JustPearlyThings - April 14, 2023


Heated Debate on Women Unrealistic Expectations


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

196.14226

Word Count

2,149

Sentence Count

192

Misogynist Sentences

20

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary

Derek Jackson caught cheating on his wife and is now facing jail time. How did his wife handle it? How did she handle it and what does it mean for the future of their marriage? Also, how does she feel about the way he handled it?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 But when you first came across Derek Jackson,
00:00:03.000 did you think he was corny?
00:00:04.040 I did.
00:00:04.260 Or did you think, oh, I like what he's saying.
00:00:06.500 Because I think a lot of women did like what he said initially
00:00:10.960 because it kind of feeds into how you not think about life.
00:00:14.220 Some of the things that he's saying, you know,
00:00:15.880 it's like the message is there, but I don't know,
00:00:18.080 it's like he can't deliver it in the right way.
00:00:21.040 To me, I can see that he's a narcissist even before he got caught
00:00:24.560 because he's talked so much.
00:00:26.760 I think he overkills it when he's trying to explain something.
00:00:30.000 He's speaking so much because he loves camera time.
00:00:33.400 He speaks to women so much because that's who he wants to attract.
00:00:37.960 He's not speaking to men because he doesn't want men in his DMs.
00:00:40.840 He wants women.
00:00:42.000 So for the attention of women, that's why he's so trying to...
00:00:45.440 Yeah, he's like the pastors.
00:00:46.720 Yeah, he wants not all pastors, but I know it, but yeah.
00:00:51.660 But yeah, that's what I get from him.
00:00:54.020 And men will call him out anyway.
00:00:57.500 Yeah, exactly.
00:00:58.200 That's what I was going to say, yeah.
00:00:59.400 So he deliberately is just like, okay, I'm going to go here
00:01:02.400 because they'll just believe whatever I'm going to say.
00:01:04.720 The smart men will.
00:01:06.120 Then he was talking about like the chicken shop or the taco shop
00:01:10.780 that the 40-year-olds are.
00:01:12.040 I'm like, what type of guys do you guys date?
00:01:16.780 I'm just confused.
00:01:18.100 I just find him to be a joke really
00:01:21.980 and like no one should ever take him seriously
00:01:24.380 and anyone that does take him seriously,
00:01:26.460 bruv, don't be surprised if your life goes to ruin, bruv.
00:01:29.460 His wife stayed with him though, didn't she?
00:01:31.360 And she's, in my opinion, she's silly for that, bruv.
00:01:34.380 She did.
00:01:34.840 At first, they got divorced.
00:01:36.720 Really?
00:01:37.160 Oh, they did.
00:01:38.320 Oh, I didn't know that.
00:01:40.500 I'm pretty sure I'm going to double check.
00:01:42.200 Really?
00:01:42.480 But I swear they did.
00:01:43.480 But think about the psychology of that though.
00:01:45.680 Think about the psychology of him.
00:01:47.560 Like he's spewing all of this rhetoric and cheating.
00:01:52.960 Like it's not even like he's going in general.
00:01:55.220 He's going straight at the guys, you guys,
00:01:57.200 and these women deserve better, blah, blah, blah.
00:01:59.120 But what about your own wife, bro?
00:02:00.340 Exactly.
00:02:00.960 What are you talking about?
00:02:01.660 That's usually how they tell on themselves.
00:02:03.520 They can't stop talking about it.
00:02:05.900 Yeah.
00:02:06.340 So it's like they're trying to cover their tracks in a way.
00:02:09.180 Mm-hmm.
00:02:09.700 Exactly.
00:02:09.940 And when you can, with somebody that was giving out so much advice,
