JustPearlyThings - How A Man Identifies a Good Woman

00:00:00.000 okay so how did you say how does a man identify a good woman i would say that a man identifies a 1.00

00:00:06.400 good woman if she's one healthy and fit that's important okay especially for childbearing and 1.00

00:00:11.980 i'd say number two if she has traditional values if she believes in being submissive if she believes 0.80

00:00:17.100 in being feminine she she she she loves that question we're gonna get to the men okay 0.77

00:00:24.800 it was just whoever's sitting you know um and then i think if she wants to cook if she's okay

00:00:33.200 cleaning she wants she's a homemaker she would love to you know have children and take care of 1.00

00:00:37.200 them and be a housewife um i think that's beautiful um and so that's what i think identifies a good

00:00:42.140 woman okay um what about you well identifying as a good woman nowadays is a bit difficult

00:00:49.460 however i would emphasize on the values and uh the morals of the woman um primarily 1.00

00:00:57.420 her ability to be a good wife her ability to raise good children and even her thoughts and the things

00:01:04.840 she has in mind because she's going to be molding the next generation and uh so how does he know

00:01:10.180 well it can because you know women lie like we can just say things like i'm but you know if you have 0.98

00:01:16.460 like a deep conversation with a person she can still lie but no but to an extent but believe me

00:01:23.840 throughout time you can identify okay so how much how much time

00:01:27.760 if it's um i would say i would give it like three months but it can okay so three months of

00:01:37.040 constant um constant uh meeting okay so you think in three months he can see if she has traditional

00:01:44.540 values yes she would i mean just so healthy so he can look she healthy and fit cool yeah um

00:01:50.840 is she how can he test if she's submissive he can ask something and see the reaction so ask her to 0.90

00:01:57.960 do something and see what she does for example you can tell i mean as if a man tells to a woman can you

00:02:03.140 uh please make me a coffee or a meal and she say hell no i'm not doing this to you i mean that's 1.00

00:02:07.640 see her for three months ask her to make him a coffee okay

00:02:12.560 what else can he do how does he uh does he like what else what else does he do

00:02:27.020 i mean well uh because i was here just find a good woman so i'm just trying to get from the women 0.99

00:02:33.400 how did the men just find a good woman yeah it's his ability to identify what he values in

00:02:40.040 in a woman okay i mean that's gonna be subjective to an extent yeah so i'm asking like

00:02:45.640 what what makes someone a good woman and how does he identify that i think what you were saying as

00:02:50.680 well men do test women i've been tested by men like with certain things how does he test it so

00:02:55.440 like oh can you cook for me can you make me food or like on the spot though ask to cook on

00:03:01.200 it really happens you know it's a good test it really happens for real and then he will know if

00:03:08.120 do you know how to cook can you cook properly do you know what i mean even your presentation

00:03:12.820 that's how you deliver the food dropping the gravy on the side of the plate so i'm just i want to get

00:03:17.320 step by step for the we're going to let the men talk i'm just curious how it's going to align with

00:03:21.860 what you guys say from the women than the men um okay so first he's got to see her for three months

00:03:26.940 ask her to make him a coffee and ask to cook oh i disagree with all of that i think that

00:03:33.980 honestly if it's a high value man most of the time he's gonna know without all of that honestly

00:03:41.600 most of the men nowadays how does he know um there is this i don't know if it's the right word

00:03:48.340 but there is this aura there is this sense when you sit with a woman who you know is going to

00:03:55.120 be respectful to you or not i honestly feel that you think that average men just know this

00:04:00.720 because you're talking about high value that's like yeah that's like five percent of i know but

00:04:04.880 but average men nowadays look at high value men's content more and more and more okay and try to see

00:04:11.360 so you think and i think you think i'm just curious you think men just know they don't just

00:04:17.740 know but they should get to a point to just know so they they have to how so how does he get to that

00:04:24.360 point that he just knows well slowly slowly slowly we're getting to a point where i think they need

00:04:30.300 to go to certain parts of the world to know and certain parts of the world they will just know that

