HEATED DEBATE： Who is More ACCOUNTABLE
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Summary
In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and discuss sex outside of marriage, sexual education, and sexual education in the home and family. We also discuss sexual education and sexual accountability in society.
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do you not believe that sex outside of marriage is wrong so yes but yeah but do you still partake
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yes right so in modern culture it's it's relevant right i think you're blaming culture i'm not
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blaming culture that's just what that's the reality of it right no it's not because people are having
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sex right but that's yours as an individual you have individual accountability so i don't care
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what culture is doing i make a choice with my box culture is not going to give me std absolutely
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is not going to give me i'm culture is not going to take care of when i have a um you know i'm an
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unwed mother culture is not going to take care of those things i am responsible for my body my my
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who i give my body to i have soul ties to if you choose to spread your legs open in these streets
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society did not make you do that you made the choice to lay down with all of those men and you
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can and putting it on and men need to take accountability you chose to bust it open for
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that f-boy or or that pookie that is your choice however however i'll say this go off when your
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society tells you that something is okay so what we've seen within the next within the past 10 years
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is a spike in people that are calling themselves non-binary and trans right we've seen a spike in it
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why because the society has said it's okay to be that way that's their choice right it is that it is
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their choice but i'm saying we have to understand that when society says something is okay on it
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it has an impact on individuals like that's just the reality because there's a reason why you don't
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allow your children to watch certain things on tv right but you can't control society this is the
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society impacts you you live in society every single day it has to be but hang on there's a reason why
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you don't allow your children to watch certain things on tv there's a reason why you don't allow
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your children to go around certain people why because as much as you could teach your child and say
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don't do this that's wrong right your child can still be influenced right by a certain but it's
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still your choice even as a child it's your choice who you surround yourself with like i remember being
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like a kid and thinking these girls were mad and thinking these girls were crazy and it's like even
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even as a child you have some accountability for the the friends you choose to surround yourself with
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but where does accountability come from it comes from the influences it comes for our society
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and all i'm saying is we can't discredit no accountability is not come from no you can't do
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that no no i don't agree accountability comes from yourself and the ability to take where is
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where is that shape from though but listen how do you know what is good or what you should listen
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every woman every woman that has laid down with the five to ten percent man there is another woman who
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was raised in some of the circumstances or worse that made a different decision so that's where your
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accountability is because you can have all the excuses society everybody all of this but there
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is another person out there that made a different and a better choice just because you were born in
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that then you have to say why did they make a better choice and i chose to do this so if one person in
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the world made a better choice than you then you have to say society didn't influence them society didn't do
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this why am why am i so weak why am i so unaccountable that i want to blame everyone else if one person has
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made a better choice than you that you need to rise to the cream of the crop but so many of us are at the
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bottom we want to be like everybody else we want to be regular we want to be we want to be below average
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and we don't strive for excellence in anything that we do creates society i think we're missing something
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the one percent of men do no i'm saying like who passes on culture in a family exactly and that's
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one thing that we're missing we're talking about the individual and we're talking about society we have
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completely neglected the home and the family because i would argue that if an older woman had told this
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younger lady or any younger lady that this is how boys see you if you do that you would act differently
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if someone had told you that i think men do a much better job of checking each other because men see
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themselves in younger men women see themselves as younger women so a man bars
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a man looks at his life in phases he knew he was a boy he knew he was a young man he knew he was
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you know a bachelor and then he's like i'm ready to set it down a woman doesn't do that a woman
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still thinks even though i'm 40 or 50 or whatever i can still twerk like a little girl i can still wear
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revealing clothing i think there's something sierra sorry my goodness savannah james let's talk about
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savannah james wouldn't you guys wouldn't you guys agree that that women pass on the culture in a family
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yes but it depends on like women just women what yeah i'm like but i would say i would say what men
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build societies women pass on the culture typically yes they do and so by that by that logic if the
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culture's bad whose fault is it the women and the one who's breaking up homes you said a whole word
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right there so so and and and if if if we're if we're growing up in a family that doesn't in a society
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that doesn't value family whose fault is it no i think that's women i agree they're breaking up the
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homes we actually done something on that and i actually said uh if the woman's not right because
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she's the first teacher of children right so if the woman's not right the society is not going to be
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right because if you're the first teacher of the children as women you spend most of the time with
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the children so if you are the one that is constantly and consistently around the children
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then the child's not going to be right and the child's are the ones that go out into society
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that's that that's sorry i think i actually heard you say it before that's the thing in single
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mother homes that's when kids do bad you always need a father figure in the home to be able to
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coach and teach the child how to be disciplined and accountable in life there are some though in
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single months we have these outliers like lebron james single mother um you know family and even his
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wife savannah james as i brought her her up if you saw her a picture of sierra and you put a picture of
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of savannah james at the oscars savannah james every woman across the board like people are
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talking about that's my wedding dress like she's inspired me she is she is gold she is it she was
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a single mother very young she was raised by a single mother lebron james so even even if you
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raise a single mother poverty all your circumstances look at people who made different choices if they
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made other choices you have no excuse if somebody else came out of your situation and let's be honest
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right now ladies and gentlemen everything we're talking about right now is very lightweight and
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weak if we look at history and what people have gone through in real struggle and what we call
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you know hardship and it's not my my choice look i mean you look at the society as a whole throughout
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you know all of europe africa and everywhere we are living in a time of of absolute privilege and so when
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we when we in the accountability that they had to take it is just even this conversation is is is
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spoiled and it is is privileged and it is very we don't know hard work we don't know what it's like to
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really struggle so we can even have the luxury of having these conversations like this and and and and
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and it's it's it was life and death for a woman to lose her virginity to the streets okay it was life and
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death it means you would be a destitute you were actually sent to the brothels if you aged out you
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know because you did not marry at a certain age you were sent to work in the in the brothel house and
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that's long changed right and so now it's only fans and so and and and instagram so what we're saying
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is even these conversations we really as a society now don't know accountability and i mean if we really
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want to go there but overall i would say absolutely the onus is on the women to pass down the culture
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teach the young women our young women are out of pocket struggling because the older women are for
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the streets many of them you have women who are in their 40s still being ig models getting bust down
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and flew out flu flued out is what they call it and just doing the most and looking like strippers what
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we call even cute outfits today sexy this is what you know i don't know as many of you know i was just
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