JustPearlyThings - Heated Debate on Women Unrealistic Expectations

00:00:00.000 But when you first came across Derek Jackson,

00:00:03.000 did you think he was corny?

00:00:04.040 I did.

00:00:04.260 Or did you think, oh, I like what he's saying.

00:00:06.500 Because I think a lot of women did like what he said initially

00:00:10.960 because it kind of feeds into how you not think about life.

00:00:14.220 Some of the things that he's saying, you know,

00:00:15.880 it's like the message is there, but I don't know,

00:00:18.080 it's like he can't deliver it in the right way.

00:00:21.040 To me, I can see that he's a narcissist even before he got caught

00:00:24.560 because he's talked so much.

00:00:26.760 I think he overkills it when he's trying to explain something.

00:00:30.000 He's speaking so much because he loves camera time.

00:00:33.400 He speaks to women so much because that's who he wants to attract.

00:00:37.960 He's not speaking to men because he doesn't want men in his DMs.

00:00:40.840 He wants women. 1.00

00:00:42.000 So for the attention of women, that's why he's so trying to...

00:00:45.440 Yeah, he's like the pastors.

00:00:46.720 Yeah, he wants not all pastors, but I know it, but yeah.

00:00:51.660 But yeah, that's what I get from him.

00:00:54.020 And men will call him out anyway.

00:00:57.500 Yeah, exactly.

00:00:58.200 That's what I was going to say, yeah.

00:00:59.400 So he deliberately is just like, okay, I'm going to go here

00:01:02.400 because they'll just believe whatever I'm going to say.

00:01:04.720 The smart men will.

00:01:06.120 Then he was talking about like the chicken shop or the taco shop

00:01:10.780 that the 40-year-olds are.

00:01:12.040 I'm like, what type of guys do you guys date?

00:01:16.780 I'm just confused.

00:01:18.100 I just find him to be a joke really

00:01:21.980 and like no one should ever take him seriously

00:01:24.380 and anyone that does take him seriously,

00:01:26.460 bruv, don't be surprised if your life goes to ruin, bruv.

00:01:29.460 His wife stayed with him though, didn't she? 1.00

00:01:31.360 And she's, in my opinion, she's silly for that, bruv. 1.00

00:01:34.380 She did. 0.99

00:01:34.840 At first, they got divorced.

00:01:36.720 Really?

00:01:37.160 Oh, they did.

00:01:38.320 Oh, I didn't know that.

00:01:40.500 I'm pretty sure I'm going to double check.

00:01:42.200 Really?

00:01:42.480 But I swear they did.

00:01:43.480 But think about the psychology of that though.

00:01:45.680 Think about the psychology of him.

00:01:47.560 Like he's spewing all of this rhetoric and cheating.

00:01:52.960 Like it's not even like he's going in general.

00:01:55.220 He's going straight at the guys, you guys,

00:01:57.200 and these women deserve better, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:01:59.120 But what about your own wife, bro?

00:02:00.340 Exactly.

00:02:00.960 What are you talking about?

00:02:01.660 That's usually how they tell on themselves.

00:02:03.520 They can't stop talking about it.

00:02:05.900 Yeah.

00:02:06.340 So it's like they're trying to cover their tracks in a way.

00:02:09.180 Mm-hmm.

00:02:09.700 Exactly.

00:02:09.940 And when you can, with somebody that was giving out so much advice,

00:02:14.120 you know, like if you claim to be such a perfect man

00:02:16.820 in the perfect relationship and that,

00:02:18.940 you're supposed to can look at somebody's wife 1.00

00:02:20.840 and just instantly tell that she's happy.

00:02:22.980 Mm-hmm.

00:02:23.380 She just looks so tired in that.

00:02:25.600 Bruv, she looks tired in that bonnet, bruv. 0.99

00:02:27.640 She looks so miserable. 0.95

00:02:28.720 Do you understand? 0.97

00:02:29.680 Like she was so tired of him.

00:02:31.180 Do you get what I mean?

00:02:32.080 You know, it didn't even look like somebody that said,

00:02:34.260 okay, we're human.

00:02:36.600 He's made a mistake.

00:02:37.740 And I'm standing by my husband.

00:02:39.240 And it wasn't even that.

