In this episode, Aunt Maggie and Aunt Jenny talk about being raised to be a housewife. Aunt Maggie talks about her experience growing up in a Southern Baptist household and how she grew up in the housewife stereotype. Aunt Jenny talks about how she was raised by Southern Baptist housewives.
00:00:00.000you ever as a kid grow up and want to be a housewife no yes really you did yes
00:00:05.160like even till now I'd want to do like house like be a housewife but like maybe
00:00:10.080work like two days from home or something like that I was gonna say yes
00:00:14.280and then she had another extra just say yes there's housewife she didn't say
00:00:18.480housewife but how many were raised you might want to be a housewife were you
00:00:21.780raised to be a housewife like I grew up in Southern Baptist and submission like
00:00:27.140a lot of women think it's dirty I'm like this is standard model that's like
00:00:30.200asking for doors and windows on a car do you do you feel like you're raised to be
00:00:33.620a housewife um not like with my dad and things like that as in I saw that growing
00:00:39.620up but I my mom like taught me how to cook to clean and things like that so
00:00:43.940that's what I'm comfortable doing and then as you get older and you realize you
00:00:47.960do have to work and you're used to it you think I would want to bring something to
00:00:51.860the table as well like working and intelligence and things like that but
00:00:55.160also still want to but your housewives for the CEO of your corporation and the
00:00:59.660company a lot of women say I don't want to be a domestic slave I want to have my
00:01:03.320own money that CEO that's your daddy that's your sugar daddy that's who you
00:01:08.000shaking it for yes sir he's yes ma'am he's paying everything for you you think
00:01:13.160that's freedom when this man don't like they if they have if they have to make
00:01:17.240cuts in the company you're out they don't care about you there's nothing
00:01:21.140about you you're not valuable and you have to compete in it is tiresome and
00:01:25.740you're exhausted your kids suffer your kids are are buck wild like like I don't
00:01:31.420think people see the consequences but I don't blame young women I think it's a
00:01:35.440failure of older women who we have indoctrinated our younger younger women
00:01:41.080you know Maggie and I like I'm I'm 41 and Maggie's an older woman and really I do
00:01:47.100I blame us I think no I blame older women we know we did we didn't set an
00:01:54.020like a little I mean I personally did my mother did and the women in my family
00:01:58.740have but I know in large we have failed these younger women and we've let them
00:02:04.840just run the streets and we have not checked our daughters I let me catch my
00:02:09.220daughter my mother today if I post a picture at my age my mother is 74 I am 41 let
00:02:16.960me post a picture where in the dress is a little too much short my mother would
00:02:23.820text me say you look slutty and I feel shame and embarrassment and I feel like I
00:02:30.900failed my family I think it's a failure of the family structure my father he
00:02:35.480doesn't have to say anything him and I won't talk for days he's my best friend
00:02:39.040and I said dad like he's just like Mel like like your mother told you what like
00:02:43.720you look like and I think a lot of women have not had the the love of a family of
00:02:49.600of men to to tell them the truth and and that's why they hated Kevin Samuels
00:02:55.100because he was a fatherly figure to told them the truth and they didn't want to
00:02:59.600hear it like your average your average hoe like and you have hoe activity and if
00:03:05.600you want to get better you have to do better but the rebellion no one's ever been in
00:03:10.520your life to discipline you so it's like who are you to tell me what to do because
00:03:15.200you're you you did never had to discipline you can't even believe someone would tell
00:03:18.900you the truth about you but there was a love for you and he wanted you to grow but
00:03:23.140that's even that's why they celebrate his death because now we're free to be
00:03:26.820hoeing and nobody's gonna hold us accountable
00:03:28.640auntie go ahead we're just laughing two things because she was looking at me and
00:03:32.200calling me Maggie that's why was that she laughing oh I'm sorry exactly that's
00:03:36.220everyone was looking at me because you're my energy I know the Maggie energy
00:03:39.300I know what she was saying that's why I can see everyone looking at me why is she
00:03:42.260laughing because I knew she met me but she's like Maggie I'm Auntie Jenny and the
00:03:48.000other thing is um when it comes to old people about raised to be a I was raised
00:03:53.120to be a wife my mom I always saw my mom get up early in the morning and do stuff
00:03:57.440and cook stuff and even when my mom got divorced from my dad I still kept it up I
00:04:02.660tried to go and you know visit my dad as you make sure that got his food and
00:04:06.200I remember washing his clothes by hand you know and I thought do you know what
00:04:11.120I want to do that I want to be a housewife because in in my day you had to wash
00:04:16.260things by hand now you've got washing machines people are making it sounds like
00:04:20.580it's so hard being a housewife's a piece of piss that's it you you work out your
00:04:26.780routine and I've seen women do it where they can I've even proved it to put an
00:04:31.060rush around and make yourself do nothing all day and you can rush around with all
00:04:35.280mod cons you can get that house tip top get everything sorted two hours before
00:04:40.120you get some dinner cooked house clean because you've got all the mod cons so
00:04:43.980women are saying oh yeah I want to be a housewife but I want I also want a job
00:04:47.960I don't want no job you've got a job the job is to look after your man your
00:04:51.320children the house what more do you want you got the car you can go where you
00:04:54.520like you can fool the man because what all he cares is like you know getting his
00:04:58.400balls emptied and getting his belly full of their house right now if I told you
00:05:04.000right now take a picture of your house every room in your house I want to see
00:05:08.560how it's organized decorated and I want to see it is it a hot-ass mess is it about
00:05:15.360is it does it look like a trap house is it like a crash site is your mattress on the
00:05:20.240floor is your it you you're worried about a bag but your home you where you dwell
00:05:25.100you're in the street if you you live in the streets if you're about that life
00:05:30.140you're not taking care of a home you don't really care what's going on in
00:05:34.120there we've seen these videos on YouTube and you have to say to yourself like I'm
00:05:38.780not making a home like what man wants to come home my you know in my home smells
00:05:44.900ratchet a lot of women your pH balance because we're gonna be out here we out here right like
00:05:54.800we're talking about sex work like how many men right now you take your panties off and
00:06:00.740they can smell them oh would you be shame could you not take a shower for a couple days and your
00:06:10.100panties still smell clean that's just not still over why you're not gonna take a shower I can yeah you know what I mean I'll do it right now tell them what the test was
00:06:17.100if it don't then that BV is banging why because you yeah vaginosis has passed and
00:06:26.960and I'm not putting as a shame but a lot of young women your mothers have not taught
00:06:30.680you how to even wash yourself properly douche okay no it ain't even about you
00:06:36.100you shouldn't even do a douche like and that's what I want to talk about that because
00:06:39.640a lot of young women have not been taught this and we've got to have these conversations
00:06:44.200your your your box is for the street but your box
00:06:47.320take go to the bathroom you take them off let me as a woman I'll stand in that bed
00:06:52.980I go to the bathroom and I smell you I come in the bathroom after you and I'm smelling
00:06:58.560double double I don't know if I'm smelling if I'm smelling a double ass