JustPearlyThings - How POINTLESS Is It To Date In Miami？｜ THE PREGAME SHOW

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00:00:25.380 ladies. To start, we're going to go around. Everyone say, answer. We're going to say name,

00:00:31.380 age, relationship, status, and a fun fact about yourself, starting here, and then go around.

00:00:36.340 My name is Dina Cruz. I am 38, and I am single, and I am a stand-up comedian, so that's my fun

00:00:45.480 fact. Cool. Hi, everybody. My name's Nina. I'm 25. I'm single-ish. Single-ish. A fun fact

00:00:57.120 about me is I love running track. What is single-ish? Single-ish is... Actually, we tried

00:01:05.560 to define these last show. Yes, you tell me. No, no, I was really confused. Is single-ish

00:01:11.360 like your dating, going on dates with a guy? With one. Well, yeah, yeah, yeah, with a guy.

00:01:17.580 I imagine it's like one. Yeah. Okay, but you guys just haven't defined it yet? Yeah. You

00:01:23.140 can't define it off like the first or second date, you know? Oh, okay. Oh, so you like

00:01:26.480 him so much, you've gone on like two dates, and you're like... Oh, my God. Oh, wow, you're

00:01:31.040 in love. Wow, wow. She's like... She's like, I don't need anyone else. How long have you

00:01:41.340 seen him for? It's been a long time. We've been talking for like maybe a little over a

00:01:48.340 year. Oh, a year? Yeah. Oh, well, here I thought this was like two dates and... No, but we've

00:01:52.880 only been on a couple of dates. That's a red flag. No, it's not a red flag. Okay, how do you

00:01:58.000 know him? I've been busy. How do I know what? Yeah, the guy. How do you know him? Dang, I stopped

00:02:05.340 and it's just getting into me. Social media. Okay, so you guys met online and you've known

00:02:10.820 him for like a year. Yes. But, and you're in love. Yeah, I can see it in your eyes. But

00:02:18.080 we don't, we haven't defined it yet. No. Okay. Single-ish. Okay. I'm sort of, I was expecting

00:02:24.980 two dates. This is very interesting. Okay. All right. What about you? Hi, I'm Laura.

00:02:29.980 I'm 30 and I'm single and I like to sing. That's interesting. What do you do for a living?

00:02:37.980 I bartend and I am getting into IT. Okay. I'm Steve. I'm 35. I'm single and I'm the co-host

00:02:45.980 of the unfiltered podcast. I'm also the producer as well. Hi, I'm Amy. I'm 28 years old. I'm

00:02:53.980 single and fun fact, I'm Australian. It's fantastic. Yeah. Australia. I've been in the States for

00:03:00.800 like six years. So my accent's a little bit weird. Like people like you're doing a fake

00:03:04.600 American accent or a fake Australian accent. It's like, it's just weirdly muddled at this

00:03:09.080 point. Yeah. I'm Christy. I am 29. Fun fact about me. I am a mom of two, I guess. What

00:03:20.040 do you do? I am a dog trainer and a model. A dog trainer? Yeah. What's the coolest trick

00:03:25.600 that you've ever taught a dog? Oh, cool. Damn. I usually just get hired to do the basics. I

00:03:31.660 guess the coolest thing I do is psychiatric service dog training. So like medication retrievals

00:03:37.280 and like tactile assimilations like that because. You're going to tell me ghosts. No. No, I

00:03:42.640 mean the most thing, you know, they're like more like basic courses, not so much like show

00:03:46.280 dogs. Got it. Got it. So you get me? But yeah. But if I, if I sent my dog to you, she'd come

00:03:51.420 back and like tip top. Yes. She would come back a soldier. Okay. What about you? Hi, my name's

00:03:57.840 Alondra. I'm a medical esthetician and I'm a bartender on the weekends. And a fun fact about

00:04:04.720 me. I love working out. What is a medical esthetician? Um, so the one that does facials,

00:04:11.580 chemical peels, microdermabrasion. Is that like Botox and that sort of stuff too? No,

00:04:15.860 no. I want to do that though. Oh, okay. You got to be in the nursing program to do that.

00:04:18.940 I was curious, like what's the most common treatments that you get? Oh, chemical peels

00:04:23.040 for pigmentation for sun damage. Oh, my first question. I want to know. So if I move here,

00:04:32.900 do I have to get like hella plastic surgery? I heard everyone's like, yes, you do. So who,

00:04:38.680 who here has had, who here has had work done? Okay. What have, what have you guys had done?

00:04:43.340 My boobs? Titties. Okay. Was it worth it to you? Was it worth it to you guys? Yeah,

00:04:49.520 it was worth it to me. I don't regret it. I mean, I like it, you know, put on a bikini. I'm like,

00:04:53.880 wow. Where did these come from? Was it painful? It was. Yeah, it was. And I got my boobs done through

00:05:03.500 my armpit, like under the muscle. So like my incision is down there. It's not even on my boobs. So it

00:05:09.340 took me a little extra longer. Do you guys have to get them like out later? How does that? Every 10

00:05:13.140 years, you got to get them right done. So it's like 15 years. 15 years? Yeah. Yeah. It's like 15

00:05:18.300 years for the gummy bears. Wow. So how common is that? Is that normal here? Yeah. Yeah. That's

00:05:23.960 super common. Especially in the lower region. This is like BBL central, man. Yeah, that's true too.

00:05:29.600 Nobody's else is that big. Yeah, they can pretty much, they can pretty much fly to. No, no, no, there is.

00:05:35.640 You ladies can pretty much fly to Colombia or Brazil or wherever DR and get a BBL. Yeah.

00:05:41.020 Yeah, but why would you do that if you could just get it here? Yeah, people get it here.

00:05:44.200 Dr. Miami. Yeah, some girls can't afford it here. It's just cheaper, yeah.

00:05:47.860 So I wouldn't go anywhere else. I did my boobs here too. Yeah. Are women honest about getting

00:05:52.580 work done? Yeah, I am. I want to say it's like a 50-50. Yeah, I agree. Yeah. I just want to know,

00:05:58.760 because I think it's a 50-50. So if I meet six Miami girls, two have work done. Are

00:06:03.060 two lying? Oh, yeah. Maybe one more. I think we have some

00:06:07.240 Myers at the table. Yeah, I think one more. Okay. I think there might be someone else that

00:06:09.960 has work done. Okay, does anyone think anyone at the table is lying?

00:06:13.480 Let me look. Let me look. No, it's just me and her. I wish.

00:06:18.200 Dina looks natural. Oh, she thinks? You think someone's lying? No, I mean, everyone looks pretty

00:06:22.880 natural here. Yeah. Yeah, I don't know. Let me see your titties, girl. I actually, I wouldn't

00:06:31.440 have even noticed. I told the doctor, though. I was like, make sure it's sufficient enough

00:06:37.180 where it looks pretty natural because, you know. And the gummy drops are like really natural.

00:06:40.640 Yeah, because if you do your boobs too big, then you start looking like an, you know, like

00:06:44.180 you're about to play football. So I don't want to do that. I knew a girl, her boobs were pointed

00:06:47.820 up. Oh my god, I've seen that. I've seen sideways. I've seen the nipples going like.

00:06:53.240 The worst, yeah. Oh, the googly eyes? Oh.

00:06:56.580 Sometimes. Sometimes. You guys look fine. You guys look good.

00:07:01.640 You guys look good. Yeah, these aren't good. But, yeah. You gotta really look at them to

00:07:05.720 like, you know. So, how does dating work in Miami? It doesn't.

00:07:11.340 What typically comes. It doesn't. No, I'm kidding. Just go on, I'm not kidding.

00:07:15.240 In a given, all right, so we have single, single. Most people are single here. So, in

00:07:21.640 a given month. Oh, I forgot to tell you. I skipped my relationship status. I'm taken.

00:07:26.900 Okay. You also skipped your relationship status too. What's yours?

00:07:29.960 Oh, I am seeing someone, so. Okay. Okay, let's, what does that mean? That's, how long have

00:07:35.840 you known the guy? So, let's see. It's been like, what? A month and a half. Okay, a month

00:07:40.840 and a half. Okay. And you guys are going on dates. Yeah, we're going on dates, checking

00:07:45.320 up on each other, just like intro, you know. Okay, and so. I'm saying he says, but I'm

00:07:50.120 not going to go crazy. Okay, and do you want to be with. Not yet. Not yet. Do you want to

00:07:54.240 be with him? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. And how long would you see him without being exclusive

00:07:58.580 until you cut it? Ooh. Yeah. Yeah, how long till? That was good. Okay. Whatever girl's

00:08:06.300 got a limit. Yeah, it's true. Hers is a year, I guess. Okay, that's too long. For me, it's

00:08:12.080 two months. In two months, it needs to get close. So, he's got two weeks? Yeah, that's

00:08:15.800 it. So, how are you, how are you going to chop, chop? Okay, so how are you going to bring

00:08:20.320 up this conversation? Oh, okay. So, what I'm going to do is, I'm going to set the tone. Obviously,

00:08:25.340 after we eat and everything, once we get to bed, once he's super comfy and ready to

00:08:29.300 go and sleep, hey, babe. So, that's exactly how I'm going to do it, and I'm going to just

00:08:33.480 tell him. So, what are we? Okay. Have you already had sex with him? I have. Well, I mean, they're

00:08:39.920 in bed, so it's like, I thought we all. Yeah, I'm like sleeping over every other night. I mean,

00:08:44.000 okay. So, okay. My little companion. Okay, so, and then are you seeing anyone else, too, or is

00:08:50.580 it just him? Not like that. I'm still texting back people, but not necessarily

00:08:55.320 like that. It's like I'm trying to cut them off. Okay, are you, would you go on a date?

00:08:59.880 Like, let's say this young, fine young man right here said, let's go on a date after the

00:09:04.560 show. Are you going? No, because for the most part, I usually work, and if I'm not working,

00:09:09.200 I'd rather go be with him. Okay, okay, okay. So, but any, Brad Pitt comes up to you going

00:09:14.800 on a date? Oh, well, Pearl, you just spiced it up. You said Brad Pitt. Well, I mean. I just

00:09:20.460 want to know how loyal you are. I'm trying to figure out how loyal Miami chick's already

00:09:24.500 to a guy that they're talking to. Listen, I just, yeah, but in my head, I just got here.

00:09:31.280 So, it's like, I just got here since like. I mean, I'm not saying you should be. I'm just

00:09:35.220 asking. Yeah. Hmm. So, you're kind of open. She said Brad Pitt. I mean, you're saying Brad

00:09:42.200 Pitt, but it's like, I would just want a page or maybe a small conversation and then buy it.

00:09:46.760 Okay. Here's a good question for her though. If a guy came along that was willing to pay

00:09:51.480 for your date or take you out, like he was a rich guy and he just said, look, come out. I'll pay you

00:09:56.160 to come out with me. Are you going to entertain him? No, I'd rather just go with my mans. I mean,

00:10:00.260 he lives in a nice area. That's common in Miami where guys just pay. But that's true. That's true.

00:10:04.220 That is true. Yes. Has anyone here been paid to hang out with a guy? Raise your hand.

00:10:09.480 Okay. So, wow. Wow. See, this is the, all right. So, what, what, what happened? What did he pay you

00:10:15.240 for? To go on a date with him. Okay. Was it like an ask? Did you have to put out or was it just a date?

00:10:20.280 No, no, no, no, no, no, not at all. It was actually somebody that my friend introduced me to. And then

00:10:25.160 he wrote to me on Instagram and he asked me out and I was like, I'm busy. I have to work. And he was

00:10:30.120 like, oh, I'll pay you. If you miss work, I'll pay you the money that you made at work. So, I was like,

00:10:34.140 okay. And then he gave me a little extra. So, yeah. That's just nice though. That's being nice.

00:10:40.140 Wait, you said that happened to you too? I need to. Yeah. That's like common courtesy though, right?

00:10:44.640 If I'm a miss work.

00:10:46.640 I'm still getting, that's what happens. Liquid confidence. Yeah, they asked us, like a few of us to go to 11 and they just gave us some money.

00:10:56.640 11 is a strip club. So, oh, how much, how much money did you get? I got 500.

00:11:00.640 500? 200. Wow. They just gave it to us. You didn't have to sleep with him? No. I mean, like a hand job? No. Nothing? No.

00:11:08.640 I'm not going to lie though. After that day, he was throwing hints. Like, you owe me a little something and then I had to block him.

00:11:14.640 Well, he wanted to. He would sit up and be like, I got you, girl. Do you have their number just for...

00:11:19.140 No, he's on my block list. He's been there for a while, but I got you, girl. I'll throw it over.

00:11:23.140 No, at first I was like, 500 bucks? You just got to sit there?

00:11:26.640 I think the guy I went with was just on a power trip. Like, he was just like, oh, here.

00:11:35.140 I got money. Yeah, yeah.

00:11:37.140 It's never happened to you.

00:11:39.140 Okay. How is dating different in Australia to here?

00:11:42.640 Oh, that's a good one.

00:11:44.140 Um, I don't know. I have been someone who's a very long-term relationship person. So I've been in like four serious relationships pretty much my whole life. And I've never someone who like dated a bunch of people in between. It was more so I've never been on the apps. I've never been about any of that life. It's more so just organic and people who I meet through like my day-to-day life.

00:12:04.140 Yeah. So how does that, so how does the process work to get this, the boyfriend? Wait, so first, actually first question. Was this in Miami?

00:12:13.140 Which part? The long-term relationship.

00:12:15.140 Oh, one of them. Yeah. I moved here in a relationship. Yeah.

00:12:19.140 No, but when, like, once you got here, did you find...

00:12:21.140 I was already in a relationship. So we were already dating for like nearly two years.

00:12:25.140 Okay. And then we moved here and we were dating for like another year and a half. Sorry.

00:12:29.140 Okay. I've been single for about the last six months.

00:12:32.140 Okay. So impossible to find boyfriend.

00:12:35.140 I really, really, like I don't know how to date here at all.

00:12:40.140 Okay. So before you got here, what was the process? You would meet a friend and then you'd go on a date? How would it work?

00:12:46.140 Yeah, pretty much. It's just people either organically through like a work environment, a mutual friend environment, like back in Australia, like a church environment, whatever it may be.

00:12:56.140 Okay. And then like, what would you, how long would you talk to them before boyfriend?

00:13:01.140 Or boyfriend?

00:13:02.140 Um.

00:13:03.140 Or would it just go straight?

00:13:04.140 No.

00:13:05.140 Would they say, be my girlfriend?

00:13:06.140 Yeah. No, usually a couple of months, I would say.

00:13:08.140 Okay.

00:13:09.140 Yeah.

00:13:10.140 So three months, six months.

00:13:11.140 Two months.

00:13:12.140 No, yeah. Two to three months.

00:13:13.140 Two to three months.

00:13:14.140 Something like that, I would say.

00:13:15.140 And at three months you would leave, assuming.

00:13:18.140 Yeah. I mean, again, I was never really like going on dates. I don't think I've ever really been courted.

00:13:23.140 You know how women talk about being courted, wine and dined, but it was never like that. It was always just something that was more organic that-

00:13:29.140 Like you would hang out?

00:13:30.140 Yeah, exactly. And then evolved into something more over time. Yeah. I've honestly never been romanticized. Like the way girls talk about-

00:13:37.140 You have to be.

00:13:38.140 Like guys who drew up cash, take them out on these fence. Like I've never had that my whole life.

00:13:42.140 But would you like to have it?

00:13:43.140 You should have it.

00:13:44.140 I mean, maybe, but it seems like it comes with more problems than it's worth sometimes.

00:13:48.140 Based on what I've heard on a lot of these.

00:13:50.140 I don't know. Maybe.

00:13:52.140 Maybe.

00:13:53.140 What about-

00:13:54.140 Do you guys agree with that? Is it more normal to be courted or to-

00:13:58.140 No.

00:13:59.140 To like hang out here?

00:14:00.140 To hang out.

00:14:01.140 I think it is more normal to be courted.

00:14:02.140 I mean, in my head I'd rather get-

00:14:04.140 They gotta show more initiation.

00:14:05.140 Wine to dine.

00:14:06.140 That's what she's saying.

00:14:07.140 Wine to dine, wine to dine, we can hang out.

00:14:09.140 I think it comes with age. I feel like when you don't have the money when you're young, maybe not so much.

00:14:15.140 But when you get older and you know the guy can afford to take you on dates, it's kind of a little-

00:14:19.140 It's a little different.

00:14:20.140 So in Miami I get nice dates?

00:14:22.140 Definitely.

00:14:23.140 What did you say?

00:14:24.140 Yeah, I think it's normal to be taken out on nice dates.

00:14:27.140 Yeah.

00:14:28.140 Normal, nice dates.

00:14:29.140 I think it's a 50-50 thing. I think it depends on what you're looking for.

00:14:33.140 It depends on the person too.

00:14:35.140 To be honest with you, I've had both of the experiences. I was married for 10 years. I've been divorced for five.

00:14:42.140 Wow.

00:14:43.140 So it's different. I've seen both sides of the fence.

00:14:46.140 And not to say, when I was in a relationship, he whined and dined me then.

00:14:51.140 But I'm just saying that courting phase up until becoming the girlfriend, that was a little bit different for me.

00:14:56.140 Compared to what it seems like is most people's experience.

00:14:59.140 Okay, what about you? So how does it work for you? Talking phase? And how long are you staying?

00:15:06.140 About two months too, but I would say it depends on the person.

00:15:11.140 I just want him to give me the best experience he'll give any other woman.

00:15:15.140 So if he's the type of guy that's more like emotionally in tune, I just want all of that.

00:15:19.140 I want whatever the most he has to offer, you know?

00:15:22.140 Mm-hmm.

00:15:23.140 That's what I'm saying. It just depends on the girl though.

00:15:25.140 Yeah.

00:15:26.140 You know?

00:15:27.140 Okay.

00:15:28.140 It depends on your experience.

00:15:29.140 Well, that's what I'm trying to find out from each one of you.

00:15:31.140 Yeah.

00:15:32.140 I can get an average.

00:15:33.140 I definitely want to be wine and dined, yeah.

00:15:35.140 Now at this age, yeah, because I know every guy.

00:15:37.140 So he's going to wine and dine for two to three months, and then you're going into a relationship.

00:15:42.140 He doesn't have to, like we don't have to go on super expensive dates all the time.

00:15:47.140 He has to spend time together.

00:15:48.140 Yeah, like he can take me to just like a creative little hole in the wall spot that has really good food,

00:15:53.140 and then on a romantic, I don't know, like to watch.

00:15:57.140 Yeah, like see a nice little view somewhere.

00:16:00.140 Okay.

00:16:01.140 What about you?

00:16:02.140 I want to date.

00:16:03.140 Like I want to be taken out on dates, at least for a good two to three months.

00:16:07.140 Yeah.

00:16:08.140 Not back to back to back to back and not crazy things every time.

00:16:10.140 I want to be taken out on dates.

00:16:13.140 So it seems like the talking phase here is two to three months.

00:16:17.140 No, no, no.

00:16:18.140 You said a year.

00:16:19.140 Yeah, no.

00:16:20.140 You guys assumed.

00:16:21.140 I said I knew him for a year.

00:16:23.140 I said I knew the person for a year.

00:16:24.140 Okay, how long was it romantic?

00:16:26.140 It's been about a month or two.

00:16:28.140 Oh, so you've known him for a year and two months it's been romantic.

00:16:31.140 Yeah.

00:16:32.140 So he's got about four weeks to pop the questions.

00:16:34.140 Yup.

00:16:35.140 Who initiated?

00:16:36.140 Did he initiate or did you like the interest after the friendship?

00:16:40.140 Um, yeah, it was both because it was kind of after a friendship.

00:16:43.140 So it was kind of just like, wow, this works so good.

00:16:45.140 Who was dropping the hint though?

00:16:46.140 Like who made that move?

00:16:48.140 Definitely both.

00:16:49.140 It was both.

00:16:50.140 Like it was him and I was agreeing and then it would be me and he was agreeing like that.

00:16:55.140 Okay.

00:16:56.140 Flirtatious back and forth.

00:16:57.140 Yeah.

00:16:58.140 What about you?

00:16:59.140 How does it work to you?

00:17:01.140 You're divorced.

00:17:02.140 Yeah.

00:17:03.140 You were married before.

00:17:04.140 I was.

00:17:05.140 What's the process now?

00:17:06.140 I'm still trying to figure it out and I'm five years in.

00:17:09.140 That's how complicated it is, Pearl.

00:17:11.140 So I don't even think we have enough time.

00:17:13.140 Can we get some patterns in the last five years?

00:17:15.140 Um, patterns in the last five years.

00:17:17.140 I think I would definitely agree that the talking phase is like three months.

00:17:21.140 I think in three months a guy shows you if he's consistent.

00:17:24.140 A guy will show you whether or not his behaviors have changed.

00:17:28.140 Um, cause that usually happens too.

00:17:30.140 Like you can spot like the patterns early on, like within a month or two.

00:17:35.140 You're even, it's pretty easy, honestly, to judge a guy's intentions, like within like

00:17:42.140 maybe the first week.

00:17:43.140 Yeah.

00:17:44.140 You can tell like what type of mindset you have.

00:17:47.140 It's important to know when's the last time some of the ladies been on a date.

00:17:50.140 Cause some of them probably haven't been on a date.

00:17:51.140 How long have you, when's the last time you were on a date?

00:17:53.140 Last time I was on a date was no, it was, I mean, I just recently stopped talking to

00:18:00.140 someone.

00:18:01.140 So it was maybe a month ago.

00:18:05.140 Not even.

00:18:06.140 Okay.

00:18:07.140 What about you?

00:18:08.140 Who else is single?

00:18:09.140 But before that it was a long time.

00:18:10.140 It was like a year cause I'm picky.

00:18:12.140 I'm gonna be honest with you.

00:18:13.140 I'm very picky.

00:18:14.140 It doesn't take forever to find yourself and you fucking pretty much don't go on dates

00:18:19.140 for years.

00:18:20.140 And you think you can go back into the dating market, date a guy, but you don't really have

00:18:23.140 any experience date.