00:02:40.820 He just looked like he constantly uses mind games

00:02:45.580 to just tear her down to make her feel like she needs him.

00:02:48.920 Do you understand what I mean?

00:02:49.940 Mm-hmm.

00:02:50.140 Those are the type of men that just eat away at your self-confidence.

00:02:55.420 Do you get me?

00:02:56.420 Can you imagine like being in her shoes where,

00:02:59.660 I mean, because I doubt that was the first time she caught him cheating.

00:03:02.460 Like, I'm sure it was, I'm sure it happened more than once.

00:03:05.860 And just listening to your husband, like, do these talks.

00:03:09.240 I was just going to say that.

00:03:10.620 Yeah, that's mad.

00:03:11.160 That makes it 10,000 times worse.

00:03:15.140 I just can't think like, oh my God, 1.00

00:03:17.620 she probably thinks he's so full of shit because she knows all of it. 1.00

00:03:21.120 That's what I'm saying. 1.00

00:03:21.660 The psychology behind it is mad.

00:03:23.700 Like, do you get what I'm saying?

00:03:24.900 Like, so, yeah, man. 1.00

00:03:26.800 He's just full of crap, to be honest. 1.00

00:03:28.740 Like, he's a joke, in my opinion. 1.00

00:03:31.180 The funny thing is he's still making money

00:03:34.000 from his little talks and everything.

00:03:36.720 Like, people are still listening to him

00:03:38.140 after all the stuff that he's done.

00:03:40.860 So, hold on.

00:03:41.960 Okay, so women don't want to get cheated on, 1.00

00:03:44.140 but they're following a man who says the right things

00:03:46.120 who cheated on his wife.

00:03:47.460 Because them women don't want to accept accountability. 1.00

00:03:49.660 And he's in the right package.

00:03:53.200 He's tall, he's big, he's got money.

00:03:56.740 There you go.

00:03:57.520 Because, like, let's keep it real.

00:03:59.000 The majority of his audience are the type of women 0.62

00:04:01.780 that would be attracted to a guy like that specifically.

00:04:04.920 Do you get what I'm saying?

00:04:05.500 So, that's a monopoly straight away.

00:04:08.320 Now, yeah, he probably lost some of his fan base, boom, boom, boom.

00:04:11.380 But there's going to be some that, well, you know, well,

00:04:14.440 you know, give him a second chance.

00:04:15.820 See, this is the thing.

00:04:16.840 They're never consistent with their outrage,

00:04:20.320 with, like, they're never consistent.

00:04:21.940 They're always, like, you know,

00:04:23.200 if you find something consistently bad,

00:04:25.500 no matter what happens,

00:04:26.920 if a family member does it or somebody,

00:04:28.800 but they always kind of change it,

00:04:30.280 make excuses and everything.

00:04:31.680 For whoever you like.

00:04:32.780 Yeah.

00:04:33.140 He makes excuses for whoever you like.

00:04:36.880 Yeah.

00:04:37.940 Last thing, do you want to show the next clip from him?

00:04:40.700 Oh, God.

00:04:41.960 I was going to say it again.

00:04:42.840 Thanks to the two TikToks.

00:04:44.220 Sheesh.

00:04:49.420 Michael suggested this one.

00:04:51.420 I suggested these.

00:04:53.220 He must be stopped.

00:04:55.640 I just can't imagine, like,

00:04:57.200 why would you still follow him after?

00:04:59.620 Because they want his sausage.

00:05:01.900 That's why.

00:05:02.200 He lost a lot of subscribers,

00:05:03.600 they said afterwards, though, didn't they?

00:05:04.800 Let's see.

00:05:05.160 I want to see how many he's at.

00:05:06.400 I think he did.

00:05:07.140 I think he lost, like,

00:05:08.100 a lot of subscribers after.

00:05:09.400 Let me see.

00:05:09.900 I think another thing is,

00:05:11.680 if you subscribe,

00:05:12.660 that takes a lot of, like,

00:05:14.580 you have to admit now

00:05:15.660 that all of it's a fad.

00:05:17.320 Like, you know, 1.00

00:05:18.140 he's a liar. 0.99

00:05:18.940 Everything you're saying 1.00

00:05:19.580 is all bullshit 1.00

00:05:20.440 and everything like that. 1.00

00:05:21.620 Let's see.

