How To Lock Down A Man In 2023
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Summary
In this episode, we have a heated debate between two of my good friends about women and men. We talk about what it means to be a woman in a male dominated world, and how to deal with men who are not ready for a relationship.
Transcript
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So to go back to one of my earlier points, firstly, to make it clear in the disagreement, I agree with, of course, I think everyone knows who I agree with, but I do, because you know what it is, though?
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The things that she's saying are common knowledge 20, 30 years ago.
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The things I say that somehow people believe are controversial are exactly the way the world functioned in, like, the 90s, the 80s, the 70s, all of the entire period of human history, men had a role of masculinity, women had a role of femininity, we worked as a team.
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Now the world's come along and they've destroyed and broken everything, and there's this new progressive think and this new generation of women who seem to believe that if we completely fuck it all up, it's going to end up better.
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And my argument to that is, listen, we went from walking around in fields and small nomadic groups to building cities to building the pyramids to going to the moon.
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We managed to go from a few thousand to billions of people, populate the entire planet, build canals, build skyscrapers, cities.
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All of this was done based on the back of man being a man, woman being a woman, working together as a family.
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Now they're going to come along and fuck it up.
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It's been bad decisions from powerful men that got men to go to wars and from women to lose husbands.
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I'm not saying men are perfect, but the entire world that you're existing under was built by men.
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And the point I'm making is now we're entering a world of new think.
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And the problem with new think is it's not tested.
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What I can state as a matter of fact is we had 5,000 years of history that tells us how the world works with X and Y together.
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So whatever you believe about how it's going to work or it's going to be better or worse, whatever, that's just you guessing.
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So we're entering a brand new paradigm and everything's completely fucked up.
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The point you were making earlier, which is a fantastic one, about if I pick a woman who's advertising, et cetera, et cetera.
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Men always, please keep this in mind, especially if you're a female.
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People always say, you know, the number of emails I get from girls will say you don't give enough girl game.
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You need to find a way to make him look good to the world and to his friends.
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I'll tell you, one of the ways a man can get status is to get the girl that no one can get.
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If I date a girl and she's perfect in every way, head to toe, and then I'd say, I've met this girl.
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So you went, the attraction goes from this to zero, done.
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And it may not for some men because some men haven't got choices, but men like me who genuinely have unlimited options.
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That's what we're looking for because that gives status.
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So you have to be very careful as a female with all of your actions, all of your interactions with your boyfriend or when you're looking for a boyfriend, et cetera, and say, am I going to make my man look better by doing X or look worse?
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I've had endless arguments about girls' nights out, right?
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I don't give a fuck if no man talks to you all night long.
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I don't care if you're going out and you're going to an all-girl club.
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I know that when my boys say, oh, all the girls are going out, and I say, not my girl.
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It's about the status of being the man in the house.
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What about what does the woman want in your eyes?
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I'm going to tell you, but before that, I need another Clementine, and I need to give
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half to our friend here because she just rolled her eyes at me, and I'm perspicacious.
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Even when I'm looking directly ahead, I can detect it.
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I'm going to give her some of my Clementine, and she's going to feel better.
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No, I mean, I just feel like this is definitely a different conversation for me because I'm
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I love hearing different perspective, and I do feel like this is a newer idea.
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Like you said, within the last 30, 40 years, this is a new concept.
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I just know from my experience, other women that I've met as well, it's like the reason
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for even relationships, why they're not lasting is because people don't want to put up with
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And even when you were talking about like, oh, it's okay for me to cheat, but not for
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you, my thing is, is like, why not have transparency and have it be polygamous, polyamorous, whatever
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That's like, to me, where it loses me with the traditional stuff.
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It's like, why can't we have transparency if I sign up for that?
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So how does it- no, no man in a million years, let's all be realistic, right?
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No man in a million years is going to meet a girl he likes and go, I want to be polyamorous.
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So sexual exclusivity is how a female shows primarily that she's interested in a man.
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He's the only man who has sexual access to me because I can get pregnant, and this man
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I'm saying that if I truly love a woman, she won't sit there and go, he shows me his love
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She'll sit there and go, he shows me his love because my bills are paid.
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I'm talking about resource and a lifestyle as a whole.
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And most of the world today, if you go to Moscow and you find a big G, a rich guy, right?
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When he goes to the club with his boys, you think he ain't with 19-year-old strippers?
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So you have to sit there, and to a point, you have to sit and analyze the difference.
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When you're saying disrespect, if you're going to go through life as a woman and say,
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I only care about the sexual exclusivity of my man, then what you're going to end up doing
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is having a bunch of failed relationships and fucking loads of dudes.
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There has to get a point where you go, you know what?
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This guy ticks so many boxes once a year, twice a year.
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I'm just going to pretend I didn't notice because my bills are paid.
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As opposed to go, I don't care how good he is to me.
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He fucked that bitch once, so I'm going to leave, and I'm going to get another man who
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I don't love who'll fuck another bitch anyway, and then I'll get another man who I don't
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Like, so if a guy cheats on a girl, is there ever a point where she...
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There's completely a lot of cheating that's too far.
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So, like, if he knocks up another girl, would you say that's too far?
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So, obviously, I'm not saying blatantly disrespect your woman, right?
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She's the most important thing in the world to you.
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She needs to be treated in a way that she feels that, right?
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But it's unfortunate because I keep tying back to this baseline point.
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But the reason I keep going back to this baseline point is to try and explain to everybody at
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home how simple the world can be if you go back to the baselines of it.
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And why do men fuck girls uglier than their main chick?
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Let's go back to the first thing I've been saying this whole time.
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But that's the male world because sexual access is an easy indicator of status.
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So that's one of the reasons they do it, right?
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So you have to go back into the baseline of why men even cheat in the first place.
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I'm telling you, if you're a woman, the smartest thing you can do is look after your man, make
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But there's going to be a time across a 20-year marriage you might just need to be a little
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But I'm not saying allow this for some fucking Joe Schmoe.
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I'm not saying let some fucking loser pick you up, lock you down, and go cheat on you.
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I'm saying if he's a G and he's doing enough of his other jobs, as for you saying what if
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you can pay your own bills, then what's the reality you face?
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I'm going to decide that the thing that I prioritize above everything, above his resource, above
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the amount he cares for me, you'll see men cheat on a woman and then cry his eyes out trying
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He'd take a bullet for you, and he'd still fuck that bitch.
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So you're sitting there going, well, I'm going to prioritize his sexual exclusivity over all of
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You're just going to end up having endless failed relationships, fucking too many dudes.
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And then what's going to happen is your psychology is going to break because females don't like
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to accept the fact that if you sleep with enough men and you get rid of the stigma around a
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new dick, your instant answer is constantly new dick.
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And then you end up just jumping on cock all day and you're fucking done.
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You need to, the reality is there has to come a point where you get a guy and he ticks
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He does whatever he does, but my bills are paid.
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