JustPearlyThings - I Am Not In the Business of Selling Dreams

00:00:00.000 all right what up guys welcome to the just pearly things youtube channel and welcome to my morning

00:00:06.440 coffee thoughts where i give my thoughts on the way to getting my morning coffee so today um i had

00:00:13.580 a thought about a show i did last night and i did a show with nima um nima's friend of the show

00:00:21.020 really great guy um and we had a debate on marriage and um you know i thought a lot about

00:00:30.920 how i am just not in the business of selling dreams if i wanted to steve harvey you guys

00:00:39.340 or you know sell you a fairy tale i would say guys there's a happy ending for most people

00:00:49.640 you'll get married and i think especially churches they really sell i really they really sell dreams

00:00:56.920 they're really in the business like and that's the thing with women it just seems like you can't 1.00

00:01:02.360 really garner um a significant audience it's very difficult without selling a dream and when i look

00:01:10.720 at the data i see zero indication that marriage will be saved in any way i would actually say it

00:01:18.920 says the opposite it says the women are getting sluttier um we're becoming more disconnected 1.00

00:01:25.040 from men and women are getting more disconnected marriage rates are falling children falling and

00:01:33.100 this isn't just an american phenomenon they want to blame it on america but it's like eh i mean

00:01:39.640 i'm in london this is pretty pretty diverse city i get i get complaints from literally every walk of

00:01:46.780 life every country every it's all over and if i wanted to sound good and um look like a really good

00:01:57.480 person i would say and i'm not saying they're doing this intentionally but you know but it's like

00:02:05.220 i would say yes guys marriage and family is the answer and i wish that were true but it just seems like 0.94

00:02:15.120 when women get power we're just terrible with it we suck it's like we we take the power and we just 1.00

00:02:23.260 abuse the men and i see this phenomenon everywhere i see it in human resources i see it in um 0.98

00:02:33.400 i i i see it in um politics like i i don't see anywhere where women don't do this and i think every 1.00

00:02:46.460 chick and i would include myself in this has to fight the evil within us and i just think we have

00:02:53.820 more evil than men i don't say this in a happy way i don't say this because i'm happy or like yay

00:03:00.960 but i'm just not in the business of selling dreams and if we're really honest with ourselves

00:03:08.940 if men really know the risk of what they were signing up for 0.92

00:03:13.420 um with the value that they get from most of us chicks um sorry it's gonna come out most men

00:03:23.200 would never sign up never now you can hate me because i say this you can get mad but i'm just

00:03:32.440 i'm done with all of this dream selling now this leads me to my next point husband goggles what i 0.98

00:03:41.940 noticed is there's this phenomenon of men making up shit to help us deal with the fact that we age 0.90

00:03:50.180 now well thank you thank you now it's just like this phenomenon see god bless me it's not always 0.98

00:03:59.080 hate on the streets now it's this phenomenon right that women just can't we're like coping we're like 0.96

00:04:05.940 oh no we age we get a little ah this is terrible right and so men just make up all these terms

00:04:11.700 um now i'll give you an example the same way men will say okay i like them thick which really just

00:04:21.420 means i can't get an in shape chick i mean come on come on let's just call this what it is and that 1.00

00:04:28.980 is the men coping to get sex right that's the men saying okay we want to we want the women to feel a 0.99

00:04:36.700 little better so we can get sex so the men will say they'll be like oh i love these old chicks 1.00

00:04:41.580 35 is amazing you totally look like a 22 year old and what will they do the men sell dreams they're 0.96

00:04:48.940 like yes yes we love these these um 30 something year olds that's so my first choice um because they

00:04:57.420 found one they kind of liked they're like all right this one's uh got to make her feel like she's

00:05:03.800 special so then this gives me the point to point number three husband goggles for some reason men have made up

00:05:13.420 this term to convince women that as a 65 year old grandma the men will find you equally as hot as you were

00:05:23.720 at 22 at 65 can you imagine can you imagine now this is not to say that he doesn't love you for other

00:05:33.600 things this is not to say that he doesn't you know like other stuff about you obviously right

00:05:41.220 i mean he married me but they it's it's this is delusion and i'm just not in the business

00:05:49.840 i'm used to be in the business of selling dreams i won't do it so you guys can keep saying what sounds

00:05:59.200 nice which is at 65 as a grandmother your husband will find you equally as attractive as that 22 year 0.74

00:06:07.360 old smoke show down the street really and there's goggles he doesn't notice or you could tweet me your

00:06:16.480 selfies which are really sad guys it's like actually quite embarrassing for you um you could tweet me your

00:06:23.600 selfies and shame the men for liking what guys like i mean the water is wet the sky is blue your husband

00:06:32.800 noticed that you age this isn't this isn't rocket science i didn't i never i never said he would

00:06:42.320 he would leave you right so it's like i just i just get exhausted guys simps are enablers they enable us to live

00:06:53.680 in delusion for a lifetime so what we have is we have what we have is okay

00:07:01.920 you see this this is the third third person i'm trying to film this so this is what we have we have

00:07:07.840 the women that get mad and whine and say ah i'm aging i have to cope with the fact that i'm getting 1.00

00:07:13.680 older oh no wrinkles wrinkles ah the 22 year olds are hotter and then we have the men saying oh no they're

00:07:20.640 upset let me make up these terms like i love thick chicks i love thick chicks um i love these chicks 1.00

00:07:29.040 around 30. um they only like the 30 year olds because you guys are easier sorry don't shoot

00:07:35.040 the messenger um but but you know oh and then they make up husband goggles so yes you guys can all

00:07:49.280 virtue signal and say you're so amazing because you want to convince women that we're just hot and young

00:07:57.120 for a lifetime i'll be the bad guy i'll be the big meanie and say no husband goggles do not exist

00:08:07.040 yes your husband will notice that you aged yes he's going to be less attracted to you

00:08:13.440 but life goes on and life isn't is supposed to be about character and relationships not how hot you

00:08:21.520 are at 35. don't shoot the messenger even though i know you guys will like the video on your way out

00:08:28.800 subscribe to the channel and please please ladies stop tweeting me your selfies this is getting sad and 0.98

00:08:35.760 embarrassing i don't want to see it i i see your botox foreheads and your fake boobs i get it don't want to 0.98

00:08:44.800 see it no thank you 22 year old is still hotter see you guys 1.00

JustPearlyThings - September 29, 2023

I Am Not In the Business of Selling Dreams

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