He Got TRIGGERED When She Said THIS
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to relationships and what it means to be a woman in today's society. We discuss the importance of having male and female friends, how to balance the two, and how to be the best friend to your partner.
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best friend with someone you have to tell them everything you won't say you know everything and
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that's the new like age like you should be best friends with your partner but in the old days
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your husband was at war you'd be home with the kids and then he would go out with his boy like
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i think men need male friends to hang out with i don't think we're meant to be their best okay okay
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and this is coming from someone you know i was a bit of a tomboy but it's like you know i just
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don't think men want to talk to you in the way they talk to other men we don't that makes sense
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they don't but men need male time and females need female time yeah and i don't really want to like
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talk to my my husband or my boyfriend about the same things i'm talking about in girls night like
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it's just it'll be awkward it doesn't work it doesn't you know okay okay i'm like i can't believe
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what becky diane and deborah did and then he's like i don't care
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it kind of work we're at least we're at least with the girls they're interested yeah but then
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he's not your best friend because he doesn't have the same level of interest into the things that you
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do but there is a man that would be interested in what becky did i don't want the guy that's
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interested in women things like that's a feminine man i know i mean i i i pluck my eyebrows does that
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make me feminine um i cry you know i get a haircut twice a week i'm gonna i'm gonna answer um yeah you
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know i do think you have a little bit of a feminine energy like just talking to you
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you know okay i i do i do get a little bit that's fine and i think like if you're crying all the time
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i do think you're more feminine than a guy that doesn't cry all the time trust me but why is it
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not okay for men to cry that's because women don't respect it women think you're a punk when you cry
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did i say it was not okay i mean you can do it but i think like as women we want a strong leader
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and like what we call our husband like our rock that we want we want to lean on right we don't
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want a guy that's crying all the time is is the president of the country like is trump when he
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was in office crying on stage you know you don't want that but equally a lot of women need to realize
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that you're not like the president too you're the first lady i'm president do you know what i mean and
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that like his analogies go that works quite well i think there's like we need to be different and that's
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actually a complement to each other and we need to work together in that way and i feel like as much
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as i hear what he's saying like being close is a great thing but we are different and we need to
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like come together in a different way so you kind of need to balance each other yeah yeah
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she's going to fill in my flows and i'm going to fill in like yeah i think my best friend i think we
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read too deeply into it i meant someone that you trust you love someone who you you are happy to be
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in their presence and you know it doesn't feel like a chore i understand what you mean but of course
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we're not going to sit down and play xbox one and people at 2024 so i get it that's what no
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wouldn't expect i would as well i was a bit of a tomboy i was a break dancer there's nothing worse
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than a girl trying to play playstation watch the girls being better than you guys you're taking
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away from my excellence right now okay i'm great at this girls you might be um say if you girls yeah
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are your partner's best friend yeah is it okay for your partner to have other lady friends
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is it okay for us to have more no it's rude to answer a question with a question
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before i would have said yes but i watched a uh what's that harvey
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weinstein no it was a guy i watched recently oh yeah yeah steve harvey yeah steve harvey and
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he was just saying something like um when male and females are friends it's because the woman
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hasn't allowed him in yet yeah i saw that video she had the slightest chance that he could go through
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that gap he would yeah and for me i was just like hmm that's very interesting do you girls agree with
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that or disagree yeah i agree 100 do you girls have male friends then i i do have i have male friends
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i have male friends and they know where they stand but they still they may know where they stand but
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they they believe you know if you wrote if you if you said to them you gave them the green light
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they know what you want the green light so question if my partner wasn't happy with me
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having male friends i would happily you know cut them off would you all of you would you cut all the
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male friends off for the man um no it depends because i mean you're if you're telling me to cut off
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my friends but then but then you're still being able to have your female friends then no but if it's
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something that we're both willing to do we're both yes if we're both willing to do it i don't see a
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problem with that but if it's a case of yeah you're my woman uh you can't talk to this person
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no i personally don't believe there's nothing so there's no such thing as a male best friend
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towards a female because i feel like every every guy would know what he wants and if he did put it
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on the plate and say i know if you a female did put on the plate for that guy and say like you know
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what i'm fed up on my guy like he's been peeing me off a bit like he's come around and show his
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intentions when i was when i was 18 one of my first girlfriends she convinced me it's not like
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that and you know when you're young and impressionable you're willing to like let
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things go because you really love her and all of that and then the minute we broke up he was
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he was dying everything i was like i'm never gonna allow this again ever it's the way it works i mean i
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was at a club last night yeah and i spoke to um this guy that used to be friends with one of my ex
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girlfriends and even he said to me he was like you know when you used to go out with daniel i used
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to love her off you know you know i'm like oh word yeah he's like yeah man i used to proper love her
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off and i'm like this is this is exactly what i mean we can't really trust ourselves what if it
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does not attractive though if the girl's not attractive yeah what do you mean that's a good
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she could have a male friend yeah but and he might not be the same level of service do you you know
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i mean you see like all the pretty girls they're like oh yeah my male best friend he'll pick me up
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any time of the night and all of this kind of stuff you're gonna get certain um privileges
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from being that that good looking friend yeah you know what i mean whereas if if i mean i've got
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what if it's a gay friend yeah if it's a gay best friend yeah that one's cool yeah so you're cool with
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him seeing her butt naked slapping yeah i've done it pretend that was gay just because he wanted to
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go on her pants yeah and this ah this is what i was going to say so you can't even trust me before
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but you see um that women cheat more yeah but see the men the men are more willing to be more conducive
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to the cheating so what's that mean so what it means is i will i will be more in a way to conduct
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myself for you not to get caught out and for our situation to keep evolving right so if i'm going
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to be a side negro yeah what i would tend to do would be to save my number as something else in a
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girl's phone book if a man rings up my phone i'm not going to blow up her spot i'm going to say oh no
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no bro i'm i'm her cousin or like whatever it might well be i'm gonna but girls girls don't
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really give a you see once the jig is up yeah but yeah i told your girlfriend yeah you know what i
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mean i told your girlfriend about us at all but men are more conducive we'll try and hold it down i've
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seen two girls go home in a taxi together wasn't wasn't a good situation you know what i mean so we
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we are generally more conducive to you guys not being caught and if we're if we're the side pieces we tend
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to play that role better i believe whereas women they don't really give too much of a
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they they don't mind if men get caught when it comes to the cheating side of things that's what
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i think you know when when men do it men i think it's got a lot to do with a man's confidence as
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well when i was broke and i didn't look the way i did i'll be honest i was insecure i didn't want
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my ex-girlfriends lingering around other guys because i knew they were better than me but i've got
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to a position in my life by working on myself for two years without having a girlfriend where i'm
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i know mate i'm not god's gift bro just look at my height no no you i know i'm enough i know i'm
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a god's gift thank you so much i'll give you that 10 pound
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so at the end of the day i do know what i offer and um go ahead have as many male friends as you
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know that's true bro but we do have to we still have them in security i know what i offer but it's
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