Heated Debated on CHEATING
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
190.71281
Summary
In this episode, the lads discuss cheating and what cheating is, how cheating is done and why cheating is cheating. We discuss cheating in general terms, emotional cheating, premeditated cheating, sexual cheating, and emotional cheating.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
cheating yep yep so yeah yeah okay so so my first question is have you ever been cheated on and
00:00:09.840
have you ever cheated um yes i've been cheated on and i never cheat you never cheat how'd you
00:00:18.480
find out he cheated uh painful uh well i find out i don't know it's just like sometimes
00:00:29.920
god loves me too much and they just show me little things you're right god god brought you cheating
00:00:41.520
it just happened and i knew he was cheating because i think men when they are cheating they
00:00:46.720
their way um they they feel guilty and then try to make it up to you oh so he was he was like buying
00:00:54.000
you stuff and treating you well yeah out of nowhere okay and so then how how do you get evidence or
00:01:00.320
well i just i'm not a person that go into someone's phone okay so phone but yeah but it just it just
00:01:07.920
happened for me to see okay you saw like a message yeah and i i saw a message and then from there
00:01:13.280
obviously i checked and yeah and then like what it was him like messaging come over or something
00:01:19.920
no it was more i can't really say it because it's a bit inappropriate so oh it was like some sexual
00:01:27.520
stuff okay i feel like we've got to qualify the question what do you mean by cheating as in going
00:01:31.600
the whole way or what's cheating is such a loose that's a good that's a good question when i think
00:01:37.520
of cheating i think of like stuff that's like sexual you know i would say kissing someone else
00:01:44.240
is cheating yeah unless you're in like an arrange it's not cheating if you guys agree to the you
00:01:49.440
know what if it's like a just a flirty text message yeah like text messages like instagram like you
00:01:54.880
replied to something yeah but from there it's starting right premeditated not necessarily not necessarily
00:02:00.160
because for me there's also emotional cheating like if you invest your emotion emotional energy in
00:02:04.160
someone else that's also cheating because i could be with a guy and then i'm investing my emotional
00:02:08.400
energy into another guy you're still i think that emotional cheating that's that's a woman thing i
00:02:12.800
think you know like you don't really care it's a man isn't it see men men when it comes to men men
00:02:18.240
cheat for different reasons from when women cheat you understand what i mean yeah that's why when women
00:02:23.600
cheat people say that it hurts more it hurts the man more you know what i mean because men it's like our
00:02:29.280
penises kind of talk for us you know what i mean yeah like our penises are the ones that are making
00:02:35.440
the decision certain times you know and once you've bust that knot you're like you you snap back to
00:02:41.120
normal you could go back to love her i still love her though yeah yeah after you bust that knot you're
00:02:45.920
like oh you come what am i doing here yeah you come to your senses you come to your senses your senses
00:02:50.960
no pun intended so that's why you're saying man do it just to go bust their knot and then after they come
00:02:54.960
now i feel like guys guys can have sex with our emotions but what with females it's different they
00:03:01.840
need emotions very much different yeah men men can can have full-blown sex with a woman and feel
00:03:06.800
less than a woman sending a flirty text message exactly like we can be more upset over them sending
00:03:12.720
a text message yeah than us having full-blown sex with my mom yeah my mom broke it down from a
00:03:17.200
practical standpoint right this is genius if you let someone into your home that's slightly more personal
00:03:22.480
than you going into someone's home and women from a practical standpoint they are allowing you access
00:03:28.880
to their insides yeah you're just visiting you can visit a hundred houses in a day not that i recommend
00:03:33.920
you do that i don't do that by the way just to comment so big up my mom for that and um but i don't condone
00:03:41.920
it i don't i don't i don't suggest you do it that's it i'm trying to there's some study i'm trying to find
00:03:48.400
it that like backs up what you guys are saying where they asked like married men that cheated if they
00:03:52.320
still love their wives and it was like 85 or 85 80 roughly still said they did i mean it's not like
00:03:59.520
they don't they don't love them anymore it's like maybe they want to try something different maybe
00:04:05.040
bro so true have you guys cheated have you guys cheated yeah i've been a serial cheater man
00:04:10.720
come on any man says that that every guy can't that you just said of um married men i remember
00:04:21.520
being in the lift i went to go clubbing with the guys who was in the um lift and we seen an older
00:04:25.760
guy must have been around about say about 65 years old and he was like oh lads you're gonna enjoy like
00:04:30.800
have a good night tonight was like yeah then he was like yeah i'm gonna prom looking for for a woman
