JustPearlyThings - Religion Is NOT The Same ANYMORE @JWALLER

In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and discuss a wide range of topics including: 1. Why is it so hard to have children out of wedlock? 2. Why does it seem like there are more single women in the workplace? 3. What are the benefits of having multiple kids? 4. Is it better to have multiple kids or more? 5. How does it feel to be a single parent? 6. Why do we have so many single moms in America? 7. What does it mean to be in a nuclear family? 8. Should it be illegal to have more than one child? 9. How much money should it be allowed to be raised by a single mom? 10. How many kids should a woman have? 11. How old is too old to get married? 12. Can a woman be a good mother? 13. What is the best thing a woman can do for herself? 14. Should women be paid the same as a man?

00:00:00.000 Why do you feel like Christianity, sorry to shift the topic, but why do you feel like Christianity no longer has a backbone?

00:00:05.900 I personally feel like people have taken the God will forgive you no matter what too literally and maybe that's why, you know, it has no more backbone.

00:00:15.020 Because people are going directly against what's in the actual word.

00:00:20.240 Like there's no such thing as gay preachers.

00:00:22.580 Sorry.

00:00:23.460 It's not because I hate gay people.

00:00:25.200 That's not what the religion is.

00:00:27.100 People feel that.

00:00:28.080 You know what bothers people more than anything in the world?

00:00:30.660 It's not the truth.

00:00:31.340 It's deceit.

00:00:32.700 There's deceit in Christianity right now. 1.00

00:00:34.980 They're putting gay flags on churches.

00:00:36.700 I just saw one the other day.

00:00:38.100 Crazy.

00:00:38.860 Yeah, and look, it's not because I hate gay people.

00:00:40.960 I don't hate gay people at all.

00:00:42.600 But it's not Christianity. 0.94

00:00:44.720 It's not what's in the fucking manual, which is the Bible, right?

00:00:49.520 Now, if you have that situation anywhere else in your life, if you have a job somewhere, or somebody makes a promise to you,

00:00:57.620 or somebody does something for you, and then literally, they don't do that, you will feel deceit.

00:01:03.100 It's not the truth that bothers people.

00:01:04.740 It's deceit always.

00:01:06.420 So that's what I think is failing.

00:01:08.340 And then we've created a society in which, from a legal perspective, we're not in America.

00:01:14.420 You can literally have children out of wedlock and cash flow from it.

00:01:18.380 The laws are set up in a way.

00:01:20.140 I said this on the show, I think, yesterday.

00:01:23.840 When I used to grocery shop, I would be in line.

00:01:26.600 I'd see a woman sitting there with six fucking kids. 1.00

00:01:29.140 She'd have two buggies. 1.00

00:01:30.080 One where it was a Louisiana purchase card.

00:01:33.120 She's paying in food stamps.

00:01:35.040 The man's gone.

00:01:35.960 There's multiple baby daddies. 1.00

00:01:37.600 Same woman. 0.93

00:01:38.860 You know?

00:01:39.600 She left him because he cheated. 0.98

00:01:40.940 Okay, well, now you have four baby daddies.

00:01:43.020 Right?

00:01:43.820 And now I'm paying for it with tax money.

00:01:46.380 You know, like the incentive to have a nuclear family is gone.

00:01:49.660 And they're pitting men and women against each other.

00:01:51.640 You could make a Facebook account tomorrow that says you're a 23-year-old white male.

00:01:57.080 Or black male. 0.83

00:01:58.360 It wouldn't matter.

00:01:59.320 The things that they would put in your face to give you emotion would be completely different just based off of what you put in there.

00:02:05.700 And why does that make sense?

00:02:07.420 Well, with technology, maybe we need men's backs a little bit less. 0.95

00:02:11.620 Women are coming up.

00:02:12.480 Women are not stupid. 1.00

00:02:13.580 They're good in the workplace.

00:02:14.620 I'm not saying that.

00:02:15.640 They're incredible.

00:02:16.560 My best people are, some of them are women. 0.99

00:02:19.480 But what do you get when you break the nuclear family up? 0.90

00:02:22.100 Two people paying taxes.

00:02:24.720 How?

00:02:25.560 You said your highest paid employee is a woman. 1.00

00:02:28.820 Yeah.

00:02:29.640 Is she married?

00:02:30.820 Yes.

00:02:31.520 And how does she like navigate that?

00:02:34.280 Look, they have a very traditional relationship.

00:02:36.180 I don't want to speak on that too much because they're very close to me and it is work stuff.

00:02:40.520 But she's a very intelligent woman.

00:02:42.480 She's a true pro.

00:02:43.700 She's really good at what she does. 0.98

00:02:45.700 He's been doing his job for a long time.

00:02:47.320 They've been married for, God, I think 30 years.

00:02:50.140 You know, they have very, one of her other sons worked for me.

00:02:53.120 He's actually in accounting.

00:02:53.940 And they're the most based family I've ever met.

