How A Man Identifies a Good Woman
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a good woman and what it takes to find a good wife. We discuss the differences between good women and good men, how to identify good women, and how to determine if a woman is a "good woman".
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okay so how did you say how does a man identify a good woman i would say that a man identifies a
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good woman if she's one healthy and fit that's important okay especially for childbearing and
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i'd say number two if she has traditional values if she believes in being submissive if she believes
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in being feminine she she she she loves that question we're gonna get to the men okay
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it was just whoever's sitting you know um and then i think if she wants to cook if she's okay
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cleaning she wants she's a homemaker she would love to you know have children and take care of
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them and be a housewife um i think that's beautiful um and so that's what i think identifies a good
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woman okay um what about you well identifying as a good woman nowadays is a bit difficult
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however i would emphasize on the values and uh the morals of the woman um primarily
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her ability to be a good wife her ability to raise good children and even her thoughts and the things
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she has in mind because she's going to be molding the next generation and uh so how does he know
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well it can because you know women lie like we can just say things like i'm but you know if you have
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like a deep conversation with a person she can still lie but no but to an extent but believe me
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throughout time you can identify okay so how much how much time
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if it's um i would say i would give it like three months but it can okay so three months of
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constant um constant uh meeting okay so you think in three months he can see if she has traditional
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values yes she would i mean just so healthy so he can look she healthy and fit cool yeah um
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is she how can he test if she's submissive he can ask something and see the reaction so ask her to
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do something and see what she does for example you can tell i mean as if a man tells to a woman can you
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uh please make me a coffee or a meal and she say hell no i'm not doing this to you i mean that's
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see her for three months ask her to make him a coffee okay
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what else can he do how does he uh does he like what else what else does he do
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i mean well uh because i was here just find a good woman so i'm just trying to get from the women
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how did the men just find a good woman yeah it's his ability to identify what he values in
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in a woman okay i mean that's gonna be subjective to an extent yeah so i'm asking like
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what what makes someone a good woman and how does he identify that i think what you were saying as
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well men do test women i've been tested by men like with certain things how does he test it so
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like oh can you cook for me can you make me food or like on the spot though ask to cook on
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it really happens you know it's a good test it really happens for real and then he will know if
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do you know how to cook can you cook properly do you know what i mean even your presentation
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that's how you deliver the food dropping the gravy on the side of the plate so i'm just i want to get
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step by step for the we're going to let the men talk i'm just curious how it's going to align with
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what you guys say from the women than the men um okay so first he's got to see her for three months
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ask her to make him a coffee and ask to cook oh i disagree with all of that i think that
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honestly if it's a high value man most of the time he's gonna know without all of that honestly
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most of the men nowadays how does he know um there is this i don't know if it's the right word
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but there is this aura there is this sense when you sit with a woman who you know is going to
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be respectful to you or not i honestly feel that you think that average men just know this
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because you're talking about high value that's like yeah that's like five percent of i know but
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but average men nowadays look at high value men's content more and more and more okay and try to see
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so you think and i think you think i'm just curious you think men just know they don't just
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know but they should get to a point to just know so they they have to how so how does he get to that
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point that he just knows well slowly slowly slowly we're getting to a point where i think they need
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to go to certain parts of the world to know and certain parts of the world they will just know that
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90 percent of the women will not be like that and okay so he has to he needs to travel to slowly
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we're getting he needs to travel somewhere else and then experience those women and then compare
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exactly exactly okay but for for a guy that doesn't travel like he stays in the west because most remember
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most guys don't make a ton of money like i think half of uh u.s men don't have passports yeah so so
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most men are traveling like that so for a guy that's not traveling how does he know good woman versus bad
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woman i would say if you if the first conversation with her is like oh so where are we going to
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dinner are we having drinks this is not a right way to to meet i think when you meet a girl you
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should take her for coffee and that's it even if you like her so much that you take on a coffee date
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and see what she's like and see if she's i don't know if she wants to continue the date and get you to
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buy her dinner and can a man know a good woman from a bad woman without experiencing a lot of women
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no not really okay so so so in order to identify he he asked uh what he i would suggest that in
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in his 20s he dates as many women as he can that's what that's what okay okay okay so so so how many
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women should he date as much as you can yeah as much as you can yeah i'm not saying sleep with
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all of them date as many women as possible to tell the difference i read because again remember i just
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want to remind everybody the stats one out of three women has an std one out of three women has had an
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abortion 38 of women or of kids are born into single parent homes meaning 38 of the next generation
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has never seen a functioning marriage um average child first child is before the average age of
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first marriage so the first kid 26 first marriage 30 half of marriages will end in divorce average
