JustPearlyThings - June 23, 2023


How This Modern Woman ESCAPED Body Positivity


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

176.67258

Word Count

1,595

Sentence Count

2

Misogynist Sentences

13

Hate Speech Sentences

6


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 we can we are our own worst enemy to be fair yeah and cancelled
00:00:08.240 a woman speaking the truth banned and then we try to as a woman we try to look for a solution
00:00:14.960 and sometimes that solution um i mean my job is i take women for surgery i take them to turkey i
00:00:20.960 take them to the dominican republic um they they come to me we sit down we look at the mental
00:00:25.680 health issues surrounding that um and then i provide them with their post-operative care
00:00:30.240 so so i see yeah it's amazing it's amazing i've recently been shut down by instagram myself as
00:00:35.920 well so i know what that's like but but we have a generation now of women today who um they're
00:00:44.160 they're they're using some of them not all are using surgery as a as a as a way as a way to lose weight
00:00:51.280 as a quick fix and they're not getting healthy um and you've got clinics now um that are easily
00:00:57.760 accessible the price is now great and and they're going for surgery and they're having these surgeries
00:01:02.880 and they're coming home and they're coming home with issues yeah so so i've been dedicated and i've
00:01:08.640 and i have a passion for making sure that that women are are fully informed um as to what they
00:01:14.960 are doing why they are doing that and to understand the processes that happen afterwards yeah but we
00:01:20.720 have a problem we have a real real issue especially here in the uk um where women are dying yeah because
00:01:28.080 of it yep connie west's mother connie west's mother she went to get plastic surgery died you know but
00:01:34.960 and there's you know because um after i got so for men do you know what happens to men after you get
00:01:39.600 liposuction no tell me so so your penis swells up wait wait wait hang on a second that happens to the
00:01:48.160 vagina does it happen wow i'm learning something because here's the thing the the the all the fluids
00:02:01.520 and everything gravity dry you know it it drops down there yeah but i guarantee your vagina didn't look
00:02:08.480 like a huge purple eggplant it was huge and nobody told me me neither me neither i had surgery five
00:02:17.760 years ago you could see it in my documentary i'll link you i will link you yeah i was i couldn't believe
00:02:27.040 it it was huge no you know you know i don't know who's bigger yours or mine but believe me when i saw mine
00:02:33.120 i said this this is not normal no mine was like my so my testicles and my my balls swole up i'm not
00:02:40.960 even joking to the size of like a like an overly like a super gmo grapefruit like this wow that sounds
00:02:48.400 painful that sounds painful you know what it's all the fluids fluids yeah and you know it's crazy i was
00:02:54.560 dating this beautiful chinese girl all the time and she like took lotion and like rubbed it all over me
00:02:59.360 took care of me i couldn't even believe a woman would do this yeah so right one yeah so yeah yeah
00:03:05.760 yeah and and she massaged it and she took care of me i saw a deeper side of female love during that time
00:03:14.640 well i hope she wasn't small framed in
00:03:16.640 i don't think she'll ever forget me though
00:03:29.040 i'm gonna i'm gonna read super chats for a second um uh to the girl on the couch uh there's a difference
00:03:35.200 between ldl cholesterol and hdl ldl builds up when eating processed uh seeds and hydrogenated oil like
00:03:42.800 canola hdl is good also we do need cholesterol to feed our brains and make sex hormones um nsx
00:03:51.040 red meat only um correlates negatively when it's part of blended modern diet meat only green veg are
00:03:57.200 a mix of those show lower risks of heart to be heart disease and diabetes um what's removed
00:04:04.000 carbohydrates nsx obese man um self-sterilized due to the heat downstairs the twig and berries need room
00:04:11.680 to stay cool for healthy fertility facts my co-body positivity but most overweight people i've known
00:04:18.960 were the meanest people i've known doug mpa is it socially acceptable for a fat person to make fun
00:04:24.720 of a skinny person if a skinny woman makes fun of a fat woman then all hell freezes over um all hell
00:04:31.280 breaks loose sorry the savvy the savvy ninja are raging on someone who chooses to get lycos up