00:02:59.780 In fact, in a lot of ways, I think that they're closer to me than even, like, that woman is closer to me than my own mother is.

00:03:06.760 You know, we're tight.

00:03:07.620 I talk to her every day.

00:03:09.440 So, yeah.

00:03:10.280 Does her husband make more than her? 0.99

00:03:11.940 I don't know.

00:03:14.400 You don't know.

00:03:14.840 And I don't want to speculate.

00:03:16.080 I'm close to them.

00:03:17.160 No, I'm just wondering because you were talking about her.

00:03:19.440 And that's very new, by the way.

00:03:21.100 Oh, her husband.

00:03:21.560 Like, I don't think she's ever made this much money.

00:03:23.760 Can I ask you quickly?

00:03:24.380 She deserves it, though.

00:03:25.140 She's worth every fucking penny. 0.94

00:03:26.720 Yeah, because when you were talking earlier, you were saying it's going to be hard for me because I'm tall.

00:03:30.480 And, like, I also, like, make a lot of money.

00:03:32.580 Yeah, but she's 30 years into a marriage. 1.00

00:03:34.520 They're past that.

00:03:35.300 You know when I really think the pressure is on?

00:03:38.060 25 to 45.

00:03:39.500 She's past that.

00:03:41.260 Like, honestly, I think she does it more for me than anything else.

00:03:43.140 No, I was just curious.

00:03:43.800 Like, what traits do you think in my position I should be looking for?

00:03:48.040 Traits in a man? 0.56

00:03:49.080 Yeah.

00:03:49.800 You already know.

00:03:50.820 You already know what you're looking for.

00:03:52.880 Yeah, no, but I'm just curious.

00:03:54.500 Do you think, like, relationships can ever work when the girl out earns the guy? 0.79

00:03:58.320 I think it's very hard.

00:03:59.680 Yeah.

00:04:00.000 I think it's very, very hard because that's the provide part, right?

00:04:05.120 You know, maybe he can protect you, but you already know that.

00:04:08.100 He's a man.

00:04:08.820 You already know you can't whoop his ass, right?

00:04:10.700 Yeah.

00:04:11.100 So then where's the provide thing?

00:04:13.440 And that's why I don't really believe in power couples in that way.

00:04:17.480 Now, somebody could have status and they could have double status,

00:04:20.160 but most often it's not going to work.

00:04:22.220 And a lot of times the power couples are, like, famous people.

00:04:24.700 It's not really a power couple.

00:04:26.020 I actually have a friend of mine.

00:04:27.960 His wife got a really solid real estate job.

00:04:33.020 And ever since she's been making that big money, they've had problems.

00:04:36.320 And, like, they're living in different houses.

00:04:38.580 And, like, this is a big, strong, masculine, handsome man.

00:04:42.140 And just, it just fucks it.

00:04:44.600 I have a question.

00:04:45.620 Sorry, just quickly.

00:04:46.520 I'm 23 and I would love to be married by, like, 25.

00:04:50.420 I think that's a great goal, by the way.

00:04:51.860 Thank you.

00:04:52.260 Women push that out way further. 1.00

00:04:54.480 Yeah.

00:04:54.700 Because I don't want to, like, let go of my prime years.

00:04:57.840 So what steps do you think I should take to actually get to that place where by 25 I'm married?

00:05:05.260 I'm 23, by the way.

00:05:07.400 Yeah.

00:05:07.740 So that's probably not going to happen.

00:05:10.500 Like, right, because you're going to at least date for two years.

00:05:12.940 No.

00:05:13.360 Hear me out.

00:05:14.160 Yeah.

00:05:14.480 Like, mathematically, that's going to be a tough, tough one, right?

00:05:16.900 Yeah.

00:05:17.260 And then you have to understand, too, is a lot of times that people set goals and they don't understand all the things they're going to have to hurdle.

00:05:23.820 That's why I think that trying, like, I love what you're doing because you might miss it and get married at 27, right?

00:05:29.040 I like that.

00:05:29.960 I like that from you.

00:05:30.980 I feel like you're very base, by the way.

00:05:32.520 Oh, thank you very much.

00:05:34.280 I think that being the right kind of fabric.

00:05:38.200 Okay.

00:05:38.520 And what does that look like?

00:05:40.340 Everything I was speaking to her about earlier.

00:05:42.900 Okay.

00:05:43.340 As far as, like, not having the skin out there.

00:05:45.820 Kind of stay up to date on what's going on in the news.

00:05:49.200 Be conservative, especially if you want a man. 0.94

00:05:51.420 Like, any man that's working his ass off is probably conservative because he doesn't want to give all his tax money away.

00:05:57.960 He doesn't want to hear about people crying because he's getting banged every day while he's winning.

00:06:02.420 He's getting arrows put in his back.

00:06:03.960 People are stabbing him in the back.

00:06:05.420 People are not paying him.

00:06:06.940 He's got employees quitting.

00:06:08.080 He doesn't want to hear any crybaby shit, right?

00:06:10.260 Real men have real fucking problems.

