JustPearlyThings - How Many Bodies Does It Takes to Be a Hoe

00:00:00.000 okay how many bodies do you guys think it takes for a girl to become a hoe does it exist i don't 0.98

00:00:07.460 really have one obviously because it doesn't affect me but i think guys say about five

00:00:11.200 five really i hear guys say ten that's like the most pop yeah like ten to fifteen that's what i

00:00:17.600 hear what age are you talking about because i think it depends on the age right um i don't know

00:00:23.240 i just that's whenever i ask this question on the street a lot and that's just the most

00:00:28.060 common answer i get ten i think you can only regardless of age um i'm trying to think when

00:00:33.540 i've asked guys about 10 it seems like 10 at 30 is not too bad 10 at 25 well and to be honest the guys

00:00:42.100 say 10 they'll usually like i see who they date you know and so they really deal with about 20

00:00:48.820 like to be honest they just won't like tell you and i just know because like

00:00:52.540 you know i think the ideal would be like four five six yeah no that's what that's what guys

00:00:59.400 like they want below five that's ideal 10 like 10 they feel like you're a hoe 15 to 20 they'll deal 0.99

00:01:07.340 with but it's not preferred and then after 20 it's like i've got no hope then basically yeah no it's

00:01:12.980 really sad no it actually makes me kind of sad for you because you're a pretty girl and you're

00:01:19.100 actually very pleasant but it's like because you've made those choices i think it's going to

00:01:23.040 be hard for you but babe you'll find someone who doesn't care about that exactly like everyone

00:01:27.120 actually cares about that yeah and i and i think that you know it's just opinion did you know like

00:01:31.740 50 percent of women are projected to be single and childless really um no just in general i mean i

00:01:39.380 don't think it's just women that have slept with a lot of people but they're predicting half of our 1.00

00:01:42.760 generation is going to be single and childless because we don't know how to be wives i think you can 1.00

00:01:46.740 only i think a hoe is when you're still doing the same things so like i wouldn't say like let's just 0.94

00:01:54.180 say a girl as a hoe she slept with let's just say 30 people right but she hasn't slept with a lot of 1.00

00:02:01.560 people for three years let's let's say she hasn't slept with people for three years anyone is she still 0.80

00:02:07.520 a hoe yeah why because i think is someone if someone that's been to prison are they still a criminal 0.98

00:02:13.820 no no yes they are you got me thinking you got me thinking be honest if you can learn from things

00:02:22.500 that's the that's the thing so like if a girl is you know they've grown and they've learned that's

00:02:28.000 that's immature i'm i'm valuable and i actually want someone to love me for me and they don't sleep

00:02:33.960 with anyone and they wait for the right person to come i feel like you've grown and you've matured and

00:02:39.040 have you ever have you ever switched a habit what do you mean like have you ever had a habit and like

00:02:43.960 you switched it so like maybe you didn't work out and you started working out or maybe you ate

00:02:47.960 a bad food and then you stopped yeah and you know it's you know how difficult it was for you to switch

00:02:52.960 that habit yeah like it wasn't easy and and that's the thing it's just like if you've done that for so

00:02:57.720 long it's not saying you can't change some people do but it's just on a balance of probabilities

00:03:02.560 why would a guy deal with a girl that has more bad habits than a girl who doesn't because she's used to 0.97

00:03:07.520 going out all the time she's used to going on all these dates if you've slept with a lot of guys i'm 1.00

00:03:11.720 sure you've been on like super nice dates at some you know like and how and so now if you meet the

00:03:16.800 average joe you know which maybe would have been your husband how is he going to impress you because

00:03:22.940 the thing is you've always got it in the back of your mind yeah not that materialistic things matter

00:03:28.140 but you do have it at the back of your mind thinking oh that was such a nice date where the sun was

00:03:33.500 going down and the bar was really nice but now i'm just going to a regular bar or something and it

00:03:40.060 you think back at it when you're at that table at a regular place when i shouldn't but you do

00:03:47.040 automatically do that sometimes and you know i'll be honest about that but that's just how it comes

00:03:52.660 i've i've made that decision to do what i've done um and yeah you've just gotta no and i and i appreciate

00:04:01.300 you being honest about it but like you see how it becomes a problem yeah yeah i can see what you

00:04:05.960 mean yeah yeah because it's like with 80 it's like how many guys did you really really really like

