's not easy if it

00:07:24.680 comes with all those complications is it it's it's like selling drugs easy it's easier than the other

00:07:30.440 option because otherwise you wouldn't have did it no problem we can agree to disagree on this point

00:07:33.800 we don't have to be in union and everything we say you have your point i have mine i disagree on

00:07:38.600 on that front that's it simple um who else has been cheated on wait what we disagree on we've got

00:07:47.400 stories i don't even know no actually i thought we agreed to be honest yeah um who else has been

00:07:53.240 cheated on i have i have i have cheated on when i was little man um for me personally um

00:07:59.960 um when it first happened oh can you hear me oh okay um when it first happened um i was in my teens

00:08:11.880 um it kind of hurt but then i kind of got over it and now i didn't get under another man before

00:08:19.400 people come for me like you got any of another man no it did hurt i kind of just stayed off the market

00:08:25.640 for a bit um kind of healed from what i went through because when you're talking about cheating

00:08:33.640 cheating is in different ways and different forms and like i said when you're in a relationship with

00:08:40.040 somebody and that person is selling you a dream and they're telling you oh you're this you're that and

00:08:49.400 but then it turns out no really i wasn't what you wanted i wasn't what you claimed that i was

00:08:56.440 just go just it's better you tell me look babe i love you yeah but i'm gonna have to love you from

00:09:02.040 a distance cool i'm i'm i'm fine with that do you but when you go out of your way to specifically hurt

00:09:09.800 that individual knowing full well that i'm not doing that to you like i'm not getting numbers on the on

00:09:17.160 on the sly you you know my phone's open go through my phone i have nothing to hide because i'm not doing

00:09:22.440 anything inappropriate and the fact that most people that i've actually sat down and asked i'm

00:09:27.800 like well why would you like what why cheat well it's because but you understand that men and women

00:09:33.880 are different no no i get that no no i totally get that i know i understand well two well no because

00:09:40.040 because right now you're saying like why would you do that you're trying to hurt me but they're not

00:09:43.080 trying to hurt you no well it's just how they're wired no i don't think it's how they're wired

00:09:51.160 the majority of the guys here are going to tell you it's how they're like if you ask the majority

00:09:56.840 i understand that but when you actually sit down and have a conversation with somebody that knows

00:10:02.920 themselves knows what they're about mentally strong they've come out of their little boy moments

00:10:09.880 moments because a lot of men still have it whether you're 50 40 30 i've seen it i've i've got stories

00:10:16.600 for days um but like i said if that's what you want to do do that but why get into a relationship

00:10:23.400 and this is where i don't agree with it whether it's a male or a female if you know you cannot be

00:10:29.960 loyal to one individual do not be in a relationship you can be single and you could be free to mingle all

00:10:37.880 day long nobody can't come and say nothing to you so what if you want that woman that's that's the 1.00

00:10:44.760 woman you want yeah but you still just like to have the variety honestly i think women we need to get 1.00

00:10:52.040 off our high horse we're supposed to be virgins on our wedding day what percent of women are virgins 1.00

00:10:57.480 on our wedding day no because i'm serious you're supposed to bring purity and youth to a marriage

00:11:03.080 right that's that's the exchange they're supposed to give you resources and and monogamy because 1.00

00:11:07.400 they're they're not doing their mating strategy basically which is screw as many people as

00:11:11.640 possible we could keep you know being like part of the harem right like with a high value guy but 0.95

00:11:16.280 we say no we're not going to do that we're going to give you purity and youth we're not holding up our

00:11:19.800 end of the bargain today i want to give the other side of it is that okay um because i'm not proud of

00:11:27.560 this but like you know uh i want to be honest here and like you know my man's given me a bit of

00:11:32.920 honesty

00:11:36.440 so this is the thing it's like in my previous experience when i was at my my worst in terms of

00:11:43.000 like uh using women and stuff like that when you know i was i was in my high value man and i'll do what

00:11:49.960 i want phase as they say uh basically if a girl i'd asked to come and meet me that night said she was 1.00

00:11:56.040 busy i'll be like cool one of the other 10 will say yes then and like that was none of her knowledge

00:12:02.200 or whatever at the time but she just wasn't there and my selfishness and my childishness was just like

00:12:08.360 cool i'll just go through the list the first one to say yes it's your lucky day let's let's go

00:12:12.920 and uh and in my head i'm like if you're not dedicated enough to me to be here then you can't

00:12:18.440 have any complaints that's the way i was feeling at the time and i think a lot of men go through that

00:12:22.680 when you're not living together and in heavy serious but it's it's dating and i was just like

00:12:27.640 okay the first one to say yes that's it then so question for you quickly have you been on the

00:12:33.320 receiving end of being treated yeah yeah it was awkward that one yeah there you go yeah how'd you

00:12:39.160 find out so karma is real i was i was 19 and i remember looking through her text message saying

00:12:45.640 another guy who was like uh uh uh like i knew through a friend as well and he and a funny old

00:12:51.800 thing is like uh we bumped into each other at a bar about a year later because he he found out the

00:12:58.040 hard way uh whose girlfriend or who whose girlfriend uh i thought it was anyway uh and he basically came

00:13:05.080 up to me and went by the way if i'd known it was you i would never have fucking gone near her but we we 0.99

00:13:09.400 ended up having a pint and laughing about it because like we just knew what she was like and and that was 0.99

00:13:14.520 the thing is i i said to him like imagine she could see us laughing about like what a skank she is 0.99

00:13:19.400 what was that pain like when you when you when you went through the phone oh when i was i was 19

00:13:23.320 i it hit me right it was like you being faithful at the time i was getting the bus home you know

00:13:29.000 what i mean i was struggling at the time but was you faithful at that time i was i was more than

00:13:33.080 faithful i was like you know when you're like in like you're like she's the best thing i've ever

00:13:37.000 thing you know what i mean did that change you yeah it's traumatized she was the prettiest girl 0.98

00:13:41.640 and i was like and fuck women yeah yeah but obviously like you get over it but that was that 0.89

00:13:46.920 was 19 did it put you in a space for a moment where you felt a certain type of way how long or did 0.99

00:13:56.280 you are you know the thing that got me to wake up and not uh ever again was seeing uh the pain it

00:14:02.360 caused when i did do that and it made me go uh yeah i'm i can't do this again to someone like

00:14:09.000 i really that was exactly what that was it was similar to him like it was that awakening of like

00:14:13.560 oh i've really fucking hurt someone here and i never want to do that again and like i never have thank 0.95

00:14:18.840 god but um but in that in that moment um yeah i was very selfish okay okay can we ask you a question 0.77

00:14:28.200 oh no as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis

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JustPearlyThings - July 01, 2023

He Got SCHOOLED For Saing THIS

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