00:18:24.140 Does that make sense?

00:18:25.140 Yeah.

00:18:26.140 Like if you don't go on dates.

00:18:27.140 That does make sense.

00:18:28.140 You're not going to know how to date.

00:18:29.140 Yeah.

00:18:30.140 So when's, who else said two to three months and who else hasn't been on a date in a while?

00:18:34.140 I don't know.

00:18:35.140 I've been on dates.

00:18:36.140 Sunday.

00:18:37.140 Sunday.

00:18:38.140 Why?

00:18:39.140 I haven't really been, I haven't actively been on a date since me and my ex broke up.

00:18:43.140 Cause it was like a nearly four year relationship.

00:18:45.140 Probably the most serious relationship I've ever been in.

00:18:47.140 Thought it would be like the father to my, my children, everything like that.

00:18:50.140 So I didn't want to jump into dating until I had like, I didn't want to rebound or anything

00:18:56.140 like that.

00:18:57.140 You know?

00:18:58.140 How long should it take though?

00:18:59.140 Before you, I mean, are you on Tinder or are you on any apps?

00:19:01.140 No, I've never been on any of the apps.

00:19:03.140 No.

00:19:04.140 Um, I think that I'm like getting close to being ready.

00:19:07.140 Um, and it'll getting close to being ready.

00:19:10.140 What does that mean?

00:19:11.140 She's almost done healing.

00:19:12.140 I've had offers.

00:19:13.140 I've had offers and I'm just about ready to maybe take some of them up possibly.

00:19:18.140 Have offers.

00:19:19.140 Okay.

00:19:20.140 Are these, are these guys that you actually, are these guys that you're attracted to though?

00:19:25.140 Cause you ladies get offers, but they're, they're a bunch of guys that you don't like.

00:19:28.140 Yeah.

00:19:29.140 Yeah.

00:19:30.140 I would say so.

00:19:31.140 But for me, I'm, I'm like physically.

00:19:33.140 Yes.

00:19:34.140 Like check marks, like other kinds of standards or prerequisites, but you never really know

00:19:38.140 until you're like talking to someone.

00:19:40.140 And if that chemistry is there, you know, so, so far as that's concerned, I can't say for

00:19:46.140 sure.

00:19:47.140 But in other more superficial areas, I would say like, yeah, the boxes are checked.

00:19:50.140 Okay.

00:19:51.140 How many of you ladies are against dating apps, dating Tinder, Bumble?

00:19:55.140 I don't like apps.

00:19:56.140 Why?

00:19:57.140 I don't.

00:19:58.140 I just, I don't know.

00:19:59.140 I feel like it's capped.

00:20:00.140 It's impersonal.

00:20:01.140 It's creating an image and like per se, it might not even be you.

00:20:05.140 So it's like, I'd rather meet you on, on site, like on the spot.

00:20:09.140 Yeah.

00:20:10.140 I'm very much a believer in like the, in person.

00:20:13.140 Yeah.

00:20:14.140 When's the last time?

00:20:16.140 So who's been on a date in the past week?

00:20:19.140 Raise your hand.

00:20:20.140 Okay.

00:20:21.140 Who's been on a date in the past two weeks?

00:20:24.140 Past month?

00:20:26.140 Okay.

00:20:27.140 Past three months?

00:20:29.140 Six months?

00:20:31.140 Red flag.

00:20:32.140 Red flag.

00:20:33.140 I haven't been on an official date since me and my expert club.

00:20:37.140 Aww.

00:20:38.140 Who hurts you?

00:20:39.140 What do you justify?

00:20:40.140 Who hurts you?

00:20:41.140 Why are you so hurt?

00:20:42.140 So sad.

00:20:43.140 What's like an official date?

00:20:44.140 What do you justify?

00:20:45.140 Like a guy like asks you out and you're kind of, not necessarily quoted and wine and dine,

00:20:50.140 but it's, it's an official thing.

00:20:52.140 It's like, we made this plan.

00:20:53.140 I want to spend this time with you.

00:20:55.140 And we show up and do that.

00:20:56.140 Oh, I didn't know you.

00:20:57.140 A picnic, I think.

00:20:58.140 Yeah.

00:20:59.140 I mean, I've been in situations where we're hanging out with people and then I end up hanging

00:21:04.140 out with somebody, but it's not like it's pre-planned or anything, you know?

00:21:08.140 Okay.

00:21:09.140 I think you just need a vibe really well with the person on a date.

00:21:12.140 I don't know.

00:21:13.140 I mean, I guess.

00:21:14.140 I know guys hate that word.

00:21:15.140 Do you like short things?

00:21:16.140 Vibe?

00:21:17.140 Do I like short?

00:21:18.140 I'm five one.

00:21:19.140 Yeah.

00:21:20.140 Perfect.

00:21:21.140 You're dating in Miami from the guy's point of view.

00:21:24.140 All right.

00:21:25.140 So typically, how long does a chick make you wait for sex here?

00:21:30.140 Oh, look at their face.

00:21:33.140 It depends what type of man you are.

00:21:36.140 Okay.

00:21:37.140 That's true.

00:21:38.140 Okay.

00:21:39.140 I'm asking your experience.

00:21:41.140 I mean, what do you guys justify as hooking up?

00:21:44.140 Like full out?

00:21:45.140 Yeah.

00:21:46.140 I mean, first, I guess like first, second date.

00:21:48.140 First, second date.

00:21:49.140 Wow.

00:21:50.140 Okay.

00:21:51.140 So immediately.

00:21:52.140 All right.

00:21:53.140 What about you?

00:21:54.140 It depends on the girl realistically.

00:21:55.140 If it's just some you Miami girl, then yeah, probably in the first 10 minutes.

00:22:00.140 If it's, yeah, if it's I guess a respectable girl or it depends what she thinks.

00:22:07.140 I mean, there's plenty of respectable girls that could get in the first night too.

00:22:10.140 Yeah.

00:22:11.140 How does that work?

00:22:12.140 Like fuck the date.

00:22:13.140 Let's get out of here.

00:22:14.140 He's talking about the on-campus girls for sure.

00:22:15.140 Did you just say I'm ready to go?

00:22:16.140 I'm ready.

00:22:17.140 I mean, if they're from you Miami, like yeah, they walk through the door and they just,

00:22:21.140 they know it's about to go down.

00:22:22.140 They take their shirt off.

00:22:23.140 I'm trying to learn.

00:22:24.140 They know they're going to get around.

00:22:25.140 Yeah.

00:22:26.140 What about you?

00:22:27.140 What about you?

00:22:28.140 I mean, for me personally, I would say at least two to three dates and then I'm hooking

00:22:35.140 up and I've had some one nights, a lot of one nights.

00:22:39.140 Yeah.

00:22:40.140 I'm a DJ.

00:22:41.140 So girls like want to be in the DJ booth.

00:22:42.140 They want to look cool.

00:22:43.140 What's your body count?

00:22:44.140 Yeah, for real.

00:22:45.140 That's lost.

00:22:46.140 Yeah.

00:22:47.140 Gone.

00:22:48.140 75.

00:22:49.140 Hard.

00:22:50.140 Okay.

00:22:51.140 That's not that.

00:22:52.140 Wow.

00:22:53.140 Wow.

00:22:54.140 Wow.

00:22:55.140 Yeah.

00:22:56.140 That's a whore.

00:22:57.140 Girl, we know guys can't be whores.

00:22:58.140 We're whoremakers.

00:22:59.140 You can be whoremakers.

00:23:00.140 There's only whoremakers.

00:23:01.140 The only way a guy can be a whore is if he's banging twos.

00:23:05.140 That's it.

00:23:06.140 If he's banging that twos?

00:23:07.140 That's the only way a guy can be whores.

00:23:08.140 I think guys can be whores.

00:23:10.140 I think guys can be whores.

00:23:11.140 Like, I think you can.

00:23:13.140 If you bang enough girls and it doesn't mean anything, I think you can be a whore.

00:23:16.140 I think they're whoremakers.

00:23:17.140 Exactly.

00:23:18.140 Exactly.

00:23:19.140 Because they're making too much love making.

00:23:21.140 You ever think about 75, I was like, that's 75 wives someday.

00:23:25.140 No.

00:23:26.140 Maybe like 25.

00:23:27.140 Yeah.

00:23:28.140 Not one of them are going to be wives.

00:23:29.140 Yeah, fair enough.

00:23:30.140 That's true.

00:23:31.140 They won't get married, so.

00:23:32.140 They won't be wives.

00:23:33.140 So, okay.

00:23:34.140 So question.

00:23:35.140 What about like, how long do you guys are in a talking phase with a chick until you

00:23:46.140 ask her to be your girlfriend?

00:23:47.140 Oh, I've never even had like a formal girlfriend.

00:23:50.140 I mean, I'm only 22.

00:23:52.140 Oh.

00:23:53.140 Oh, you're not.

00:23:54.140 Okay, but you meet a chick tomorrow.

00:23:56.140 You're like, she's awesome.

00:23:57.140 Yeah, but guys at 22.

00:23:58.140 Amazing.

00:23:59.140 How long are you waiting?

00:24:00.140 I don't know.

00:24:01.140 Probably like a month or two.

00:24:02.140 I feel like that's a good amount.

00:24:03.140 I don't know if you go on a few dates a week or something like that.

00:24:08.140 You should know at that point.

00:24:10.140 That's nice.

00:24:11.140 Okay.

00:24:12.140 I mean, I don't really set.

00:24:13.140 Yeah.

00:24:14.140 I don't really set a time limit on it.

00:24:15.140 It's just whenever she's ready, she'll kind of hint it.

00:24:17.140 It could take three weeks.

00:24:18.140 It could take two months, three months.

00:24:20.140 You usually have to before three months.

00:24:21.140 If she actually likes you, she'll give you the little, little hint.

00:24:24.140 But yeah, you don't set exact times.

00:24:27.140 I'm not, I'm not setting a time and like right in my notebook, I'm going to ask her to be

00:24:30.140 my girlfriend on this date.

00:24:32.140 It's kind of just whenever she brings it up a few days after that, then you.

00:24:35.140 So you let her take the initiation?

00:24:37.140 No, no.

00:24:38.140 I take the initiation.

00:24:39.140 She'll bring it up.

00:24:40.140 We'll have a little talk.

00:24:41.140 You'll take the clues.

00:24:42.140 Yeah.

00:24:43.140 And then a few days.

00:24:44.140 I'm like, by the way, congrats.

00:24:45.140 You're my girlfriend.

00:24:46.140 Oh, that's good.

00:24:47.140 Okay.

00:24:48.140 Congratulations.

00:24:49.140 All right.

00:24:50.140 So you tell them they're your girlfriend.

00:24:51.140 You don't even ask.

00:24:52.140 You're just like, they're mine.

00:24:53.140 They're mine.

00:24:54.140 They've been like, yeah.

00:24:55.140 Okay.

00:24:56.140 Got it.

00:24:57.140 For me, it's at least six to eight months.

00:24:59.140 I definitely would not jump into anything.

00:25:01.140 I have to vet the girl.

00:25:02.140 They're leaving you on site.

00:25:03.140 Hold on.

00:25:04.140 Don't say what.

00:25:05.140 Wait a second.

00:25:06.140 We have our first argument first.

00:25:08.140 See how bitchy he is.

00:25:09.140 Of course.

00:25:10.140 So I think you don't know anybody.

00:25:11.140 Because in that first month or two.

00:25:12.140 That's a good point.

00:25:13.140 Maybe she's putting on like a mask.

00:25:14.140 You don't really know how she is as a woman.

00:25:15.140 He or she fights fair.

00:25:16.140 Women's true colors come out when they get angry at you.

00:25:19.140 Yeah.

00:25:20.140 So I give it at least a couple arguments.

00:25:22.140 That usually takes six days.

00:25:23.140 You got to see if she throws a slipper or throws a knife.

00:25:25.140 Exactly.

00:25:26.140 Why is it taking six months for her to get mad at you?

00:25:31.140 Yeah.

00:25:32.140 She's going to get mad before that.

00:25:33.140 I don't know.

00:25:34.140 It sounds like you're the one who has the mask on.

00:25:36.140 No.

00:25:37.140 Not at all.

00:25:38.140 I think that a lot of women.

00:25:39.140 I dated a girl who literally.

00:25:40.140 When she would get mad.

00:25:41.140 She'd go and fuck some other dude.

00:25:42.140 Oh yeah.

00:25:43.140 Yeah.

00:25:44.140 That's what I'm saying.

00:25:45.140 You have to see if she fights fair.

00:25:46.140 Yeah.

00:25:47.140 A lot of women don't fight fair.

00:25:48.140 So she was silent.

00:25:49.140 She was like.

00:25:50.140 Her get back was crazy.

00:25:51.140 Okay.

00:25:52.140 Her get back was crazy.

00:25:53.140 My next question about Miami dating.

00:25:54.140 How common is cheating here?

00:25:55.140 Oof.

00:25:56.140 Oof.

00:25:57.140 Real common.

00:25:58.140 If you're dating out in Miami.

00:25:59.140 Are you going to get cheated on?

00:26:01.140 I would say it's like a 75, 25% chance.

00:26:06.140 It depends on the guy too.

00:26:09.140 The type of guy that you're dating.

00:26:11.140 Okay.

00:26:12.140 Who are the better guys to not get cheated on by?

00:26:15.140 The normal ones.

00:26:16.140 The ones that have regular jobs.

00:26:17.140 The ones that can't get other puss.

00:26:19.140 No.

00:26:20.140 Not necessarily.

00:26:21.140 And who are the guys to stay away from?

00:26:23.140 Uh.

00:26:24.140 The really pretty ones.

00:26:25.140 Okay.

00:26:26.140 Because they can get other puss.

00:26:27.140 No, no, no, no.

00:26:28.140 That's not true.

00:26:29.140 That's not true.

00:26:30.140 Date ugly men?

00:26:31.140 Um.

00:26:32.140 No.

00:26:33.140 But no.

00:26:34.140 Not date ugly men.

00:26:35.140 Not date ugly men.

00:26:36.140 I just feel like.

00:26:38.140 Again, you have to understand Miami's a very superficial city.

00:26:44.140 Okay.

00:26:45.140 Superficial in the sense that you can meet a pretty man who is not that pretty in his day to day life.

00:26:52.140 You know what I mean?

00:26:53.140 Maybe he has like, I don't know, $50,000 worth of child support that he owes somebody or something crazy like that.

00:26:59.140 Has that happened to you?

00:27:00.140 No.

00:27:01.140 I'm just saying like.

00:27:02.140 Do you know someone that's happened to you?

00:27:04.140 Yeah.

00:27:05.140 Actually, I know a lot of girls that.

00:27:06.140 More than one.

00:27:07.140 Crazy stuff like that has happened to you.

00:27:09.140 You know what I mean?

00:27:10.140 So you have to understand that there.

00:27:11.140 Yes, there is this Miami that's full of influencers.

00:27:14.140 And then there's a whole other Miami with regular people who are kind of fucked up.

00:27:21.140 I think some of them.

00:27:22.140 You know what I mean?

00:27:23.140 What did your exes do?

00:27:24.140 My ex-husband.

00:27:25.140 Yeah.

00:27:26.140 He's a superintendent for a demolition company.

00:27:29.140 Okay.

00:27:30.140 Is that a good job?

00:27:31.140 Yeah.

00:27:32.140 They make very good money actually.

00:27:33.140 I meant like in terms of like.

00:27:34.140 Not get cheated on.

00:27:35.140 Yeah.

00:27:36.140 Oh, to not get cheated on.

00:27:38.140 I think if a man wants to cheat, he's going to cheat no matter what he does for a living, to be honest with you.

00:27:43.140 Okay.

00:27:44.140 Like it's the man.

00:27:46.140 You know what I mean?

00:27:47.140 So what about women?

00:27:48.140 What, what are the, what women in Miami cheat the most?

00:27:52.140 What women in Miami cheat the most?

00:27:56.140 That depends how they feel in the relationship.

00:27:59.140 He doesn't want to set anybody up.

00:28:00.140 The ones without a real man as a boyfriend.

00:28:02.140 People with the most options.

00:28:03.140 All girls have options.

00:28:05.140 I would say the ones that actually have a personality because there's a lot of pretty girls in Miami.

00:28:16.140 Like that's the norm here.

00:28:18.140 If you're funny.

00:28:19.140 But the ones that have an actual personality definitely have an added like up on top.

00:28:24.140 So they'll cheat more?

00:28:26.140 Oh, they have more options.

00:28:27.140 Got it.

00:28:28.140 Wait, wait, wait.

00:28:29.140 I'm taking that back.

00:28:30.140 Okay.

00:28:31.140 So do you just get cheated on in Miami?

00:28:34.140 What's your opinion?

00:28:35.140 I feel like, yeah, 85%.

00:28:37.140 And I also feel like it's so much more common to get cheated on.

00:28:42.140 Like not physically, just flirtatious, flirting on the gram, things like that.

00:28:47.140 That's too common.

00:28:48.140 Do you think like liking another girl's picture, is that cheating?

00:28:52.140 Raise your hands.

00:28:53.140 Is that cheating?

00:28:54.140 No.

00:28:55.140 I don't think that's cheating.

00:28:56.140 Messaging another girl cheating.

00:28:57.140 Raise your hand.

00:28:58.140 What's the message about?

00:28:59.140 Yeah.

00:29:00.140 What's the message about?

00:29:01.140 Hey.

00:29:02.140 No.

00:29:03.140 What did you say I hate her for?

00:29:04.140 It's true.

00:29:05.140 What did you say I hate her for?

00:29:06.140 What did you say I hate her for?

00:29:07.140 Okay.

00:29:08.140 But you say 85% of men here cheat.

00:29:09.140 Yeah.

00:29:10.140 Okay.

00:29:11.140 No.

00:29:12.140 Yeah.

00:29:13.140 I was just talking about this today.

00:29:14.140 I think all men cheat.

00:29:15.140 I came from.

00:29:16.140 All men cheat.

00:29:17.140 All men cheat.

00:29:18.140 Doesn't matter.

00:29:19.140 They're going to cheat on you sometime.

00:29:21.140 If you plan to marry them your whole life, they're going to cheat.

00:29:24.140 You know what percent of men have had more than one sexual partner in the last year?

00:29:31.140 Yes.

00:29:32.140 10%.

00:29:33.140 10% of men.

00:29:34.140 10% of men.

00:29:35.140 Yeah.

00:29:36.140 10%.

00:29:37.140 They surveyed 5,000 men in 2022.

00:29:38.140 That's what they said.

00:29:39.140 Can any of you ladies relate?

00:29:41.140 5,000 men doesn't even know.

00:29:42.140 To what?

00:29:43.140 To what?

00:29:44.140 What's the question?

00:29:45.140 Relate to what?

00:29:46.140 To only having one sexual partner in the last year?

00:29:47.140 I can.

00:29:48.140 To us cheating?

00:29:49.140 To us cheating?

00:29:50.140 To having over one partner in the last year.

00:29:52.140 No.

00:29:53.140 Just one partner in the last year.

00:29:54.140 I can.

00:29:55.140 No.

00:29:56.140 She said one.

00:29:57.140 That was the statistic.

00:29:58.140 One.

00:29:59.140 No.

00:30:00.140 More than one.

00:30:01.140 Oh.

00:30:02.140 More than one.

00:30:03.140 More than one.

00:30:04.140 Yeah.

00:30:05.140 No.

00:30:06.140 So 10% of men have had more than one sexual partner in the past year.

00:30:08.140 Only 33% of men have had more than one sexual partner in their lifetime.

00:30:09.140 Okay.

00:30:10.140 Sorry.

00:30:11.140 In a year in their lifetime.

00:30:12.140 Sorry.

00:30:13.140 Okay.

00:30:14.140 Does that make sense?

00:30:15.140 It could be 20.

00:30:16.140 It could be 30.

00:30:17.140 It could be 50.

00:30:18.140 I know.

00:30:19.140 But I'm saying only 10% of men have slept with more than one chick in the last year.

00:30:22.140 Oh.

00:30:23.140 So what you're saying is 90% of men haven't slept with any chicks in the past year.

00:30:27.140 No.

00:30:28.140 No.

00:30:29.140 More than one.

00:30:30.140 Yeah.

00:30:31.140 Two or less.

00:30:32.140 I'm not kidding.

00:30:33.140 I'm sorry.

00:30:34.140 That statistic works probably more outside of Miami than here.

00:30:38.140 Yeah.

00:30:39.140 Because like he just said, girls are giving it up in 10 minutes.

00:30:41.140 Mm-hmm.

00:30:42.140 You know what I'm saying?

00:30:43.140 Only for the big G's.

00:30:44.140 Super like hyper sexualized.

00:30:46.140 So what do you think?

00:30:47.140 Can you find a boyfriend that does not cheat here?

00:30:50.140 No.

00:30:51.140 From my experience, I think men are just really openly cheaters.

00:30:55.140 They're not cheating though.

00:30:56.140 They just tell you they have several women.

00:30:59.140 And if you're okay, I mean, they don't even ask if you're okay with it.

00:31:01.140 So who did someone tell you that?

00:31:03.140 Yeah.

00:31:04.140 A few people.

00:31:05.140 Be honest.

00:31:06.140 Be honest.

00:31:07.140 Be honest.

00:31:08.140 I haven't really dated since I've been here.

00:31:10.140 Okay.

00:31:11.140 So because you're thinking of something, I'm guessing, what did that person do?

00:31:15.140 I think they more or so like their game or whatever is just like, just like saying it

00:31:21.140 like carelessly.

00:31:22.140 So you can just kind of like, not really digest it, but just, okay, he has girls.

00:31:26.140 And then just change.

00:31:27.140 Okay.

00:31:28.140 What happened?

00:31:29.140 I need to hear this story.

00:31:30.140 We were on a date.

00:31:31.140 We were like getting romantic.

00:31:34.140 It was getting cute, whatever.

00:31:36.140 I think we went to the beach or something after just hanging out.

00:31:40.140 And then his girlfriend called.

00:31:44.140 His girlfriend called and I was like, oh, you have a girl?