00:02:14.120 you know, like if you claim to be such a perfect man
00:02:16.820 in the perfect relationship and that,
00:02:18.940 you're supposed to can look at somebody's wife
00:02:20.840 and just instantly tell that she's happy.
00:02:22.980 Mm-hmm.
00:02:23.380 She just looks so tired in that.
00:02:25.600 Bruv, she looks tired in that bonnet, bruv.
00:02:27.640 She looks so miserable.
00:02:28.720 Do you understand?
00:02:29.680 Like she was so tired of him.
00:02:31.180 Do you get what I mean?
00:02:32.080 You know, it didn't even look like somebody that said,
00:02:34.260 okay, we're human.
00:02:36.600 He's made a mistake.
00:02:37.740 And I'm standing by my husband.
00:02:39.240 And it wasn't even that.
00:02:40.820 He just looked like he constantly uses mind games
00:02:45.580 to just tear her down to make her feel like she needs him.
00:02:48.920 Do you understand what I mean?
00:02:49.940 Mm-hmm.
00:02:50.140 Those are the type of men that just eat away at your self-confidence.
00:02:55.420 Do you get me?
00:02:56.420 Can you imagine like being in her shoes where,
00:02:59.660 I mean, because I doubt that was the first time she caught him cheating.
00:03:02.460 Like, I'm sure it was, I'm sure it happened more than once.
00:03:05.860 And just listening to your husband, like, do these talks.
00:03:09.240 I was just going to say that.
00:03:10.620 Yeah, that's mad.
00:03:11.160 That makes it 10,000 times worse.
00:03:15.140 I just can't think like, oh my God,
00:03:17.620 she probably thinks he's so full of shit because she knows all of it.
00:03:21.120 That's what I'm saying.
00:03:21.660 The psychology behind it is mad.
00:03:23.700 Like, do you get what I'm saying?
00:03:24.900 Like, so, yeah, man.
00:03:26.800 He's just full of crap, to be honest.
00:03:28.740 Like, he's a joke, in my opinion.
00:03:31.180 The funny thing is he's still making money
00:03:34.000 from his little talks and everything.
00:03:36.720 Like, people are still listening to him
00:03:38.140 after all the stuff that he's done.
00:03:40.860 So, hold on.
00:03:41.960 Okay, so women don't want to get cheated on,
00:03:44.140 but they're following a man who says the right things
00:03:46.120 who cheated on his wife.
00:03:47.460 Because them women don't want to accept accountability.
00:03:49.660 And he's in the right package.
00:03:53.200 He's tall, he's big, he's got money.
00:03:56.740 There you go.
00:03:57.520 Because, like, let's keep it real.
00:03:59.000 The majority of his audience are the type of women
00:04:01.780 that would be attracted to a guy like that specifically.
00:04:04.920 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:04:05.500 So, that's a monopoly straight away.
00:04:08.320 Now, yeah, he probably lost some of his fan base, boom, boom, boom.
00:04:11.380 But there's going to be some that, well, you know, well,
00:04:14.440 you know, give him a second chance.
00:04:15.820 See, this is the thing.
00:04:16.840 They're never consistent with their outrage,
00:04:20.320 with, like, they're never consistent.
00:04:21.940 They're always, like, you know,
00:04:23.200 if you find something consistently bad,
00:04:25.500 no matter what happens,
00:04:26.920 if a family member does it or somebody,
00:04:28.800 but they always kind of change it,
00:04:30.280 make excuses and everything.
00:04:31.680 For whoever you like.
00:04:32.780 Yeah.
00:04:33.140 He makes excuses for whoever you like.
00:04:36.880 Yeah.
00:04:37.940 Last thing, do you want to show the next clip from him?
00:04:40.700 Oh, God.
00:04:41.960 I was going to say it again.
00:04:42.840 Thanks to the two TikToks.
00:04:44.220 Sheesh.
00:04:49.420 Michael suggested this one.
