JustPearlyThings - He Got TRIGGERED When She Said THIS

00:00:00.000 best friend with someone you have to tell them everything you won't say you know everything and

00:00:04.000 that's the new like age like you should be best friends with your partner but in the old days

00:00:08.960 your husband was at war you'd be home with the kids and then he would go out with his boy like

00:00:14.160 i think men need male friends to hang out with i don't think we're meant to be their best okay okay

00:00:20.000 and this is coming from someone you know i was a bit of a tomboy but it's like you know i just

00:00:25.600 don't think men want to talk to you in the way they talk to other men we don't that makes sense

00:00:30.160 they don't but men need male time and females need female time yeah and i don't really want to like 0.87

00:00:36.560 talk to my my husband or my boyfriend about the same things i'm talking about in girls night like

00:00:42.640 it's just it'll be awkward it doesn't work it doesn't you know okay okay i'm like i can't believe

00:00:49.040 what becky diane and deborah did and then he's like i don't care

00:00:55.600 it kind of work we're at least we're at least with the girls they're interested yeah but then 1.00

00:01:00.320 he's not your best friend because he doesn't have the same level of interest into the things that you

00:01:03.200 do but there is a man that would be interested in what becky did i don't want the guy that's 0.99

00:01:07.680 interested in women things like that's a feminine man i know i mean i i i pluck my eyebrows does that 0.98

00:01:13.280 make me feminine um i cry you know i get a haircut twice a week i'm gonna i'm gonna answer um yeah you

00:01:20.560 know i do think you have a little bit of a feminine energy like just talking to you 0.98

00:01:24.240 you know okay i i do i do get a little bit that's fine and i think like if you're crying all the time

00:01:30.160 i do think you're more feminine than a guy that doesn't cry all the time trust me but why is it

00:01:34.640 not okay for men to cry that's because women don't respect it women think you're a punk when you cry 1.00

00:01:39.600 did i say it was not okay i mean you can do it but i think like as women we want a strong leader

00:01:45.200 and like what we call our husband like our rock that we want we want to lean on right we don't

00:01:49.760 want a guy that's crying all the time is is the president of the country like is trump when he

00:01:55.760 was in office crying on stage you know you don't want that but equally a lot of women need to realize 1.00

00:02:00.640 that you're not like the president too you're the first lady i'm president do you know what i mean and

00:02:06.000 that like his analogies go that works quite well i think there's like we need to be different and that's

00:02:10.800 actually a complement to each other and we need to work together in that way and i feel like as much

00:02:15.040 as i hear what he's saying like being close is a great thing but we are different and we need to

00:02:20.880 like come together in a different way so you kind of need to balance each other yeah yeah

00:02:24.560 she's going to fill in my flows and i'm going to fill in like yeah i think my best friend i think we

00:02:30.160 read too deeply into it i meant someone that you trust you love someone who you you are happy to be

00:02:34.480 in their presence and you know it doesn't feel like a chore i understand what you mean but of course

00:02:38.480 we're not going to sit down and play xbox one and people at 2024 so i get it that's what no

00:02:43.440 wouldn't expect i would as well i was a bit of a tomboy i was a break dancer there's nothing worse

00:02:48.480 than a girl trying to play playstation watch the girls being better than you guys you're taking

00:02:54.000 away from my excellence right now okay i'm great at this girls you might be um say if you girls yeah

00:03:00.480 are your partner's best friend yeah is it okay for your partner to have other lady friends 0.98

00:03:06.080 is it okay for us to have more no it's rude to answer a question with a question

00:03:14.800 i would it's difficult it's difficult one um

00:03:24.640 before i would have said yes but i watched a uh what's that harvey

00:03:30.160 weinstein no it was a guy i watched recently oh yeah yeah steve harvey yeah steve harvey and

00:03:37.040 he was just saying something like um when male and females are friends it's because the woman 0.91

00:03:42.160 hasn't allowed him in yet yeah i saw that video she had the slightest chance that he could go through

00:03:48.320 that gap he would yeah and for me i was just like hmm that's very interesting do you girls agree with

00:03:53.840 that or disagree yeah i agree 100 do you girls have male friends then i i do have i have male friends

00:04:02.080 i have male friends and they know where they stand but they still they may know where they stand but

00:04:07.760 they they believe you know if you wrote if you if you said to them you gave them the green light

00:04:11.360 they know what you want the green light so question if my partner wasn't happy with me 0.90