00:31:48.140 He's like, oh yeah.

00:31:49.140 Casually.

00:31:50.140 After I've been with him for like two hours.

00:31:52.140 I forgot to tell you.

00:31:53.140 What did he do for a living?

00:31:56.140 Nothing.

00:31:57.140 Nothing.

00:31:58.140 Nothing she could say on air.

00:32:00.140 We already know what that means.

00:32:02.140 Well, okay, okay.

00:32:03.140 I actually.

00:32:04.140 He was a businessman, but.

00:32:05.140 That's a good cover.

00:32:07.140 Nice man.

00:32:08.140 Entrepreneur.

00:32:09.140 Yeah.

00:32:10.140 Girl, there's a lot of drug dealers here.

00:32:13.140 There's a lot of scammers here.

00:32:14.140 Yeah.

00:32:15.140 Scammers and drug dealers.

00:32:16.140 And women love to be in the rotation.

00:32:18.140 Drug dealers will cheat on you.

00:32:20.140 No.

00:32:21.140 And scammers in Miami.

00:32:23.140 A ton of them.

00:32:24.140 I'm just taking notes.

00:32:25.140 All right.

00:32:26.140 Literally taking notes.

00:32:27.140 All right.

00:32:28.140 So what's dating been like for you here?

00:32:30.140 You wanted a date this week?

00:32:31.140 How'd it go?

00:32:32.140 Bro.

00:32:33.140 Wow.

00:32:34.140 Bro, it's kind of a detriment.

00:32:36.140 Like these girls, like, I don't know why they ask my body count on like the second date.

00:32:40.140 Like that's not a usual thing.

00:32:41.140 Why would they ask you that?

00:32:43.140 Why would they ask you that?

00:32:44.140 That's happened to me multiple times where a girl asked for my body count.

00:32:47.140 I heard in Florida, some people like keep track of their bodies like in a notebook.

00:32:52.140 All right.

00:32:53.140 Listen.

00:32:54.140 Open up your notes.

00:32:55.140 Everyone open up the notes right now.

00:32:56.140 Let's see it.

00:32:57.140 I did number five today.

00:32:58.140 I don't got a notebook.

00:32:59.140 I got them up here.

00:33:00.140 A guy told me that.

00:33:01.140 Maybe it's only some guys.

00:33:02.140 Okay.

00:33:03.140 Okay.

00:33:04.140 So she asked you your body count?

00:33:06.140 Yeah.

00:33:07.140 She asked my body count.

00:33:08.140 You said second date?

00:33:09.140 Second date.

00:33:10.140 And hers was over 10 and she's under 20.

00:33:14.140 Whoa.

00:33:15.140 Whoa.

00:33:16.140 She's a goner.

00:33:17.140 What did she do for a living?

00:33:18.140 What did she do for a living?

00:33:19.140 Bruh.

00:33:20.140 That's like, I'm like blowing her up right now.

00:33:22.140 She has like her own business.

00:33:23.140 Nice.

00:33:24.140 Entrepreneur.

00:33:25.140 I'm just, I need notes on what to avoid here for the men and the women.

00:33:28.140 Um, like a cleaning business.

00:33:31.140 Oh, wow.

00:33:32.140 Sexy cleaning business.

00:33:33.140 Cleaning her face off.

00:33:35.140 So don't date cleaning ladies.

00:33:37.140 Okay?

00:33:40.140 Don't date nurses.

00:33:41.140 That's the real one.

00:33:42.140 Um, yeah.

00:33:43.140 I've heard that a lot lately, but.

00:33:44.140 I noticed that before.

00:33:45.140 I ever saw that shit on the internet.

00:33:46.140 Every single nurse I met.

00:33:48.140 I just wanted to have a dental assistant.

00:33:49.140 Anything that has to do with fucking medical.

00:33:50.140 You think so?

00:33:51.140 Any girl that has a job, really.

00:33:53.140 What if she works from home?

00:33:55.140 Go, wait, wait, I got it.

00:33:57.140 I got it.

00:33:58.140 Go.

00:33:59.140 Not a lot of work.

00:34:00.140 No, no, I got it.

00:34:01.140 Go to unemployment office.

00:34:03.140 Go to like, the farmer's market.

00:34:07.140 That's like the spot.

00:34:09.140 No, I don't know.

00:34:11.140 Okay.

00:34:12.140 Put them on the farmer's market.

00:34:13.140 I can't put them on like that.

00:34:14.140 You gotta pay me for that info.

00:34:17.140 okay so what about did you go on a date before that yeah how did that one go

00:34:22.900 what do we do bro I don't know there's been a few um it is I think we just went

00:34:27.940 out to dinner like that was that's like the easy one like just meet me downstairs

00:34:30.660 go to like Moxie's Casa Tula some shit like that did you like her the one

00:34:36.940 before bro like I don't like going on dates with girls like you guys aren't

00:34:41.140 interesting like I'm not trying to be rude but it's like there's only so much

00:34:44.980 to talk about like I tell you about the matrix to tell you about who runs the

00:34:48.100 world it's like the basic shit like so like for those of you like there's a lot of guys that like

00:35:07.480 legit don't know how to talk to girls there's like the few basic questions you

00:35:10.760 can do that everyone can can ask it's like oh where are you from what do you like

00:35:14.560 you do in school where you work and like yeah you're not very entertaining but

00:35:17.800 that gets you by at least initially and then from there I don't know I try to

00:35:21.100 like play like um jokes and build off of those so like I don't know I'll joke

00:35:27.220 about being like Andrew Tate taught me how to pimp women and now you can come

00:35:31.360 join my army and then we'll talk we'll joke about that for 20 minutes

00:35:34.600 I mean they laugh like they laugh because they probably feel awkward they're like whoa I mean

00:35:40.720 it's a joke I mean no but I get what he's trying to say like I was saying if you have witty banter

00:35:45.280 what do you do for work and I'm like I'm a pimp like I'm obviously not a fucking pimp do I look

00:35:49.780 like a pimp no you're trying to tell them about the deep state and how feminism fucks society on the

00:36:11.200 first day

00:36:12.200 oh my god

00:36:13.200 it's a good topic

00:36:14.200 why are you talking about what you say on the first date

00:36:17.200 that was just what I did

00:36:19.200 if they're not against the matrix you can't go out of them

00:36:23.200 if that's a date

00:36:24.200 oh but you have to blow their mind a bit so like at the end of every first date

00:36:27.200 alright that's his catch up

00:36:28.200 and then they're laying with me and they're like you think everything's a scam

00:36:31.200 because I'm like yeah sunscreen's a scam shampoos a scam yeah that's fucking bullshit

00:36:36.200 like I say everything's a scam and they're like what's not a scam you gotta show me

00:36:40.200 so I try to be like their portal to the truth in a way where I like destroy their reality in real time

00:36:45.200 they love it

00:36:46.200 he's fixing women

00:36:47.200 I would have been lots of tearing women apart and then that's how it's for me

00:36:53.200 I'm just interested

00:36:54.200 he's ten minutes

00:36:55.200 I only need nine seconds

00:36:57.200 do you live in Miami?

00:36:58.200 yeah I do now

00:36:59.200 okay how long have you lived here?

00:37:01.200 I mean I've been in and out of Miami

00:37:03.200 I've probably spent about two three months here at a time

00:37:06.200 okay and how when's the last date you went on?

00:37:09.200 um a few days ago

00:37:11.200 and how'd it go?

00:37:12.200 great

00:37:13.200 what did she do for a little bit?

00:37:14.200 well actually you know

00:37:15.200 what was the date?

00:37:16.200 did you just do dinner?

00:37:17.200 actually I don't go on dates

00:37:18.200 I'm you know I'm staying in my house reading books

00:37:21.200 yeah I don't do that but let's say I was to go on a date

00:37:23.200 wait

00:37:24.200 I would uh I'm a man of God I don't I don't go on dates just yet

00:37:26.200 you know I got I got things to do right now like you know

00:37:29.200 gotta take over the world and whatnot but let's say I was to go on a date

00:37:32.200 here's what I would do

00:37:33.200 I would do I would probably I wouldn't go and like I want to do a night date since the first date

00:37:38.200 I would take him out to I don't know a park or like take him to the beach or just something in the daytime

00:37:43.200 real nice quick meeting maybe a coffee 20 minutes ask him about astrology ask him about whatever

00:37:50.200 that's funny

00:37:51.200 just figure out something

00:37:52.200 you said you're a man of God are you celibate?

00:37:57.200 yeah yeah of course

00:37:59.200 wow

00:38:00.200 okay that's a date

00:38:01.200 it's a date

00:38:02.200 and so I I assume you're not a person

00:38:03.200 we talked about it earlier so are you gonna wait until marriage for the next time then you're

00:38:07.200 gonna go all the way with that

00:38:08.200 oh

00:38:09.200 can't can't disclose that information I know

00:38:11.200 why not you're a man of God that's what they do

00:38:14.200 that's why I can't I can't disclose it you know

00:38:16.200 between him and God

00:38:17.200 also I also think

00:38:19.200 it's between me and God but I also think men can't physically cheat everyone you guys were talking about men cheating earlier men can't physically cheat it's just multi faithfulness so

00:38:27.200 you know a woman can physically cheat but yeah I mean your guys these guys that cheat in Miami they're not they're not cheating they're just being multi faithful

00:38:35.200 also like your guy that's not cheating he's jerking off and he's liking other girls Instagram pictures if he could get with those girls he would

00:38:42.200 I'm actually curious would you rather your man jerk off to pixels on a screen or just go fuck some bad bitch

00:38:46.200 he could jerk off all he wants

00:38:48.200 he could jerk off

00:38:49.200 I can't catch a MTV with that

00:38:50.200 you don't think that's more pathetic than him like finding a hot Miami chick and you're like

00:38:53.200 honestly

00:38:54.200 jerk off

00:38:55.200 I'll help you

00:38:56.200 I also like it's only cheating

00:39:00.200 like that to me is not an issue

00:39:04.200 I feel like if a man's committed to you in a sense that like he takes care of you he's making sure that all your boxes are checked like from top to bottom

00:39:15.200 like especially like in a marriage or something like that then I like

00:39:19.200 well you know about it it's not cheating then and if the other woman you say yeah I have a girlfriend

00:39:23.200 no like my issue is when it becomes cheating is when it becomes like disrespectful or like blatantly like or lying

00:39:31.200 in your face

00:39:32.200 well it's also like you just you don't respect you lose respect when they lie

00:39:35.200 you have like girls calling your phone or something like that's uh

00:39:37.200 mm-hmm

00:39:39.200 like that's the kind of line that you shouldn't cross in a relationship

00:39:41.200 like I don't think

00:39:42.200 you just don't want to know about it if he cheats

00:39:43.200 yeah

00:39:44.200 no

00:39:45.200 as long as you don't find out it's not cheating right

00:39:46.200 like it's not even about that

00:39:47.200 it's not even about like not knowing about it because every woman knows her like when you're in a long-term relationship for more than five years like you know that person you know what they're doing or what they're not doing

00:39:58.200 what if I told you it's just a matter of respect what if I told you sexually you just never be enough for him ever

00:40:05.200 that's what I'm saying that's why I don't have a problem with cheating I have other shit to do

00:40:08.200 all right cool like you know what I'm saying like I get that

00:40:11.200 I just want to make sure we're on the same page

00:40:12.200 my issue no when it becomes cheating is when it's like blatantly disrespectful when it's something that like okay let's say you're no longer preserving the sanctity of what your relationship is to you like between the two of you

00:40:26.200 now if you're honest and you're respectful and polygamy is your thing and the girl's down hey sure why not you know what I mean

00:40:33.200 so we're dating though I can cheat you can't that's cool right I don't give a fuck I have other shit to do all right cool

00:40:38.200 what does that mean what do you have to do I have other things to do

00:40:41.200 I have other things to do

00:40:43.200 no I have a 14 year old I'm a stand-up comedian

00:40:47.200 that's what I was asking

00:40:48.200 I work a business like I have other things to do

00:40:50.200 are you like the first funny woman stand-up comedian

00:40:52.200 probably maybe

00:40:53.200 I gotta come watch

00:40:54.200 I swear like every single tick-tock I see of a woman stand-up comedian I want to break my phone

00:41:00.200 it's just I'm a whore I'm a whore I'm a whore that's all they say

00:41:03.200 that's all they say

00:41:04.200 I actually I actually talk about the fact that like I like seeing couples together like when I'm out at shows and I do crowd work I fuck with couples that are together and I promote them staying together because dating is bullshit now

00:41:18.200 like you know so why not celebrate making things work with a person that you're genuinely compatible with I think that's another problem is that people just hook up with people just to hook up with them and they don't even touch the surface to see if they're genuinely compatible

00:41:34.200 you don't think one woman is enough for a man I know you mentioned that earlier

00:41:39.200 me?

00:41:40.200 yeah

00:41:41.200 well I don't I think one woman is enough but I think that men always have a natural instinct to want to have other girls

00:41:48.200 so if he doesn't exercise that option he's fighting against his biology so

00:41:53.200 I feel like

00:41:54.200 one woman he can he can suppress it but like it's always in his mind that he wants to fuck up the girls

00:42:00.200 it depends what she's giving him as well I feel like men need that sexual fulfillment the way women need the emotional fulfillment right?

00:42:05.200 women need their men to be there for them in certain ways but if women are willing to reciprocate that in the form of sexual gratification then he's definitely gonna have a wandering eye

00:42:15.200 and you can't blame anybody but yourself

00:42:18.200 you can't stop a wandering eye from a man

00:42:20.200 yeah no you can't stop a wandering eye from wandering

00:42:22.200 we can't help it

00:42:23.200 it's gonna wander

00:42:24.200 men always say you pussy

00:42:27.200 that's right

00:42:28.200 so what's your opinion?

00:42:30.200 are you always gonna have like are you gonna have a bunch of chicks?

00:42:33.200 how's it gonna work for you?

00:42:35.200 I mean I think it depends on the woman that you have if she can hold you down and she's enough then it might for some men it might be

00:42:42.200 maybe some men they have not necessarily low testosterone but maybe they have a low sexual drive and one woman is enough

00:42:47.200 maybe they really love that woman

00:42:49.200 she's the greatest woman in the world to them and they're just like they look at another girl and they're like

00:42:52.200 ew

00:42:53.200 like that's possible

00:42:54.200 I mean if you get a baddie and you guys like smash all the time like you don't feel the

00:42:58.200 I mean this is from my experience if I've had like consistent sex with a girl that's really attractive

00:43:03.200 like 95% of other girls I look at I'm like you're not even as hot as this one so why would I even want to put any effort

00:43:09.200 I don't want to hear your jokes and I don't want to explain the matrix to you

00:43:12.200 I'll just go back to my girl

00:43:14.200 nobody's talking about the matrix you bring it up

00:43:16.200 if you've been with a real woman and you really like her and she really likes you and you spend enough time together

00:43:24.200 I think she's more than enough and if you want to cheat and she's fine with it then sure go ahead

00:43:29.200 but maybe it's like once a year maybe it's when you're drunk maybe

00:43:32.200 yeah maybe you just fuck around with her who knows but

00:43:35.200 the majority of cheating is a one time thing though

00:43:39.200 yeah

00:43:40.200 what is I hear this a lot so what is a real woman

00:43:44.200 I would say

00:43:46.200 yeah I would say a very

00:43:50.200 obviously smart you want someone intelligent

00:43:53.200 if you're a smart guy maybe you like fun but I guess it's subjective to everyone but I would say

00:43:59.200 low body count ideally zero that's the most important one in my eyes I would say obviously smart

00:44:06.200 attractive because attractive to you at least objectively because that is what also really matters

00:44:11.200 and comes from a good family also I would I wouldn't date a woman unless she came from a wealthy respected family

00:44:19.200 they have to be wealthy yeah for me for me some some guys like they don't care but yeah

00:44:25.200 are you well were you born wealthy?

00:44:26.200 no

00:44:27.200 I'm from Pennsylvania if you know what that says

00:44:30.200 so I have two questions one what's a low body count to you?

00:44:33.200 zero

00:44:34.200 yeah okay so virgin

00:44:36.200 I know

00:44:37.200 okay um and why a wealthy family?

00:44:40.200 I it would most likely she would be raised well versus another one you can have a girl that's great

00:44:48.200 from a non-wealthy family I'm just not risking it coming from a good family and coming from like they can

00:44:53.200 become they they can be from a wealthy family but they might not be they might be like a bitch you know

00:44:58.200 so you gotta like actually meet her family see if they're good people see if they raise their right

00:45:02.200 and yeah that's the main thing is coming from a good and wealthy family

00:45:05.200 I feel like it also eliminates gold diggers as well right like people who are only gonna be dating you for genuine intentions

00:45:11.200 you know if they have their family to have their back they're never gonna rely on you for that

00:45:15.200 it just fixes everything it's just so like you have a nice wealthy girl from a nice family all the stuff you don't even have to teach her anything

00:45:21.200 she just knows she knows she knows class she looks great and she keeps herself

00:45:26.200 doesn't listen to sexy rat and all this shit she doesn't have li-li-lis you know what I'm gonna do

00:45:30.200 but also I don't think there's

00:45:32.200 I don't think there's anything wrong I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman dating a guy for money though

00:45:38.200 just for the record I don't think that's a problem

00:45:40.200 I prefer to date a woman that doesn't obviously I don't say it doesn't work but also like wants me to be the breadwinner

00:45:47.200 so you know I agree with what you're saying if she has a wealthy family maybe she'll be more likely to be a better wife

00:45:53.200 more likely to be a better wife but I just think she just has to have a father in her life a good family

00:45:58.200 and that's enough I can kind of take it from there

00:46:02.200 I was gonna ask you that like is it important for you for them to come from a two parent household?

00:46:08.200 that's important

00:46:10.200 yeah

00:46:11.200 that's valid

00:46:12.200 not necessarily

00:46:13.200 no?

00:46:14.200 as long as they were raised right the parents could be divorced it's not the end of the world

00:46:18.200 so I'm curious I want you guys to raise your hands if these are deal breakers for you

00:46:24.200 the guys okay

00:46:25.200 all right

00:46:26.200 all right

00:46:28.200 all right

00:46:29.200 all right

00:46:30.200 two bodies

00:46:31.200 are we talking about like a wife or what?

00:46:33.200 oh yeah if we're talking about a wife like

00:46:35.200 yeah wifey

00:46:36.200 wifey

00:46:37.200 wifey okay

00:46:38.200 all right two bodies

00:46:39.200 deal breaker

00:46:40.200 bro

00:46:41.200 I just don't have to say

00:46:42.200 okay ten bodies

00:46:43.200 oh come on that's crazy

00:46:44.200 yeah for sure

00:46:45.200 that's insane

00:46:46.200 two in your DNA with another woman

00:46:48.200 okay

00:46:49.200 two is stretching

00:46:50.200 all right so seven seven bodies

00:46:52.200 bro like two is the max

00:46:53.200 all right two so zero two

00:46:55.200 seven would be a problem

00:46:56.200 all right five

00:46:57.200 uh five would not

00:46:59.200 all right tattoos

00:47:00.200 deal breaker?

00:47:01.200 absolutely not every tattoo is five bodies minimum

00:47:03.200 all right

00:47:04.200 you don't care

00:47:05.200 that's not true

00:47:06.200 all right all right

00:47:07.200 like a full sleeve or some shit

00:47:09.200 yeah no

00:47:10.200 okay there's tattoo math

00:47:11.200 so if any back tattoo 20 bodies

00:47:13.200 maybe like you have a butterfly means you're kind of basic

00:47:16.200 you might be a bit of an NPC

00:47:17.200 tram stamp

00:47:18.200 ask Gary the numbers guy

00:47:19.200 you might have NPC energy

00:47:20.200 tram stamp how many?

00:47:21.200 that's not true

00:47:22.200 okay the bad one

00:47:23.200 bro that's like ten minimum

00:47:24.200 wait wait wait wait

00:47:25.200 let them talk about their standards without interrupting

00:47:28.200 thank you

00:47:29.200 now

00:47:30.200 all right

00:47:31.200 so um

00:47:32.200 one tattoo

00:47:33.200 done

00:47:34.200 or no?

00:47:35.200 no

00:47:36.200 so one tattoo they can get away with

00:47:37.200 I don't know like if her dad died or something

00:47:38.200 and she got it on her ankle

00:47:39.200 it's like

00:47:40.200 it's different

00:47:41.200 oh well that's kind of a red flag too though

00:47:43.200 okay

00:47:44.200 all right

00:47:45.200 all right

00:47:46.200 we're gonna try this again

00:47:47.200 raise your hand one tattoo

00:47:48.200 is that a deal breaker?

00:47:49.200 no problem

00:47:50.200 okay two tattoos

00:47:51.200 like

00:47:52.200 three tattoos

00:47:54.200 four tattoos

00:47:56.200 we gotta talk about square inches

00:47:57.200 cause like she got like one year

00:47:58.200 that's kind of the point

00:47:59.200 it's like

00:48:00.200 there's types of tattoos

00:48:01.200 let's look at it

00:48:02.200 it's her tattoos

00:48:03.200 deal breaker

00:48:04.200 yeah yeah yeah deal breaker for me

00:48:05.200 it's funny

00:48:06.200 okay okay

00:48:07.200 this one's actually for my dad

00:48:08.200 i don't mind that

00:48:09.200 i don't mind that

00:48:10.200 this one's okay

00:48:11.200 yeah so like that's more like wholesome

00:48:12.200 that's the reason

00:48:13.200 okay

00:48:14.200 oh my god

00:48:15.200 i don't mind that

00:48:16.200 i have one here

00:48:17.200 let me

00:48:18.200 red flag

00:48:19.200 i have one here between my chest

00:48:20.200 i have one on my thigh

00:48:22.200 and then i have one by my wrist

00:48:23.200 is that a deal breaker?

00:48:24.200 100%

00:48:25.200 okay so yeah

00:48:26.200 okay

00:48:27.200 now

00:48:28.200 cross i walk with god

00:48:29.200 plastic

00:48:30.200 plastic surgery

00:48:31.200 is that a deal breaker?