00:04:51.420 I suggested these.
00:04:53.220 He must be stopped.
00:04:55.640 I just can't imagine, like,
00:04:57.200 why would you still follow him after?
00:04:59.620 Because they want his sausage.
00:05:01.900 That's why.
00:05:02.200 He lost a lot of subscribers,
00:05:03.600 they said afterwards, though, didn't they?
00:05:04.800 Let's see.
00:05:05.160 I want to see how many he's at.
00:05:06.400 I think he did.
00:05:07.140 I think he lost, like,
00:05:08.100 a lot of subscribers after.
00:05:09.400 Let me see.
00:05:09.900 I think another thing is,
00:05:11.680 if you subscribe,
00:05:12.660 that takes a lot of, like,
00:05:14.580 you have to admit now
00:05:15.660 that all of it's a fad.
00:05:17.320 Like, you know,
00:05:18.140 he's a liar.
00:05:18.940 Everything you're saying
00:05:19.580 is all bullshit
00:05:20.440 and everything like that.
00:05:21.620 Let's see.
00:05:22.920 674,000 subscribers.
00:05:24.280 Look at that.
00:05:25.180 Look at that.
00:05:26.140 And he put a book out
00:05:27.180 at the time as well
00:05:28.080 that he got caught, didn't he?
00:05:29.100 Nuts.
00:05:29.200 He's doing seminars.
00:05:30.720 Yeah.
00:05:31.480 He put a book out.
00:05:32.320 I mean,
00:05:32.700 his views are definitely low,
00:05:34.680 but, like,
00:05:35.680 they're not bad.
00:05:37.180 They're not horrible.
00:05:37.980 He's still earning a living.
00:05:39.380 No, no,
00:05:40.080 just pearly things,
00:05:41.060 views,
00:05:41.460 you know what I mean?
00:05:42.260 Period.
00:05:43.780 Obviously.
00:05:44.760 Obviously.
00:05:46.320 All right.
00:05:46.800 Next one.
00:05:47.700 Is he a dad?
00:05:49.120 Yeah.
00:05:49.500 Oh, yeah.
00:05:50.840 Can you imagine being his kid?
00:05:52.580 No.
00:05:53.100 Oh, my God.
00:05:56.220 He completely is.
00:05:58.120 Trips me out.
00:05:59.040 It's like,
00:05:59.480 we say women got
00:06:00.480 the unrealistic expectations
00:06:01.900 and some of them do,
00:06:03.060 but ain't nobody got
00:06:04.540 more unicorn,
00:06:05.760 fairy tale,
00:06:06.780 door to explore
00:06:07.700 expectations
00:06:08.500 of the opposite sex
00:06:09.520 than us men.
00:06:10.980 Again,
00:06:11.460 some women do expect
00:06:12.460 a man to be six feet tall
00:06:13.840 and make six figures
00:06:14.820 and have a six pack abs
00:06:16.620 and that's unrealistic
00:06:17.680 for most men,
00:06:18.740 but I know like 10 dudes
00:06:19.740 already that fit
00:06:20.900 into that category.
00:06:21.880 All you got to do
00:06:22.400 is have a good job
00:06:23.240 and some good genetics
00:06:24.300 and you're straight,
00:06:25.280 but look at us.
00:06:26.280 Like,
00:06:26.580 how,
00:06:27.160 what do we expect
00:06:27.780 of a woman?
00:06:28.440 She got to be a virgin,
00:06:29.740 but she got to be a freak.
00:06:31.200 She got to pay
00:06:31.780 half the bills,
00:06:32.580 but she got to do
00:06:33.780 100% of the cleaning,
00:06:35.140 the cooking,
00:06:35.900 the child raising.
00:06:37.400 She got to be exhausted
00:06:38.600 from all of that,
00:06:39.660 you know,
00:06:39.920 all the cooking
00:06:40.400 and washing
00:06:40.800 and cleaning
00:06:41.200 and all that good stuff
00:06:42.020 and still be horny enough
00:06:43.660 to meet our sexual needs
00:06:45.260 and get a good night's rest,
00:06:46.980 but also wake up
00:06:48.100 in the middle of the night
00:06:48.900 in case we want some head
00:06:49.840 and a turkey sandwich.
00:06:51.000 That ain't it.
00:06:51.920 She also got to give birth
00:06:53.240 to all our babies
00:06:54.020 because,
00:06:54.300 you know,
00:06:54.420 we got to have that legacy,
00:06:55.620 but then she can't have