00:05:22.920 674,000 subscribers.

00:05:24.280 Look at that.

00:05:25.180 Look at that.

00:05:26.140 And he put a book out

00:05:27.180 at the time as well

00:05:28.080 that he got caught, didn't he?

00:05:29.100 Nuts.

00:05:29.200 He's doing seminars.

00:05:30.720 Yeah.

00:05:31.480 He put a book out.

00:05:32.320 I mean,

00:05:32.700 his views are definitely low,

00:05:34.680 but, like,

00:05:35.680 they're not bad.

00:05:37.180 They're not horrible.

00:05:37.980 He's still earning a living.

00:05:39.380 No, no,

00:05:40.080 just pearly things,

00:05:41.060 views,

00:05:41.460 you know what I mean?

00:05:42.260 Period.

00:05:43.780 Obviously.

00:05:44.760 Obviously.

00:05:46.320 All right.

00:05:46.800 Next one.

00:05:47.700 Is he a dad?

00:05:49.120 Yeah.

00:05:49.500 Oh, yeah.

00:05:50.840 Can you imagine being his kid?

00:05:52.580 No.

00:05:53.100 Oh, my God.

00:05:56.220 He completely is.

00:05:58.120 Trips me out.

00:05:59.040 It's like,

00:05:59.480 we say women got 0.97

00:06:00.480 the unrealistic expectations

00:06:01.900 and some of them do,

00:06:03.060 but ain't nobody got

00:06:04.540 more unicorn,

00:06:05.760 fairy tale,

00:06:06.780 door to explore

00:06:07.700 expectations

00:06:08.500 of the opposite sex 1.00

00:06:09.520 than us men.

00:06:10.980 Again,

00:06:11.460 some women do expect 1.00

00:06:12.460 a man to be six feet tall

00:06:13.840 and make six figures

00:06:14.820 and have a six pack abs

00:06:16.620 and that's unrealistic

00:06:17.680 for most men,

00:06:18.740 but I know like 10 dudes

00:06:19.740 already that fit

00:06:20.900 into that category.

00:06:21.880 All you got to do

00:06:22.400 is have a good job

00:06:23.240 and some good genetics

00:06:24.300 and you're straight,

00:06:25.280 but look at us.

00:06:26.280 Like,

00:06:26.580 how,

00:06:27.160 what do we expect

00:06:27.780 of a woman?

00:06:28.440 She got to be a virgin, 1.00

00:06:29.740 but she got to be a freak. 0.99

00:06:31.200 She got to pay

00:06:31.780 half the bills,

00:06:32.580 but she got to do

00:06:33.780 100% of the cleaning,

00:06:35.140 the cooking,

00:06:35.900 the child raising.

00:06:37.400 She got to be exhausted

00:06:38.600 from all of that,

00:06:39.660 you know,

00:06:39.920 all the cooking

00:06:40.400 and washing

00:06:40.800 and cleaning

00:06:41.200 and all that good stuff

00:06:42.020 and still be horny enough

00:06:43.660 to meet our sexual needs

00:06:45.260 and get a good night's rest,

00:06:46.980 but also wake up

00:06:48.100 in the middle of the night

00:06:48.900 in case we want some head

00:06:49.840 and a turkey sandwich.

00:06:51.000 That ain't it.

00:06:51.920 She also got to give birth

00:06:53.240 to all our babies

00:06:54.020 because,

00:06:54.300 you know,

00:06:54.420 we got to have that legacy,

00:06:55.620 but then she can't have

00:06:57.160 no stretch marks

00:06:57.900 and she got to lose

00:06:58.580 that baby weight

00:06:59.300 in 30 days or less

00:07:00.780 and then she got to do it

00:07:03.040 while fighting

00:07:03.520 postpartum depression

00:07:04.640 by herself

00:07:05.380 because we're going to tell

00:07:05.860 that she's having

00:07:06.260 an attitude

00:07:06.680 or something like that

00:07:07.360 because all we're thinking about 0.99

00:07:08.380 is we ain't got no vagina 1.00

00:07:09.660 in the last six weeks 0.98

00:07:10.660 that she got to take the heel. 0.99

00:07:12.160 That ain't it.

00:07:12.980 Then she can get older,

00:07:14.040 but she can't look older.