00:04:36.280 90 percent of the women will not be like that and okay so he has to he needs to travel to slowly 0.98

00:04:41.800 we're getting he needs to travel somewhere else and then experience those women and then compare

00:04:46.660 exactly exactly okay but for for a guy that doesn't travel like he stays in the west because most remember

00:04:51.920 most guys don't make a ton of money like i think half of uh u.s men don't have passports yeah so so

00:04:58.320 most men are traveling like that so for a guy that's not traveling how does he know good woman versus bad

00:05:03.400 woman i would say if you if the first conversation with her is like oh so where are we going to

00:05:09.800 dinner are we having drinks this is not a right way to to meet i think when you meet a girl you 0.78

00:05:15.860 should take her for coffee and that's it even if you like her so much that you take on a coffee date

00:05:22.760 and see what she's like and see if she's i don't know if she wants to continue the date and get you to 1.00

00:05:30.340 buy her dinner and can a man know a good woman from a bad woman without experiencing a lot of women 0.99

00:05:35.840 no not really okay so so so in order to identify he he asked uh what he i would suggest that in

00:05:45.280 in his 20s he dates as many women as he can that's what that's what okay okay okay so so so how many

00:05:52.200 women should he date as much as you can yeah as much as you can yeah i'm not saying sleep with

00:05:59.140 all of them date as many women as possible to tell the difference i read because again remember i just

00:06:09.240 want to remind everybody the stats one out of three women has an std one out of three women has had an

00:06:14.480 abortion 38 of women or of kids are born into single parent homes meaning 38 of the next generation

00:06:22.420 has never seen a functioning marriage um average child first child is before the average age of

00:06:28.960 first marriage so the first kid 26 first marriage 30 half of marriages will end in divorce average

00:06:35.400 number of partners for a woman is between four and eight um and that's self-reported so you know take

00:06:42.180 that to the grain of salt but women um have a 20 chance of being in a happy marriage if they have 1.00

00:06:46.860 slept with more than five people so um yeah and if men get divorced they can be financially ruined and

00:06:54.400 their kids can be taken from them um 70 of women are overweight so basically there's a lot riding on 1.00

00:06:59.920 them picking the right woman so i'm trying to give them a foolproof plan that makes sense there's a book

00:07:05.260 that i read called sex at dawn and in this book they were making a case basically for

00:07:11.160 polyamory and polyamorous relationships which i don't resonate with personally but i was trying

00:07:16.280 to convince myself because everyone else seems to think that's a good idea except for me so i thought

00:07:19.860 well i gotta read this book but at the end of the book they had a very interesting fact about the olfactory

00:07:24.240 um sense right your nose like actually we sniff each other out a woman can tell if a man will 1.00

00:07:31.440 compliment her differences genetically i've heard that yeah and then but a woman actually can't if she's 1.00

00:07:37.500 taking birth control oh it's disabled but a man can actually sniff her out he can genetically identify 1.00

00:07:45.700 through his olfactory you know sense through his nose whether or not she'll compliment his genetic

00:07:51.400 weaknesses so how does he know what does he have to smell for i don't know that's a good question

00:07:55.740 but apparently it's like a deep very primal thing about so maybe traction maybe make sure she's not

00:08:02.040 on birth control yes right for example not on birth control i think that works both ways i wonder what

00:08:09.000 percent hold on i want to i just want to look up because i'm curious what percent of women are on birth 1.00

00:08:15.680 control also who here is on birth control raise your hand no one not anymore i mean clearly one out of

00:08:21.880 three or have an abortion so i'm like it can't be that high uh the majority uh oh 90 percent of

00:08:29.640 women have used contraceptives throughout their reproductive years um and have used more than

00:08:35.400 one in their lifetime 76 percent wow okay we just have a good room i guess i'm gonna add that to my stats

00:08:42.180 okay um sorry can i just add one more thing that came to my mind um ask her about the family you know

00:08:50.060 sometimes i do understand that not all of the parents can stay together of course there are