00:04:11.000 yeah not a lot but sometimes you can get yourself in situations like and i and i'm sure i'm sorry

00:04:16.720 but and i'm sure the guys that you did really really like like something was really special about

00:04:21.720 them and it's really hard to replace that like i think it's hard for a girl that's up with five guys

00:04:26.520 to replace the ones you liked and you've always got them in your mind right whatever wherever you

00:04:31.220 are kind of thing and admit that even now it's still like that so the guy how how many guys are

00:04:36.920 you thinking of when i'm talking about this probably about five or six about five or six out of the 80s

00:04:42.020 which is actually good right so out of the five or six the five or six guys you're like thinking

00:04:48.380 about because you know when i know who they are as well because no because when i talk about this

00:04:53.220 stuff i'm sure there's someone that comes to you guys's head like there's someone that comes to my

00:04:56.420 head right but it's like so out of the five or six guys did you sleep with them early on or late

00:05:01.400 i'm just curious um it was kind of throughout the whole period actually it was more stretched out

00:05:08.940 um but i don't know actually i reckon in the past two years actually recently

00:05:14.780 i've had a couple of guys in my life um that have stuck on my mind

00:05:19.280 what no because it's always i always wonder if like at that point you can still like bond at that

00:05:26.780 level where a guy really really gets you yeah yeah but you're saying like you could because i'm

00:05:32.560 guessing at like what at like 50 you but it just he has to be really really special very special it

00:05:38.100 takes me a lot now i think for a guy to for me to fall in love i don't think i've fully been in

00:05:43.960 love i don't know what love is so i admit that pearl i got a question so all three of you girls

00:05:50.320 really beautiful women thank you thank you have you ever met a guy that was loyal nice checked off 0.92

00:05:58.360 all the the boxes that are required for you know a long-term relationship but you looked over him

00:06:04.940 and chose a guy that you knew was never gonna commit to you never gonna give you loyalty never

00:06:11.140 gonna get you the attention and the respect that you deserve yeah i have and you know do you know

00:06:18.420 why is that you know what it is though hold on why why is it that you choose the man you know the

00:06:23.780 outcome let's not act like we don't know when you meet the attractive guy in the club he's got a

00:06:29.920 suit on he's got change he's got listen the most attention i've ever got from women in the club was 1.00

00:06:34.400 when i brought other women with me when i went with my boys few looks when i showed up with a 1.00

00:06:43.500 bunch of women the attention was unlimited because you want what other girls want but my question is 0.53

00:06:49.880 why do you choose you know the outcome this is why i talk about playing the victim and accountability 1.00

00:06:54.780 earlier when i talked about healing yeah because there's no way you can fuck with a fuck boy 1.00

00:06:59.600 and know that yeah but you can't control that bro girls that's what that's what's in it no but 0.99

00:07:05.400 yeah i know but the question is why do you choose what you know the result choose bro that's what

00:07:12.000 they're attracted to bro they can't just choose it i talked about that earlier attraction and around

00:07:16.120 they're attracted they can't help it bro but i'm trying to get deep-rooted with it i'm trying to get

00:07:19.500 deep-rooted with it so why do you choose the bad guy over the good guy when you know the result of

00:07:24.240 both because the good guy can treat you good and he may not arouse you we like that excitement of the

00:07:29.600 bad boys so don't choose it in your 30s when your value is less and expect that man to settle for

00:07:35.360 you know i think the best solution is you know i think that's all i'm saying i think it's a bad

00:07:39.360 when you're most valuable give your man that value at that time listen listen listen jivani cool i think

00:07:45.800 the best solution is yeah to find that bad boy to find that guy that gets a lot of women and make 1.00

00:07:50.680 him good status and change him do you know what i'm saying you're not gonna change him no really

00:07:55.480 you're not gonna change him every woman thinks that they can change a man and that's a fact when 1.00

00:07:59.960 a guy exactly and that's the excitement that's the excitement when i got when a girl thinks they

00:08:04.680 can change a man that's exciting for them oh i can change him i can make him mine it's a game

00:08:09.240 that's not reality though you got that right it's a game for you all these girls want him i can 0.99

00:08:13.000 change him and that's exciting for girls they don't want a guy that's got some talk that's on the

00:08:17.560 playstation like playing games they want a guy that's popular that's high in demand do you know