00:07:15.500 Otherwise,

00:07:15.880 we're going to say

00:07:16.200 that she's falling off.

00:07:17.480 Like,

00:07:17.740 the list goes on,

00:07:18.780 but just tell me something.

00:07:19.900 How many women 1.00

00:07:21.020 do you know

00:07:21.720 that fit into that category?

00:07:23.360 None.

00:07:24.500 So who really got

00:07:25.380 the unrealistic expectations?

00:07:27.900 Sir,

00:07:28.980 so offensive.

00:07:31.520 Did you,

00:07:32.360 are we watching the other one?

00:07:33.520 No, no, we can just see it.

00:07:34.540 We'll go back

00:07:35.180 to the next one later.

00:07:36.360 It's like,

00:07:36.960 did you,

00:07:37.760 did you have

00:07:38.460 those unrealistic expectations?

00:07:40.320 Yeah, binger.

00:07:41.320 Like,

00:07:41.660 when your wife was pregnant 0.98

00:07:42.940 and your wife

00:07:43.640 had those children,

00:07:45.060 like,

00:07:45.500 are you just

00:07:46.240 saying all the things

00:07:47.240 that you did

00:07:48.040 while your wife 0.96

00:07:49.360 was going through all this?

00:07:50.640 I don't hear guys

00:07:51.960 really demand

00:07:53.440 that high of expectations.

00:07:54.780 I don't know,

00:07:55.060 a single guy

00:07:55.980 that genuinely

00:07:57.620 expects a virgin.

00:07:59.260 I don't know one.

00:08:01.200 I mean,

00:08:01.660 I think some of them

00:08:02.460 are like,

00:08:02.820 I'd be nice,

00:08:04.140 but.

00:08:04.700 I don't think men

00:08:05.320 are that delusional.

00:08:06.500 We live in 2022.

00:08:08.840 There's a handful

00:08:09.640 of women out there. 0.99

00:08:10.500 Can I just say one thing?

00:08:12.080 May I say one thing?

00:08:13.360 I'll just put my hand up.

00:08:14.320 May I say one thing?

00:08:15.660 This guy said,

00:08:16.680 just have a job

00:08:17.360 and good genetics.

00:08:19.080 Like,

00:08:19.360 that's something

00:08:19.900 that you can pick.

00:08:21.360 You don't pick

00:08:21.880 your genetics,

00:08:22.980 Derek.

00:08:24.080 Like,

00:08:24.480 what are you talking about?

00:08:26.180 Oh,

00:08:26.500 I know,

00:08:26.880 I know at least 10 guys.

00:08:28.560 Just because you're

00:08:29.320 six foot four,

00:08:30.320 Derek,

00:08:30.920 it doesn't mean

00:08:31.620 that that's just something

00:08:32.400 that's handed out

00:08:33.400 like that. 1.00

00:08:34.040 This guy's an idiot, 1.00

00:08:35.560 bruv. 1.00

00:08:36.940 Like,

00:08:37.600 but the vast majority

00:08:38.820 of men

00:08:39.540 are under six foot.

00:08:41.980 So,

00:08:42.780 saying just have

00:08:43.620 good genetics,

00:08:44.520 bro,

00:08:44.780 like,

00:08:45.080 what kind of world

00:08:45.800 do you live in,

00:08:46.520 bro?

00:08:46.720 Like,

00:08:47.200 I didn't know

00:08:47.640 when you was born

00:08:48.380 you could just say,

00:08:49.080 oh,

00:08:49.200 I would like to be

00:08:49.940 six foot four.

00:08:50.800 Like,

00:08:51.180 bro,

00:08:51.420 like,

00:08:51.620 it doesn't go like that,

00:08:52.460 bro.

00:08:52.680 So,

00:08:52.920 like,

00:08:53.520 he's already leading

00:08:54.640 women down a road 1.00

00:08:55.700 of failure

00:08:56.240 because he's trying

00:08:57.500 to make it out

00:08:58.180 like,

00:08:58.880 oh,

00:08:59.560 yeah,

00:08:59.860 you know,

00:09:00.620 these unrealistic

00:09:01.260 expectations

00:09:02.300 or this small minority,

00:09:05.180 oh,

00:09:05.300 that's easy to find.

