JustPearlyThings - March 31, 2023


HEATED DEBATEļ¼š Who is More ACCOUNTABLE


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

196.98242

Word Count

1,719

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

13

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 do you not believe that sex outside of marriage is wrong so yes but yeah but do you still partake
00:00:08.400 yes right so in modern culture it's it's relevant right i think you're blaming culture i'm not
00:00:13.920 blaming culture that's just what that's the reality of it right no it's not because people are having
00:00:17.680 sex right but that's yours as an individual you have individual accountability so i don't care
00:00:21.840 what culture is doing i make a choice with my box culture is not going to give me std absolutely
00:00:27.280 is not going to give me i'm culture is not going to take care of when i have a um you know i'm an
00:00:32.080 unwed mother culture is not going to take care of those things i am responsible for my body my my
00:00:37.840 who i give my body to i have soul ties to if you choose to spread your legs open in these streets
00:00:43.680 society did not make you do that you made the choice to lay down with all of those men and you
00:00:48.560 can and putting it on and men need to take accountability you chose to bust it open for
00:00:53.360 that f-boy or or that pookie that is your choice however however i'll say this go off when your
00:01:00.400 society tells you that something is okay so what we've seen within the next within the past 10 years
00:01:05.600 is a spike in people that are calling themselves non-binary and trans right we've seen a spike in it
00:01:11.280 why because the society has said it's okay to be that way that's their choice right it is that it is
00:01:17.520 their choice but i'm saying we have to understand that when society says something is okay on it
00:01:22.480 it has an impact on individuals like that's just the reality because there's a reason why you don't
00:01:27.760 allow your children to watch certain things on tv right but you can't control society this is the
00:01:32.560 society impacts you you live in society every single day it has to be but hang on there's a reason why
00:01:37.840 you don't allow your children to watch certain things on tv there's a reason why you don't allow
00:01:41.120 your children to go around certain people why because as much as you could teach your child and say
00:01:45.760 don't do this that's wrong right your child can still be influenced right by a certain but it's
00:01:51.680 still your choice even as a child it's your choice who you surround yourself with like i remember being
00:01:56.320 like a kid and thinking these girls were mad and thinking these girls were crazy and it's like even
00:02:01.360 even as a child you have some accountability for the the friends you choose to surround yourself with
00:02:05.840 but where does accountability come from it comes from the influences it comes for our society
00:02:10.640 and all i'm saying is we can't discredit no accountability is not come from no you can't do
00:02:16.960 that no no i don't agree accountability comes from yourself and the ability to take where is
00:02:21.280 where is that shape from though but listen how do you know what is good or what you should listen
00:02:25.520 every woman every woman that has laid down with the five to ten percent man there is another woman who
00:02:30.560 was raised in some of the circumstances or worse that made a different decision so that's where your
00:02:35.120 accountability is because you can have all the excuses society everybody all of this but there
00:02:41.200 is another person out there that made a different and a better choice just because you were born in
00:02:46.480 that then you have to say why did they make a better choice and i chose to do this so if one person in
00:02:52.960 the world made a better choice than you then you have to say society didn't influence them society didn't do
00:02:58.800 this why am why am i so weak why am i so unaccountable that i want to blame everyone else if one person has
00:03:06.880 made a better choice than you that you need to rise to the cream of the crop but so many of us are at the
00:03:11.920 bottom we want to be like everybody else we want to be regular we want to be we want to be below average
00:03:17.520 and we don't strive for excellence in anything that we do creates society i think we're missing something
00:03:22.880 the one percent of men do no i'm saying like who passes on culture in a family exactly and that's
00:03:28.960 one thing that we're missing we're talking about the individual and we're talking about society we have
00:03:34.720 completely neglected the home and the family because i would argue that if an older woman had told this
00:03:42.240 younger lady or any younger lady that this is how boys see you if you do that you would act differently
