JustPearlyThings - How MODERN WOMEN Destroy their KIDS

00:00:00.000 in childhood is a building like if you have a kid that's in a single mother home she's more likely 0.99

00:00:03.760 to go to jail she's more likely to drop out of school they're more likely to be sexually abused 0.99

00:00:07.680 by the stepdad they're more likely to have mental health issues every she's right every statistical

00:00:13.440 disadvantage you could put your kid out you're putting them at what because you're not happy

00:00:17.600 yeah you're in control of your happiness and that's it that's when we get into the maturing

00:00:21.360 thing happiness is that happiness kind of has to take a back seat yeah yeah yeah because not

00:00:27.280 everything's going to be happy all the time i hear it but at the same time it depends on the

00:00:30.720 abuse i think male or female if you're in an abusive relationship whether it's verbal

00:00:37.760 you're talking about the exception of being unhappy no but that plays in unhappiness that plays that

00:00:42.320 is unhappy wait wait wait but this is propaganda though they probably like they put this in the

00:00:47.040 media like we're so afraid of these men that are just abusing women all the time it's like five

00:00:51.760 percent if that of men that commit the majority of the crimes and what percent of them are

00:00:56.880 incarcerated yet women pick man that's incarcerated minute women pick these dangerous 0.97

00:01:02.880 men and then why yeah and then why when it happens so it's like am i am i gonna feel bad for you that

00:01:09.040 you picked a bad that's who you picked you made a kid with him work it out decisions have consequences

00:01:13.200 and you need to realize that you make not because a lot of times a lot of people need to realize that

00:01:18.560 the decisions that you make don't only just affect you they affect everyone around you and i see it like

00:01:23.840 today when we had um we had four girls come on the show for like the cat lady or um wife show and i 0.96

00:01:30.480 think did all four come from single mother homes i think all four either three out of four or four

00:01:36.000 did and you can see it in the way they view relationships like they all say partnership

00:01:41.440 like they don't even understand that husband and wife is a role it's like they don't know basic things

00:01:45.840 and and then it's like you get these kids that have never seen a functioning relationship then our

00:01:50.320 generation can't have relationships there's so many problems that come with that like homelessness

00:01:55.120 drug addiction there's so many issues that come as a result of single mother homes um and and and a

00:02:01.920 lot of times it it leads to the birth rate declining yeah because now i think we're at like 1.4 kids per

00:02:08.560 woman they're predicting that 50 of women are going to be single and childless yeah like so now 50 more

00:02:13.680 women that hit 30 are not going to have kids than have them in the next couple of years yeah it's it's like 0.96

00:02:19.280 it's like that thing where you know when people say like someone who bullies is someone who's just

00:02:24.480 being bullied in another situation by someone else right it's kind of you can you can liken that to

00:02:29.120 the situation because it's like if if one person sees a bad relationship and they don't know how to

00:02:34.160 do a bad relationship all they would know is what they've seen and what they know to be true from the

00:02:40.800 immediate surroundings now if the immediate surroundings are negative and every example of a relationship is

00:02:47.200 all negative the only idea of a relationship that they have in their head is most likely going to

00:02:52.160 refer back to negative yes they will have the positive ones from movies and stuff but they only

00:02:56.160 know negative also it's also about like the way that behavior the way that humans behave is based

00:03:01.760 off of what they know we can only behave off of what we know like if you go back to when we were

00:03:05.920 is it like hunter-gatherer times like that we our brain maps stuff out so if if you've only seen bad stuff

00:03:12.960 like you say you might see good stuff in the movies but you're not the one actually going through the

00:03:16.880 experience you're going to repeat that pattern of unhealthy relationship because it's all that your

00:03:21.840 brain has actually experienced like and it doesn't even have to be but sometimes you can do the complete

00:03:27.120 opposite because you've been you were raised in that household and you saw and you're like this is how

00:03:32.480 i don't want my marriage you can but statistically they don't yeah it's hard like like why do you

00:03:40.160 think we don't even have to look at stats to know this why do we say that girls have daddy issues 1.00

00:03:44.400 mm-hmm there are ramifications for not having functioning happy relationships and i also think

00:03:50.240 it turns men into simps where they don't know how to deal with women um because like they've never 0.69

00:03:55.440 seen a masculine man lead in a relationship but then you have all the women complaining that there's no

00:03:59.200 masculine man it's like trying to explain the color red to someone who's colorblind if you've