00:48:32.200 yeah plastic boobs are ass

00:48:35.200 my boobs are plastic

00:48:37.200 okay so

00:48:38.200 i'm rather natural but

00:48:39.200 as long as it looks good right?

00:48:41.200 it's not a deal breaker

00:48:42.200 deal breaker

00:48:43.200 deal breaker

00:48:44.200 i don't like that

00:48:45.200 i don't like plastic

00:48:46.200 like i like natural

00:48:47.200 don't you feel like you're being catfished

00:48:48.200 out of like what your future children are gonna look like?

00:48:50.200 i don't have a plastic picture

00:48:51.200 that's for baby pictures

00:48:52.200 we'll agree

00:48:53.200 as long as she's healthy

00:48:54.200 whatever they'll just be fly

00:48:55.200 i mean

00:48:56.200 they'll be fine

00:48:57.200 okay

00:48:58.200 she's very

00:48:59.200 she's

00:49:00.200 wait wait

00:49:01.200 so she's very sweet

00:49:02.200 but dumb

00:49:03.200 deal breaker?

00:49:04.200 for a wife

00:49:06.200 i think that might be a bit of a deal breaker

00:49:08.200 yeah

00:49:09.200 alright what about you?

00:49:10.200 depends what you like

00:49:11.200 if you're a very very masculine man

00:49:13.200 i'm talking about you

00:49:14.200 i know i'm just

00:49:15.200 i'm talking about you

00:49:16.200 no it's not a deal breaker

00:49:18.200 dumb girls are so annoying

00:49:19.200 because you can make them smart

00:49:20.200 it's not hard to make a dumb girl

00:49:23.200 above average intelligence of all the other girls in the world

00:49:25.200 just teach them

00:49:26.200 okay

00:49:27.200 you teach them but if they're dumb they're not gonna catch up

00:49:28.200 it doesn't matter

00:49:29.200 i'm smart

00:49:30.200 stop guys stop it

00:49:31.200 exactly

00:49:32.200 i'm smart so i don't need her to be smart

00:49:34.200 okay

00:49:35.200 so she can be dumb and sweet

00:49:36.200 okay

00:49:37.200 um

00:49:38.200 if she has a only fan

00:49:41.200 deal breaker

00:49:42.200 come on

00:49:43.200 like obviously

00:49:44.200 what the fuck

00:49:45.200 okay

00:49:46.200 what if it only has bikini pictures on it?

00:49:48.200 bro

00:49:49.200 what the fuck are these Miami questions?

00:49:50.200 like that is the craziest thing i've ever heard in my life

00:49:53.200 that is for Miami logic

00:49:55.200 like a lot of my friends here they're like

00:49:56.200 yeah

00:49:57.200 no she uh

00:49:58.200 she had an only fans

00:49:59.200 or maybe she just sold titty pics in high school

00:50:01.200 it's not that bad

00:50:02.200 i'm like

00:50:03.200 you fucking insane

00:50:04.200 like that is a no

00:50:05.200 why was it in high school?

00:50:07.200 i have more questions

00:50:08.200 if she's been divorced but no kids

00:50:10.200 i'm 20 like obviously

00:50:12.200 okay

00:50:13.200 yeah

00:50:14.200 yeah deal breaker

00:50:15.200 deal breaker

00:50:16.200 uh

00:50:17.200 no not for me i'm 35

00:50:18.200 i don't know

00:50:19.200 okay

00:50:20.200 a kid

00:50:21.200 uh yeah

00:50:22.200 deal breaker

00:50:23.200 deal breaker

00:50:24.200 yeah you're sharing your DNA with another man

00:50:26.200 any man that's been inside of her

00:50:28.200 it's a thing

00:50:29.200 it's called telogamy

00:50:30.200 you're sharing your DNA with that woman

00:50:31.200 or with that man

00:50:32.200 so someone else railed a girl before you

00:50:34.200 why do you think siblings look different?

00:50:36.200 whoa

00:50:37.200 okay

00:50:38.200 well not only are you sharing your DNA

00:50:40.200 you're pretty much in like a poly relationship

00:50:42.200 you're in a relationship with her kid from some other guy

00:50:44.200 and then you're in a relationship with him

00:50:45.200 if he's in the kid's life

00:50:46.200 so by default

00:50:48.200 well that's different but i'm saying by default

00:50:51.200 i have to deal with him

00:50:52.200 you

00:50:53.200 and his and your kid by some other guy

00:50:54.200 wouldn't he be a deal breaker for you if the dad wasn't involved?

00:50:56.200 it would still be a deal breaker

00:50:58.200 yeah it would still be a deal breaker

00:50:59.200 what did you call telogamy?

00:51:01.200 what did you call that?

00:51:02.200 that's what it's called telogamy

00:51:03.200 yeah basically of another man

00:51:04.200 never heard of that before

00:51:05.200 it's fascinating

00:51:06.200 yeah i mean why do you think siblings look different?

00:51:08.200 interesting

00:51:09.200 okay

00:51:10.200 siblings look different

00:51:12.200 okay

00:51:13.200 well let me get this straight

00:51:14.200 that's a crazy Gavin take

00:51:15.200 some really crazy differences

00:51:16.200 i'm not even

00:51:17.200 i'm not even completely doubting what you're saying

00:51:20.200 but

00:51:21.200 i'm not sure

00:51:22.200 that all the siblings would look exactly the same

00:51:25.200 regardless

00:51:26.200 you think the most powerful thing

00:51:27.200 human sperm is just gonna go away from

00:51:30.200 inside of a woman

00:51:31.200 it's meant to be there

00:51:32.200 it's gonna stay on the walls

00:51:33.200 i'm not even doubting that

00:51:35.200 i'm not even doubting that

00:51:36.200 i'm not even doubting that

00:51:37.200 i'm sure there's something to it

00:51:38.200 but

00:51:39.200 once they're in there they camp out

00:51:41.200 they're staying

00:51:42.200 so she's a virgin

00:51:43.200 all the siblings look exactly the same

00:51:49.200 not exactly the same

00:51:50.200 but like not

00:51:51.200 you know one sibling is not gonna have

00:51:53.200 different colored eyes and hair than another sibling

00:51:55.200 that can still happen

00:51:56.200 it can still happen

00:51:57.200 it's very rare though

00:51:58.200 but you see it happen all the time with siblings

00:52:00.200 oh my brothers look so different

00:52:03.200 yeah

00:52:04.200 so

00:52:05.200 wait sorry

00:52:06.200 how many guys

00:52:07.200 protection

00:52:08.200 um

00:52:09.200 it doesn't apply

00:52:10.200 if

00:52:11.200 sorry the sperm never technically enters her

00:52:13.200 does it apply then

00:52:14.200 no

00:52:15.200 that's why

00:52:16.200 with protection yeah

00:52:17.200 so if she's a safe 304

00:52:18.200 what if he comes out black

00:52:19.200 every time your mom gets railed

00:52:21.200 the baby's face changes

00:52:24.200 the eyes change

00:52:25.200 the nose

00:52:26.200 it doesn't matter if he has a condom or not

00:52:28.200 oh my goodness

00:52:29.200 oh my goodness

00:52:30.200 changes

00:52:31.200 after a hundred

00:52:32.200 it turns into like a

00:52:33.200 fucking like

00:52:34.200 alien

00:52:35.200 yes exactly

00:52:36.200 are there any jobs that are deal breakers for you guys

00:52:39.200 nurses

00:52:40.200 nurses

00:52:41.200 bartenders

00:52:42.200 no bartenders

00:52:46.200 nothing

00:52:47.200 nothing really I mean

00:52:48.200 after a certain period she wouldn't work at all

00:52:50.200 if she wanted to then

00:52:51.200 sure she can

00:52:52.200 but certain jobs now

00:52:53.200 like she's obviously not going to be a

00:52:55.200 yeah I wouldn't

00:52:56.200 I wouldn't do a nurse

00:52:57.200 only fans girl influencer

00:52:58.200 like she wouldn't do that stuff

00:52:59.200 but

00:53:00.200 bottle girl

00:53:01.200 yeah for sure

00:53:02.200 anything involving another man that's

00:53:04.200 around her flirting with her

00:53:05.200 like you wouldn't want

00:53:06.200 being a PA too

00:53:07.200 that's some bottle girls over there

00:53:08.200 oh no I'm not a bottle girl what are you talking about

00:53:10.200 I sell insurance from home

00:53:11.200 in my house

00:53:12.200 insurance

00:53:13.200 I'm gonna read some of the questions and I want you guys to know what's like dating

00:53:20.200 what do you guys think of dating comedians?

00:53:28.200 oh they're not funny like they're not none of them are funny like I'm sorry

00:53:32.200 wait what was the question?

00:53:33.200 dating comedians

00:53:34.200 dating comedians

00:53:35.200 oh

00:53:36.200 like the guy makes you laugh

00:53:37.200 the only way you can have a good sense of humor is if you can

00:53:40.200 if you're compatible with the guy's jokes and you get along with them like it is so rare

00:53:45.200 that a girl makes me laugh

00:53:46.200 but what if they're not funny?

00:53:47.200 I'm the one that gets you

00:53:48.200 I'm laughing at girls

00:53:49.200 you think they're funny sometimes?

00:53:50.200 but you're like they gotta have my sensitivity

00:53:51.200 but you're 22 too

00:53:52.200 so the girls that you're talking about have no life experience

00:53:53.200 to be able to have a clear conversation with you

00:53:56.200 yeah yeah yeah yeah

00:53:57.200 alright that could totally be a part of it

00:53:59.200 all the girls I'm talking to

00:54:01.200 they're not funny

00:54:02.200 I think my man crack up

00:54:03.200 I'm sorry

00:54:04.200 they get less funny I think

00:54:06.200 you think so?

00:54:07.200 Pearl are you on my side with this one?

00:54:08.200 no because your humor gets darker

00:54:10.200 I don't know I think they can be funny

00:54:12.200 I mean you guys think of any female comedians who are as popular as the number one male comedian?

00:54:17.200 Amy Schumer

00:54:18.200 that's cause of sexism

00:54:19.200 oh cause of feminism

00:54:21.200 you know I know she's kind of rap like she's kind of like I don't really like her as a person that much

00:54:27.200 with all the stuff that she's been in the news for recently

00:54:30.200 but she Tiffany Haddish is kind of funny

00:54:33.200 Tiffany Haddish

00:54:34.200 she's not funny

00:54:35.200 is she wait

00:54:36.200 she did like she was kind of

00:54:37.200 she was like wilding on her fiance

00:54:39.200 is she fat?

00:54:40.200 no no she was like

00:54:41.200 usually like fat chicks can be funny maybe

00:54:43.200 that was the chick that was like

00:54:44.200 I'm not calling you fat

00:54:45.200 I'm just saying

00:54:46.200 she was chasing Shakira

00:54:48.200 she's like Shakira

00:54:49.200 Tiffany okay

00:54:50.200 so when was the last date you were on?

00:54:53.200 the last date was like two months ago

00:54:56.200 how did it go?

00:54:58.200 it was good

00:54:59.200 I mean we had sex

00:55:01.200 so I got a one night stand out of it

00:55:02.200 it was pretty good

00:55:03.200 for me it was a score

00:55:05.200 I mean for me when I'm on dates

00:55:07.200 I just get the women talking about themselves

00:55:09.200 I'm usually not listening

00:55:10.200 but then like eventually I'll like tune back in and hear what she says

00:55:13.200 and then I'll be like oh really?

00:55:15.200 and then I'll like

00:55:16.200 I don't actively listen when women are speaking a lot of times on dates

00:55:18.200 but what I'll do is I'll catch a part

00:55:20.200 and then I'll ask her questions

00:55:21.200 put them on hold

00:55:22.200 and I'll keep them

00:55:23.200 no but if you just catch part of it and you keep her talking

00:55:26.200 then you know you just keep going

00:55:27.200 and then I just kind of like

00:55:28.200 I don't know

00:55:29.200 I usually take her somewhere where I can dance

00:55:31.200 or like something where we can kind of have some touching going on

00:55:33.200 and then we go from there

00:55:35.200 what types of women do you typically date?

00:55:37.200 like what do they do?

00:55:38.200 how old are they?

00:55:40.200 usually they're like 23, 24, 25 in that range

00:55:44.200 usually they're like customer service representatives or some shit

00:55:47.200 like I try to get girls that are like working regular jobs

00:55:50.200 I don't know why she was looking at me

00:55:51.200 I don't know what happened

00:55:52.200 I'm a broker so I sell people shit

00:55:54.200 insurance brokers

00:55:56.200 I don't leave my house

00:55:58.200 I work from home

00:55:59.200 I talk to 65 year olds all day long

00:56:01.200 that's why you don't date

00:56:02.200 because you're in the house all the time

00:56:04.200 oh and he likes that

00:56:05.200 no I actually go outside to be funny

00:56:08.200 and I was on a date a month ago

00:56:11.200 and the reason I don't date regularly is because I'm actually extremely picky

00:56:15.200 that's not good though

00:56:17.200 why not?

00:56:18.200 because she's a kid

00:56:19.200 like bro

00:56:20.200 I have to be picky

00:56:21.200 I'm not going to just bring a bunch of dudes to my house

00:56:23.200 I have a 14 year old

00:56:24.200 nah that'll fuck them up

00:56:25.200 you can't be doing that

00:56:26.200 I can't do that

00:56:27.200 what's wrong with being picky?

00:56:28.200 if you can't have a lot of bodies

00:56:29.200 that's a woman for my daughter

00:56:30.200 I have a...

00:56:31.200 how old's the daughter?

00:56:32.200 she's 14

00:56:33.200 yeah I have a controversial opinion

00:56:35.200 yes I'm going to give it to you

00:56:37.200 okay

00:56:38.200 yeah I think when people have kids

00:56:39.200 and they choose to be single mothers

00:56:41.200 I think shop...

00:56:42.200 close down the shop till they're 18

00:56:44.200 that's what I do

00:56:45.200 that's

00:56:46.200 I mean my daughter's never met another man

00:56:48.200 she knows her dad

00:56:49.200 like I'm not the...

00:56:50.200 it's not that

00:56:51.200 it's the idea

00:56:53.200 they should praise the kid

00:56:54.200 like yeah there's

00:56:55.200 I have other shit to do

00:56:56.200 like I told you guys

00:56:58.200 yeah cause the other guys are the most likely ones

00:57:00.200 yeah no I would never

00:57:02.200 I would never do that

00:57:03.200 you're a single mother and she's an only child?

00:57:05.200 yeah

00:57:06.200 whoa

00:57:07.200 I think I said this yesterday

00:57:08.200 I've never

00:57:09.200 I'll do the zirka

00:57:10.200 I have never

00:57:11.200 met a single mom

00:57:13.200 that has an only child

00:57:14.200 that's a girl

00:57:15.200 it's always a son

00:57:16.200 yeah no

00:57:17.200 that's the first time I've ever met one

00:57:18.200 have you guys noticed that too?

00:57:19.200 it's always the son

00:57:20.200 that's the only child

00:57:21.200 with the single mom

00:57:23.200 I mean she has other siblings

00:57:24.200 like from her dad

00:57:25.200 oh okay well then

00:57:27.200 my point stands

00:57:28.200 to the ladies

00:57:30.200 to the ladies that are single moms though

00:57:32.200 do you realize like

00:57:33.200 the next relationship you get in

00:57:35.200 like you shouldn't fuck it up

00:57:37.200 like you're in the

00:57:38.200 like

00:57:39.200 you need to

00:57:40.200 you need to realize that

00:57:41.200 you're not the prize

00:57:42.200 which is why

00:57:43.200 I'm

00:57:45.200 waiting for the right relationship

00:57:47.200 what about you?

00:57:48.200 yeah you know how I feel about

00:57:49.200 I've told you a lot about it

00:57:50.200 so I'm dating somebody

00:57:51.200 we haven't been together long

00:57:53.200 it's been about two months

00:57:54.200 and I mean we're already talking about

00:57:56.200 me moving to Utah with my kids

00:57:58.200 and picking up and going over there by next year

00:58:00.200 so

00:58:01.200 how do you know him?

00:58:03.200 so I was doing live streaming

00:58:06.200 like just like

00:58:07.200 it's this app called

00:58:08.200 no not like that

00:58:09.200 it's no nudity

00:58:10.200 you literally just talk to people

00:58:11.200 that's it

00:58:12.200 if you even try to like

00:58:13.200 if I was wearing this

00:58:14.200 I would get banned

00:58:15.200 okay so you met him on a live streaming app

00:58:17.200 yeah it's called Meet Me

00:58:18.200 so yeah so I met him on there

00:58:20.200 I was like talking to my friend

00:58:21.200 we were talking to him

00:58:22.200 why were you there?

00:58:23.200 and he lives in Utah

00:58:24.200 huh?

00:58:25.200 before you talk shit

00:58:26.200 how many times have you met him?

00:58:30.200 um okay so he came from Utah

00:58:32.200 and we spent four days together

00:58:33.200 now in two weeks

00:58:34.200 I'm going to Vegas to see him

00:58:35.200 because he's there for work

00:58:36.200 and then he's going to come back over here

00:58:38.200 then I'm going to Utah

00:58:39.200 we just went back and forth

00:58:40.200 okay so how many times have you met him?

00:58:42.200 four

00:58:43.200 well four days

00:58:44.200 okay so you're considering moving your kids and your family

00:58:48.200 you met this man on Omegle

00:58:51.200 girl that's Omegle

00:58:52.200 that's Omegle

00:58:53.200 it is wild

00:58:54.200 it is wild

00:58:55.200 and I agree it's wild

00:58:56.200 but there's a reason why

00:58:57.200 I feel comfortable

00:58:58.200 okay okay okay

00:58:59.200 what do your parents think?

00:59:00.200 I'm going to take a note

00:59:01.200 I'm going to take a note

00:59:02.200 my parents think

00:59:03.200 my mom met him

00:59:04.200 my mom loves him

00:59:05.200 so she wants to date

00:59:08.200 or she

00:59:09.200 men in Miami

00:59:10.200 are

00:59:11.200 I'm going to take my time with like

00:59:12.200 men in Miami

00:59:14.200 I hope so

00:59:16.200 at least he's not from Miami

00:59:18.200 he's not

00:59:19.200 he's not contaminated

00:59:20.200 she doesn't like men in Miami so much

00:59:22.200 that she is going to go to Utah

00:59:23.200 yes girl

00:59:24.200 I am flying from here

00:59:26.200 there are a bunch of Mormons there

00:59:27.200 don't worry

00:59:28.200 there is he told me about that

00:59:29.200 what do you think

00:59:30.200 they like do that dipping thing

00:59:32.200 what

00:59:33.200 but he's not Mormon

00:59:34.200 you know about the dipping?

00:59:35.200 he's not Mormon?

00:59:36.200 he's not Mormon?

00:59:37.200 they dip

00:59:38.200 they dip

00:59:39.200 what do they dip?

00:59:40.200 what is that?

00:59:41.200 are you talking about when they shake the bed?

00:59:42.200 hold on hold on

00:59:43.200 no they dip

00:59:44.200 what are they dipping?

00:59:45.200 you don't know about the dipping?

00:59:46.200 like their chips?

00:59:47.200 they're dipping their chips?

00:59:48.200 what are they dipping?

00:59:49.200 they're dipping their yeah

00:59:50.200 chips is a good way to put it

00:59:51.200 their chip

00:59:52.200 their penises

00:59:53.200 and they just let it

00:59:54.200 they let the chip just sit in there

00:59:55.200 for like 30 minutes

00:59:56.200 yes because they can't have sex right?

00:59:57.200 so does the DNA go then or what?

00:59:59.200 are we talking too long?

01:00:01.200 yeah

01:00:02.200 why are we talking

01:00:03.200 because it's kind of fermenting it

01:00:04.200 you can see it

01:00:05.200 you can see it

01:00:06.200 they just dip

01:00:07.200 they yeah

01:00:08.200 from my knowledge

01:00:09.200 they're weird

01:00:10.200 they let it sit for like 30 minutes

01:00:11.200 that's like yeah it's weird

01:00:12.200 what?

01:00:13.200 yeah

01:00:14.200 i've never heard that you just educated me

01:00:15.200 and that is crazy disgusting

01:00:17.200 i've never heard that there's like a certain thing that they do

01:00:19.200 that they like they'll lay on top of you

01:00:21.200 and then they just move like

01:00:22.200 someone shakes the bed

01:00:24.200 they barely

01:00:25.200 they barely move though

01:00:26.200 that's perfect

01:00:27.200 you can have your kids jump on the bed

01:00:29.200 while you

01:00:30.200 no he's not a mormon though

01:00:31.200 alright so

01:00:32.200 wait guys

01:00:34.200 wait guys guys wait

01:00:35.200 so i have a question for you

01:00:36.200 so you met this guy for four days

01:00:38.200 now you're

01:00:39.200 i was with him four days straight

01:00:40.200 we've been talking for two months straight

01:00:41.200 okay

01:00:42.200 okay

01:00:43.200 i don't really count it

01:00:44.200 unless you're meeting in person

01:00:45.200 really? unless you're like

01:00:46.200 in person?

01:00:47.200 i don't think you can really get to know someone that well

01:00:50.200 like virtually

01:00:51.200 sure

01:00:52.200 okay so you met him

01:00:53.200 alright so

01:00:54.200 that's how i met the father of my kids too

01:00:56.200 please let me finish my sentence

01:00:57.200 so

01:00:58.200 so how long do you need to speak to him until you're ready to move?

01:01:03.200 i would say about a year

01:01:04.200 about a year

01:01:05.200 okay so you're not going that soon

01:01:07.200 no that's why i said next year

01:01:09.200 one year

01:01:10.200 okay

01:01:11.200 is this typical for you to meet the guys online?

01:01:14.200 no i met the father of my kids through a mutual friend

01:01:17.200 but at the time that we started talking he was living in texas

01:01:19.200 and we were on the phone for five months before we met in person

01:01:22.200 and then we lasted ten years

01:01:23.200 okay

01:01:24.200 yeah

01:01:25.200 this guy would call you every day for five months?