00:06:12.180 And so they don't like it when people cry just to get extra when they've done all the damn work.

00:06:17.120 So if you can do that and then do the things I was talking about earlier about appreciating, hey, man, listen, I really appreciate that weekend you just gave me.

00:06:24.340 I wouldn't have had it because of you.

00:06:25.540 And it's because you work so hard.

00:06:26.880 And I really respect and admire how hard you work to make my life better.

00:06:29.720 I love being with you.

00:06:30.540 Those kinds of things.

00:06:32.320 And then showing it with little acts of love.

00:06:34.160 You ain't got to clean the whole house if you don't want to.

00:06:36.960 Just wash a load of clothes or wipe off the cabinets and just show you have that care.

00:06:42.780 Leave them that note.

00:06:43.640 Go kill it today.

00:06:44.320 I'm so proud of you.

00:06:45.120 That's the kind of shit that makes a man never want to leave a woman because he's getting a return on investment of all that hard work that he's putting into you.

00:06:52.460 I think if you want to make a man stay, make him feel appreciated all the time.

00:06:56.380 I think it's a big step.

00:06:57.600 It really is those little things.

00:06:59.720 Yeah.

00:07:00.000 It really is.

00:07:00.520 Yeah.

00:07:00.760 We don't want a whole lot.

00:07:02.420 A whole lot.

00:07:03.100 Just acknowledge the fact that I'm out there fighting dragons for you.

00:07:07.280 You know what I'm saying?

00:07:07.980 And then I'm taking all that energy and all that pain and everything I had to risk to be able to bring it back to you and spend a weekend with you in the Bahamas.

00:07:16.040 Like, just make it known that you appreciate that so much.

00:07:19.260 You know, and he is happy to do it at that point.

00:07:22.780 Yes, ma'am.

00:07:23.360 You know, you have a lady friend.

00:07:26.280 I might start a new channel just doing this.

00:07:29.380 Yeah, what's up?

00:07:30.380 Usually people talk about men and women shouldn't be friends.

00:07:33.880 You mentioned the lady.

00:07:34.620 I agree with that.

00:07:35.500 Okay, so why can she be your friend?

00:07:38.840 And you said that you've got women in your life that have got, they're all like, you've got girlfriends that do bring value to your life.

00:07:44.540 So do you have friends that are girls?

00:07:47.620 And would you like that as well?

00:07:48.920 Or would you like your wife to have male friends? 0.79

00:07:51.340 No, no, no guy friends.

00:07:52.920 So you don't rate the husband of his friends?

00:07:54.080 There's no man.

00:07:54.700 Listen, there's no man.

00:07:56.420 Find a guy with a girlfriend that's 300 pounds.

00:08:00.040 Good luck.

00:08:00.900 There's no, look, any guy that's your friend wants to sleep with you.

00:08:04.960 Like, if me and you were friends, and you, I want to fuck you. 1.00

00:08:10.580 I'm going to be nice long enough to stick around while you complain about your boyfriend and give me all the answers to the test.

00:08:15.620 Then I'm going to do all those perfect things.

00:08:17.300 I don't personally run the game like that because I think that's bitch shit. 1.00

00:08:20.100 But I'm just hypothetically telling you, if a guy's sticking around, he wants to be your friend, he wants to sleep with you.

00:08:27.100 What about the lady that you were just talking about?

00:08:28.960 Is she not your friend?

00:08:30.080 That you mentioned that, you know, they're quite close to you.

00:08:32.720 The one that works with you.

00:08:34.020 And she's got a husband. 0.99

00:08:35.580 Do you want to see her husband?

00:08:36.520 Dude, that's good.

00:08:36.920 First of all, she's 50-something years old.

00:08:38.520 Okay.

00:08:38.980 There's 20 years between us.

00:08:40.180 So it's the age that, but I mean.

00:08:42.000 And I'm going to tell you something.

00:08:43.620 And you're young and handsome.

00:08:44.940 I got blessed with a, thank you.

00:08:46.520 I got blessed with a gift.

00:08:48.160 If I sign your paychecks, I do not want to sleep with you.

00:08:51.100 Okay.

00:08:51.620 So you can be friends with girls.

00:08:53.620 So maybe like a woman can be friends with her boss. 1.00

00:08:56.300 Yeah, but I wouldn't hang out outside of work.

00:08:59.760 Okay.

00:09:00.300 Like when I took all of them to Florida, her husband was there.

00:09:02.560 Okay.

00:09:03.460 But yeah.

00:09:03.940 And he's one of the main ones I want to know is coming.

00:09:07.280 Right?

00:09:07.680 Okay.

00:09:08.260 Because I'm not, I would never disrespect him.

00:09:10.160 I love that man to death.

00:09:11.580 Okay.

00:09:11.960 I make him a part of, I include him.

00:09:14.040 Okay.

00:09:14.380 So, so this.

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JustPearlyThings - May 16, 2023

Religion Is NOT The Same ANYMORE @JWALLER

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