00:04:39.440 lipo is mini person energy do what you must do what must to evoke the change you desire um some
00:04:46.320 changes take extreme measures nsx don't mistake good manners with body positivity mainstream and health
00:04:52.800 care um needs to be honest about health concerns one-to-one dynamics with people can still be polite
00:04:57.840 while doing this honestly uh weaponry fitness i was 50 pounds overweight last year following a traumatic
00:05:04.080 situation aside from that my brother's fat shamed me every day and i lost the weight in four months
00:05:09.760 wmld it's one of my clients mpa oh no way yeah the average woman with a master's degree has over a
00:05:17.360 hundred and three has a hundred and three thousand dollars in debt there are too many economically
00:05:22.320 unattractive women in the u.s moral for all all of those juices are full of sugar um i think i read that
00:05:28.080 one earlier let me raw juices hello when people juice wait wait hold on i just want to make sure
00:05:35.280 there's no other ones um okay go ahead when people juice what do you think they juice of course they'll
00:05:42.400 get a fruit and juice it that's what i meant it's literally a fruit they thought you were talking about
00:05:46.960 the you know the juices that you buy in yeah they're like like say you're doing raw juice that is the best
00:05:52.160 way raw juice it's so funny right like when you buy those fruit juices they're like 70 fruit juice like
00:05:56.880 what the is the other 30 this is not what i signed up for i have a question i have a question next
00:06:02.560 question do you guys think fat shaming can be a good thing for me yeah no no definitely no me personally
00:06:12.400 so do you guys do you guys think fat shaming can be a good thing for no wait wait sorry sorry sorry
00:06:18.640 i apologize do you do you think that fat shaming can be a good thing for me personally
00:06:25.840 it motivated me to lose weight i think it was a great thing for me and i'm very thankful for it
00:06:30.960 but other people have different opinions so um i you didn't interrupt me so you get to go first yes go
00:06:37.840 ahead um so i can remember some years ago where um my mother tapped me on my shoulder
00:06:45.680 and um and she said uh pam um you're just a little bit too big and at the time i can remember feeling
00:06:55.120 like oh i felt really sad but it was truth and i needed to hear that yeah um and it was shortly after
00:07:02.560 i'd had i think my third uh baby um but i was i kept with the habits so i had really bad habits
00:07:10.720 um and looking back now um at the time i was quite offended by that i was upset what are those habits
00:07:16.800 if you don't mind me asking um so just the eating of lots of chocolate i had a sweet tooth that was
00:07:22.880 my issue and also there was yeah there was chocolates and there was gato cakes and there was i used to
00:07:29.520 have when i was a kid i used to have club biscuits underneath my pillow and whenever i was in a particular
00:07:34.400 type of mood because it has it's it's catch 22 because you need the sugar because it's now controlling
00:07:39.520 your mood it's it's dictating uh your your did you grow up poor uh yeah pretty much me too um so
00:07:45.040 therefore i had there was that we didn't have a variation of foods around food was just like it
00:07:50.480 was like money you're just like yeah i got food whatever it was um and so for me it was for me to
00:07:55.360 be able to have the sweets whatever it was i was getting out of sugar is what i thought i needed
00:08:00.000 so that became a habit yeah and i took that habit into adulthood so when my mom who was the first
00:08:05.360 person to come and say to me pam you're a little bit too big you know because even the the the father
00:08:12.320 of my children he used to bring me chocolates that was a way to shut me up oh bring bring me the
00:08:18.240 chocolates and i'll eat them and then everybody's happy in the house um but again that became a habit
00:08:23.680 so even now even though i've had a tummy tuck and i've had lipo um if i'm feeling a particular way
00:08:29.440 there are times when i will you know i wouldn't so much get there for a rocher but i might have a
00:08:34.240 healthier chocolate or you know a dark chocolate perhaps but i need to have that sugar fix yeah um
00:08:40.640 and i think that now we can we can still have those those types of behaviors they can still linger
00:08:47.680 about even when you you know you might look good but again are you healthy