Pearl BREAKS DOWN Why Men Avoid Post Wall Women
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between women in their 20's and 30's when it comes to non-monogamy. Why do women cheat in their 30's and why they tend to cheat when they are in their early 30's.
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If you look at the numbers, social media is the number one way people are meeting.
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So, social media and dating apps, and when you look at, so then the question is, if that's
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where people are meeting, what do the numbers look like in the dating apps?
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So that means on the number one way people are meeting, we're sharing men.
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Because it's always going to be free men, because we're the hunters, so we're always
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Yeah, but when you're saying the average men that get women, they probably get women
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over the age of 30, because women tend to go for looks, and so in their 20s.
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You're 100% right, but between 20 and 30, women are very selective in what they do, and
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then when they get to the 80s, you start wheeling off a lot of stats about pregnancy, geriatrics.
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They feel like they can come back to the average man, or even go back to a man that was trying
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to get them when they were 18, 19, and feel like they can go back to them.
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But obviously, with men, it's a bit different, because men at 30, we start peaking.
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And so that's why I say women pick non-monogamy in their 20s when they have the most leverage.
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And they pick the 20% of men that in their 30s, we tend to pick the rest, basically.
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And so the issue is when women cheat, who do they typically cheat with?
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So the issue that a lot of these guys are getting into, and this is why guys don't typically...
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A lot of guys will say, I don't date women over 30, and it's not a looks thing.
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It's that if she's 30, how many relationships has she had?
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And the odds are he probably is, because in her 20s, she had more leverage than her 30s.
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So what are the odds in her 30s she can get a better guy than in her 20s?
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I feel like slyly, when they have that relationship from 20 to 30, there's always that one guy that
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Yeah, no, I've spoken to women that have had like, I don't know, six-year situationships
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on and off, where between every relationship, and that's like how they keep their body count
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low or whatever, it's like a say-so, they'll like go back to the last...
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And it kind of, so, it kind of makes sense, you know what I mean?
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Keeping your body count low, 100%, but you don't have to do that.
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If you're going back to past situations, that may have not been good.
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So then if you meet a new guy going forward, that's too much toxicity that you're going
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to bring to the new guy that you may meet, and then your trauma.
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Yeah, and like, and anytime you mess up, he's sitting there waiting.
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Now, you've got to get rid of all the exes, you know?
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Usually, the guys are the ones that are on standby.
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And men will always be there, because men don't talk to men.
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But I'm not going to go to Ted, and like, yo, Ted, I'm dealing with Pell, you know?
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Whereas women always want to go to women about stuff.
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So, you lot, in terms of, you can always have your exes there, because my man will just
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When you're done with mine, come back and you get me?
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But women, we try to have that one in the background.
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She want to go to the main woman and tell her, yo, we've been together.
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Rare, rare, rare, rare, been in the background.
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I'm going to read, I'm going to read, this was a, I think this is like a $50, I don't
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But Pearl, listen, all these discussions are pointless.
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Walk outside and you will see the majority of men don't leave their homes.
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I went to Japan and all I see is women outside.
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My main point is you cannot bring back most men outside of their rooms if you have to waste
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Women will say it's expensive to have kids, tee hee hee children.
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But men are indoors with corn or what is, what is it, what is he implying?
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I mean, I think in general people aren't leaving and especially like now they're going to have
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AI and like, I think there's just more people aren't going outside.
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But I was, I was thinking about this the other day because I was like, if I was a guy, how would
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you pick a good, because I've been interviewing men for this divorce documentary I'm doing.
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So I interview the men that have been like stupid wrecked by divorced.
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So they're, um, and typically this happens like it's, this is kind of the story that I've
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Typically he meets her and there's like an unplanned pregnancy and typically like they
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Like, and then, um, she'll go to a women's shelter, like accuse him of abuse on some level
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when some, like they'll even prove that she was lying because you get a free lawyer here
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Um, and basically they have their whole lives ruined.
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They're on these really big child support payments.
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Like I listened like there and you can just tell they're like a shell of a dude who they
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And I'll speak to these men and I'm like, okay, so she, and some, their girls had red
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flags, but some it's like, she was from a two parent home.
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Um, she, there's, there's one that's in the news right now where they're both virgins on
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Um, I'll see another that's like, she, um, she came from a Christian family.
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She was from Eastern Europe and like all the, like on paper.
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And I'm like, I don't know as a guy, how you avoid that.
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And so that's, that's why I did this show is I was genuinely asking, how do you like,
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what, what, where are the good women and how do men pick them?
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Um, go on a coffee date before or after you sleep with her, sleep with her as soon as possible.
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Um, one month to a year, ask her to make a coffee, ask to cook on the spot, take her
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on a coffee date, date as many women as possible to tell the difference, make sure you're not
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Um, what is her relationship like with her dad?
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Um, and I, and I don't even say this to like harp on women, right?
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But I just think like with how much guys have to lose, I'm like, how, I can't even think
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Well, I would say like, just don't, don't sign a contract when you get married, just get
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I thought exactly like you, but no, it doesn't matter because when you have a kid, that's
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But I think if there was more purity in the world, I think if the, if, if men and women were
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both seeking more purity from each other, like how, how honest are you being right now?
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You know, how, how gentle are you as a pure person?
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Do you want to, do you go out of your way to lie and get angry?
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Let's say the guy says, I'm going to be as pure as possible.
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I'm going to have as little experience with women as possible.
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How does he tell the difference between a woman with a high body count and a low body count?
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If he has no experience with women, there's no way, not now there's, there's no, there
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So I, but if he has, if he has no experience, no factual ways, no, but I'm saying, okay,
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I would think you'd have to like kind of be with a lot of women to figure that out.
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But if he doesn't want to, if he follows the purity route, I think that men still have
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I think men and women should, to date men, a few men and women at least to see like, see
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what, see what people are out there to know the difference between different people.
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And also observing other people's relationships is important, but I don't think you have
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to sleep with somebody to know if somebody is a, is a, is a, is wifey material, you know,
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Being like intimate, having intimate conversations, having relationship, you know, having your
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traditional values play out in life roles, you know, cooking and cleaning and taking care
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I think those are things, those are important things to do.
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And that's how you'll know if that's a woman you actually want to marry one day, but that's
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There is no like, you know, having the intercourse and making out and stuff like that.
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But I guess my question is like the average woman and like, we could talk about like what
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And this is where like, it's hard because I used to think like this.
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I used to think like you, but it's like, I think we're like red pill and like trad cons
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tend to like talk past each other where it's like the average woman has slept with five
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Like, why would he wait for a woman that's like, so I agree with this.
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And like, they should not, a man should not wait for someone who slept with five to nine
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And so how would he tell the difference between a virgin who's lying and a girl who's at like
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actually a virgin unless he's carry themselves.
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But the, but the way a woman carries herself really shows a lot about who she is and if
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