JustPearlyThings - April 03, 2023


Heated Debate On "SEX WORKERS"


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Length

11 minutes

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202.0171

Word count

2,417

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

22

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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Sex work has been around since the beginning of time, but what exactly is it and what does it entail? Is it a necessary part of sex work? What does it mean and what is it not? What is the difference between sex work and sex work in the 21st century?

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00:00:00.000 is morality different is morality different for different people like if i steal and you steal
00:00:05.640 it's different in general no but i think some people will kind of rationalize what they're
00:00:09.240 doing and then say that they have their reasons for it and then i'm not i don't know their life
00:00:14.040 so i don't know what their reasons would be but if i steal it because i'm hungry does that does
00:00:20.700 that make it different it's not okay but people are going to do what they're going to do so if
00:00:25.500 they do it no but i'm asking if you think it's moral no i not for me i wouldn't no but for
00:00:30.340 everyone do you think it's moral no no okay okay thank you all right go ahead hell no and i and i
00:00:39.560 think like now um you know i also think as i get older like if i had a daughter what would my answer
00:00:44.400 be right like i think it's you know just think about that but also too like i think the word the
00:00:49.360 terminology sex work is it's it's a really like large term there's a lot of things that could be
00:00:53.880 encompassed within that but i also think uh sex work you know could be you know a lot of these
00:00:58.560 hollywood stars that you know show up half naked to the red carpet right like i was looking at the
00:01:03.260 oscars and and sierra just showed up to the oscars uh like literally half naked and she has two or 1.00
00:01:10.240 three kids and is married to a a a multi multi-millionaire russell wilson that to me is a
00:01:16.460 component of sex work as well because she's taking degrees of her sexuality putting it somewhere and 1.00
00:01:21.620 and going to get brand deals because of it right like and everything that comes from it right so
00:01:27.060 like i even think when we talk about sex work the definition has to be expanded for modern times
00:01:31.780 today because although she's not doing that and getting direct money or maybe that she is from the 0.75
00:01:35.940 outfit that she's wearing she could be right but then also what comes of that right and if there's 0.55
00:01:43.140 an exchange of money then that's sex work as well uh i don't know man i don't know my my thoughts on
00:01:54.100 it different everybody else i don't i don't really see nothing wrong with it because like
00:01:59.300 sex work been going on since the beginning of time it's never gonna stop have you ever had a
00:02:05.220 no i don't i don't i don't do that i'm just saying it's gonna happen like women gonna get money 1.00
00:02:14.580 they're gonna use what they got to get money men gonna do the same thing see i'm like torn on it
00:02:20.740 because on one hand i sometimes agree with you like i sometimes think it's needed in a society because
00:02:28.020 what are the one in three men gonna do and if you if you think sex is a need which it sort of is for
00:02:35.460 men but then it just makes my stomach turn to say that too so that's what i'm kind of told i don't
00:02:42.980 know let me ask you let me ask you something who you think have sex more a regular girl or somebody
00:02:51.860 who do only fans like who got one person one person who they sleep with an only fan they do only
00:02:57.460 who you think i would agree i would agree who you think having sex more or a stripper versus just
00:03:04.340 a regular girl no i think it's the i think girls that do promiscuous behavior are like tend to make 1.00
00:03:12.660 more promiscuous like choices like i think if someone does that they're probably more likely to
00:03:17.140 sleep around that's my opinion i know some people will say no but i would bear the difference i would
00:03:23.620 really be at the difference can i just say i'm i'm with you i don't know why i'm always with you but
00:03:28.580 i'm with you if you ever um been close with a stripper or kind of see what they what they do like
00:03:37.300 their schedule how they work they ain't really yeah they they going to the club doing anything they
00:03:43.620 come home count up their money get up in the morning go to the bank deposit them once they ain't really
00:03:50.100 out here just messing around like that but it might be another girl who going to the strip club 1.00
00:03:55.940 just throwing wands on them but they at night i think yeah my girls in the strip club are 1.00
00:04:00.260 desensitized to it right so that they're when you are stripping for a man and doing that you have to
00:04:06.740 sell a fantasy to him right you have to get into this persona and give him the dream for the night so
00:04:12.500 he will give you the money right and so once you come off of that in your home and you're with your
00:04:17.860 family or whatever you usually they have kids that they're taking care of and they're doing stuff for
00:04:22.820 they're exhausted they're tired because i just had to go and pretend to be someone that i wasn't
00:04:27.220 and i don't even want i'm i'm disgusted by men to a certain degree right because i know how creepy
00:04:31.700 they are they come here and they're their most vulnerable and nasty and all the stuff that everyone
00:04:35.540 else is going to look at you crazy for i have to take it because you're paying me to take it so i
00:04:40.420 think they're desensitized to it honestly i can see your point and then on the other end um
00:04:46.100 it's a girl i'm not gonna say her name but she's super big on onlyfans like she she getting like 0.96
00:04:51.700 two hundred thousand a month only fan she only she only sleep with one dude on onlyfans yeah there's 0.69
00:04:58.420 girls like that as well think about it she getting money you can't you can't you don't get more money 1.00
00:05:02.740 than her and she already got a dude who who's pleasing her essentially so she not you're not
00:05:09.060 going to even go be able to go mess with her yeah but the question is based on morality morality
00:05:14.260 is con is grounded in principles so then but what would you be okay if your daughter but what is
00:05:19.460 morality what are the things that we do on every on every day for for the for money but let's say
00:05:24.340 that you had a daughter as a father you pass on virtues you pass on values you pass on principles
00:05:29.380 you pass on morality and if your daughter if your daughter is doing that is that something i'm not