00:04:16.080 having male friends i would happily you know cut them off would you all of you would you cut all the

00:04:20.960 male friends off for the man um no it depends because i mean you're if you're telling me to cut off

00:04:27.200 my friends but then but then you're still being able to have your female friends then no but if it's 0.98

00:04:35.600 something that we're both willing to do we're both yes if we're both willing to do it i don't see a

00:04:40.480 problem with that but if it's a case of yeah you're my woman uh you can't talk to this person 0.99

00:04:46.160 no i personally don't believe there's nothing so there's no such thing as a male best friend

00:04:52.320 towards a female because i feel like every every guy would know what he wants and if he did put it

00:04:57.360 on the plate and say i know if you a female did put on the plate for that guy and say like you know 1.00

00:05:01.680 what i'm fed up on my guy like he's been peeing me off a bit like he's come around and show his

00:05:06.320 intentions when i was when i was 18 one of my first girlfriends she convinced me it's not like

00:05:13.760 that and you know when you're young and impressionable you're willing to like let

00:05:16.480 things go because you really love her and all of that and then the minute we broke up he was

00:05:21.840 he was dying everything i was like i'm never gonna allow this again ever it's the way it works i mean i

00:05:28.000 was at a club last night yeah and i spoke to um this guy that used to be friends with one of my ex

00:05:33.200 girlfriends and even he said to me he was like you know when you used to go out with daniel i used

00:05:37.440 to love her off you know you know i'm like oh word yeah he's like yeah man i used to proper love her

00:05:43.200 off and i'm like this is this is exactly what i mean we can't really trust ourselves what if it

00:05:48.880 does not attractive though if the girl's not attractive yeah what do you mean that's a good 0.84

00:05:52.880 she could have a male friend yeah but and he might not be the same level of service do you you know

00:05:57.600 i mean you see like all the pretty girls they're like oh yeah my male best friend he'll pick me up 0.90

00:06:01.520 any time of the night and all of this kind of stuff you're gonna get certain um privileges

00:06:06.160 from being that that good looking friend yeah you know what i mean whereas if if i mean i've got

00:06:10.960 what if it's a gay friend yeah if it's a gay best friend yeah that one's cool yeah so you're cool with 0.98

00:06:16.400 him seeing her butt naked slapping yeah i've done it pretend that was gay just because he wanted to 0.99

00:06:31.440 go on her pants yeah and this ah this is what i was going to say so you can't even trust me before 0.99

00:06:35.840 but you see um that women cheat more yeah but see the men the men are more willing to be more conducive

00:06:44.400 to the cheating so what's that mean so what it means is i will i will be more in a way to conduct

00:06:51.360 myself for you not to get caught out and for our situation to keep evolving right so if i'm going

00:06:56.160 to be a side negro yeah what i would tend to do would be to save my number as something else in a

00:07:03.280 girl's phone book if a man rings up my phone i'm not going to blow up her spot i'm going to say oh no 1.00

00:07:09.440 no bro i'm i'm her cousin or like whatever it might well be i'm gonna but girls girls don't 0.97

00:07:14.960 really give a you see once the jig is up yeah but yeah i told your girlfriend yeah you know what i

00:07:20.640 mean i told your girlfriend about us at all but men are more conducive we'll try and hold it down i've

00:07:25.200 seen two girls go home in a taxi together wasn't wasn't a good situation you know what i mean so we

00:07:31.200 we are generally more conducive to you guys not being caught and if we're if we're the side pieces we tend

00:07:37.120 to play that role better i believe whereas women they don't really give too much of a 1.00

00:07:42.720 they they don't mind if men get caught when it comes to the cheating side of things that's what 1.00

00:07:46.160 i think you know when when men do it men i think it's got a lot to do with a man's confidence as

00:07:51.440 well when i was broke and i didn't look the way i did i'll be honest i was insecure i didn't want

00:07:55.680 my ex-girlfriends lingering around other guys because i knew they were better than me but i've got

00:07:59.600 to a position in my life by working on myself for two years without having a girlfriend where i'm

00:08:04.480 i know mate i'm not god's gift bro just look at my height no no you i know i'm enough i know i'm

00:08:08.880 a god's gift thank you so much i'll give you that 10 pound

00:08:15.600 so at the end of the day i do know what i offer and um go ahead have as many male friends as you

00:08:22.160 know that's true bro but we do have to we still have them in security i know what i offer but it's

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JustPearlyThings - May 15, 2023

He Got TRIGGERED When She Said THIS

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