01:01:28.200 yeah

01:01:29.200 then we'd be on FaceTime the same way that i do with my man now

01:01:31.200 okay what happened to you?

01:01:33.200 what happened to him?

01:01:34.200 i used to get a hobby

01:01:35.200 yeah it seems like a good dude

01:01:37.200 five months of calling every day

01:01:39.200 good dude well he turned up to be an addict

01:01:41.200 and he's in rehab now

01:01:43.200 so yeah

01:01:44.200 he was a good dude

01:01:45.200 that'll get you

01:01:46.200 he kept it in secret?

01:01:47.200 no

01:01:48.200 in the beginning he wasn't into drugs

01:01:50.200 he got into that during our seventh year

01:01:52.200 when i got pregnant with our second child

01:01:54.200 and then

01:01:55.200 what type of drugs?

01:01:56.200 he was keeping it for me

01:01:57.200 so it was Percocets

01:01:58.200 then heroin

01:01:59.200 then cocaine

01:02:00.200 yep

01:02:01.200 yeah

01:02:02.200 girl did you find these girls on Omegle?

01:02:04.200 where'd you get everyone?

01:02:05.200 what is Omegle?

01:02:06.200 that sounds like a dog

01:02:08.200 i don't recruit at all

01:02:09.200 so i just

01:02:10.200 you know

01:02:11.200 oh a recruiter finds them?

01:02:12.200 i don't know

01:02:13.200 what's wrong with us?

01:02:14.200 she found you on a pimp site

01:02:15.200 i know

01:02:16.200 i know

01:02:17.200 so

01:02:18.200 okay what about you?

01:02:20.200 you haven't been on a date though

01:02:22.200 so you got nothing

01:02:23.200 i've got nothing

01:02:24.200 you don't know anything about dating in Miami

01:02:25.200 no men

01:02:26.200 you've been six

01:02:27.200 okay come on

01:02:28.200 six months

01:02:29.200 you're a pretty girl

01:02:30.200 there's been no men

01:02:31.200 no i actually

01:02:32.200 i ended up accidentally on a date

01:02:34.200 okay

01:02:35.200 yes

01:02:36.200 so i

01:02:37.200 it was a fellow streamer

01:02:38.200 right

01:02:39.200 we were

01:02:40.200 we were all hanging out

01:02:41.200 after source cast

01:02:42.200 right

01:02:43.200 we were all hanging out at the casino

01:02:45.200 and

01:02:46.200 a guy

01:02:47.200 was like hey

01:02:48.200 like we should you know

01:02:49.200 talk content

01:02:50.200 we should hang out sometime

01:02:52.200 and so

01:02:53.200 we

01:02:54.200 made plans

01:02:55.200 to go out

01:02:56.200 to dinner

01:02:57.200 he was running late

01:02:58.200 dinner was taking a while

01:03:00.200 and so

01:03:01.200 i was like damn

01:03:02.200 there aren't really gonna be any places open

01:03:03.200 nearby

01:03:04.200 where i'm at

01:03:05.200 um

01:03:06.200 and so he ended up coming by my place

01:03:08.200 and

01:03:09.200 i quickly realized

01:03:10.200 within ten minutes

01:03:11.200 that i am not cut out for dating

01:03:13.200 unless this guy is an anomaly

01:03:15.200 but within

01:03:16.200 literally the first five minutes

01:03:17.200 he

01:03:18.200 let it be known

01:03:19.200 i'm really interested in you

01:03:21.200 i think you're very attractive

01:03:22.200 and my intention is to like

01:03:23.200 have sex tonight

01:03:24.200 i don't know

01:03:25.200 that's right

01:03:26.200 that's right

01:03:27.200 that's what he should do

01:03:28.200 god damn it

01:03:29.200 i was like i'm not ready to date

01:03:31.200 i'm sorry

01:03:32.200 god damn it

01:03:33.200 that's what he's supposed to do

01:03:34.200 alright guys

01:03:35.200 i want

01:03:36.200 i want the men

01:03:37.200 wait wait wait

01:03:38.200 i want the men

01:03:39.200 um

01:03:40.200 raise your hand

01:03:41.200 do you respect that

01:03:42.200 yes

01:03:43.200 like her leaving

01:03:44.200 no no no him

01:03:45.200 yeah

01:03:46.200 i couldn't leave

01:03:47.200 he was at my house

01:03:48.200 hide your intentions

01:03:49.200 come on now

01:03:50.200 that's basics

01:03:51.200 nah

01:03:52.200 he needs to know

01:03:53.200 you can do that

01:03:54.200 if they're ready

01:03:55.200 i mean don't like

01:03:56.200 let her know what you're thinking up front

01:03:57.200 be straight ahead

01:03:58.200 not like ten minutes into a date though

01:04:00.200 it was literally so full

01:04:01.200 after him being in my house

01:04:03.200 ladies

01:04:04.200 literally within the first ten minutes

01:04:05.200 ladies

01:04:06.200 ladies

01:04:07.200 ladies newsflash

01:04:08.200 every time we take you out we want to fuck

01:04:09.200 bro but you gotta

01:04:10.200 every time

01:04:11.200 you gotta warm up the leads bro

01:04:12.200 it just turned me off straight away

01:04:13.200 like any type of like a worry man

01:04:15.200 so build up or anything

01:04:16.200 exactly

01:04:17.200 that's what you get

01:04:18.200 and i'm just starting to go back

01:04:19.200 there's no problem what he did

01:04:21.200 it's just a matter of he didn't have enough

01:04:23.200 he didn't he didn't

01:04:24.200 to pull it off basically

01:04:25.200 yeah like

01:04:26.200 like if he was your ideal type and he was

01:04:28.200 oh yeah i'm sure

01:04:29.200 the coolest guy in the world

01:04:30.200 and he was like

01:04:31.200 let's fuck you've been like

01:04:32.200 so it's just

01:04:33.200 it's a man not having that social cues

01:04:35.200 so there's nothing wrong with it

01:04:36.200 it turned me off so quickly

01:04:37.200 you gotta let it cook

01:04:38.200 if the girl's like you know

01:04:39.200 six out of ten interested

01:04:40.200 put it on the grill a bit

01:04:41.200 you're right

01:04:42.200 if that was my type

01:04:43.200 i probably wouldn't

01:04:44.200 everything in life is a funnel

01:04:45.200 so he had the lead gen

01:04:47.200 where he got you at this place

01:04:48.200 and then he needed to send you into the webinar

01:04:50.200 warm you up

01:04:51.200 get you a glass of wine

01:04:52.200 look at this

01:04:53.200 everything in life is a funnel

01:04:55.200 let's go

01:04:56.200 i'm a big advocate on trying

01:04:58.200 he should have tried

01:04:59.200 it's just what happened after

01:05:00.200 was it awkward afterwards

01:05:01.200 or did he know

01:05:02.200 i just said that like

01:05:03.200 i'm not about that life

01:05:04.200 i've never been about that life

01:05:05.200 i'm sorry

01:05:06.200 you're probably gonna end up disappointed

01:05:07.200 and so you feel free to leave now

01:05:09.200 if that is your intention

01:05:10.200 otherwise we can have a date

01:05:11.200 did you feel so awkward

01:05:13.200 no i'm just saying we had a good chat

01:05:14.200 it was nice

01:05:15.200 were you attracted to him

01:05:17.200 no not really

01:05:19.200 okay so in a way

01:05:21.200 it almost like helped him save time

01:05:23.200 exactly

01:05:24.200 yeah no

01:05:25.200 for sure

01:05:26.200 if you were attracted to him

01:05:27.200 would you have entertained him

01:05:28.200 well what i will say is

01:05:29.200 i have actually dated guys

01:05:30.200 who i was not attracted to originally

01:05:32.200 but because i got to know them more

01:05:34.200 because he warmed up the lead

01:05:35.200 there was an aspect of them

01:05:36.200 that made me more attractive to them

01:05:38.200 so i could have been attracted to him

01:05:40.200 had i got to know more of his traits

01:05:42.200 without first being like

01:05:43.200 wait is he

01:05:44.200 have you dated guys

01:05:45.200 that you were also attracted to

01:05:46.200 like right away

01:05:47.200 only one actually

01:05:48.200 okay

01:05:49.200 yeah

01:05:50.200 do you see how she like lights up

01:05:52.200 literally

01:05:53.200 like which guy do you want to be

01:05:54.200 he was beautiful

01:05:55.200 he was gorgeous

01:05:56.200 oh my god

01:05:57.200 he was like the only guy i've dated

01:05:58.200 that was prettier than me

01:05:59.200 he was gorgeous

01:06:00.200 what happened to him

01:06:02.200 men are pretty

01:06:03.200 i don't think we were like very mentally compatible

01:06:06.200 he was like a very

01:06:08.200 was he ozzy

01:06:09.200 he was a year younger than me

01:06:10.200 he was ozzy

01:06:11.200 and he was like a surfer skater dude

01:06:13.200 but he was so beautiful

01:06:14.200 my god

01:06:15.200 do you see how she like lit up

01:06:17.200 this is why

01:06:18.200 beautiful

01:06:19.200 and why do you guys keep saying

01:06:21.200 this is but i'm gonna explain something to you

01:06:22.200 this is why

01:06:23.200 i don't advocate for this

01:06:24.200 but this is kind of why the guys will say like

01:06:26.200 you have to sleep with the girl right away

01:06:28.200 straight away

01:06:29.200 because it's like they want the girl that's like

01:06:30.200 oh my god

01:06:31.200 instead of the girl that's like

01:06:33.200 i'm gonna warm up to you

01:06:34.200 i guess maybe

01:06:35.200 yeah

01:06:36.200 that makes sense

01:06:37.200 i mean for guys that validates a lot of

01:06:40.200 you know when they see a woman who's so attracted to them

01:06:44.200 that is a huge validation for a guy like that's what they're

01:06:48.200 they they don't want a girl who is like wishy-washy on them

01:06:51.200 i feel like it's kind of yes and no

01:06:53.200 because then like there's good-looking dudes everywhere realistically

01:06:56.200 so if you're liking me like just for my looks

01:06:58.200 and i didn't have to put in all that work

01:06:59.200 and like all these other accolades that i built up about myself

01:07:02.200 didn't affect the end result

01:07:04.200 then that means that like the same thing could have happened for another guy

01:07:07.200 so if you had to really get to know me better and a lot more

01:07:09.200 i personally think it ends up meaning more in the end

01:07:11.200 so you prefer that actually

01:07:13.200 yeah i mean for like a wife

01:07:15.200 yeah like i think like having to warm up to you more

01:07:17.200 i mean that's fine

01:07:19.200 i mean that's fine

01:07:21.200 you understand my what i'm saying

01:07:23.200 but

01:07:25.200 like i don't really believe that much in like the oh we made eye contact

01:07:29.200 like who else you make an eye contact with that

01:07:31.200 that's bullshit

01:07:33.200 what do you guys think

01:07:35.200 what do you guys think

01:07:37.200 about um because i know some podcasts have this like

01:07:39.200 she doesn't sleep with you on the first date get rid of her sort of stuff

01:07:43.200 what do you think

01:07:45.200 nah i just it depends it depends on the girl

01:07:47.200 you've heard that on fresh and fit before

01:07:49.200 well they're yeah they're extreme

01:07:51.200 i'm not saying that i'm just asking your opinion go ahead

01:07:53.200 it just depends on the girl

01:07:55.200 some girls maybe it's the third fourth date

01:07:57.200 you could do everything right be their perfect type

01:07:59.200 she could love you so much it could be the third or fourth date

01:08:01.200 some girls so the first date it doesn't mean they're a whore or anything

01:08:04.200 sometimes they just like you that much

01:08:05.200 you guys really clicked maybe you went out

01:08:07.200 maybe you drank a little bit

01:08:08.200 i don't

01:08:09.200 then all these guys want to put all this number like

01:08:11.200 third date 4.5 date she should fuck by

01:08:13.200 like it's just it's bullshit it doesn't matter

01:08:15.200 it really doesn't matter

01:08:16.200 would you take a girl serious if you slept with her on the first date?

01:08:20.200 would you take a girl serious if you slept with her on the first date?

01:08:24.200 i would it wouldn't be ideal but it depends how it happened

01:08:27.200 if i'm like railing her in the bathroom at like a bowling alley then yeah

01:08:30.200 it'd probably be like you know it'd probably be different but if i don't know if we were

01:08:34.200 maybe we went on our first date and we were on like a trip or something or

01:08:37.200 you know you flew her out or something like that then yeah it's like normal you know

01:08:41.200 isn't it kind of deceiving though sometimes if men like

01:08:44.200 some men expect women to go on the first date and then expect

01:08:47.200 and then like some men deceive the women to have sex on the first date

01:08:51.200 but also want women to have a small amount of bodies

01:08:55.200 when other men are fooling them

01:08:56.200 yeah that's true that's true

01:08:58.200 it just depends it depends on the situation like

01:09:00.200 if you're flying girls out you're probably gonna fuck in the first night

01:09:02.200 how many like times you gotta be fooled i mean the men are pretty

01:09:06.200 the men are pretty generous nowadays like i mean i'll when i'm on these shows

01:09:10.200 the average number i get for wifey this is on the low end but it's typically around 10

01:09:16.200 so you get 10 fools

01:09:18.200 wow that's crazy and here's the thing

01:09:20.200 i don't know i don't know your body count and i'm not gonna ask because i do think that's kind of a weird question

01:09:25.200 but like you have that guy where your face lights up

01:09:28.200 now every 10 bodies there's like two more of those guys that gets added on

01:09:32.200 so now here we are where you have one of your i don't know 20 bodies and now there's four other dudes that every time you think about them it lights up in your head

01:09:40.200 and that is the worst thing that a guy could could be possibly imagine your girlfriend being like oh yeah that aussie surfer

01:09:46.200 like he was so good looking

01:09:48.200 imagine that's right imagine that's like you know your wife and like some you know someone asked her about it

01:09:52.200 well honestly yeah my face may have lit up but what i will say is i have never like thought about that guy during intimate moments

01:09:58.200 i hope not but the one thing i'll say is if your future husband watches this pod and sees that say he's dead to you

01:10:06.200 he's dead to you no lighting up the face no blinking quickly

01:10:10.200 i wouldn't marry somebody who didn't like induce that response from me at least i would hurt if i wouldn't

01:10:18.200 it's like drugs after like the 10th time you won't get as much of a light up but the first time you're like

01:10:22.200 yeah so the men will give you a couple fools they'll give you one two three four five six seven

01:10:30.200 eight not me you get zero okay not you guys i'm just telling you from doing the shows that's the

01:10:35.000 most common number i get it's like 10 ish from the guys yeah yeah so so so um with that it's like after

01:10:44.520 10 they're like how stupid are you yeah but realistically most like i'm sure most women here are no women

01:10:51.400 in here are virgins so we don't really have much to pick from like most women are going to have

01:10:55.880 bodies like you just got to pick from what you what you can get like do you think you'll find a virgin

01:11:00.920 someday my girlfriend's a muslim version and 18 years old wow so she's muslim so so that's okay that

01:11:07.400 makes more sense yeah actually i have questions because a lot of men are looking for those so where would

01:11:15.400 you find one like how do you find her well you can do two ways you could go on instagram oh should i

01:11:23.800 give them the sauce that is run okay you could okay there's two ways you can go on instagram and paper

01:11:29.400 that info i mean all right you go on instagram and and a lot of guys are out there morons they just think

01:11:35.640 they're going to dm some girl with 200k followers she's going to answer you what you do is you go to that

01:11:39.080 200k follower girl and you go through her following and through that following there's going to be a few

01:11:43.320 bitches that have private profiles you click on it if they look hot follow them they accept and

01:11:48.440 follow you back then you dm them if they don't follow you back unfollow them right away in between

01:11:52.200 you got to add some guys in there you know act like you're not following a bunch of girls in a row

01:11:55.720 anyways that's one way the second way would be just luck and in in person i met my girl at a restaurant

01:12:02.760 saw her in the bathroom went up like a real man introduced myself and that's that's it oh so you just

01:12:06.600 got necessary so wait hold on so you can this is how you find virgins you're saying that oh so how

01:12:14.600 how do you have a guarantee that she was a virgin if you didn't know her your whole life you can look

01:12:18.760 in their eyes simple yeah you can you get behind the eyes well there could be the physical aspect

01:12:24.520 of you know and then there also can be the you know okay some guys might not be able to decipher it

01:12:32.280 if you've been with a good amount of girls you know a girl can't lie about being a virgin she

01:12:36.920 could maybe lie it will come out oh you would be surprised i don't know i feel like you but if

01:12:41.080 you're a smart man within a year it would come out maybe i'm wrong but like i'd rather ignorance is

01:12:45.720 bliss maybe i'm wrong but i highly doubt it they're also very naive like my mom gets mad when i say this

01:12:50.680 but like i can convince a girl i'm psychic and like i already know the answer so you have to tell me the

01:12:54.680 truth and it's like i get it every time i think he's friday i want to i want to hear from the chicks

01:13:01.640 do you know any women that have lied about being virgins yes yeah okay yeah okay did they get away

01:13:08.920 with it um i well what i was gonna say is i feel like most women lie so why i mean the i know why men

01:13:15.160 prioritize the body thing but how do you guys like you there's a girl you can date a girl from like a

01:13:22.120 neighborhood you've never been in that had sex with the whole neighborhood and then came to your

01:13:25.640 city and has one body and lied how how would how would you like bro you just like no they know by the

01:13:32.120 way that you behave you can spell the way you behave yeah the way you carry yourself some girls are good

01:13:37.960 at acting innocent bro no you're not that good at it it comes out when you're having sex it comes out

01:13:45.160 when you're having i'm just curious so raise your hand if you think a chick could hide that for life

01:13:50.920 no way there's no one there's no way not from i think the truth comes out eventually we'll test

01:13:56.920 that maybe for a little you'll know when you have your kid and your kid's got like red hair or

01:14:01.000 something or are the kids like yeah yeah you'll know it comes out black i'm giving my kid genetic

01:14:07.240 test i'm gonna make sure 100 percent oh god wow how do you wait wait because a lot of these guys are

01:14:13.720 going to want to know about this how you can do a genetic test to see if your kid's mother

01:14:20.520 had previous sexual partners this is a real thing maybe i honestly don't know okay i thought that's

01:14:26.280 what you were saying i'm gonna figure it out i'll check it up when i have a kid i'm gonna figure it out

01:14:31.160 but i'll look in their eyes i'll know a lie detector test should it should it be mandatory that every

01:14:37.880 kid that's born there'd be a dna test like yeah why not that's sad i think so would the ladies be

01:14:45.240 offended by that like would you would that make you mad i don't think it's mandatory but i wouldn't

01:14:48.440 be offended i would love to like oh you guys would 100 percent be offended be offended

01:14:54.680 guess guess what percent wait wait well guess what percent of um pregnancies are actually fathered

01:15:01.960 by a different kid and this is a low-end yeah wait what but like like they lied to the man yeah

01:15:07.560 lied to the man guess what percent so guess yes what do you think yes and this is the low end because

01:15:14.120 there's some numbers that are but i'm going to give you guys the conservative us let's go ahead okay 10

01:15:18.920 10 that's a crazy number four geez no let's say 40 uh let's say 22 22 wow okay what do you think i'm

01:15:29.240 gonna say it's like 33 okay 14.5 14. i'd say like five percent there's no way it's worse than that

01:15:39.000 yeah like what depends what country we're talking about what percent of baby daddies or baby mamas

01:15:43.560 lied about their baby daddy yeah did i just do like the whole whole relation baby daddy uh probably like

01:15:49.240 five ten percent i would have said okay go ahead maybe like ten percent okay just from the way that

01:15:54.280 you introduced it i know it's a crazy number i'll give you guys the numbers so conservative low-end

01:16:01.720 estimates are around five percent there's a good amount of people that would say ten percent

01:16:07.960 and actually out of dna testing centers so the people that go get their dna tested it's actually

01:16:13.400 one out of three wow so that's like 30 percent an important part of that statistic is who's going

01:16:20.920 to get tested like that's a that's a demographic in itself the other way is there's many men that

01:16:25.720 are oblivious and don't so that's what i'm saying that's why that's why i gave you all three that's why

01:16:31.560 i said it's between five and 33 percent all right so but if that if i was a guy then i would just

01:16:38.840 that's why i think it should be mandatory personally had like she was with a guy had a

01:16:45.160 baby with him he raised her kid for years and it ended up not being his she knew wow yeah which

01:16:52.440 messed up how did he find out he got it tested i don't remember how they found that oh yes he had

01:16:57.640 when the baby started growing up it didn't look like him so then he did a dna test while the baby

01:17:02.360 was at his house and found out it wasn't so sad yeah so he wasn't my friend actually i was friends with

01:17:07.560 him he was distraught that day check on him he was just talking he was and the little boy's name

01:17:13.000 was named after him and everything do you guys do you guys do you guys do you get oh yeah

01:17:22.920 do you guys think a woman like that should go to jail for fraud raise your hand if you think yes

01:17:31.800 because when you look at when you look at civil litigation right you sue based on the

01:17:36.040 damage is incurred so if a man is spending 20 30 50 100 000 on a child he is entitled to that

01:17:43.720 compensation 1000 percent i mean he probably didn't know any better but you should it's like one of

01:17:52.440 those things so i mean everything's a man's fault when a woman does something when your partner does

01:17:57.960 something it's your fault it's not she could i don't know get in a car crash your fault you shouldn't

01:18:01.560 let her drive that day i mean in that in that position i think that was definitely her fault

01:18:05.000 she's the one who knew she had several partners he picked a hoe she probably had the back tats and

01:18:08.280 he didn't even notice she did have back tats it's an unfortunate situation but it stems down to being

01:18:14.520 his fault men have to take accountability when does men's like um intuition come in like ever like in

01:18:20.920 because women i can smell things sometimes i know women have a really good intuition that it's always been

01:18:28.120 said but i've always been curious about like where men's intuition comes in it depends on the man

01:18:32.920 some men like one of my jobs is telling if people are scumbags or not so i i'm like i'm all sensed up