00:04:02.560 never seen the color red how do you explain it like have you seen have you guys heard of the the

00:04:06.800 inmates and the uh the the prisoners and um the guards psychological like experiment that happened

00:04:14.240 that they did oh the um stanford prison the stanford one so i met i met the guy who's Zimmer Zimmerman

00:04:20.560 right so this experiment essentially like they they had a room full of people they spit them in half

00:04:26.080 students half of them were um um inmates and the other half were guards and they realized after a

00:04:31.680 certain amount of time the guards started acting like actual guards and the prisoners are acting like

00:04:36.080 actual prisoners and they started to have like an actual power disparity and you had to shut it down

00:04:40.880 early because the the the guards were like really taking in as like this is their life and these people

00:04:47.040 are actually i'm actually villainous people the reason i bring this up is to show like this is a real

00:04:52.960 life psychological example of what it looks like to be surrounded by images of things that you don't

00:04:58.720 really understand is an example of like being surrounded by a negative image of what you think

00:05:04.800 should happen only going off your idea of what is what it should happen and seeing how the human mind

00:05:12.320 goes with that because they were quick to take on the roles of prisoner and jailer and three days it was

00:05:18.800 like three to five days or something and they flipped they were they were gonna kill these people like

00:05:23.280 people were like locked up for in solitary confinement so it goes to show the reason i bring it up is to

00:05:27.920 show that like the psychological the psychology of human being is so like fragile yeah i was gonna say

00:05:35.600 frigid or like fragile that like things around you that you see every day that you don't even realize

00:05:40.800 that you see or hear or you experience shape you right so to continuously show kids right because i'm out like

00:05:48.160 i've seen it myself there's there's so much single parents stuff shown and there was a period of time

00:05:53.520 where single parent stuff was shown a lot right and it just becomes something that's like very natural

00:05:58.640 and very okay and all right which which which shows that even in fairy tales like cinderella they never

00:06:05.120 they never they never like they always remarried someone and the stepmom's always like disgusting but 0.71

00:06:12.080 you never really talk about the mom because you was always past or something yeah and there's always

00:06:15.440 like one of those ones where single parents like lifestyle had been pushed not like directly but

00:06:20.960 like indirectly in different ways of like if you if you notice it then you notice it type of type of

00:06:25.840 thing i just think that modern women are selfish when it comes to their kids they care about themselves 1.00

00:06:30.240 more than their kids and and i think it's really sad and i think it actually ruins society because when

00:06:35.360 you put yourself before your kids you mean if you put your generation before the next generation

00:06:40.160 mm-hmm but are there are there enough okay let me um backtrack a bit so to the point of like

00:06:46.800 um people that are not having kids right um do you reckon there's enough women that have 0.99

00:06:52.960 passed that point of being able to get pregnant that are actually speaking to younger women and saying

00:06:59.520 all right no because that involves swallowing their pride and they don't want to do that but guy

00:07:03.120 there's enough guys saying hey get your get your act together but guys you know you need money you need to

00:07:06.960 you need to do this you need networks you need to be able to um defend yourself you need there's

00:07:11.520 enough i feel like there's there's enough guys doing that i just want to know from the women are

00:07:15.600 there women that are doing that no no there's a fundamental difference between guys and girls

00:07:19.360 guys will give guys genuine advice girls won't have you heard the whole phrase because girls compete 1.00

00:07:23.840 with each other because if you're 25 and the girl that's 38 you're competing with her for the same

00:07:28.800 guy you've heard the phrase a girl um a guy will insult a guy and not mean it a girl will 0.99

00:07:33.520 compliment and go and not mean it yeah so it's one of those ones where those older girls you would 1.00

00:07:38.080 think would give those advice might say to you oh you're so pretty you should do this but like

00:07:42.560 they don't mean it it's like when you see girls like uh commenting on obese girls pictures like

00:07:49.040 beautiful love it like what are you doing it's not beautiful why are you encouraging her

00:07:54.320 yeah because look i say i say like this yeah with um with men i don't care like you look at even

00:08:03.120 kevin yeah i didn't care about the delivery because he's not talking to me directly people call up and

00:08:08.400 you know they go oh yeah but if you're not talking to that person directly you can see the delivery

00:08:13.760 and look at that as entertainment but you can still take the message i think with women it needs 1.00

00:08:18.000 to be dissected in a way that makes them directly to them specifically for them they gotta feel they

00:08:23.520 gotta feel great about it to take to receive it whereas with guys i might like generally speaking