00:06:57.160 no stretch marks
00:06:57.900 and she got to lose
00:06:58.580 that baby weight
00:06:59.300 in 30 days or less
00:07:00.780 and then she got to do it
00:07:03.040 while fighting
00:07:03.520 postpartum depression
00:07:04.640 by herself
00:07:05.380 because we're going to tell
00:07:05.860 that she's having
00:07:06.260 an attitude
00:07:06.680 or something like that
00:07:07.360 because all we're thinking about
00:07:08.380 is we ain't got no vagina
00:07:09.660 in the last six weeks
00:07:10.660 that she got to take the heel.
00:07:12.160 That ain't it.
00:07:12.980 Then she can get older,
00:07:14.040 but she can't look older.
00:07:15.500 Otherwise,
00:07:15.880 we're going to say
00:07:16.200 that she's falling off.
00:07:17.480 Like,
00:07:17.740 the list goes on,
00:07:18.780 but just tell me something.
00:07:19.900 How many women
00:07:21.020 do you know
00:07:21.720 that fit into that category?
00:07:23.360 None.
00:07:24.500 So who really got
00:07:25.380 the unrealistic expectations?
00:07:27.900 Sir,
00:07:28.980 so offensive.
00:07:31.520 Did you,
00:07:32.360 are we watching the other one?
00:07:33.520 No, no, we can just see it.
00:07:34.540 We'll go back
00:07:35.180 to the next one later.
00:07:36.360 It's like,
00:07:36.960 did you,
00:07:37.760 did you have
00:07:38.460 those unrealistic expectations?
00:07:40.320 Yeah, binger.
00:07:41.320 Like,
00:07:41.660 when your wife was pregnant
00:07:42.940 and your wife
00:07:43.640 had those children,
00:07:45.060 like,
00:07:45.500 are you just
00:07:46.240 saying all the things
00:07:47.240 that you did
00:07:48.040 while your wife
00:07:49.360 was going through all this?
00:07:50.640 I don't hear guys
00:07:51.960 really demand
00:07:53.440 that high of expectations.
00:07:54.780 I don't know,
00:07:55.060 a single guy
00:07:55.980 that genuinely
00:07:57.620 expects a virgin.
00:07:59.260 I don't know one.
00:08:01.200 I mean,
00:08:01.660 I think some of them
00:08:02.460 are like,
00:08:02.820 I'd be nice,
00:08:04.140 but.
00:08:04.700 I don't think men
00:08:05.320 are that delusional.
00:08:06.500 We live in 2022.
00:08:08.840 There's a handful
00:08:09.640 of women out there.
00:08:10.500 Can I just say one thing?
00:08:12.080 May I say one thing?
00:08:13.360 I'll just put my hand up.
00:08:14.320 May I say one thing?
00:08:15.660 This guy said,
00:08:16.680 just have a job
00:08:17.360 and good genetics.
00:08:19.080 Like,
00:08:19.360 that's something
00:08:19.900 that you can pick.
00:08:21.360 You don't pick
00:08:21.880 your genetics,
00:08:22.980 Derek.
00:08:24.080 Like,
00:08:24.480 what are you talking about?
00:08:26.180 Oh,
00:08:26.500 I know,
00:08:26.880 I know at least 10 guys.
00:08:28.560 Just because you're
00:08:29.320 six foot four,
00:08:30.320 Derek,
00:08:30.920 it doesn't mean
00:08:31.620 that that's just something
00:08:32.400 that's handed out
00:08:33.400 like that.
00:08:34.040 This guy's an idiot,
00:08:35.560 bruv.
00:08:36.940 Like,
00:08:37.600 but the vast majority
00:08:38.820 of men
00:08:39.540 are under six foot.
00:08:41.980 So,
00:08:42.780 saying just have
00:08:43.620 good genetics,
00:08:44.520 bro,
00:08:44.780 like,
00:08:45.080 what kind of world
00:08:45.800 do you live in,
00:08:46.520 bro?
00:08:46.720 Like,
00:08:47.200 I didn't know
00:08:47.640 when you was born
00:08:48.380 you could just say,
00:08:49.080 oh,
00:08:49.200 I would like to be
00:08:49.940 six foot four.
00:08:50.800 Like,
00:08:51.180 bro,
00:08:51.420 like,
00:08:51.620 it doesn't go like that,
00:08:52.460 bro.
00:08:52.680 So,
00:08:52.920 like,
00:08:53.520 he's already leading
00:08:54.640 women down a road