00:08:23.080 what i'm saying i like a guy with ambition do you do you think that's a good advice for the average

00:08:27.320 chick for the average to try to change a bad boy i think it's like to find the get find the guy that

00:08:32.920 actually loves you no matter what he does like as long as he loves you but is that is that typically

00:08:37.480 the like because usually if i'm just thinking stereotypically the bad boy has a bunch of women 0.99

00:08:41.640 after him yeah so like what are the odds that the average chick is going to get him like you don't 1.00

00:08:46.520 think for the average chick she should go for the nicer guys i think i think like giving myself as

00:08:50.360 an example like as a playboy when you find the girl that you actually love yeah and she knows that

00:08:57.720 you whatever whatever you do but you actually are in love with each other then it's fine you have a

00:09:03.160 nice long fulfilling relationship do you know what i'm saying she has a like interest to change you 0.99

00:09:09.960 you want to be with a virgin girl that you take a virginity easier that's the best aspect she never gets 1.00

00:09:15.000 bored you're happy easier but if you're with some girl that's ugly that no one wants her like 1.00

00:09:20.280 and she's not loyal whatever right but but knowing that women's like sleep up is that really good 0.63

00:09:26.200 advice for the average chick because she's probably sleeping up we're sleeping up most girls sleep yeah 1.00

00:09:31.880 so so it's like you know only like 20 percent of men really get sex like that like 15 20 percent of

00:09:36.920 men so when you guys sleep with someone it's probably the top 20 percent of men and so like why do 1.00

00:09:40.920 women think all men cheat like why do you guys date assholes because the assholes don't know any 1.00

00:09:44.840 different no no it's because like you guys want the top tier men and so if you're dating a guy that's 1.00

00:09:49.640 an asshole a guy that's cheating that means he can cheat one out of three men are either virgins or 0.97

00:09:53.720 having had sex in the past year so if you're going for a guy that's in the top percentage like he's more 1.00

00:09:58.600 likely to cheat and so that's what i'm saying like if you're a girl that's a five or six or seven can sleep

00:10:02.840 with an eight nine or ten but it doesn't make you an eight nine or ten and so the problem is like when you're

00:10:07.640 talking i'm thinking if she's going for the top 20 percent of guys which usually i would say they're 0.90

00:10:12.360 more of the assholes because they can be right the guy's not going to treat you as special if he's got 0.95

00:10:16.760 multiple like the average chick isn't going to slow him down pearl and i think it's also the average of 1.00

00:10:23.080 what environment you're in because if you most women sleep with the guys they work with so if you look 1.00

00:10:29.800 in the workplace they're everybody's sleeping with everybody it don't matter where you work i've worked

00:10:33.720 several jobs wherever you're working there's girls i've never slept with someone i've worked with 0.97

00:10:38.600 that's crazy that is not that is not the case at the jpt now i'll tell you that in general wherever

00:10:45.000 you work right right people are sleeping together because the guy that's sleeping with all the girls 1.00

00:10:50.120 in the campus you don't heard things about him whether whatever their sexual or status or whatever

00:10:55.400 and you know the guy how he is he's a player he sleeps with all the girls on on whatever job and you

00:11:01.160 still choose that you still choose to do that but it's also a sense of maturity if the woman actually

00:11:06.120 knows like what she wants then and she's matured in her mind a lot of us girls are delusional and 0.62

00:11:13.400 immature and we'd like to go for bad boys because we're in our immature state that's a fact as once

00:11:21.560 you've matured and you know what you like and what you you value what you like and you value within

00:11:27.560 yourself i don't know if i'm explaining this correctly i'm good you're doing good yeah um

00:11:32.040 you're good but you i personally don't like bad boys anymore and i think i was in an immature error

00:11:39.560 yes you're telling me right now yeah you're going for a guy that's not a bad boy that's loyal right now

00:11:47.160 a guy with ambition and drive and knows himself and knows how how he looks after a woman is so

00:11:56.120 attractive than a bad boy that doesn't know himself and know how to only disrespect women do you do you 0.99

00:12:02.600 sleep who do you sleep with faster hmm what do you who do you sleep with faster that's a good point

00:12:09.240 that's a very good bad boy or the good guy courtney's very different though she holds herself back a lot and 0.99

