JustPearlyThings - Her Mum ENCOURAGED Her To Do Only Fans

00:00:00.000 would you guys want they they want to know if you would want your daughters to do only fans 1.00

00:00:04.800 of course they would yeah yeah of course i wouldn't mind okay well i don't want kids so like

00:00:09.520 i don't really okay do you want kids pardon yeah i do yeah um i it's not that i wouldn't want my

00:00:17.600 daughter to do anything she wouldn't have to do it because you know i'm gonna provide for my children 1.00

00:00:21.920 so my mom encouraged me to do it yeah my parents are all still together they've been married 20

00:00:28.480 years like they're very okay and how did how did you get the idea to do only fans i was literally

00:00:33.520 just being as slow as it is so i thought you know it may as well get paid for it but it was it was

00:00:37.920 just because i actually enjoy i i enjoy sex very much and so i thought you know what and so you 0.58

00:00:43.280 told who'd you tell first your mom or your dad um i think i thought no i told both them at the same

00:00:47.760 time and and what'd they say they said as long as you're safe and you're happy that's all that matters

00:00:52.720 okay but they didn't say go do it they just said as long as you're no no no i will like um when i

00:00:58.240 was doing i was already doing like instagram promotion thing and my mom like was like why 1.00

00:01:03.920 don't you do that you know what i mean like why don't you do any fans you may as well okay so your

00:01:08.720 mom encouraged it yeah yeah she said if she was my age and like in this yeah generation she'd do it

00:01:13.840 yeah that's what really your your parents said the same thing yeah how did that conversation go um

00:01:21.280 it was just uh it was just because i was already with um someone who had like

00:01:27.520 social media and stuff and then we're seeing on social media together and then we just had the

00:01:32.320 conversation about only fans and then they was like yeah do it like if you're comfortable and like

00:01:37.760 if i was young and i was your age i'd do it too okay do you expect to get married later

00:01:42.560 yeah i don't really care to be honest i'd like to get married okay i mean um um if i get married

00:01:49.680 it doesn't necessarily mean that i'm gonna stay in that relationship but i'm gonna be happy for the

00:01:53.760 rest of my life like i do think if you're married i think you should stay in the marriage yeah i do and

00:01:58.480 if you have children you should but i don't really think marriage is like a nest like i don't really

00:02:03.200 think it's that necessary i mean it's not the same as it used to be obviously um and i mean

00:02:10.720 i'm getting married now like i mean you still get cheated on you still

00:02:17.520 you still get have you ever seen a successful marriage yeah well my parents yeah so then why

00:02:24.480 do you have this view on marriage because um i have this view on marriage because a lot of people that

00:02:29.680 i know get like i've seen a lot of people get divorced i've i've personally met like guys like

00:02:35.200 i literally met a guy actually once in a pub and he was trying to like um chat to me and stuff and

00:02:40.880 he was like trying to like ask me to go out with him and he on his lock screen he had a picture of

00:02:45.040 him at his wedding getting married to his wife with his children in the picture as well and i just think

00:02:50.640 that like marriage doesn't like stand for anything like it doesn't mean anything really i i don't

00:02:57.280 think it really means a lot and and you also said earlier that um if you're married you get half of

00:03:02.160 what your uh partner has but that's not true either because you can actually a guy can actually sign all

00:03:08.080 his money to himself and not give his wife any of that so that's not true yes it is true i know

00:03:13.360 someone that's done it yes it is true well was it a prenup or are you saying that this was a court

00:03:17.520 ruling no it's not a court ruling i'm saying that they can do that before they get married so it doesn't

00:03:22.480 really yeah so it was a prenup yes that's not relevant yes it is relevant because if it's a prenup

00:03:27.600 or it's determined by the court you can still get married and are you really are okay i have a question

00:03:32.720 i'm just i'm just curious how you think so you know usually if i'm in a room with someone that

00:03:38.560 knows more than me i'm not like okay so she's a lawyer you're on only fans and you you think wait

00:03:46.480 wait wait wait wait it's not about money oh my god it's not about money and so you're talking about

00:03:51.760 the legal system and i know a good amount because of the documentary i'm doing on the legal system