00:08:28.720 i'll just be like cool yeah what he's saying is makes it makes sense and you move on yeah and i'm and

00:08:33.040 i and i apply it or i don't apply it you know i mean but i believe there's enough men out there

00:08:36.880 giving that direction and i think you know just from the conversations that we've had here just through

00:08:41.120 on the panel you know is it working for you to if you want if you know what you you want kids and you

00:08:46.960 you want this kind of you want a certain kind of lifestyle you want things is the way you're moving

00:08:51.520 working for you and if there if it isn't do you have people in your life that are saying that you

00:08:57.040 can talk to that haven't had kids and they can say boom all right look you know time's ticking it

00:09:01.840 will get to this point and this is how i feel now that i waited and i'm here yeah but you know what

00:09:07.360 it is with that the the biggest enemy to women most times is other women so like because we can't 1.00

00:09:14.720 even admit there's a problem yeah other women are the downfall of women for a lot of the time 1.00

00:09:19.920 because they will be the ones who will feed you the stuff that you want to hear in one side knowing 0.63

00:09:25.120 good and damn well that's not the advice you need to hear and then leave and then watch you walk out

00:09:29.120 that door and make that mistake i'm gonna read you guys i'm gonna read you guys some stats um some of 0.59

00:09:35.360 these are from the us some of these are from the uk so you know take them with a grain of salt but one in

00:09:40.800 four women have an std zoinks one in three women have had an abortion 38 of kids are born into

00:09:47.520 single parent homes the average age of first child is 26 and the average age of first marriage is 30.

00:09:54.000 45 percent of marriages end in divorce the average number of sexual partners for a woman is between

00:09:59.600 four and eight and after um women have slept with more than five people she has a 20 chance of having a 1.00

00:10:05.600 happy marriage after 10 years if men get divorced um they can be financially ruined and their kids can

00:10:12.400 be taken from them 70 of women are overweight 90 of women have used contraceptives at some point in

00:10:18.480 their reproductive years and most have used more than one method throughout their lifetime so it's like

00:10:23.920 how do we look at these numbers and say we're doing well as a whole you know and i'm not saying you know

00:10:31.760 that like because they'll always say what about them i'm not saying men don't have issues too but

00:10:36.240 it's like we can't even talk about our problems without people always having to point out the men

00:10:40.800 like we can never even just have a conversation about the issues that we have as women without

00:10:45.440 simps or women coming in saying but men have problems too like we can't even have one conversation

00:10:50.240 about it whereas back in the day women used to actually sit down together and discuss things and 0.91

00:10:56.160 or they'd say you're not dressed well you're not like yeah we used to actually like catch each other

00:11:01.760 up on stuff like you know oh you're showing too much like you're presenting yourself this way or

00:11:06.880 you know even something silly like you didn't brush your hair like i feel like nowadays like

00:11:11.200 girls sort of tiptoe around each other and they don't even want to like tell their friend like 1.00

00:11:15.120 it depends what type of girl you are though if i'm completely honest i think if you're insecure and

00:11:19.120 you're unhappy with what you're doing yourself then you're going to be bit too to other people

00:11:23.040 if you're happy and content you've got to support and do you know what i mean so i think it's the

00:11:26.960 individual i don't i don't i don't think i don't think supporting i think real supporting is being

00:11:31.840 honest yeah but that's what i mean like she said you might not tell your friend if they haven't

00:11:36.720 brushed you up i would tell my friend yeah no i would as well but some girls wouldn't but that's 1.00

00:11:40.880 because they're like oh well yeah they kind of want to see you know what i mean yeah yeah yeah

00:11:46.080 because they're unhappy with themselves which goes back to what i said a lot of times a woman's worth 0.96

00:11:50.640 enemy is another woman because a guy would point out the fact that uh your shirt's kind of inside 0.97

00:11:55.760 out yeah i believe like chastising someone in public is different like i don't think you should do that

00:12:03.120 in front of other people yeah of course not you should take if that's your real friend they should

00:12:06.240 be able to take them to the side and say hey you know what yeah and and we can respect that and we

00:12:12.000 won't look at that as like you being bitchy it's like you know when you eat something you got 0.99

00:12:15.280 something your teeth up please tell me tell me like even if you go i just told me you know what

00:12:23.200 i mean so i think as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a

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JustPearlyThings - May 20, 2023

How MODERN WOMEN Destroy their KIDS

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