00:12:15.880 i have huge respect for this girl okay but could you answer the quote because you said you you've

00:12:23.400 dated cheaters in the past right yeah yeah yeah and so like the way men will see it is when you're

00:12:29.240 the younger you are the more valuable the like higher value you have as a woman right you you know 1.00

00:12:34.280 you know the sense of love if you're 50 and you're 20 you're more valuable to men at 20 right when it

00:12:38.680 comes to looks like what they're attracted to so it's like when you have the most to give and you have

00:12:43.560 the lowest body count you choose the bad boys like you're kind of seen as like leftover to the nice

00:12:48.200 guy and it's it's kind of like okay imagine if you if you found out if you're dating a guy and you

00:12:54.280 found out for their anniversary his ex-girlfriend he spent a ton of money on took her on trips did all

00:13:00.040 this stuff yeah and the most he's ever done for you is taking you to taco bell you'd be pissed right 0.99

00:13:06.520 that's how men feel when they find out you slept with tom dick and harry after one night but you made 0.94

00:13:11.080 him wait a month or a week that you're different right no okay but what if he said that to you 1.00

00:13:18.760 like oh it shows you're different i took you to taco bell you're a prick yeah but that's how guys see 0.51

00:13:26.280 it yeah so they they see it as oh when you were younger fitter like hotter you you gave your best 0.72

00:13:31.800 years to the bad boys and now it's like to them now and like they and it seems like and i genuinely

00:13:38.280 believe those are the guys that women really want but once you realize you can't tame them then you go 0.99

00:13:42.200 to the nice guys i don't know how to feel about that analogy you know what do you what do you not

00:13:46.920 feel about it i don't know like the taco bell thing no what she's basically saying is all right imagine

00:13:55.480 i'm dating her leila leila and i take it to a five five star hotel five star dining and you've seen

00:14:07.080 this you've seen this on my stories i post it we break up whatever and then when i take i take you

00:14:11.400 to taco bell what would you think you're worth when you've seen me take a woman and treat her right 1.00

00:14:17.800 you understand are you dating hi we're just maybe maybe not it doesn't matter what you've seen

00:14:23.720 okay but you've seen me take women whether you don't know who we're dating or not yeah i'd be pissed

00:14:28.520 exactly so how do you think a man would feel when he knows that you've given up in a day or two and

00:14:33.240 then you're sitting here demanding like oh you got to do all this you got to jump through this loophole you got

00:14:36.840 to do take me on this amount of dates you got to wait this amount of months what are you talking

00:14:41.000 about the sad reality is yeah the girl that will give it to a guy in an instant it's not the same

00:14:46.840 thing as like if they'll give it to a guy like that waits for like three months four months you know

00:14:51.800 what i'm saying it depends on his guy's not gonna wait three four months it depends on his value bro

00:14:55.640 listen it depends on his value let's say it's a proper valuable guy yeah she'll give it to him quicker

00:15:00.680 than a low value guy jonathan because in her instinct it makes more sense to give it to him quicker

00:15:06.360 jonathan for a low value or high value huh you said for a low value or high value that's true

00:15:12.040 no i i agree with you like women sleep with the men like we like more quicker but that's the whole

00:15:17.000 point we're making it's like when when for the bad guy you sleep with him quick and you make the nice

00:15:21.800 guy wait attractive but the issue and that's why i'm like i don't know if i would encourage women to 1.00

00:15:26.760 go for bad boys because it's like it like what are your odds of actually getting one at the end of the

00:15:32.040 day they're more protective they won't protect they'll protect them more they'll look after

00:15:35.640 them more they they tend to have money because they're aggressive they want aggressive in life

00:15:39.000 they know what they want so they get money you know i'm saying that comes with getting 0.97

00:15:42.280 bitches easy as there's nothing to do about it you know what i'm saying cool except the fact that 1.00

00:15:47.240 there's bitches he's gonna love you for the rest of his life he's gonna have kids with you 1.00

00:15:50.360 you know what i'm saying it's a beautiful thing it makes me smile when like let's say i'm imagining 0.98

00:15:54.680 myself having kids with my girl oh it's very cute that's so what so what if i just 0.99

00:15:58.760 fuck i'm scared like just like whatever you know what i'm saying 1.00

JustPearlyThings - August 11, 2023

How Many Bodies Does It Takes to Be a Hoe

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