00:03:58.160 but if she told me something i would probably believe her just that she's

00:04:01.840 say that wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait so so but but i'm saying you're arguing with

00:04:07.920 a lawyer i'm not like you're on her i never said that i disagreed with what i'm saying yeah i'm just

00:04:15.360 no i just i just want to understand how you think lawyer only fans work or you think you you know more

00:04:21.040 than her did i say that you acted like it no i didn't i don't even know what she's talking about

00:04:25.840 i'm saying i'm saying that i know someone that's married and not as okay so you give all that you

00:04:34.960 give any you heard it okay let me let me let me just let me just repeat this let me just repeat this

00:04:39.280 called a print heard it let me let me just repeat that i didn't know what let me just repeat i'm

00:04:42.720 gonna repeat this really quick really quick for us heard a story works in the legal system as a lawyer

00:04:49.440 i haven't heard a story i know someone who doesn't give that why okay who told you what

00:04:54.000 i'm not saying someone told me i know someone personally that okay so you know someone that

00:04:58.880 told you a no i never i never said that i know someone personally were you at were you at the

00:05:04.080 court hearing none of his money were you were you at the court here why does it matter like what are

00:05:08.720 you talking about my point is i don't understand why you have this gut reaction to argue because

00:05:14.480 you're saying i said that i'm right and she's wrong no i i said that you argued with her and i

00:05:19.200 don't think you understand how you're coming across okay i don't read that's clear that's

00:05:25.040 clear all right okay so i'm i'm saying i don't understand why you're acting like you know more

00:05:29.040 than a lawyer so one of you so i would love to okay so god okay thank you okay so can you tell me

00:05:35.920 more about how it works i'm curious so okay so what you said was that you know somebody who had a

00:05:42.000 situation where they signed their money away in a certain way so that the wife didn't get the money 0.81

00:05:45.920 the money yeah so maybe what you didn't understand is that in order to do that you would have to sign

00:05:50.320 a prenuptial agreement that is not the default that is not the default outcome in a divorce system so

00:05:56.480 in our family law system here in the uk everything the division of the assets is assessed by the court

00:06:02.720 and it's all ruled by legislation so when your friend when or whoever that happened to that was a

00:06:08.560 case-by-case basis based on a prenuptial agreement that they both agreed to before they got married

00:06:13.280 in the family law system right now they will take into account who earns what who contributed what

00:06:19.040 what assets they have and that will be divided depending on what they've done and what they've

00:06:23.360 contributed and what they haven't it's so what you're saying is actually an exception it's also

00:06:27.440 completely different from the norm it's it's it's a it's a contractual that's what i was trying to

00:06:32.960 say it's still it's still a thing but what maybe what you didn't understand is maybe that it's just

00:06:37.920 case by case that's what happened to them because they did a spec they did a specific contractual

00:06:42.480 agreement before but for the majority of people who don't do that that's not how the law works

00:06:48.240 okay so i'm i'm curious who you're the only one married right everyone else no okay who here wants 0.64

00:06:55.120 to be married raise your hand okay so undecided okay and i'm curious when would you guys want to be

00:07:03.680 married by so remind them what your age is and when you'd want to be married um yeah so you're all

00:07:09.760 talking about like in the i'm in my 30s 35 so um too late forget it um but um really sort of

00:07:23.600 when i find someone that i that i like so i don't know in the next few years whatever but it has to

00:07:29.360 be someone that i um that we really like each other i don't just want to get married just for the sake of

00:07:34.720 it i'd rather not if it's okay what about kids do you want kids i mean yeah if it's if it's meant

00:07:40.400 to be yeah i would if i if i'm with a partner yeah okay are you okay with not having them yeah

00:07:46.400 whatever will be will be yeah okay well i don't understand that yeah isn't it like what you i've

00:07:53.440 never really i've never really been in a situation where i've had to think about that because i would

00:07:57.920 only think about having a child with someone if i'm really getting married to someone in a situation

00:08:03.040 like that so i'm i've been i haven't had to worry or think about it and it hasn't been something i've

00:08:08.240 grown up like oh i must have kids i must be married by this age i must be that i i've just like if i if