01:18:39.560 i for the past three years i've known i lived in l.a too if you live in l.a probably a very good judge of

01:18:44.280 character because everyone's a jackass there so some men it just depends some men are like idiots you know

01:18:48.680 i have a i have a funny thing we're gonna do with that information after i get through you two

01:18:53.160 so tell me about your last date my last date yeah um it was when i spent the four days with my boyfriend

01:19:00.840 so we went to the beach we went out to eat and we got a hotel we stayed there for three days and

01:19:07.400 did like a bunch of things on the beach like we just weren't like oh this guy's from utah though

01:19:11.480 yeah gives me no information on miami next oh you want somebody from miami i mean i can tell you the person

01:19:16.760 okay yeah tell tell me the last date of miami i'm learning about miami today go ahead go ahead

01:19:22.920 so um okay my last date damn before him it was uh oh yeah that was very okay um

01:19:34.440 so this goes back to what she said uh an entrepreneur and aggressive honestly do you want to be honest with

01:19:42.280 you it was me riding around in the car with him down miami just running errands and we went to get

01:19:46.920 lunch and i just spent the day with him okay and did you what and you didn't like that so no second

01:19:52.680 date um i didn't like what he did for a living i didn't like yeah scammer i didn't like what he did

01:19:58.360 for the baby scammer what do you do what do you do i'm actually curious he was an entrepreneur

01:20:03.560 okay i need a raise of hands who here has dated a scammer before raise your hand

01:20:08.440 it's common in miami wow it's very it's very very common and women loved it and you

01:20:14.840 and you ladies love these guys because you realize i mean sometimes i know going into the date that

01:20:20.040 they were scammed do you think when she was at vendome she was like no there's people in miami who

01:20:27.480 actually make money as well so did you guys know he was a scammer when he took you out

01:20:32.440 um i think i started getting like just getting scared every time i left my like you know it's

01:20:37.560 crazy because i'm curious like what kind of scams are they running i don't know they don't tell them

01:20:42.520 next next like was he scamming grandmas or like what was he doing they would never get into yeah

01:20:47.320 the amazon gift cards didn't he he was definitely going to ask you what bank do you have insurance

01:20:52.280 wow wow i've never been asked from yeah i've never been asked for my karma okay tell me all right what

01:20:59.160 about you my last day i went to go play mini golf and then after i went to go eat tacos and then we

01:21:04.440 went back okay and what did this guy what did this guy okay wait what did this guy do for a living

01:21:11.800 oh he's a doctor he was a doctor okay and are this is the situation scammer yes okay um what kind of

01:21:20.040 doctor is he um for anesthesia okay all right so doctors and you like him so so we like the doc did

01:21:29.240 he buy those good stuff buy what no i got these well no and she just started dating him yeah okay

01:21:39.960 you said you're good at at reading people deciphering yeah okay do you want to go around

01:21:45.160 what am i deciphering yeah i want i just want to see how good he is i want to see him so did they

01:21:52.040 give their body count before oh is that already oh is it a body count what am i deciphering i don't

01:21:56.760 know i just i wanted to see this trick of yours it's just sounding you're really good at reading

01:22:03.080 people whatever i was just curious yeah like yeah like i do like mentalism stuff but like that's like

01:22:09.320 magic tricks but i'm talking about like yeah just i would have to like you know maybe we have to have

01:22:13.320 like a little interview sit down okay okay i'll do it i'll do it i'll do it i'll try okay look

01:22:19.720 you're toxic and you're not funny you're not a funny comedian how do you know that you've never

01:22:24.840 you haven't made one joke all night you're delusional i haven't talked you date a whole

01:22:29.400 bunch of scammers and drug dealers i'm so delusional you're an enigma i don't know what's going on with

01:22:36.520 you you're from australia and you like black guys never been with a black guy my whole life

01:22:43.160 actually damn it you he was really open on that one you hold on hold on hold on i tried to manifest

01:22:52.120 it it didn't work i tried to manifest it it didn't work you have a really nice pair of tits i love your

01:22:59.720 tits uh wait that's it that's it oh wait wait i'm sorry sorry i was confused um

01:23:09.640 he got distracted on this no because honestly i i think that you're you're way too hopeful i think

01:23:17.320 this guy in utah is not gonna work out for you i think you're in miami and you're gonna you're gonna

01:23:21.880 meet a scammer i've had enough of scammers and niggas and the last one she's a gold digger

01:23:30.760 she's a gold digger yep i don't know what you're talking about yep yep you heard it here first

01:23:37.320 wrong you concur how do you do the guys i mean you wanna you wanna do the guys yes she asked go

01:23:47.240 ahead okay yeah and tell me can i start here yeah he's oh i have a good one i think he's um

01:23:58.280 he's fairly new at the he's young so maybe yeah he's illusional he's all coming

01:24:02.280 wisdom doesn't always come with time i mean it doesn't always come with age it comes with

01:24:07.880 experience so i feel like i've had a lot of life experience and a lot of the i've said

01:24:11.000 tonight has been facts i'm gonna stick by okay you seem like a sagittarius but i think

01:24:19.160 you're just very i'm catholic thanks no i think you're um very intellectual very a good speaker um

01:24:29.800 maybe not so much experience with women because you're you said you're a little bit and i was

01:24:35.240 just around but and you i think you're like a really nice guy but sometimes you just you act

01:24:44.280 like like you're you just you have to have a tough exterior so nobody she likes the black

01:24:48.920 guys he's a softy in there i'm not i'm not a softy i'm not a nice guy i'm a good guy i don't think men

01:24:54.600 i don't think men that are nice are soft i'm sorry let me reclaim i think you're just nice and

01:24:58.600 and sometimes with around other people you know not i mean i don't know like you put up a

01:25:03.480 do you guys is that what you're trying to say you guys have thick skin i want i have another game i

01:25:08.040 want to play you guys have thick skin okay i want yeah okay i want to know from the girls which guys

01:25:15.160 you would be most likely to go on a date with and i'm going to do vice versa later all right so raise

01:25:20.280 your hand most likely um perfect you're asking me i'm 27 what do you mean um out of the three yeah

01:25:29.720 yeah yeah so i'm gonna i'm gonna point and then you can give me your feedback if you go on a date

01:25:33.960 or not and why yes or why no wait can you you should do the guys first because that's been the

01:25:37.960 bottle that way they're not going to be biased you know what i mean because they'll be biased no no

01:25:42.760 no no no we're gonna do we're gonna do this the way i said thank you all right so all right so

01:25:48.360 they're gonna be biased though yeah all right what do you guys think too young who would who would

01:25:54.040 you're 20 19 22 22. who would who would eliminate him just based off his age thank you wow oh yeah

01:26:02.200 i mean like that's obvious yeah yeah until the cameras are off you should have lied i should have

01:26:11.160 said 30. how old do i look how old could i pull off you look very young yeah you look young you can

01:26:15.960 go past 24. the oldest you can be is 24 25. 22. no if you said you were 26 27 everyone would have

01:26:21.800 how old do you think i am i'll tell you after i'll tell you right after i think you're right

01:26:29.560 i think you're 23 24. 27 27 26 or you might be like 21 or 22. you know i almost think you're

01:26:37.000 younger i mean they're good friends so they're probably around the same age but you're younger

01:26:41.480 oh you don't no you guys are all right 24 24 24 24. oh wait wait yeah yeah let's wait okay so

01:26:50.520 you're mature for your age but you're younger raise your hand would you go on a date with him

01:26:54.520 you would if we wait are we choosing we have to choose between no okay okay

01:26:59.160 anyone you would go on a date or the guy in the bathroom so we don't have to go on a date with

01:27:02.760 anyone please just just we all right you make it you make it way more difficult if you would go on

01:27:07.080 a date with him raise your hand i think i'm too experienced you're too experienced i'm not

01:27:14.120 celibate don't worry oh no because you like virgins so that's why oh yeah oh my gosh none of you

01:27:22.040 really for me the age thing the age you don't even know how old he is they're closer to my daughter's

01:27:27.800 age than they are me i can't but do you guys know his age they're both handsome bro this is they don't

01:27:33.320 know his age okay i can tell everyone after but okay i said okay no one would no one what what's

01:27:41.640 the what's they all like black guys like i guess i gotta get my inches no it's not out of you three

01:27:45.720 it's just in general it's just in general okay i would say didn't you raise your hands you said you

01:27:50.840 would go because i thought you were saying out of the three of them but you said no just in jazz

01:27:55.080 okay okay what's the what's the what's the holdup why not i just want to know why like you guys

01:27:59.640 eliminate a guy well they're mine now well yeah he's cool but it's just the age but he has a good

01:28:05.400 personality yeah i like his his humor he's yeah he's funny yeah you're gonna get laid after this for

01:28:10.520 sure okay okay what and i'm gonna have you guys do it to the girls too so what what about him

01:28:17.640 can't be trusted he's cool really no one no one date no one wow what what he has too many one night

01:28:25.160 stands yeah that's what i invited you and you this is our first date so we're already on a date right

01:28:42.280 how about that wow i think he's better they just don't know all right all right all right how old

01:28:46.840 are you uh 22. what the hell i said 24 was my final answer but you could 27 yeah i could pass for

01:28:56.280 whatever for sure okay so now we're gonna go around and you guys get to tell me if wife material or no

01:29:02.840 i asked i asked thick skin everyone said yes all right wife wife material yes or no tell me why now

01:29:11.720 or yes yeah for tonight she'll do you i have to go on a few more dates no no yeah you just go around

01:29:20.920 give feedback go ahead oh my god i mean you have a kid that's like you know i could closer to play

01:29:25.880 football with so i think we're good on that one no actually it's a girl so i forgot i forgot it's a

01:29:30.440 girl you i don't know you said like two words all night you're very pretty though i don't know much

01:29:35.560 about you you we have a date after this we already talked about it on camera you um yeah i don't know

01:29:43.640 you're a tougher one but i'd say we could go on a couple two three dates you know figure it out

01:29:47.880 uh and then you guys uh i'm sorry what could they do to get a date with you anything bro like

01:29:57.960 going a time machine i don't know okay okay what about you guys like you guys don't like me

01:30:04.360 because i'm younger and like you guys are older i'm not trying to be rude or nothing but it's like

01:30:08.200 no everyone says right we're all okay right yeah yeah okay what about you i just go around all right

01:30:13.320 all right you're just too old anything like yeah but uh also the tattoo but very pretty girl and

01:30:21.240 i like your hair but i still wouldn't go on a date with you same thing not just not really my type

01:30:27.320 uh you're australian so definitely not um yeah i wouldn't too old the last two i'd say all right what

01:30:34.280 about you uh no because you're older i date younger women exactly um no

01:30:43.800 just no um you is there anything she could do to like improve uh i mean she's dressed modestly

01:30:55.720 what question are the fingernails are those a deal breaker for you guys oh those are not

01:30:59.560 actually like i like those yeah you like the stripper nails no no no maybe that like is a little bit

01:31:04.600 nice he's cooking right now no the back scratch come on give them two inch longer though um no

01:31:14.120 two inches is enough right so so so no i wouldn't know and why i don't know i just

01:31:26.920 you're not my type you're not my type you're you're all right though you're all right um her

01:31:34.440 she doesn't like black guys so i can't really with her like but i do i would date you i would

01:31:39.160 date you the problem is that you haven't been on any dates so i feel like it would be awkward and

01:31:43.000 weird and we wouldn't really it's your job to lead the date though yeah but i think that would be

01:31:47.480 not at least time but she said she bailed she said she went on a date and then like she bailed because

01:31:52.360 it was weird to have sex with me in the first 10 minutes god damn it that's that's a crazy thing

01:31:58.840 is that how you start every date sir uh asking five minutes oh my goodness so no no no seriously

01:32:05.480 um no i would i would it has to be at least like three or four days i wouldn't ask in the first 10

01:32:10.120 minutes um you know but you have great tits and you no you're a gold digger i'm a gold she's a gold

01:32:19.960 digger she's a gold digger 28. and this is why the men and the women can't get together

01:32:24.120 it's like no no love on this show sometimes people find love you know no way we need a new

01:32:32.440 recruiter we need a time machine you can't go too back though okay so what is your craziest miami

01:32:42.120 dating story starting here craziest miami dating story um

01:32:47.880 um i ended up at live in a pair of sneakers and a baseball cap

01:32:55.000 at where on a sunday at live how's that crazy

01:33:00.600 oh one of the main clubs out here yeah so that's all you were wearing no i mean

01:33:05.160 wait you had pants on well it's not crazy yeah like this is why is it crazy no no yeah what makes

01:33:09.720 it the craziest date that um that's a woman launch and it was like fun like i don't i'm telling you i

01:33:15.160 don't really have crazy dating experiences like that because i'm a different age bracket like it's

01:33:23.640 different like dating is different at this level you know so craziest dating story in miami um

01:33:32.040 um it was like ended up being a whole day ended up as well and booby trap booby trap is another

01:33:38.360 club late night didn't walk out so booby trap is open 24 7 strip club it's a strip club here in miami

01:33:44.040 i love strip club but booby trap is open 24 7 so we didn't walk outside until it was like 8 in the

01:33:49.160 morning did you grab some stripper ass of course there you go i wanna um all right she's been to a

01:33:55.880 strip club one time wife okay could you still wife i've taken dates to strip clubs okay i'm just

01:34:03.080 yeah i've taken girls on dates back here i don't have any crazy i have a crazy new york story i really

01:34:08.280 want no it has to be dating dating story go ahead miami okay if new york is crazy i mean it's like

01:34:18.200 really crazy i'm only bringing it because it was crazy a guy stole a car picked me up from work

01:34:23.160 you told me this right and then he was speeding like laughing speeding manically the police um

01:34:30.920 followed us and then they stopped us and he said watch this and he drove off that was not a date

01:34:36.360 that's why i don't want it was supposed to be a date that's why i wouldn't date her because you

01:34:40.680 like that crazy i'm good on that yeah maybe i haven't had a lot of crazy experiences but it wasn't my

01:34:45.800 fault he picked me up from a stolen car yeah that's all right you know that's never happened

01:34:55.160 yeah i don't know i've never had this experience of being a scammer that sounds possible to miami

01:35:02.040 he wasn't a scammer i really don't know what job he had he was a robber he robbed

01:35:06.040 my bad my bad she was subpoenaed for that

01:35:15.160 uh what about you kind of a weird one it's like weird telling us on a podcast but it

01:35:18.920 um you know how zirka is late to like absolutely everything so we were supposed to do um

01:35:23.400 like in um what's it called like i don't know e-dates or something at sneeko's house and so i was

01:35:28.200 waiting downstairs with the two girls for like three hours waiting for zirka to show up and my game is

01:35:33.320 too strong so obviously like one of them was mine by the end of the night and so i ended up securing

01:35:37.880 the job off camera what was supposed to be an e-date on sneeko's stream oh really so you like hooked up

01:35:44.040 with her yeah before they even got there for the date no like we just like went back to mine and chilled

01:35:52.920 wow that's a great great first date that was happy it was better than streaming

01:35:57.160 yeah so i had this girl come on a date we went out with my boy and he's like very very very intense

01:36:07.800 like he gave me a five-hour history lesson last night wouldn't let me leave he just never stops

01:36:11.640 like he just likes to argue and he's very intense and we went out to dinner didn't say a word to her

01:36:17.400 like she was just chilling having food whatever i went to a cigar lounge after and he just like

01:36:22.520 argue with her for like an hour like intense intense arguing like very very for this very very

01:36:29.640 intense and like basically it was like making her like cry and i kept trying i kept trying to like

01:36:34.200 like change the conversation i'm not mad at him she's just a little bit emotional but i was trying

01:36:37.800 to call i was trying to calm everyone down change conversation he just kept going because he has like

01:36:41.560 issues anyway so like where you know she had a little bit to drink and she was really sad and we

01:36:45.560 were walking back and she like got on a flight with these like random guys in the street and then i had to go

01:36:49.720 over and like grab her and like it was really bad and yeah that's that's depressing yeah it wasn't good

01:36:57.080 he was going too hard with the major so you get off to that oh no i'm out of god oh my god i had to be there for

01:37:03.560 every time i need right i saved her from getting like attacked um i took a girl out we went out to

01:37:11.960 like winwood pillows which is like a art district here in miami um and she was like oh you're a dj

01:37:18.360 i'm like yeah come back check out my studio and ended up like her while i was djing i was like

01:37:22.920 switching songs and shit it was pretty cool like she was giving me like no no no well that's happened

01:37:29.080 before but that wasn't a date so i work at a strip club and strippers will like come up and just like

01:37:34.360 grab my dick or like give me a head that's happened before but this was a girl that i went out with

01:37:42.040 so in the dj booth you can only see from here in the dj booth you can only see from here up so if

01:37:46.360 there's a girl down this is that this is that this is that booby trap throughout this is not a

01:38:00.520 different but you can't see but what i'm saying is my date was a girl that was like oh you're a dj

01:38:05.000 she's like oh my dick and i was like oh come back to the studio and we started like i started playing

01:38:08.680 her favorite songs while i was her it was pretty cool wow yeah wow you already heard it yeah yeah

01:38:16.360 what about you crazy a date yes oh okay it was a date but it was somebody i was in a relationship

01:38:23.560 for 10 years does that still count yeah sure um we went to a swingers club whoa wait okay i don't i

01:38:30.840 don't know much about swingers so what is it what is a swingers so the reason my men don't cheat on me

01:38:35.320 is because i cheat with them we do it together because i am sexually attracted to women so if

01:38:40.280 my man wants to be with a woman let's do it together oh which girl do you find the hottest

01:38:44.040 here i was about to ask who would you have you guys like scissored are you guys are you guys friends

01:38:51.160 already yeah oh yeah we met each other yeah okay so do everyone like out of out of these four who

01:38:58.040 you go on a date with uh uh that's her like when i go on a date with yeah have you ever dated women

01:39:07.160 yeah and where do you tell me the differences between dating men and dating women um women

01:39:15.400 what do you mean like emotionally sexually what is the difference between being in a relationship

01:39:20.440 a man and a woman a man um he takes control i let him take control i let him lead i like doing that

01:39:27.560 with the women because it is two women it's kind of more you got to compete for that submissive title

01:39:33.880 or compete for who's leading and it's kind of like way deeper when you get into an argument with another

01:39:39.080 woman because like i could slap you you know and it could get physical and then it gets ugly but with

01:39:44.200 the man i'm not going to put my hands on him so would you say that the girl girl relationships

01:39:49.400 are the more violent ones or like more wow yeah for sure i would yeah for sure and and you have

01:39:55.800 more arguments when it's a girl girl i'd assume because you're fighting for the i mean i've had

01:40:00.920 a lot of sexual relationships with women but as far as relationships i've only had two

01:40:06.040 and both of them were pretty sensitive to me like i was the more leading one which is weird because i'm

01:40:10.840 like you know so like girly in my nature how do the swingers clubs work that's like you do couples go

01:40:17.080 there and they just like swap no it wasn't with other couples we would go on single ladies night

01:40:22.520 so it was on yeah so it was on wednesdays and then wednesdays only single ladies and couples are

01:40:28.040 supposed to be there okay so you go in you get this membership bracelet you change into a robe

01:40:33.320 there's like sweets there you pick a girl she comes up to you and you and your man i have a story about

01:40:39.480 this wait okay it's in a suite they're sweet wow they do this i mean you can take them home

01:40:45.960 but there's like rooms there swingers hotel yeah but you're not gonna want to bring her back to your

01:40:51.480 place that's your guy's safety yeah but i need a little intimacy there's just the female i mean

01:40:56.360 that's what it is though like you go into it's like literally like if i walk you into that bad bed

01:41:00.360 like background you know what i mean and then you put a busy sign on the door like nobody comes in and

01:41:05.400 you lock it and then you just go there as long as you want what was your story oh yeah yeah i've

01:41:12.600 been to a swingers hotel on accident once i mean me and my girlfriend show up this hotel my friend

01:41:18.440 with me and i said what are the best hotels in in uh in cancun and he's like yeah bro secrets is

01:41:24.920 it's the best trust me it's the best i'm like all right so i text the assistant the assistant books

01:41:29.480 it it was like expensive too so i was like oh it must be nice my assistant books it we show up at like

01:41:33.720 11 p.m at night me and my girlfriend we walk in and we're just like why is everyone so weird here

01:41:38.520 we get to like the front desk and thank god we get there and they're like yeah um everyone has to

01:41:45.240 be 21 to like so much so we couldn't stay because my my girlfriend didn't have like fake id or anything

01:41:50.360 but everyone around us was like eyeing us up and like waving and some guy was like throwing up in

01:41:55.480 the corner like don't go to don't go to swingers hotel earlier we spoke about how i believe that

01:42:02.840 all men cheat so and then you said um that you think it's impossible for a man to for one woman to be

01:42:08.840 enough right so do you think a woman that is with a man and she gives him threesomes is that man more

01:42:14.520 likely to not cheat on her some men will still cheat uh yeah i think if you give him threesomes it's more

01:42:21.000 likely that he would not want to other girls why do you got to do it because i don't want threesomes

01:42:26.360 it sounds so aids like why would you want to it sounds like why are you just like you use protection

01:42:32.360 that's rule number one no i mean like aids are like this is aids like like you have to like you have

01:42:38.520 to handle two we're saying oh you guys don't know what aids is like like if something sucks you're

01:42:42.520 like this is eight i'd rather just a girl five minute break get some brown milk from the fridge

01:42:57.080 and then come out and another girl like i don't want to have some threesome yeah like refuel you

01:43:01.560 know i'd i'd rather have a threesome i mean i'm i mean i'm cool with it if my girl wants to have one

01:43:07.560 can i ask the fellas a quick question though is it cheating if your girl cheats with a woman

01:43:13.560 well all women are lesbians or lugs lesbian until graduation so that's what i'm saying like would

01:43:17.080 you be pissed if your girlfriend came back and said hey i just like hooked up with this girl yeah yeah

01:43:21.400 it is but they are all lesbians at the end of the day so if they find another girl attractive it's like