00:08:55.400 special situations but just see how she talks about her family what is her relationship like with her

00:09:02.800 family and her her dad too you know so if a girl even if a girl is not on good terms with her dad but

00:09:11.920 she disrespects him by talking trash to a guy that's not a girl that you should marry 1.00

00:09:17.260 honestly and if i don't think you can disagree with this because there's no but even if you

00:09:24.460 haven't got a great relationship with your or he's your father's absent it doesn't mean

00:09:28.360 that the woman is going to be a wreck it's not necessarily true i'm not saying that but 0.78

00:09:33.140 why do we have the phrase daddy issues if it doesn't mean anything but some most people will

00:09:40.800 not okay a lot of people that have daddy issues and we don't know who they are i'm one of them but

00:09:45.340 i'm not a disrespectful person to men like i'm not well yeah we're not talking about you but in

00:09:49.780 general like it's your dad no matter what like i think if you've never if you've never seen a

00:09:54.420 healthy relationship how would you know how to do it exactly like if i've never seen anyone ride

00:09:58.900 a bike how would i learn to ride a bike i feel like it's common sense i feel like it's like

00:10:03.040 morality if it was if it was common then why do half of relationships end in divorce and why is the

00:10:08.720 older generation known for being so unhappy in their marriages because men pick women based off the 0.74

00:10:13.960 off the surface they don't actually get uh get to find a deeper meaning so why if women swipe right 1.00

00:10:18.920 on dating apps which is the most superficial only five percent of the time and men swipe right 50

00:10:23.180 percent of the time who's more superficial men or women women but most women are hoes 1.00

00:10:27.940 for real no for real for real they are no that's incorrect one out of three men are either virgins 0.94

00:10:34.200 or having had sex in the past year i feel like a lot of women sleep around one out of one out of 1.00

00:10:37.360 three men are either virgins or having had sex in the past year wow i think a lot of women sleep 0.99

00:10:42.060 around so i'll tell yeah a lot of women do sleep around i i do think that so what you're saying 1.00

00:10:47.340 with the same yeah so it's like 20 of men are fucking all the girls essentially in their 20s and 0.98

00:10:51.900 then when women hit 30 they'll expand it like basically like women typically go for looks in 1.00

00:10:56.540 their 20s um women pick like when women this is the first time in history where women have been 0.99

00:11:00.900 um the sexual selectors so like pick to historically think about it you had to get along with the dude

00:11:05.780 or you die like they would pick they would pick you you wouldn't pick them uh but now this is the

00:11:10.540 first time where women have been 100 in control of reproduction because we have birth control we're 0.92

00:11:14.580 in control of abortion so we are 100 in control of who's born and it's funny because the more freedom

00:11:19.340 women get the more we screw the same people in our prime which is like 22 to 24 um they surveyed 1.00

00:11:24.940 men between like 20 and 80 and they said when do you find women most attractive it's like roughly 22

00:11:29.500 to 24 all the ages think that so when women have the most choice it's interesting because we pick 0.89

00:11:34.620 non-monogamy and we and we tend to go for looks and women react out of emotion yeah solely out of emotion 0.96

00:11:42.540 a lot of the time which is why you see so many women sleeping with so many men and making decisions on 1.00

00:11:48.300 the spot that aren't responsible like abortion yeah so if the majority of women are going for 1.00

00:11:53.420 men that's not monogamous then why they fight for a man to be monogamous i mean i think they want him

00:11:58.540 to be but so they want to change the man basically they see a man they want to say for the top 20 or

00:12:04.940 whatever which they know is they can tell that he gets a lot of girls or whatever yeah so they want 0.96

00:12:09.900 to try and lock down that one man so you don't yeah okay i mean i think that's like every girl's you know

00:12:15.580 the dream it has a you know what cinderella was sitting at home and the prince like came and

00:12:20.700 picked her out of all the princesses exactly they want to say i was the one who changed him they've

00:12:25.660 been selling us this dream forever exactly exactly um

JustPearlyThings - August 13, 2023

How A Man Identifies a Good Woman

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