00:03:49.360 if someone had told you that i think men do a much better job of checking each other because men see
00:03:55.760 themselves in younger men women see themselves as younger women so a man bars
00:04:12.080 a man looks at his life in phases he knew he was a boy he knew he was a young man he knew he was
00:04:19.360 you know a bachelor and then he's like i'm ready to set it down a woman doesn't do that a woman
00:04:24.880 still thinks even though i'm 40 or 50 or whatever i can still twerk like a little girl i can still wear
00:04:30.720 revealing clothing i think there's something sierra sorry my goodness savannah james let's talk about
00:04:36.960 savannah james wouldn't you guys wouldn't you guys agree that that women pass on the culture in a family
00:04:42.320 yes but it depends on like women just women what yeah i'm like but i would say i would say what men
00:04:50.240 build societies women pass on the culture typically yes they do and so by that by that logic if the
00:04:56.080 culture's bad whose fault is it the women and the one who's breaking up homes you said a whole word
00:05:02.240 right there so so and and and if if if we're if we're growing up in a family that doesn't in a society
00:05:07.840 that doesn't value family whose fault is it no i think that's women i agree they're breaking up the
00:05:12.240 homes we actually done something on that and i actually said uh if the woman's not right because
00:05:16.800 she's the first teacher of children right so if the woman's not right the society is not going to be
00:05:21.520 right because if you're the first teacher of the children as women you spend most of the time with
00:05:25.760 the children so if you are the one that is constantly and consistently around the children
00:05:31.200 then the child's not going to be right and the child's are the ones that go out into society
00:05:34.560 that's that that's sorry i think i actually heard you say it before that's the thing in single
00:05:39.440 mother homes that's when kids do bad you always need a father figure in the home to be able to
00:05:45.040 coach and teach the child how to be disciplined and accountable in life there are some though in
00:05:51.840 single months we have these outliers like lebron james single mother um you know family and even his
00:05:58.080 wife savannah james as i brought her her up if you saw her a picture of sierra and you put a picture of
00:06:03.840 of savannah james at the oscars savannah james every woman across the board like people are
00:06:10.000 talking about that's my wedding dress like she's inspired me she is she is gold she is it she was
00:06:15.440 a single mother very young she was raised by a single mother lebron james so even even if you
00:06:21.040 raise a single mother poverty all your circumstances look at people who made different choices if they
00:06:27.440 made other choices you have no excuse if somebody else came out of your situation and let's be honest
00:06:32.560 right now ladies and gentlemen everything we're talking about right now is very lightweight and
00:06:37.600 weak if we look at history and what people have gone through in real struggle and what we call
00:06:43.600 you know hardship and it's not my my choice look i mean you look at the society as a whole throughout
00:06:50.480 you know all of europe africa and everywhere we are living in a time of of absolute privilege and so when
00:06:57.920 we when we in the accountability that they had to take it is just even this conversation is is is
00:07:05.200 spoiled and it is is privileged and it is very we don't know hard work we don't know what it's like to
00:07:11.040 really struggle so we can even have the luxury of having these conversations like this and and and and
00:07:17.760 and it's it's it was life and death for a woman to lose her virginity to the streets okay it was life and
00:07:23.840 death it means you would be a destitute you were actually sent to the brothels if you aged out you
00:07:29.360 know because you did not marry at a certain age you were sent to work in the in the brothel house and
00:07:34.960 that's long changed right and so now it's only fans and so and and and instagram so what we're saying
00:07:41.520 is even these conversations we really as a society now don't know accountability and i mean if we really
00:07:48.320 want to go there but overall i would say absolutely the onus is on the women to pass down the culture
00:07:55.200 teach the young women our young women are out of pocket struggling because the older women are for
00:08:00.560 the streets many of them you have women who are in their 40s still being ig models getting bust down
00:08:06.800 and flew out flu flued out is what they call it and just doing the most and looking like strippers what
00:08:13.760 we call even cute outfits today sexy this is what you know i don't know as many of you know i was just
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