00:09:06.420 There's loads of guys

00:09:07.680 like that.

00:09:08.040 No,

00:09:08.220 it's not,

00:09:08.640 bruv.

00:09:09.260 I think everyone

00:09:10.020 needs to be more realistic.

00:09:11.640 And again,

00:09:12.140 just like Jess said,

00:09:13.940 a lot of the things

00:09:14.560 he's talking about,

00:09:15.360 bro,

00:09:15.740 you slept with a side chick 0.99

00:09:17.920 or a couple side chicks 0.95

00:09:19.320 behind your woman's back 1.00

00:09:20.660 and you had a kid.

00:09:22.960 So how dare you

00:09:24.460 talk about other guys,

00:09:25.940 bro?

00:09:26.760 Like,

00:09:27.040 it's actually,

00:09:27.960 he makes my blood boil.

00:09:29.200 Like,

00:09:29.380 I swear,

00:09:29.880 like,

00:09:30.020 he makes my blood boil.

00:09:30.880 Like,

00:09:30.980 he's just saying anything

00:09:31.760 and he's actually making

00:09:33.420 the dating market harder

00:09:34.680 for everyone,

00:09:35.480 not just guys,

00:09:36.220 for everybody

00:09:36.820 because now women 1.00

00:09:37.800 are walking around

00:09:38.360 with these delusional

00:09:39.240 expectations

00:09:39.940 because Derek Jackson

00:09:41.180 said,

00:09:41.580 yeah,

00:09:41.780 actually,

00:09:42.680 that makes sense.

00:09:43.580 No,

00:09:43.720 it doesn't make sense,

00:09:44.640 bruv.

00:09:46.060 Do you get what I'm saying?

00:09:46.620 Like,

00:09:46.920 it's a joke team.

00:09:47.780 And what percent of guys

00:09:48.680 even make six figures?

00:09:50.600 It's like less than 10%.

00:09:52.540 Yeah,

00:09:52.900 he was saying like,

00:09:53.580 oh yeah,

00:09:53.960 just get a job.

00:09:54.720 Bruv,

00:09:55.060 like,

00:09:55.400 come on,

00:09:55.820 bro.

00:09:56.060 Like,

00:09:56.340 that's unrealistic.

00:09:58.120 Absolutely unrealistic.

00:10:00.580 I don't know if you lot.

00:10:03.280 Yeah,

00:10:03.440 yeah,

00:10:03.900 he's,

00:10:04.580 he's a cool man.

00:10:05.180 No,

00:10:05.480 that's so offensive.

00:10:06.800 Like,

00:10:06.940 I'm not a man,

00:10:07.660 but obviously,

00:10:08.580 but like,

00:10:09.480 most men,

00:10:10.000 obviously,

00:10:10.400 they're just decent,

00:10:11.340 normal,

00:10:12.200 reasonable men,

00:10:13.460 good men.

00:10:14.080 And he's saying,

00:10:14.880 oh yeah,

00:10:15.100 every man wants this,

00:10:16.100 this,

00:10:16.340 this.

00:10:16.680 And literally making women, 1.00

00:10:18.940 like drumming up them,

00:10:20.000 their hatred for men.

00:10:21.560 And so she would,

00:10:22.720 I guarantee you,

00:10:23.300 she'll look out the window

00:10:23.980 and be like,

00:10:24.360 yeah, 0.55

00:10:24.540 I hate him. 0.95

00:10:25.060 Like some random man. 0.98

00:10:27.200 Or he's not good enough.

00:10:28.500 Just because of what he's saying.

00:10:29.060 Yeah,

00:10:29.280 because Derek Jackson says

00:10:30.320 he knows at least 10 guys

00:10:31.660 that make six figures

00:10:32.480 that are over six foot.

00:10:33.900 So if you don't come

00:10:35.400 into that category,

00:10:36.180 then ah,

00:10:36.740 forget about you.

00:10:37.460 When that could be her husband.

00:10:39.040 Yeah,

00:10:39.320 exactly.

00:10:40.060 And she could be happy.

00:10:40.920 As many of you know,

00:10:42.260 I was just banned on TikTok

00:10:44.300 and we are demonetized

00:10:46.020 on a daily basis

00:10:47.240 on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - April 14, 2023

Heated Debate on Women Unrealistic Expectations

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