He Said This When Asked About Dating A Single Mom
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In this episode, we have a special guest on the show, and he's a man of many talents. He's a standup comic, a writer, an entrepreneur, a father, a husband, a friend, a business man, an old man, and an all-around good dude. He also happens to be a father of one of the most beautiful women I've ever met, and a very smart one at that!
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so i'm curious from the guys if a girl is an eight but she's got a kid what is she
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she's an eight but she's got a kid what is she i literally had this dinner conversation with
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one of my colleagues like just now he's like knowing what you know about your wife like
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everything she's the same person looks the same acts the same exact person but you meet her when
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she has a kid i'm like yeah i would not even know her name what about you guys she has a kid she's
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an eight with a kid what is she i mean purely aesthetically i don't think it would take
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anything no no i'm saying like in terms of like dating it's okay we don't gotta be pc you know
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for sure maybe brother you're 22 if you say anything but a zero we're gonna have a talk
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after the show and i'm gonna i'm gonna give you some old man wisdom i'll say a four or five
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okay so minus four a kid all right we're gonna have a talk if you were my kid i'd be like sun
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sit down what do you guys say minus what she's got a kid for me it doesn't really make a difference
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minus zero yeah all right we'll average your minus minus everything zero points don't care zero
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points sorry do you want to okay do you want to again i don't i don't want to stack myself on here
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but like dude like so did you know did you know that once a woman has a kid she carries that kid's
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dna forever and it doesn't just go into the womb it goes straight to her heart there's actual science
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to show that that kid's dna which means another man's dna is living inside that woman and now you're
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producing kids with a woman who's like dna is like mixed with another dude that's is that even
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uh no but it's life it's life though yeah but you can make choices yeah okay look no no no no no no
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it's life you can get pregnant like three days a month i am so tired of like oh it just happened
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in as much as i'm talking about like the choices of being with somebody that's got a child or not
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like i think it's just down to preference at the end of the day um i'm an older man so i don't see
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so kid no kid they're exactly the same to you yeah like if you're beautiful and like my intention
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with yourself is the same we've got pure intentions and it is what it is no but i'm saying like you
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have two girls they're exactly the same both equally hot one has a kid one doesn't you're picking
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which one if if there's a choice between two they have to be the one without the child okay so it does
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subtract something if it's a choice between two people yeah but that's what i'm saying like like
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you're saying it wouldn't make a difference but it would you because you just admitted it would
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oh okay you know okay don't lie no no no no i'm saying come on like you know it makes a difference
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like i said for myself it hasn't made too much of a difference like in in my past relationships but
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maybe maybe a four maybe maybe moving forward if i had two females that i deemed to be eight
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one had a child and one didn't i would go for the one that didn't have a child okay so minus one
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maybe maybe minus one thank you honestly what about you two girls exactly the same one has a kid one
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doesn't depends depends the person that treats you right and they know they treat you the same just
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one has a kid one doesn't i'll go for another kid okay so so minus one minus one yeah thank you
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thank you i'm gonna do an average of three because you said infinity what's like what's the intent
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right like for example if you're a single guy and you're just hooking up whatever you might not
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consider it right but like at some age you become a more serious man and you want to you know you want
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to take the danger that you've built on yourself and turn it into like a sagacious commitment and become
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a more virtuous man like there is age appropriate problems you have to solve right and it's like
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you work really hard gents you know and and this guy here told me he's an entrepreneur before it's
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like yeah you're gonna risk 50 of everything you've ever earned before and after you're you're through
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with that relationship you're gonna risk it on somebody that gave her genetics to somebody else
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at the beginning like that's a dangerous i didn't say i would risk it oh well you didn't say you would
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marry her maybe right yeah so what at 22 maybe it doesn't make a difference but as you get older and you
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start solving older men problems you look for a long-term relationship somebody to raise your
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children yeah that's a that's a more difficult choice no it would definitely be a harsh knock for
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sure but i was speaking purely aesthetically yeah and your perception okay okay high bot oh and only
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fans is minus what so what was that a girl she's an eight but she's got an only fans what is she now oh wow
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for me it's not really a conversation she's done yeah donzo donzo okay so negative 10 yeah okay what
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about you negative 10 as well negative 10 minus 10 000 a month you're paying my lifestyle sugar mama
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all right what about you say four minus all right so we'll do minus eight for only fans
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all right she's an eight but she slept with two of your friends oh what is she you're coming with him now
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as far as the rankings negative 100 they're putting in the chat yeah it's pete now oh it's donzo i wouldn't
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say it's done because yeah sometimes the it's good for the gang is so she might be now like a five
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baby all right so minus three for two of your friends what about you one minus one zero go away
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no chance no chance zero are you dude i'm not that's like that's mean to my friends oh okay like
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that's like come on like like that's so scarce to think that a dude would pick up like no
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all right so we got negative 10 negative one i think you guys have a very wide range here let
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me see we're gonna do negative oh what about you yeah mine's mine's zero as well we're gonna do
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she slept what number do i want to do today she slept with 15 guys what is she now oh wow
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15 guys she's not an option donzo donzo zero zero zero zero zero say
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four or five purely aesthetically all right we're gonna do negative eight for 10 bodies or 15 bodies
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what are you noticing the trend man just wants to bust nuts he's 20 he's 22
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being being generous perception wise yeah but he's 22 we can like we've all been 22. yeah we've dipped
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in the pool you know we've scraped the bottom some barrels all right let's ask the ladies all right
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he's an eight but he doesn't have a job you're in the bin mate what you're in the bin oh gone
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gone donezo what about what if they have ambition or a goal he's applying for jobs he just doesn't
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have one that has it it depends on what is earth what earth we think he i mean he applied at mcdonald's
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you know what i mean um yeah no i i feel like me as an individual i'm quite highly ambitious and i
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just don't find it attractive in a gentleman that if they don't if they just if they haven't got that
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sort of ambition and that drive to get up and actually want to go and do and yeah you're in
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the bin okay negative 10 what about you if they have the ambition and the goal and they're putting
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their mind towards something or they're trying to find a job in a certain sector and i can see you're
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trying hard and you're going to interviews and you know like that i'll give you
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seven so my just minus one yeah as long as he's as long as he's going to some interviews
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yeah all right you ambitious and going out every day how ambitious like what does he have to be
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applying to um so if he's got his mind and his goal towards something like this set job that he wants
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and he's doing his research he's continuously going on interviews then that's different if you're just
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being a bum when you're staying at home and you're not trying to look for work or not trying to focus
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on your career or try and elevate yourself then so negative negative for that one yeah then negative 10.