00:04:35.360
tonight and we're like okay he was i'm married by the way but i'm i'm bored he was like she don't do
00:04:40.800
nothing for me but i love my wife a friend of mine once said behind every great looking woman is a
00:04:45.600
man sick of shagna and i'm sorry to like i know women don't want to hear that but like and it's not
00:04:51.760
all true like obviously there's exceptions there's all good there's good guys out there but i do feel
00:04:55.680
like men we are programmed to want to multiply that is like not it's not a choice we wake up every
00:05:02.480
morning with a full sack and we're ready to go and unfortunately for women if you're not there
00:05:07.520
like that's why women unfortunately have to be on their a game because it's not fair but it's just the
00:05:12.560
way it is yeah i beg to differ on that one for the simple fact of you can be that woman or that man
00:05:21.920
absolutely you could be everything that he dreams of i agree and yet still somehow some way i can be
00:05:30.000
submissive i can give it to you as and when you want it multiple times out of the day but the truth
00:05:36.480
is if you want to go out and do that you're going to that works both ways though no no and i was going
00:05:42.720
to get to that point um you know it to me it's like i've always looked at cheating i've been on the
00:05:50.080
receiving end of that and i've been there multiple times now it does two things it makes you look
00:05:58.640
inside yourself and think okay have i done something in order to not satisfy him what drove him to
00:06:08.640
look at me but you're telling me that you love me you care for me oh you know you're my world okay
00:06:14.720
show me that i'm your world but then you still show me that but then you still feel all right i'm
00:06:19.920
going to go out and demand him yeah different area cold they ain't gonna know no it's not about
00:06:25.360
that do you get done something i'm saying it's the same with women as well women i believe if you
00:06:30.800
feel that you have to get to that point where you're cheating why are you still in that relationship
00:06:36.960
why haven't you sat down and had that a and b okay well i could flip it on you and say why did you
00:06:41.840
choose the wrong men multiple times in a row then okay no no no no disrespect no no no and that's
00:06:47.280
a fair yeah because they're all good guys out there no no no and that is a very fair question
00:06:51.360
every man cheats no i said every man has the urge in them they're programmed to want to
00:06:55.760
fun every day that's well generally i'll answer because women in general like men that cheat
00:07:02.240
like it's not like a good thing that makes women look good but look at who women pick
00:07:21.680
like more two women have always reproduced for every one man and while there have been there have been
00:07:26.400
monogamous like throughout the last two million years there have been monogamous societies um and the
00:07:30.880
majority like of the population has been monogamous but the top 15 of men um have never been monogamous
00:07:38.400
ever and now what's the difference today women um now are completely in control of sex which has never
00:07:43.200
happened in all of history right and what has happened since we've gotten in control of sex we
00:07:47.840
have been sleeping with a smaller and smaller percentage of men so what does that mean we could
00:07:51.760
have the monogamous guys but none of us pick them so and we don't when we have the most youth and the
00:07:57.040
most beauty because usually like we do go into monogamous relationships but we do it in our 30s
00:08:02.240
because the average age of first marriage isn't 31 so that means we're non-monogamous in our 20s
00:08:06.400
i have a question for the ladies if this is okay have any of you ever knowingly like deep deep down
00:08:12.560
inside been a booty call knowingly have you ever been have you ever knowingly been a booty call like
00:08:18.880
a guy who's just you're you're a side piece you're not serious but you're turning up and you know he's
00:08:24.080
calling you at 11 o'clock for good reason like he ain't taking you out he ain't doing all the nice
00:08:28.400
things you're turning up knowing what this is really about he may be lovely to you he may say all the
00:08:34.560
nice things to you but you deep down in your i'm just i'm just gonna say no no i haven't okay i personally
00:08:40.960
haven't been in that situation um but each people or persons or people that are in that setup yes what
00:08:49.280
about situationship anyone raise your hand situationship never whatever every you every
00:08:54.000
guy you've slept with you've been in a relationship with 100 plus okay okay wow yeah yeah yeah you have
00:09:00.160
been in a situation no of every person i've okay fine these recruiters need to step their game
00:09:07.360
they're similar they're too nice get some holes in the panel please wait what can we get some you
00:09:21.440
you see what he's saying though because a situationship is the same thing no i i understand
00:09:26.640
that you are both single yeah and if you both agree it's like if you know what the setup is and you're
00:09:33.280
like okay look i've got an itch i need you to scratch i'll call you if that's the setup then
00:09:38.720
fair enough each of their own but personally i've never been in that situation