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number of partners for a woman is between four and eight um and that's self-reported so you know take
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that to the grain of salt but women um have a 20 chance of being in a happy marriage if they have
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slept with more than five people so um yeah and if men get divorced they can be financially ruined and
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their kids can be taken from them um 70 of women are overweight so basically there's a lot riding on
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them picking the right woman so i'm trying to give them a foolproof plan that makes sense there's a book
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that i read called sex at dawn and in this book they were making a case basically for
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polyamory and polyamorous relationships which i don't resonate with personally but i was trying
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to convince myself because everyone else seems to think that's a good idea except for me so i thought
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well i gotta read this book but at the end of the book they had a very interesting fact about the olfactory
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um sense right your nose like actually we sniff each other out a woman can tell if a man will
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compliment her differences genetically i've heard that yeah and then but a woman actually can't if she's
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taking birth control oh it's disabled but a man can actually sniff her out he can genetically identify
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through his olfactory you know sense through his nose whether or not she'll compliment his genetic
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weaknesses so how does he know what does he have to smell for i don't know that's a good question
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but apparently it's like a deep very primal thing about so maybe traction maybe make sure she's not
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on birth control yes right for example not on birth control i think that works both ways i wonder what
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percent hold on i want to i just want to look up because i'm curious what percent of women are on birth
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control also who here is on birth control raise your hand no one not anymore i mean clearly one out of
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three or have an abortion so i'm like it can't be that high uh the majority uh oh 90 percent of
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women have used contraceptives throughout their reproductive years um and have used more than
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one in their lifetime 76 percent wow okay we just have a good room i guess i'm gonna add that to my stats
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okay um sorry can i just add one more thing that came to my mind um ask her about the family you know
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sometimes i do understand that not all of the parents can stay together of course there are
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special situations but just see how she talks about her family what is her relationship like with her
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family and her her dad too you know so if a girl even if a girl is not on good terms with her dad but
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she disrespects him by talking trash to a guy that's not a girl that you should marry
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honestly and if i don't think you can disagree with this because there's no but even if you
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haven't got a great relationship with your or he's your father's absent it doesn't mean
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that the woman is going to be a wreck it's not necessarily true i'm not saying that but
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why do we have the phrase daddy issues if it doesn't mean anything but some most people will
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not okay a lot of people that have daddy issues and we don't know who they are i'm one of them but
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i'm not a disrespectful person to men like i'm not well yeah we're not talking about you but in
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general like it's your dad no matter what like i think if you've never if you've never seen a
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healthy relationship how would you know how to do it exactly like if i've never seen anyone ride
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a bike how would i learn to ride a bike i feel like it's common sense i feel like it's like
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morality if it was if it was common then why do half of relationships end in divorce and why is the
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older generation known for being so unhappy in their marriages because men pick women based off the
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off the surface they don't actually get uh get to find a deeper meaning so why if women swipe right
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on dating apps which is the most superficial only five percent of the time and men swipe right 50
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percent of the time who's more superficial men or women women but most women are hoes
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for real no for real for real they are no that's incorrect one out of three men are either virgins
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or having had sex in the past year i feel like a lot of women sleep around one out of one out of
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three men are either virgins or having had sex in the past year wow i think a lot of women sleep
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around so i'll tell yeah a lot of women do sleep around i i do think that so what you're saying
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with the same yeah so it's like 20 of men are fucking all the girls essentially in their 20s and
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then when women hit 30 they'll expand it like basically like women typically go for looks in
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their 20s um women pick like when women this is the first time in history where women have been
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um the sexual selectors so like pick to historically think about it you had to get along with the dude
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or you die like they would pick they would pick you you wouldn't pick them uh but now this is the
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first time where women have been 100 in control of reproduction because we have birth control we're
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in control of abortion so we are 100 in control of who's born and it's funny because the more freedom
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women get the more we screw the same people in our prime which is like 22 to 24 um they surveyed
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men between like 20 and 80 and they said when do you find women most attractive it's like roughly 22
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to 24 all the ages think that so when women have the most choice it's interesting because we pick
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non-monogamy and we and we tend to go for looks and women react out of emotion yeah solely out of emotion
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a lot of the time which is why you see so many women sleeping with so many men and making decisions on
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the spot that aren't responsible like abortion yeah so if the majority of women are going for
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men that's not monogamous then why they fight for a man to be monogamous i mean i think they want him
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to be but so they want to change the man basically they see a man they want to say for the top 20 or
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whatever which they know is they can tell that he gets a lot of girls or whatever yeah so they want
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to try and lock down that one man so you don't yeah okay i mean i think that's like every girl's you know
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the dream it has a you know what cinderella was sitting at home and the prince like came and
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picked her out of all the princesses exactly they want to say i was the one who changed him they've
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been selling us this dream forever exactly exactly um