How Long Is TOO LONG
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Summary
How long should it take to get a woman pregnant? How long should a woman wait to get pregnant? Is it too long to wait for a woman to have a baby? How many months should you wait before you commit to a woman?
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Date as many women as possible to tell the difference.
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And figure out what her relationship's like with her family and her dad.
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What do you agree with, disagree with, and what would you like to add?
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Have you ever dated a girl for three months and she changes completely?
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You know when the biggest change of a woman happens?
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For me, that's when I see the biggest change in a woman.
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So you won't even really know your woman until she has a child properly.
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So in order to find a good woman, you have to get her pregnant?
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But I'm saying, from my experience, I have three kids, innit?
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So I saw the biggest change when the woman had a child.
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So how long should you see her before you marry her, knock her up, whatever?
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Three months is a good time to determine whether she's being genuine.
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So you got to see her for three months in order to date her?
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I mean, I don't think, as he said, you can't really determine anyone as the true person
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as they're being genuine as they say they are for, like, the first three months, genuinely.
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If you've lived with someone, that's different.
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If you move in with someone, you can see the truth, like, a lot quicker.
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It's not a problem if you sleep with a woman the first night
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or you sleep with a woman two months down the line.
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Because you can sleep with a woman straight away
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and have a great connection and a great relationship with her.
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A woman can hold out for six months and whatever
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and there's a man out here that will sit there for six months.
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No matter how good the girl is, you ain't waiting.
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Because I'm not going to be the one that waits.
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You've just met her off the street, whatever, dating app, whatever.
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But the thing is, I've done three months when I was young.
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But when I had the three months, that relationship lasted.
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If she's the one, then I could wait like a year.
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You have to be in her life for that whole time.
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So if she's not a virgin, will you wait for a year for her?
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Are you sleeping with other people at the time?
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The average, the nice, I don't know, your favorite girl that you've been on a date with.
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I was just trying to get it out of your visual.
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If you're talking about favorites, it didn't last...
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No, but how long would you wait for a girl you liked?
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You're like three weeks, roughly a month, a month.
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Sleep with her as soon as possible and wait up to...
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Up to one month to a year, depending on the guy.
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Because what if you wait a year and you don't like it?
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Okay, so when should you ask her to make you a coffee?
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It depends on the communication and the conversation that you have.
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And the maddest thing is, the girl that I'm seeing now, this is the first time I've ever
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gone coffee and we had a mad conversation in Costa over coffee.
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Through conversation and through certain things, a man would get an idea.
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So adding on to what Rome's the same with family values, traditional, maybe even fair
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or God, like conversation with her, you will understand a lot more about her.
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Okay, so take on coffee date, sleep with her as soon as possible.
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You're getting on coffee date after you finish waiting.
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Go on coffee date, either before or after you sleep with her.
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The reason why you could say that now is because you're in a position to be open, to be receptive
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You know, like we're going clubbing or, you know, it depends on the man as well.
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I'm not putting blame on the man, but it's a two-way street.
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A lot of Purley's list man has, so I've probably gone through dating women, gone through this,
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So now when I meet someone, I can analyse a good woman, do you get what I'm saying?
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I feel like, to your question of where's all the good women gone yet, I feel like a lot
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of good women don't have the values of back in the day.
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So women, I don't know back in the day because I wasn't born back in the day, but I think
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a lot of women don't want to show wife credentials before they're a wife.
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So they will hold things back expecting you to put a ring on their finger.
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Because it's like, oh, I can do this, but I'm not going to do these until I'm your wife.
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But man, I'm thinking, man, I'm thinking, bro, all right, if you're going to, cool, there's
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other girl out here that's going to show me what a wife is.
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But imagine acting like a wife and doing full throttle, like cooking's different, but full
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throttle acting like a wife for you to go and see someone else or play around.
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Because a man coming into it is showing you're ready.
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If you want a promotion, don't you do the job that he gives you first?
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Or do you say promote me with no work experience?
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Me and you are in a relationship or we're building up a relationship and then we go out
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and then, I don't know, a gal beat you up or something happens, right, right.
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I'm here to protect you, but I just stand there and just watch you.
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When we go home now, what are you going to say to me?
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But no one would, I mean, if no one would do that, you can't say no one because there's
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If I don't protect you when I'm out with you and you're rolling out with me, when we
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As in a fighting situation, that's not a good example.
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Okay, whatever the situation where you need protecting and I don't protect you in that
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situation, what are you doing after that situation?
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I can't answer that question because I don't know what you mean by protecting.
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There was like a canoeing thing and a kayak thing and he didn't show up.
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And I really questioned my future with this guy.
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But if you don't show your wife credentials to the man, what do you think he's going to
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The thing is, there's an extent, there's a limit.
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You can't do everything because you don't know if that man's serious yet.
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And I'm not, you're not out here proofing that.
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Listen, he needs to prove to you that he's a good...
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