00:08:55.700 of failure
00:08:56.240 because he's trying
00:08:57.500 to make it out
00:08:58.180 like,
00:08:58.880 oh,
00:08:59.560 yeah,
00:08:59.860 you know,
00:09:00.620 these unrealistic
00:09:01.260 expectations
00:09:02.300 or this small minority,
00:09:05.180 oh,
00:09:05.300 that's easy to find.
00:09:06.420 There's loads of guys
00:09:07.680 like that.
00:09:08.040 No,
00:09:08.220 it's not,
00:09:08.640 bruv.
00:09:09.260 I think everyone
00:09:10.020 needs to be more realistic.
00:09:11.640 And again,
00:09:12.140 just like Jess said,
00:09:13.940 a lot of the things
00:09:14.560 he's talking about,
00:09:15.360 bro,
00:09:15.740 you slept with a side chick
00:09:17.920 or a couple side chicks
00:09:19.320 behind your woman's back
00:09:20.660 and you had a kid.
00:09:22.960 So how dare you
00:09:24.460 talk about other guys,
00:09:25.940 bro?
00:09:26.760 Like,
00:09:27.040 it's actually,
00:09:27.960 he makes my blood boil.
00:09:29.200 Like,
00:09:29.380 I swear,
00:09:29.880 like,
00:09:30.020 he makes my blood boil.
00:09:30.880 Like,
00:09:30.980 he's just saying anything
00:09:31.760 and he's actually making
00:09:33.420 the dating market harder
00:09:34.680 for everyone,
00:09:35.480 not just guys,
00:09:36.220 for everybody
00:09:36.820 because now women
00:09:37.800 are walking around
00:09:38.360 with these delusional
00:09:39.240 expectations
00:09:39.940 because Derek Jackson
00:09:41.180 said,
00:09:41.580 yeah,
00:09:41.780 actually,
00:09:42.680 that makes sense.
00:09:43.580 No,
00:09:43.720 it doesn't make sense,
00:09:44.640 bruv.
00:09:46.060 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:09:46.620 Like,
00:09:46.920 it's a joke team.
00:09:47.780 And what percent of guys
00:09:48.680 even make six figures?
00:09:50.600 It's like less than 10%.
00:09:52.540 Yeah,
00:09:52.900 he was saying like,
00:09:53.580 oh yeah,
00:09:53.960 just get a job.
00:09:54.720 Bruv,
00:09:55.060 like,
00:09:55.400 come on,
00:09:55.820 bro.
00:09:56.060 Like,
00:09:56.340 that's unrealistic.
00:09:58.120 Absolutely unrealistic.
00:10:00.580 I don't know if you lot.
00:10:03.280 Yeah,
00:10:03.440 yeah,
00:10:03.900 he's,
00:10:04.580 he's a cool man.
00:10:05.180 No,
00:10:05.480 that's so offensive.
00:10:06.800 Like,
00:10:06.940 I'm not a man,
00:10:07.660 but obviously,
00:10:08.580 but like,
00:10:09.480 most men,
00:10:10.000 obviously,
00:10:10.400 they're just decent,
00:10:11.340 normal,
00:10:12.200 reasonable men,
00:10:13.460 good men.
00:10:14.080 And he's saying,
00:10:14.880 oh yeah,
00:10:15.100 every man wants this,
00:10:16.100 this,
00:10:16.340 this.
00:10:16.680 And literally making women,
00:10:18.940 like drumming up them,
00:10:20.000 their hatred for men.
00:10:21.560 And so she would,
00:10:22.720 I guarantee you,
00:10:23.300 she'll look out the window
00:10:23.980 and be like,
00:10:24.360 yeah,
00:10:24.540 I hate him.
00:10:25.060 Like some random man.
00:10:27.200 Or he's not good enough.
00:10:28.500 Just because of what he's saying.
00:10:29.060 Yeah,
00:10:29.280 because Derek Jackson says
00:10:30.320 he knows at least 10 guys
00:10:31.660 that make six figures
00:10:32.480 that are over six foot.
00:10:33.900 So if you don't come
00:10:35.400 into that category,
00:10:36.180 then ah,
00:10:36.740 forget about you.
00:10:37.460 When that could be her husband.
00:10:39.040 Yeah,
00:10:39.320 exactly.
00:10:40.060 And she could be happy.
00:10:40.920 As many of you know,
00:10:42.260 I was just banned on TikTok
00:10:44.300 and we are demonetized
00:10:46.020 on a daily basis
00:10:47.240 on this platform.
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