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all right negative 10 no job okay he's an eight but he has a kid depends on what the baby mom's saying
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it's quite a hard question do you think that guys leave their baby moms
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how do you mean like so do you think like the baby mom would be completely out of their life
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yeah no and i would never expect them to be um do you feel like there's a chance to going back
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sorry no well i don't know i'm single to be honest so i wouldn't know myself i've never been put
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in that situation so i wouldn't know but like if their baby mom was a bit a bit crazy you know okay
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probably okay let's do a good baby mom and a bad baby mom so he's got a kid with a good baby mom
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negative what wouldn't bother me wouldn't bother you okay bad baby mom you're done yeah
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dunzo minus 10 minus 10. okay he's an eight but but he's got a bit of a beer belly
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is it a beer belly or money belly so you say money baby so i know exactly what you mean
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are you eating right or are you drinking beer i know what you mean a beer belly minus 10 minus 10
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probably like minus eight yeah minus eight yeah for a beer belly do you know what i don't really
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i'm not a big drinker and i yeah it's just the whole idea of just yeah oh it's because he's a drinker
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yeah it's not the look no so no the look wouldn't probably about yeah six or an eight do tattoos add or
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subtract for you add add add in the middle and neutral yeah what about you guys tattoos on a woman
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hmm i'll say that i look for it i'm not supposed to be look for females with tattoos but it's definitely
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at some point so maybe like a one or two points so if i got like a sleeve i'd get a point
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yeah one add minus five to start and then the that's the that's the minus starting point and
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then drops from there depending on location and size what about you yeah subtract at least like
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i think tattoos i don't like tattoos on a guy i prefer none but i don't really care that much i feel
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like it doesn't really make a difference okay he's an eight but but but
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he has a horrible relationship with his mom do you guys care yeah yeah why yeah why have you had
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an experience with a guy that like doesn't get along with his mom yeah once once yeah i didn't i i'm such
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a family person and for me family is the most important thing and if someone doesn't get on
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with their mom then there's obviously a reason behind that and for me that's like quite a big red
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flag because yeah no i just wouldn't if they didn't get on with their mom i'd be like i don't know i just
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i'm where i'm such a family person and i adore my family around me 24 7 like i've not got kids but if
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i had a kid i know my kid could kill someone blue bloody murder and i'd turn a blind eye to it and
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i'd still love them no matter what so if someone doesn't speak to their mom then that is a big
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big red flag so you don't care too much about their family like relation at the same i agree oh
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you agree what about you guys do you guys look at her family background me 110 definitely definitely
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what do you look at in her family background dynamic is a big thing
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like with mom dad like what do you both both parents and how the how the family functions
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together what's a bigger red flag if she doesn't get along with her mom or her dad father for sure
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what about you dimitri yeah of course so you know there's this there's this crazy thing right now
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we're like you know the jonah hill text i'm sure you guys discussed it here it's like
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he sets out some boundaries which are pretty right like they're not crazy boundaries it's like hey i
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don't want you going out with your slutty friends like like because you've broken my trust people
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like it's controlling and i kind of read that i was like okay i think a lot of women say that's
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controlling because they just never had proper boundaries set in their life and like i'm a dad
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i got four kids you know what a dad's role is in a in a child's life in a girl or boy's life is
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to set boundaries like you know if you look at like when how kids go to bed if mom puts kids to bed
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they tend to extend going to bed by like half an hour to an hour but when dad puts kids to bed they
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go to bed right away dad's word is firmer kids oblige and test the debt they oblige more to the
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dad they test the dad less so if she doesn't have a like a good relationship with her father she's
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grown up without a dad there's no boundary set for her so she perceives boundaries as emotional abuse
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but are boundaries necessary in relationships yeah especially explicit boundaries like we have to
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understand what exactly works for us and what doesn't and that's okay so no one of the best pieces of
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advice i ever received when i was about 22 from a mentor he said look at that woman's relationship
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with her father and it'll tell you how she treats you yeah