00:05:35.300 gonna agree with my daughter doing it so then the answer to the question for you is no you think it's
00:05:39.060 a moral i'm not i'm not i'm not gonna i wouldn't agree with my my daughter or my see you doing a
00:05:43.620 lot of i do but i'm wrong you can't always control what your little baby do you got to just
00:05:51.140 lead them in the right way and hope that they grow up and do the things that you'll be pleased with but
00:05:55.860 you still got the love they can do what they like i think there's a place for them i think it's been
00:06:01.940 there for a long time i think that if you're going to be a sex worker you should be single you shouldn't
00:06:06.580 expect no man and there should be a slut island where you can just get a ferry over to slut island and 1.00
00:06:12.980 you know like what's it called hit the box what they call it that boxing
00:06:17.940 so like can regular people go to that island like
00:06:24.740 for me i think it becomes immoral when they they're looking for they've got children they've got
00:06:30.020 partners or they expect to get a man through it and i think that if you're going to be a sex worker
00:06:36.980 that's what you're going to be i don't expect to be nothing else don't expect to be a wife you 0.98
00:06:41.540 shouldn't be a month i think if you're a mother and you're you're a sex worker or you're the only 1.00
00:06:44.980 fans i think if you're a partner and you're the only fan or anything like that i think if you're a
00:06:49.780 wife no but other than that if you're single you want to go and do it and you're harming no one go to
00:06:54.500 slut island and just have an old island where people can just go as women though i do think now i will 1.00
00:06:59.700 say this and it ain't my place to say this either but i do think it's a time limit on it at a certain
00:07:07.220 point so you old is here you need to get your ass out the streets but nobody's going to want you 1.00
00:07:11.620 after that that's what i'm saying stay on the island because once you started you can't be 30
00:07:16.020 you can't be four to five out here it depends how bad that she is 1.00
00:07:23.380 there's an article about like an 80 year old woman on tinder guys we're still
00:07:26.980 i'm curious what do you guys think is sex work moral immoral um i think it's immoral immoral
00:07:42.820 uh i don't know i i personally think like i have a lot of friends and a lot of people so maybe i'm a
00:07:49.140 bit desensitized to it but i think corn has been happening for ages i think as consenting adults
00:07:56.660 you know well corn has it yeah it's been okay how before i'm not too but it's this but even before
00:08:04.500 like think about it we had there's always the statues even of naked women like women have always been 1.00
00:08:09.940 kind of admired for their bodies yeah i don't know if the statues are the same thing as like not really
00:08:15.060 but i mean as in like admiring women for their bodies and like i don't know i just we don't think
00:08:21.460 there's a difference between like a sexual picture and like abuse because some of the older
00:08:27.140 pictures of the side um wouldn't it be the same difference though whose phone's ringing um
00:08:35.940 some but some of the older pictures it's it's it's because times have moved forward though so i can
00:08:40.740 imagine even sex back then wasn't how we have sex now you know we've become more and more uh modern
00:08:48.180 freaky disgusting you know people people i think watch corn really early and normal sex becomes 0.98
00:08:57.940 boring and you want to spice things up and you do more and more things that maybe didn't happen back
00:09:03.620 in the day not say that that's right or wrong it's it's for everything yeah well yeah yeah
00:09:11.140 so to answer the question moral or immoral i don't think it's immoral no i just think it's moral
00:09:18.340 so then you think it's immoral i don't know i just think it's each to their own i think it's each to
00:09:23.060 their own i think if moral or immoral okay we gotta i think if you're single and like you said
00:09:30.740 andy andy said it was moral yeah i think it is moral as long as it suits your lifestyle and like
00:09:35.300 she said i think as long as you don't expect to for everyone just to accept it and understand i
00:09:40.580 think it's moral no i said don't expect a man don't expect anyone to marry you i think women too
00:09:46.100 sorry you shouldn't have any children don't expect a man once you decide on the sex work that's you 0.99
00:09:51.380 till you die get sex work insurance no i'm not saying that i think i'm saying that's how it should be
00:09:56.820 because if somebody knows that this is how you start you know you're gonna you're not gonna get
00:10:01.140 anybody that should be able to put women off but there's women are going out they say i can go and
00:10:05.700 be only fans and i can still get a husband i can then be gonna be only fans i'm not gonna have my
00:10:09.380 children i can be only fans no after you know that that is it you're gonna have to take dick for the 0.82
00:10:15.140 rest of your life you get the you get the scraps but there's a lot of women that go out and don't do 1.00
00:10:20.820 only fans that sleep around a lot i'm talking about anyone that has sex for money anybody that 1.00
00:10:26.180 money i'm talking about like just normal people that when they don't have their children they go
00:10:29.940 out and they sleep with loads of people and they don't do only fans but they still get married and
00:10:33.860 they still get respected but i'm saying because we've got because we've got not weave because
00:10:39.300 there's a platform that you're like showcased on it's highlighted but there's a lot of women in 1.00
00:10:44.740 privacy that do a lot worse than women they deserve less do you know what it says if you go on only 1.00
00:10:50.340 fans that you have no shame and so and so it's like you don't you don't you don't you don't care
00:10:55.620 about bringing shame to your family you have no shame some families like don't mind can we you think
00:11:02.100 the kids don't mind i mean kids don't obviously kids don't have like the same view i mean like mums
00:11:07.860 and dads like some people just you know right but that's but it's still saying i'm putting my my money
00:11:13.060 before bringing shame to the family name depending on what your family view is on it right but i'm
00:11:19.860 saying what are the kids get no say in this so it's still it still goes back to i always talk about
00:11:23.780 this the me me me culture where it's me before the children yeah oh okay well hopefully the kids will
00:11:28.820 turn out fine but you know i need this money so i'm going to do this now there's a lot of porn stars 0.54
00:11:33.700 with children that are okay as well porn stars porn stars sorry sorry yeah um outliers some people
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