00:08:14.480 i find the one that i'm married to then i would assume and once so if you i'm just curious um how how

00:08:21.600 much roughly do you make a year you don't have to give me like more than more than 60 000 yeah okay more

00:08:30.160 than 70. yeah okay so you actually make enough that you could retire by yourself i mean not in

00:08:36.000 london oh my god okay so so what's your if the government doesn't bail you out what's your plan

00:08:42.240 if you don't get married um so my plan if i don't get married is basically to have a property which i

00:08:50.240 already do um but and then just just explore the world and see what's going on and just be happy but

00:08:57.440 no i do i have other things it depends on work well well yeah because it like let's say you live

00:09:02.320 to be 90 and like you you can't really work after like 65 70. so it's like what what do you do for

00:09:08.160 that 20 years if you don't get married like most people need two incomes to retire yeah you can get

00:09:13.200 into only funds oh girl no one of only only five percent of only fan it's either prostitutes or only fans 1.00

00:09:21.040 are after like 40 45 you don't really have that option you can still go into it i know a woman that's 1.00

00:09:25.280 like 70 and she doesn't yeah there's there's a lot of milfs on there and stuff also one of they're not

00:09:29.600 making the money you guys are making i promise you that also one um one of my um jobs um they asked me

00:09:37.200 if uh if i'm on only fans because they were not going to give me the job if i was on only fans because

00:09:42.000 it's um negative yeah negative press i know so yeah um sex work now i understand that but like

00:09:50.160 actually that's one point that i would like to to point out so um in certain law firms that i've

00:09:55.200 worked at before when we are going through people's um finances say for example if they're buying a

00:10:00.080 property we have to go through there yeah we when we've got when we've had people that they're getting

00:10:06.480 their money through only fans a lot of the time it can preclude them from being able to go through with

00:10:10.480 a property sale because only fans is potentially a high risk um company and there's also ties to

00:10:20.400 child child porn sex trafficking and things like that so a lot of women don't know this but when 1.00

00:10:25.440 they go to buy a property and you're asked okay what are your source of funds what are your source 0.94

00:10:29.280 of wealth and it turns out that this is where your money is coming from it's highly likely that you

00:10:34.000 may not be it depends on the law firm and it's really up to them but you may not be able to get

00:10:38.080 a property because your money is potentially coming from an illegitimate place so there's

00:10:42.640 the potential for money laundering and you know a law firm does not want to be involved with any

00:10:47.280 illegitimate source of funds so something that you have to consider yeah well i was looking to be able

00:10:51.920 to like buy outright so it wasn't too much of a problem i mean obviously it is like because you

00:10:56.160 can't like easily then snap up like 10 houses but i guess they're like buying outright you know you've

00:11:02.640 paid for it so but that's the thing you're right like the people who came to us at that time they

00:11:07.600 they were able to buy the properties outright but we had to turn them away because our firm didn't

00:11:12.320 want to be associated with a company that um promotes uh child exploitation and sex trafficking

00:11:19.600 yeah no it does come with a lot of problems but you know i recognize that and that's something i'm

00:11:23.840 willing to do and i just think i mean it's it's good that you know that that you're aware but i think a

00:11:29.120 lot of girls aren't aware and they don't think about the future consequences of what could happen 1.00

00:11:32.880 to them yeah and i think that it's sad because it's like fast money fast attention but it could

00:11:37.280 really preclude you from getting property in the future and then possibly no no include you from

00:11:41.360 getting married as well because men potentially don't want to sleep that well they probably want

00:11:46.160 to sleep with you but they probably don't want to marry yeah no i agree there's a lot of repercussions

00:11:50.080 to doing only fans and that's why i always stress if someone wants to start it they should think

00:11:53.520 for it like thoroughly i thought about it for like a year before i actually did it and stuff like that

00:11:57.520 but i know obviously a lot of girls these days are just kind of going into it because they think 0.98

00:12:01.040 it's going to be quick easy money which you know it it can be but it you know later on in life then

00:12:06.320 they come up with a lot of problems yeah as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we

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JustPearlyThings - August 25, 2023

Her Mum ENCOURAGED Her To Do Only Fans

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