01:43:25.480 whatever i think gay stuff is gross i actually have a funny story my cousin yeah i mean that that just

01:43:35.480 happened to my cousin like he found out or not my cousin some guy i know but yeah his girlfriend

01:43:40.680 went to a bar and she like munched some girl out and yeah he broke up with her over that yeah like

01:43:47.000 i think that's disgusting like because like what are you going to do with the girl like if you're

01:43:50.280 not going to make out there's only so much you can do and like that's kind of gross it's also

01:43:54.520 it kind of shows something about your character like that's not the kind of girl i'm going to be

01:43:57.320 dating that would oh yeah all right i'm still stuck on that yeah okay okay raise a raise of hands who

01:44:09.160 would let their guy if they like the guy enough they're going to let them do threesomes with you

01:44:13.960 raise your hand so you like chicks too no but i i would prefer that for my man wow yeah i would

01:44:24.920 prefer that for my man versus him cheating and i would be i mean girls are beautiful i'm not

01:44:29.000 attracted to them but they're gorgeous you know women away just spend time i would like just rather

01:44:36.360 not like you're not like like she's like i'm not looking because you want to watch him screw

01:44:42.040 another chick oh no but i just feel like there's some really pretty girls you know but there's some

01:44:47.080 really pretty you don't know until you try pearl you don't know until you try so you don't know

01:44:52.920 until you try how do you know i thought it might turn you on now she's like super pink she was like

01:44:58.760 gross anyways yeah i would i would i would in pearl's world i'd ban all the gay stuff oh no

01:45:08.520 yeah i would ban it i would just get it was when i was seven years in that me and him sat down and

01:45:12.920 had a talk and i was like listen we've been together seven years if you're gonna be with

01:45:16.840 me another 10 years i don't expect you to only be satisfied with me so if you want to do it let's

01:45:21.320 do it together and we had that conversation if i had to pick one like if i had to if i had to pick

01:45:25.640 really threesome or he cheats i would just rather the cheating i swear to god let me have a sister

01:45:32.120 wife like that's no i'd rather just not know i'd rather have neither i'd be honest

01:45:39.400 if it's up to me you know but the cheating is preferred if i had to pick one you guys want to watch

01:45:45.640 that look i believe once you have kids it's not about you anymore i think your kids should come

01:45:51.480 like you you don't have kids so no right now you know i'd really prefer to be with a guy who

01:45:56.520 wouldn't you know i think every girl has a guy that they would like enough that they put up with it

01:46:01.720 let's just yeah let's just be real would i prefer it no but um yeah i think once you have kids like

01:46:08.120 yeah you're stuck stay right now you know i'm sticking with you talk

01:46:15.960 four days

01:46:19.000 four days in person you may not consider it but i feel like that's how like i literally fall asleep

01:46:24.440 on the bill with dude girl like little kid shit like when i'm back that guy sounds like okay craziest

01:46:30.520 craziest date you've been on i'm still thinking about it you've had all table to pay

01:46:36.440 the whole hour i know i'm still like what is going through all of them okay okay okay

01:46:43.000 well i think it was more bad in my part because i kind of like passed out

01:46:48.600 yeah i passed out okay okay okay so i don't like where this is going we went we went to go watch a

01:46:54.040 movie then we went to go eat and drink and like i'm just i'm not really of a drinker i usually smoke

01:47:00.520 so you know it got to me and then i was like i'll be right back i'm gonna go to the restroom i kid you

01:47:04.440 not fell asleep on the shitter listen listen i passed out in the bathroom stall and i was

01:47:11.960 between the legs listen no i was there for like 30 minutes no thank god well no yeah i was pretty

01:47:17.000 much there and then like 30 minutes on the song yeah and then he's looking for me and he's like

01:47:21.080 knocking all the stalls and then i woke up and he was like oh my god are you okay i was like

01:47:25.800 scared yeah jesus yeah but you know what to this day

01:47:29.480 so fanatic he's like how are you when when you want to catch up i was like no i was too embarrassed

01:47:36.520 after oh wow bam so you never hit oh he didn't know i didn't hit no so because i was already like

01:47:43.080 no question who's been in miami longer than a year oh i lived here okay okay who's been here longer than

01:47:51.160 two years three years okay okay so we're gonna go into past relationships regardless i just kind of

01:48:01.400 wanted to get a sample size here do you have an ex that's the one that got away

01:48:09.320 yeah i do okay what was he like what was he like yeah um

01:48:14.760 um he was a genuinely great guy um i would say he kind of like checked off all the boxes physically

01:48:25.960 um it was also uh a sense in that like we shared a lot of the same values like as to what we saw like

01:48:35.080 our future or like what we want out of life like at this point um with him it was just a distance factor

01:48:41.880 okay and how long were you with him uh i want to say like a year and a half and how old were you

01:48:48.840 when you dated him uh this was two years ago three years ago okay so semi-recent yeah okay what about

01:48:55.400 you um i would say no only because they still want me for how they didn't get away you got

01:49:02.840 so no there's no ex you regret breaking up with you miss oh i mean regret breaking up with but they

01:49:09.480 they didn't get away because they could i could have them okay so what's stopping you from getting

01:49:14.120 back with them just like one factor about them too controlling oh he's stupid what is he what did

01:49:18.760 he try to control um oh gosh i was in my era where i wanted to hang out with friends a lot and that

01:49:25.560 was a no-go okay so was it female friends or male friends yeah okay so where were you guys hanging

01:49:31.480 out the club okay okay so i believe if it's a girl's birthday she invites me out okay okay so

01:49:37.720 you bro there's only one birthday a year you picked all right so what was how 52 friends

01:49:44.200 a bunch of celebrations if my girl gets a promotion we're going to celebrate okay okay so you picked

01:49:50.360 the club over a boyfriend yeah okay and he still wants to date you yeah oh okay what what is he what

01:50:08.360 does he do for a living he's um armed security so he's a security guard yeah okay that makes sense all

01:50:16.600 right next he's not going nowhere you guys don't even know where like they do security but it's cool

01:50:22.920 does he do security somewhere we should know about yeah yeah it's not regular security okay what what

01:50:28.520 type of security for celebrities and things like that so he he's a security guard for what celebrities

01:50:33.880 i'm not going to disclose that information okay so big celebrities i'm guessing yes okay the president

01:50:40.120 and yeah i was like if it's the president the biggest celebrity okay next um no i don't think

01:50:47.160 any of my exes got away i think um my exes were like lessons in my life to be honest to teach me how

01:50:53.640 to be ready for the right guy because i think after the relationships i have way more nurturing

01:50:59.560 i understand men's mind a little more but no you don't

01:51:02.200 i have never seen a woman in my life get better with age ever so i just i i just i don't but do

01:51:11.320 you think that you think there's like um i've never you don't think everybody as a human is like

01:51:16.200 able to like just grow mentally i know i'll tell you what we don't want you to grow mentally i think

01:51:21.560 men grow mentally i think women we just kind of get worse so how come some men never want a woman

01:51:28.040 that like is intellectually on their level if they're growing mentally like we women they don't

01:51:32.600 they don't want women that think they're smarter than they are because usually women aren't that

01:51:36.440 smart yeah i mean men like to teach you things too they like to show you well men aren't that smart

01:51:42.520 either i thought women i thought women had men are like a bronchiosaurus they're either really smart

01:51:48.040 or really dumb and women are just i don't i don't believe that i think they lie i think they fake the

01:51:53.080 iq tests and there's some evidence that supports my theory it is a theory but i'll tell you yeah

01:51:58.520 because basically a lot of the iq questions on the test became more ideological in the 80s 70s

01:52:05.000 and they weighted things higher like writing and english that tend to favor more towards women that's

01:52:09.080 my argument but i just don't believe i think iq tests in general are just bullshit it's just some

01:52:14.120 bullshit words that they try to put iqs yeah but anyways sorry keep going how about um okay if you came

01:52:20.120 from like a divorced family and you didn't really have a good example of relationship and then

01:52:24.760 growing while you had relationships you kind of learned about men you learned more about men to

01:52:30.760 like i think those chicks really have to seek out married women to learn from to counsel yeah women

01:52:37.160 you think women will teach other women instead of no i think most women will lead you to destruction

01:52:42.360 in general i think women give terrible advice to each other unfortunately but i do think there are older

01:52:47.640 women you can talk to that are married that can give you good advice yeah so then then you will

01:52:52.120 be capable of learning um i don't i actually have a very pessimistic view um i got this from my dad

01:52:59.640 i asked my dad once i said dad um do people change and he told me yes yes they do he said they get

01:53:06.280 worse over time so whatever trade you see now just expect it to be worse in 20 years broke up with my

01:53:13.160 boyfriend that week i'll tell you that

01:53:19.720 anyways um but but yeah so um i don't think most people change i think you can but i think a small

01:53:25.320 percentage of people will um i want to know if the guys can tell which girls come from like two

01:53:37.480 parent households and which ones y'all none of you i mean wow i don't know nothing to know um

01:53:48.120 i mean it's also just like a statistics thing like most people aren't you at this point um you think them

01:53:53.720 um that's like a crazy one like i'm not like a completely very good question i think was that

01:54:00.120 right okay okay okay don't don't answer a two-parent household like like initially and then like could

01:54:05.560 have divorced later on no like like still together like a two-parent household like well through the

01:54:11.960 upbringing sir until the person i could see all right i think you you already mentioned your family

01:54:17.000 life is a bit skewy so no i'm gonna say no i'll say yes to you because you're asking

01:54:24.440 and i'm gonna say no and no no no they just recently got a divorce raise your hands if

01:54:30.120 your parents um were never together raise your hand raise your parent hand if your parents are

01:54:34.760 divorced okay oh i was right raise your hand if your parents are still married

01:54:40.200 my dad uh pulse oh oh you said that i should have known i didn't say that actually you did say

01:54:47.800 that i was like very young tattoo yeah

01:54:49.640 yeah okay so technically they made it till you know

01:54:59.240 i'm not technically

01:55:00.360 um okay you never had a girlfriend right no i've never had like a girlfriend i've had like

01:55:09.720 serious like like you know girls i've talked to seriously but not like hey mom this is my

01:55:14.440 girlfriend so so no one that got away then i'm the one that got away if anything are you kidding me

01:55:19.720 like let's be realistic here there's only so many young good looking in shape guys in miami with

01:55:24.200 money that have status and a good connection like i'm not trying to like toot my own horn but like

01:55:28.440 i'm also realistic like i know that there's only so many there's frat guys everywhere there's people

01:55:33.160 working at mcdonald's everywhere there's only one sunny

01:55:36.920 but that's why when you said earlier the wisdom thing that you had experience i was like but

01:55:41.640 you've never had a girlfriend so i feel like once you do get that girlfriend you get that

01:55:45.320 experience then you'll get a little bit more insight on being with the women of course experience for me

01:55:53.000 like i totally agree with you like my life point of views are going to change a lot i just speak

01:55:57.320 from what i've had so far and i've talked to girls seriously i mean i've gone on like like a

01:56:01.880 bunch of serious talking phase like three months like three months of like talking every day and

01:56:07.080 going on dates and like so three months so three months of talking serious talking

01:56:14.680 yeah that's mine no no i just i want to know what's because i'd imagine i would think like

01:56:19.560 most talking stages in general aren't serious unless they become something right you disagree you

01:56:25.720 agree no i agree because not having talking to you become something i mean you're younger than me so

01:56:32.600 i don't i'm old all right you're up am i done i think i'm good one any of the did that any of the

01:56:40.040 talking phases or no i told you i was the one that got away okay what about what made you dump them

01:56:44.920 did you dump them um pretty much every single time there's like one girl that um it kind of like

01:56:53.160 fizzled out between us like we literally just like stopped calling each other but she was the

01:56:56.600 one that got distant first but basically every single other girl i was the one that stopped

01:57:00.760 talking to them and honestly like i've just been really focused on business and whatnot like i know

01:57:04.520 that i'm only 22 years old i'm not in my prime as a guy so right now is the time where i have to

01:57:09.000 focus on myself and build myself up as much as possible before i worry about getting like a long-term

01:57:14.200 serious girlfriend yeah i'm not in a rush for that like i could have had a girlfriend it's not like i

01:57:19.080 couldn't have done it like if you sleep with a girl you can make them your girlfriend basically

01:57:23.000 every single time yeah 100 and um yeah i don't know i've just been grinding you know like that's

01:57:30.360 how i'm on the pearly things podcast at 22. okay what about you oh yeah i had to let them all go

01:57:38.040 so why well not all of them but uh they weren't virgins yeah it's not like they're like bad girls

01:57:45.400 or anything they're all my children my children no no they were though they were all teenage they

01:57:52.680 were teenagers virgins and uh yeah that's basically all that really matters but yeah i was uh taking the

01:57:59.240 whole red pill thing too seriously and i was just dating a bunch of girls like i had like four

01:58:04.680 girlfriends last summer like i thought i was uh i don't know i thought i was like some dating

01:58:09.560 whatever like like actual serious girlfriends like i was flying to like meet girls parents at one place

01:58:14.120 and then i was going to meet the next parents like wow they were like all really serious they were all

01:58:18.920 really good girls like one of them came from royalty and uh then yeah i basically uh yeah i just was

01:58:25.080 done with all of them except uh for my girlfriend now and i just why what happened in the royal one

01:58:29.320 uh she does like witchcraft oh okay or i found out i found out after she does witchcraft but before

01:58:36.440 she uh i just i just liked my uh my girlfriend that i have now too much i was like ah these other

01:58:41.640 girls not that my girlfriend cared i just i was just like annoyed i was done like i didn't like

01:58:46.600 was she from miami because surprisingly if you want to know about miami i've met more girls who went to

01:58:50.600 witchcraft in miami i'm like oh i think she just likes me a lot and she saw a tiktok video and she

01:58:55.320 tried to like cast some love spell i didn't do anything how would the the muslim is she gonna

01:59:02.600 like would she convert to is that a big oh she's 25 christian and 75 muslim she got baptized oh like

01:59:09.960 three months ago oh okay cool i let her do her thing okay um what about what about you is there

01:59:16.040 one that got away uh yeah so i used to date a girl who was an au pair which is like a nanny that comes

01:59:22.760 from oh yeah i had those germany and whatever um no she was actually italian yeah but she was from

01:59:29.240 the uk she moved to italy when she was like seven um she was a sweet girl but i felt like she was

01:59:35.000 trying to marry me for like a green card for like a visa no i had two i swear to god i had two nannies

01:59:40.760 like one married my uncle well yeah one married my uncle and one married my cousin they do that they're

01:59:47.240 trying to get they're trying to get their papers yeah one one worked out they're still married one

01:59:54.040 definitely got her to be fair he was kind of crazy too they kind of deserve yeah and she was she was

02:00:02.280 she was a really sweet girl like after i dated other girls after that i was like damn she was really cool

02:00:07.080 but at the time i was like 24 25 i was only making like 60 or 70k a year i just was like nah yeah like

02:00:15.160 she was a really sweet girl i just was too young and then i was like the perspective to learn how

02:00:19.400 good she was i think i thought she was trying to use me for a green card and i just couldn't get

02:00:23.880 that out of my head i was like yo she's she wants i saw so many girls like you said they they come over

02:00:28.520 here they date well my my family with marrying au pairs was 50 50. so there are guys that get hot

02:00:35.960 au pairs like they they because they get to see the girls on like zoom calls sometimes they'll screw the

02:00:40.440 dads yeah yeah it's not i would hear stories yeah yeah every every au pair i met like they were

02:00:47.960 fucking slutty like most of them they would go out i'm serious they would go out there were nurses

02:00:51.960 someone get someone get pregnant they get sent back home so we had a lot of actually really great

02:00:56.520 uh pairs um that actually went on to be like really good wives good mothers but we did come with

02:01:02.920 some more stories and there is one there is one that we found out was doing literal like cam work

02:01:08.920 like she was like she was like yeah she was i feel like i have such an international point of view

02:01:13.320 because i literally had nannies from russia south africa germany like i literally like all over but

02:01:19.480 yeah this chick was like yeah she was doing cam work the webcam girl yeah yeah yeah yeah do you remember

02:01:26.280 where she was from that one yeah well uh she was from russia yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah well she she i think

02:01:36.440 she moved i do think like i think she was culturally russian but i know she moved to germany before

02:01:42.120 like most of my that's the first thing that popped in my head i was like i know she's gonna say russia

02:01:46.920 yeah and well and that was the same nanny that married my cousin oh wow wow does he know does he

02:01:55.160 well they're divorced now like i was so young when this happened but yeah but my cousin was kind of like

02:02:01.080 crazy too like i think he was addicted to something like they were both kind of like

02:02:06.280 like it was a train wreck they were unstable but my cousin got clean and remarried and now he's like

02:02:11.800 a nice congrats to him yeah now he's got now he's got like married with kids yeah he turned his she's a

02:02:17.880 a single mother so yeah my one that got away is my ex for sure uh the early thing the surfer one no no

02:02:27.800 another one no the the surfer guy was from australia the guy i was just broke up with we were together

02:02:34.200 for nearly four years we met in hawaii we moved to miami together and the thing that broke us up is so

02:02:39.720 when we originally got together i didn't want to have kids and he really did and we're a similar age

02:02:45.800 he's one year older than me right so he's turning 29 in december and i think the main thing is that

02:02:51.800 like he's coming into his prime right now like he's killing it in his career all of this so he

02:02:56.680 doesn't want to have kids and i'm coming to the end of my 20s and this biological thing has come in

02:03:02.200 all of a sudden which i could have never predicted i could have sworn black and blue i didn't want kids

02:03:06.600 but now i want kids nearly more than anything and so that's why we break up we're on completely

02:03:11.880 different timelines he decided he didn't want kids when he was the one who originally did you can get

02:03:17.880 some crazy genetics right here you got some mba well i will say is that right now he we're talking again

02:03:26.840 he's come back and he's like i don't know if you're if you could look at mid 30s then maybe

02:03:32.520 i could do that but i don't know if i want to wait that long i'll give you a couple stats if you guys want

02:03:37.640 a ring i don't want to wait that long do you want to know how long it takes you to get a ring on

02:03:41.880 average how long how long 1.5 years three years two years well maybe 15 years ago no no three years

02:03:49.560 now so on average and this is when we started having these conversations you know because i was like

02:03:56.600 this is what i want and he started going in the opposite direction yeah so you meet a guy tomorrow

02:04:04.120 it'll take you three years to get a ring oh my god yeah on average yeah i thought it was like six

02:04:10.040 months to a year what i thought it was like six months to a year yeah younger younger men aren't

02:04:16.680 really looking for marriage in the 1950s how about like 30 and up yeah here's i'll give you guys a

02:04:22.920 couple depressing stats yeah anyways that's what i do but i'll do it with a smile on my face so yeah if a guy

02:04:31.720 hits 35 and is unmarried he only has a 15 chance that he'll ever get married so odds are odds are

02:04:38.840 yeah you probably will not women it's a very similar stat um if you are single by the age of 30 and not

02:04:45.160 in a relationship you're more likely to never have children than to have them no her yeah yeah children

02:04:51.720 on on well if you're in a relationship at 30 you're slightly more likely to have children than not have

02:04:57.720 them but it's still like pretty high um and i was trying to think about yeah it takes three years

02:05:05.720 on average and then also the average engagement's like a year so it takes like almost half a decade

02:05:10.280 to get a ring yeah yeah damn i'm gonna be 33 if i get a ring now if i meet somebody that doesn't seem

02:05:18.040 that long to me maybe it's because i've been in so many long-term relationships because you're young

02:05:22.360 as well so that doesn't seem like jarring you're not like oh i'm not in a rush well the truth of the

02:05:26.680 matter is i would argue we are in a post-marriage world and really you're just kind of going to see

02:05:31.480 marriage disappear especially from the middle class i still think you'll see it amongst like wealthy

02:05:36.200 individuals but i i see it really disappearing from the middle class because the way i was brought up

02:05:41.560 marriage is a very good thing in my culture in my hispanic culture like you have to like marriage is very

02:05:46.840 that's that's the goal in every woman yeah well the the rates of marriage in the hispanic community

02:05:52.760 are dropping um and i actually don't even think they're the most married for years yeah yeah no

02:05:58.600 no but i'm saying like over 40 is a different generation than under 40. so so that that generation

02:06:05.640 is different but i'm saying like the new generation i'm really getting married half of women probably

02:06:10.280 won't have kids half will get married yeah and then half of the women that do get yeah because

02:06:16.120 there's banks that are predicted they're investing in like these are banks these are people that have

02:06:20.040 no skin in the game right zero and they're predicting all of us are going to be single childless and so

02:06:25.800 they're investing in things like cat food uh they're investing i have a cat swine yeah because they're

02:06:31.720 literally predicting that half of women are not going to have kids out of the half that do have kids or

02:06:36.600 that do get married let's say um half divorce and what percent are single mothers so really i really only would

02:06:43.720 predict that like 10 to 15 percent maybe 20 percent of women will of our generation at 70 still be

02:06:52.280 married with children do you recommend good luck you know do you recommend like if a 30 year old to

02:07:00.520 just have a kid oh no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no i got too

02:07:09.080 i actually i actually i think i have a little unconservative of a take i do i actually don't think all

02:07:15.880 women are meant to have kids especially i should just cut the two you know some i mean like i agree with

02:07:22.520 that not all women should be mothers i think like i think younger women typically can be molded into

02:07:30.920 mothers but past a certain age if i was a guy and this would eliminate me look how nice i am look how

02:07:36.520 honest i would only date women under the age of 25 because i've just really i really what i've seen

02:07:42.760 from thousands and thousands of or not thousands hundreds of shows thousands of people interviewed is

02:07:48.520 that women over the age of 25 typically are too set in their ways they're not really going to change

02:07:53.640 you can't really mold them so what do you recommend a woman over 30 what do you recommend a woman over

02:08:00.920 30 do if we want to talk about you i might say maybe stop with the drug dealers that was only a few

02:08:07.480 experiences isn't it and the car thieves yeah um i mean what okay what outcome do you want like what

02:08:17.240 do you want no i mean what else besides having children i mean when you said no i'm asking like

02:08:21.720 what i think you're asking for yourself like that's why okay so so i'm just asking like what outcome are

02:08:27.800 you looking for do you want to be married um my parents are divorced so i want to have a kid but i

02:08:33.640 would love to stay with my partner forever but that's not like i want to have a kid okay i can't

02:08:37.880 remember you you are you in a relationship i'm single okay you said my partner forever so i wasn't okay

02:08:44.600 um okay so well not right now you want to you want to have a child okay how many dates are you going

02:08:53.400 on a week zero okay okay okay so zero dates well all i'm saying like where are you going to meet men

02:09:02.280 yeah where should i meet men i don't know where podcast podcast podcast

02:09:11.080 you go into like those rich hotels sit in the lobby looking past the bill martini okay

02:09:17.080 okay let's let's talk about this okay you wanted to go to a hotel i've never done it i just heard

02:09:27.880 okay but i'm gonna they're gonna try to fuck i'm gonna i'm gonna go through these scenarios

02:09:33.800 most women do not qualify for doctors and lawyers she can date them dating dating dating is not the same

02:09:42.840 as then getting married correct okay so so i think a lot of times we typically as chicks

02:09:51.400 doctors are like kind of brokey's honestly like they make like 100k a year and like nowadays that's

02:09:55.960 not even that much money well if you want okay what is the average salary i mean i guess average we're

02:10:01.400 not talking in our little world of internet where everyone thinks they make 200k right not even like

02:10:06.600 that but it's like 100k is a lot what percent of men what percent of men make 100k what is it like 10

02:10:11.800 less than one percent okay so it's about ten so ten percent so would you say that most women at

02:10:18.520 this table are top ten percent no i know but i feel like we have i don't know i guess maybe i'm tripping

02:10:22.760 her i was people average no no okay i was just talking about this with someone actually and they

02:10:27.720 made a man and he made it very clear to me that he does not care what a woman does at all we were

02:10:32.760 talking about this on the last show that he felt like no matter how smart the woman was no matter what

02:10:38.680 she brought to the table he did not care because he knows that he's the only one that's gonna have

02:10:42.600 to really bring anything to the table yeah most men don't really care what you do exactly so then

02:10:47.080 how does that factor in with saying that a woman is not fit to date a doctor or a lawyer no well we're

02:10:52.680 judged on different things you know one hotness yes that's one good looking it well it's rare to get

02:11:01.080 him to marry and commit to you i'd say your your odds are slim to none okay i found my man and i'm

02:11:05.880 staying there well i would say the odds like yeah i would say the odds of you yeah i'm just okay i'm

02:11:15.080 just you know i would say the odds of you really having a happy ending getting married staying married

02:11:20.600 to a guy you've known for four days i would say slim bet on it four days okay i i know but i i i hope

02:11:29.080 i hope i'm just breaking heart if i was like if i was gonna bet i'll call you next year and i'll

02:11:34.680 show you my ring well so what is the criteria that you think a woman has to fit in order to

02:11:42.280 be the wife or make the wife of a doctor or lawyer yeah okay well number one wait i'm deep in the

02:11:48.760 right okay okay wait too long because you got to be young yeah oh wait oh yeah that's right you

02:11:56.200 like you like fat chicks yeah i'm not actually like like obese but like fit girls yeah like

02:12:05.880 yeah yeah i want my girl to be healthy nice so you mean it proportionally weighed in your butt

02:12:10.360 basically you don't want an obese chick right now i'm trying to get my girlfriend as fat as possible

02:12:15.560 you're a beater the fatter the better okay that's a fetish it's not always just for like health

02:12:22.040 reasons okay okay okay okay typically i'm not talking about this guy okay all right so you you wanted

02:12:29.160 to know i would say men judge you on your body count now you might not be on your forehead but usually

02:12:34.760 there are towels and men can sense that to some level um i would say you know you know men judge you on

02:12:43.320 your class so how you carry yourself um and your looks so don't tell them about the scammers

02:12:53.000 i would say dating a scammer would probably disqualify you for most high value men i get it

02:12:58.680 don't tell them those are the those are the top 10 percent of men a lot of women are competing for them

02:13:04.680 uh so remember they can demand the best they really can they have choice and typically they don't

02:13:10.920 choose women that date drug dealers they wouldn't know but also but also but also you ladies wouldn't

02:13:20.440 be willing to share the man so if you i'll go piggyback off what pearl's saying if you're dating a

02:13:26.200 high value man you're not going to be the main chick like you'll be the side chick and most of y'all

02:13:31.240 aren't okay with even being the side chick to a high value man so you just got to date regular guys

02:13:35.880 i'm okay with that yeah but women say that and it's not true yeah i haven't dated a lot of who

02:13:42.120 who at the table is okay with sharing a guy she said she's okay with a regular man oh but who okay

02:13:47.160 is at the table well but guys you have to realize though the men you find attractive are always top

02:13:52.520 20 of men always women find 80 of men to be ugly not just okay not just eh ugly so even um like at this

02:14:02.200 table you guys disqualified all of them so but that that's that's okay okay but even i'm older

02:14:10.680 than all of you except her i'm 35 and i make and i make over 300k a year so i was gonna say no but

02:14:21.160 you don't know how much i make no no not about money yeah and they didn't know his age and they

02:14:26.520 disqualified him before maybe they like yeah they need like a smaller proportion like well i'm saying

02:14:32.120 if even if you find a guy that doesn't even if you find a guy that if you find him attractive he is

02:14:38.040 likely in the top 20 of guys oh you mean it looks it looks and the question and then the question

02:14:44.360 flips so do you offer more value than the top 20 of girls most people are average so the odds are you

02:14:51.400 probably do not you know what so i would ask like then you ask questions and kevin samuels used to

02:14:56.440 do this all the time and say do you have a cookbook right you know are you are you young are you under

02:15:01.240 the age of 25. what's your weight what's your dress size right i think that's a hispanic thing though

02:15:09.320 you know do you do you have a temper how do you handle conflict like these are no bad i don't have a temper

02:15:13.400 i don't have a temper anymore that i said that that's something i can say like the temper that

02:15:17.960 i had when i was 19. oh yeah i don't have now same i have a lot more patience you know but i don't think

02:15:23.560 men are like oh thank god i have a girl that used to have a temper no i know they're saying thank god

02:15:28.440 that i have a girl that has patience now is what they're worried about who i am now yeah but i i think

02:15:34.360 like the same way like when a guy like this is just how i would think when you hear this it's like

02:15:39.080 they're always going to think you're going to go back to that that's true you know yeah and i

02:15:43.480 don't know how much and i think i think most people i mean you'll notice on her period like

02:15:47.400 how she acts well i don't get no idea i get emotional so that's moody that's moody you know

02:15:53.960 that's the basics of what guys tend to pick for i mean i don't think you have to try harder for like

02:15:59.320 high caliber you have to like do the most actually in all in general not just the first three months you

02:16:04.920 have to wait so what would you recommend to keep either like a doctor or a lawyer like high i'd

02:16:10.280 recommend like for you yeah because i just started i'm here i would i would recommend uh not you know

02:16:17.720 i would just recommend taking the l side chick probably wait why do you want a doctor or a lawyer

02:16:22.120 because of money no that's not it i just so happen to meet them where i work at

02:16:28.280 it's not because it's not because i intended for that it's because that's what popped up for me it's

02:16:31.800 not like i was like yo you know how much money you make it wasn't like that it was like yeah so

02:16:38.520 no there's nothing i just say like you know you could win the lottery i hope you do and i wish

02:16:43.640 you well but i would say like the odds probably are not in your favor and if you want to be married

02:16:49.400 it's probably you're gonna have better odds with a regular guy do you think men look at the amount of

02:16:53.720 money that you would make no no that's the last thing they do not men do not care they don't care

02:17:01.720 they don't care how much money you're making honestly they're young so i think they think

02:17:05.400 different but they're the first two men that i've heard say they care a lot about intelligence

02:17:09.480 usually like i don't hear men say that that doesn't need to translate to income that doesn't need to

02:17:13.960 translate to income i've been about experience i've been with like dumb chicks and it gets really

02:17:18.520 annoying really quick i just unfortunately i could go either way i'll give you my my brothers um

02:17:25.080 they're they're like pretty successful guys and they'll select for intelligence too but that's

02:17:30.920 but but that's last looks like looks come before that you know so my one brother he he's dating an

02:17:38.360 engineer that went to culinary or he's gonna get married to an engineer chick that went to culinary

02:17:43.480 school and she's hot so he he picked the culinary school so she can cook but she's hot i had this i

02:17:50.360 had i had a girl that was extremely dumb like she thought eggs came from eggplant like extremely

02:17:55.480 dumb but she was perfect every other way she's a great girlfriend do do whatever i need her to do

02:18:00.920 but you know my girlfriend now is very very smart very very intelligent and when i'm out with

02:18:04.920 her i actually like spending time with her versus the girl that's dumb it's like i like spending

02:18:08.600 time but it's like used for different things but i want her to just like you know i want

02:18:11.720 a massage do some stuff around the house just look pretty but if i want to actually like i don't

02:18:16.520 know go do something fun like hike in the woods and talk it's it's much yeah and okay so i have a

02:18:20.600 question for you because you said you wanted to have children right so what's with the why we got

02:18:25.960 these do you know what those are like cumbrellas like do you know what they symbolize you know what do

02:18:31.400 they symbolize it's the the cumbrellas the fake lashes cumbrellas yeah like historically hookers

02:18:37.640 wear those to keep cum out of their eyes i'm sorry say that again wow so when you wear those that's

02:18:43.160 what you're signaling to guys when men i didn't know that that's new information going in their

02:18:48.840 eyeballs this is like our mating call like no i i think sometimes they look cute i'm just saying this

02:18:56.440 is what men register that i mean especially i can take them off right now don't don't do that that's

02:19:04.440 weird yeah i mean you guys why ask me if i'm wrong but just when i talk makeup in general yeah like

02:19:10.360 heavy makeup they kind of put you more in the fun category so no like a lot of work done i don't wear

02:19:16.280 makeup i wear makeup when i come on podcasts yeah but throughout my day to day i don't wear i think a lot

02:19:20.760 of girls wear eyelashes to keep up with the women fashion the shirt you're wearing today does that

02:19:26.440 scream wife and mother like what does that scream exactly exactly and i'm not i'm not saying i have

02:19:33.240 all the answers but i'm just you know i could tell you what what's ladies ladies when you get your body

02:19:38.760 done like if i see tits i want to fuck like that's what we think of if we see a bbl i want to fuck like

02:19:45.000 the first thing if we see anything over exaggerated we want to have sex that's what we think of so every

02:19:50.040 time you get some sex in general i don't even think it's about tits flowing out but honestly

02:19:53.720 if you have fake tits and ass it over-exaggerates i honestly disagree with you i could go home depot

02:19:59.640 with a big hoodie and they will still hit on you well it's because they can smell it yeah you can smell

02:20:05.560 it on you it's different like i've met like the virgin spain girl and all i could think about

02:20:11.720 i just wanted i swear i can smell it i see like the like horse no but i'm saying like i've met like that

02:20:18.360 virgin spain unvaccinated girl and like i swear to god this might need it and it might sound a

02:20:24.120 little simpy but like i don't think about just like having sex with her and like sleeping with

02:20:28.280 her like i literally think about like protecting and like i want to just like hold you i don't know

02:20:31.960 that sounds like super weird but like they have such innocence like it's just not the first thing on my

02:20:37.080 mind it's just like it's not it's not the first thing on my mind to just like rail that girl like

02:20:44.600 she's like super innocent i don't know if you have a bbl i mean there's a difference between hot and

02:20:51.320 pretty exactly beautiful like i want to date you and you be my girlfriend versus i just want to like

02:20:56.760 rail you know pearl do you get what i'm saying or am i tripping no you're right i'll go through just for

02:21:01.880 fun everyone's got thick skin here i like all of you but i'm going to do it yeah so what would put

02:21:07.000 you in the fun category based on what you're wearing i would say from my family this is what

02:21:11.880 my brothers would say tattoos sorry you would be gone um nails you'd be gone hoop earrings gone

02:21:21.160 eyelash thingies gone uh you would be all right i think yeah you'd be all right you'd be fine yeah

02:21:28.040 she'd be all right yeah for now for now boobs he would definitely try to hook up with you but

02:21:34.840 that's pretty much nose ring gone my brother won't even get my brother yeah yeah my brother won't even

02:21:41.240 date my brothers wouldn't my brothers wouldn't even date the belly belly piercing yeah wait wait wait

02:21:48.120 so so on top of that the heavy makeup my the way my brothers my family would look at that as an expense

02:21:54.760 any any yeah that's how they see yeah yeah they kind of my brothers would see the the fakes the

02:22:00.040 surgery as an expense i'm gonna spend all this money on this chick no thank you and they're rich

02:22:05.720 they do very well they just don't want to spend their money nose ring same thing

02:22:10.920 what yeah um yeah double double whammy baby yeah nails gone pearl how are we dressed how are the guys

02:22:18.440 dressed the guys am i came dressed nice though i love this high um okay let's see you know how to

02:22:25.960 play chess i'm not i'm not a fan of the hat but it wouldn't be like uh i'm trying to be your grand

02:22:31.640 pappy but not yeah i mean fine fine fine yeah i'm not uh men's dress doesn't matter to me as much

02:22:40.600 yeah it's not as important exactly men and women value different things i like the suit i think

02:22:46.280 that's nice you know i like your jacket though but yeah but yeah did you guys did you get would

02:22:54.920 you actually oh jesus speaking in the microphone kangaroo skin 2021 yeah so so what so did you guys

02:23:04.280 learn something today oh yeah yeah yeah what a fun panel right um why don't we go around thank you

02:23:15.640 i've learned i gotta go on more dates with him before please do don't just move your kids i'm not gonna

02:23:21.320 move over there without spending time i promise i'm not that emotional guys yeah yeah i'm gonna make

02:23:29.160 i want to make some predictions who is in a relationship in here raise your hand

02:23:33.640 who is in your relationship okay okay i'm gonna oh you okay okay okay so wait wait i'm gonna predict

02:23:43.720 um you'll date the doctor for maybe like two three more months done um he'll maybe the virtual thing

02:23:52.280 he'll drag you along for six months done i don't know every guy i've made my boyfriend i've lasted over

02:23:59.000 seven years i don't remember i hope that you do i want nothing more because i'm really pissed you

02:24:08.040 to get to that boyfriend level right so if i said boyfriend it's because i'm like look it look it look

02:24:13.400 it listen up hi and where is that boyfriend now right it's a year so that's what i'm saying but it's

02:24:20.360 it doesn't it doesn't it doesn't matter he's gone now it doesn't matter that was 11. okay let's go

02:24:31.640 now let's go back to 29 not young old that's why under 25 is young yes i hope i i hope i you know

02:24:42.200 and i'm gonna say a prayer let's do it because you need one okay so why don't we do final thoughts

02:24:53.640 for all the men that want to want to court these women you know they'll give their instagrams and

02:24:58.520 whatever so go ahead final thoughts uh final thoughts i have realized just how far removed i am

02:25:06.920 from this generation as far as like my dating no drug dealers for you no i'm good um yeah no i'm good

02:25:17.480 i'm good um yeah it just it kind of made me realize that it made me realize like how far removed i am

02:25:24.520 from from from that idea of well don't change who you are do you want to get remarried here they come

02:25:34.440 okay to her defense please please let her finish and then we can go around thank you uh yeah so that

02:25:42.280 that's kind of like my thing that i've learned um yeah i've i'm i'm glad i have different priorities

02:25:51.160 so go ahead final thoughts i gained more confidence being on this show definitely top tier i have a

02:25:59.160 cookbook no um no but really all i kept thinking about is all men cheat the best way to avoid that

02:26:08.520 is give your man a threesome sis that's right damn it you know i i really did not think that was the

02:26:15.400 takeaway from today that was the takeaway i got i don't know if that's the key to a long happy

02:26:25.000 marriage but good luck try it let me know how it goes go ahead um i did i what i took away from it

02:26:31.560 was um yeah to dress more modestly i did listen to you when you said that will you wear a sweater next

02:26:37.400 time maybe yeah yeah maybe oh yeah i forgot that's that's what i got you i can't you learn

02:26:45.960 dress more modestly okay amazing the only real takeaway

02:26:55.800 there's a little side conversations like this but yeah the only real takeaway i had from this

02:26:59.480 tonight was like i pray to god that if any girls are watching this podcast you wear sundresses drink

02:27:03.880 raw milk don't get vaccinated and you try to stay pure and innocent because at the end of the day i

02:27:07.960 think all of these girls here at this table know that they messed up and if they would go back they

02:27:11.960 would stay virgins until now so really if there's any girls watching this i pray that you stay a virgin

02:27:18.440 until you find a man that's actually worthy of protecting and providing for you you hold the power

02:27:23.160 as the woman of who sleeps with you so keep that it's not empowering to sleep with a bunch of people if

02:27:28.040 you have unlimited access it's the other way around it's the limiting of it that gives it the power

02:27:33.240 to stay a virgin at the end of the day all these problems oh i'm sorry at the end of the day all

02:27:38.120 these problems we talked about it boiled down to body count that's the simple answer and keeping

02:27:43.720 your legs closed and i and i agree with you a hundred percent but i'm not in the business of

02:27:47.960 selling dreams i predict none of that i'm sorry sorry i'm kidding no you're good are we going to run

02:27:55.480 around plug your stuff but yeah sunny faz and off socials i'm the best short form marketer in the

02:28:00.200 world i do the consulting in the back end for a lot of these top influencers so if you need anything

02:28:04.520 hit me up i'm just gonna second what sunny said thank you for having me thank you ladies for

02:28:11.720 sitting down with us it was a good conversation and uh you can find me on social media at mayo on

02:28:17.240 instagram and yeah just talk on twitter or mayo um i think i lost a few brain cells but i think i think

02:28:27.400 i think the ladies were great i think that you ladies need to lower your standards okay that guy

02:28:32.200 in your inbox is trying to get through let him through all right you don't leave guys on scene

02:28:39.320 stop trying to date doctors and just the guy that's out there he's he's probably trying to get to you and

02:28:45.080 you ladies are playing him so i think you ladies need to give men uh more chances go out on more dates

02:28:50.840 for sure um i want to plug uh the unfiltered podcast um i'm the producer and co-host so i

02:28:57.480 appreciate pearl for having me here um and yeah that's pretty much all i learned today

02:29:04.200 highlight i i don't know probably meeting pearl i've been watching your content for a while

02:29:08.680 um i very much enjoy it big advocate for this red pill space but uh a plug you guys can find me on

02:29:16.360 youtube mainly amy dangerfield just hit 16k that's a straight porn name no that's my real name actually

02:29:22.760 my dad's name was david dangerfield that's my name wow yeah am i wrong it is a little better but

02:29:30.920 hey i didn't choose it go ahead yeah well final thoughts where people can find you

02:29:38.680 my instagram is christy alacom official and final thoughts um it was a good conversation it was fun it

02:29:45.960 was enlightening to see everybody's different like i said them two gave me different views

02:29:50.520 that i usually don't hear from men usually i hear like opposite like they don't care about intelligence

02:29:55.080 and things that we spoke about today so it was refreshing to see somebody else that actually

02:29:59.560 cares of something more other than just looks but i still do think that looks are up there

02:30:03.880 top priority you know they don't care if you're a fat if you're a fat like well maybe he does but

02:30:09.880 you said you like the fatties but yeah but they don't care if you're a fat he's a chubby taser

02:30:16.040 well i don't know what you mean by fat i just can't imagine what is like an example the healthier

02:30:20.440 you are it's a myth that you're healthy when you're skinny he wants somebody to hold his babies very

02:30:24.760 well toxins fat you want to be fat when you're skinny your body just not supposed to be that i don't

02:30:30.200 i don't want someone to be like an obese person but there's a lot of fat people who are really

02:30:34.520 unhealthy i'm trying to get fat right now me too even skinnier like i've gained 30 pounds the past

02:30:38.840 like two months that's great be fat it's good for you don't listen no it's not good for you don't

02:30:43.800 get people heart attacks i don't like that guy he's not giving like context he eats like raw meat raw

02:30:53.160 cheese raw milk so there's different types of fat it's not like denny's fat fuck seed oil right

02:30:57.560 exactly yeah even even bad fat is healthier than no fat i'll say that okay so besides that

02:31:05.880 so one another thing that you had told me because you said it earlier when you're a certain age you

02:31:11.080 have kids you do have to keep what you find and as much as you guys make fun of all four days for this

02:31:16.920 it's a lot of qualities that it probably won't find i'm praying you know what i mean it's a lot of

02:31:21.240 colleagues i won't find i'm 29 i got kids yeah you know what i mean so what i'm gonna do is work on

02:31:27.000 spending more time and see if he's the one and see how it goes yeah don't mess it up i won't

02:31:32.760 don't leave him for cheating if he cheats stay oh no i cheat with him i've been on a couple of

02:31:37.160 podcasts and honestly i appreciate the way that you explain things i think you are more like in

02:31:43.400 that feminine energy and i appreciate that because i feel like there's a bunch of other podcasts that

02:31:47.800 they're way too aggressive do you get kicked off no i didn't get

02:31:51.000 i honestly got it lucky so it hasn't been like that for me but like the way that you move

02:31:58.120 is perfect i think that's great and i think people gotta see that more because you you coming with

02:32:04.120 like stats like you're coming with facts and it's like i don't gotta disrespect you nor do i gotta

02:32:08.920 make you feel little exactly my point across and i love that so much yeah thank you and you guys were

02:32:15.320 you guys were good fun i love it when we can go you know go back and forth no one's mad

02:32:21.480 so so this was fun um thank you all for coming let's do a round of applause

02:32:28.280 i didn't say my instagram if any of you buy their only fans you should be killed at the stake

02:32:32.680 spicy vibe xo oh my instagram is at foriamgadi underscore yeah spicy vibe xo all right guys make

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JustPearlyThings - November 26, 2023

How POINTLESS Is It To Date In Miami？｜ THE PREGAME SHOW ｜ EP 158

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