JustPearlyThings - April 08, 2023


Jealous Woman Tries To Downplay Pearl's Success


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9 minutes

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207.35797

Word count

1,999

Sentence count

229

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Misogyny

5

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1

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In this episode, I talk about how important it is to have a team around you to help you achieve your dreams and goals. If you're not on the path to becoming a millionaire, then you need a team behind you to get you there.

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00:00:00.000 Guys, I'm going to do a little business thing here.
00:00:02.780 You said you want to be a multi-millionaire, be super successful, right?
00:00:05.160 Yeah, I'm on a journey.
00:00:06.180 I'm about to make you a multi-frickin' millionaire.
00:00:08.240 You ready for this?
00:00:09.080 Start a cat food company and call your friends.
00:00:11.420 You will make millions.
00:00:12.900 No, I don't have friends like that.
00:00:14.760 No, I'm sorry.
00:00:15.600 You might make comments, but that's not my fault.
00:00:19.140 So you're 39.
00:00:19.740 When are you going to be a millionaire by?
00:00:21.860 Well, there's no time plan, but we're working on the journey.
00:00:25.040 We're doing everything possible to make it happen.
00:00:27.500 Do you have over half a million saved?
00:00:28.920 No, I've got some money saved, though.
00:00:31.380 Okay, but it's like when?
00:00:33.440 You've had 20 years to do it.
00:00:35.040 I mean, it's not about when.
00:00:37.280 You know what?
00:00:37.840 It is about when, and it's also about who we are.
00:00:41.140 Because if I have such a high mentality, I need somebody to match that mentality with me.
00:00:46.580 And they can't bring me down.
00:00:48.800 So at the rate I'm at, I'm 26.
00:00:51.380 Okay, I'm 26.
00:00:52.240 I probably will be a millionaire in the next five years.
00:00:55.140 No, no, no.
00:00:56.440 It's not even like that.
00:00:57.240 But I'm saying like, but I'm saying like, but I could tell you, I didn't need anyone else to help me do it.
00:01:02.600 I just did it.
00:01:03.920 And it's like, if you're 39 and you're not on the actual path to being a millionaire.
00:01:10.240 I wasn't able to get on my path until I was 26.
00:01:13.320 But my whole point.
00:01:14.840 But so it's still been 15 years.
00:01:16.980 That I had to come and move from a different city.
00:01:21.220 No, let me give you the statistics.
00:01:22.420 I had to move from a different city, okay?
00:01:25.060 I had to start fresh again, okay?
00:01:27.560 Came here with nothing, with nobody, yeah?
00:01:30.320 Had to start from fresh.
00:01:30.780 I did that a year ago.
00:01:32.380 You did that a year ago.
00:01:33.640 A year ago.
00:01:33.960 Maybe you had a bit more supportive parents.
00:01:36.180 I don't have supportive parents.
00:01:37.840 My dad has passed away.
00:01:39.560 And my mom, she's a single mom. 0.99
00:01:41.320 So no, I can't look to my family for anything.
00:01:43.640 So everything is all by myself.
00:01:47.040 Which is fine.
00:01:48.080 You know what I mean?
00:01:48.740 You can phone your dad and say, dad, hi, I've got a problem.
00:01:53.700 I can't phone nobody.
00:01:55.520 I have to work it out and figure it out for myself.
00:01:58.420 If it's going to take me 15 years.
00:02:00.540 You still have that same problem.
00:02:02.740 And that's what I'm saying.
00:02:03.440 Babe, I am changing every day.
00:02:05.680 And every day I'm getting better and better.
00:02:08.580 And that's what I do know.
00:02:10.100 To who?
00:02:10.460 For me.
00:02:11.200 It's not about pleasing anybody, though.
00:02:13.980 It's not.
00:02:14.640 It's about pleasing yourself.
00:02:15.700 If you're going to be a millionaire.
00:02:17.220 And this just sounds delusional.
00:02:18.720 That is a dream.
00:02:19.660 It's a dream.
00:02:20.480 It's the dream.
00:02:21.500 And we're working towards it.
00:02:23.540 How?
00:02:24.660 I do properties.
00:02:25.660 You didn't ask me my life story.
00:02:27.260 I do properties.
00:02:28.300 I do acting.
00:02:29.720 I do music.
00:02:30.740 I'm all on intellectual property.
00:02:33.120 Intellectual property takes time.
00:02:35.240 Then your property games take time as well.
00:02:38.460 You know what I mean?
00:02:39.280 I've been working on properties since 2017.
00:02:42.060 I didn't leave school with any JCSEs.
00:02:44.340 And I just finished university four weeks ago.
00:02:46.940 So I had to go through that journey.
00:02:48.840 I'm becoming intellectual for me to go on these journeys.
00:02:52.560 Do you think you're still going to have the type of energy you had in your 20s, in your 40s and 50s?
00:02:57.520 Maybe not.
00:02:58.360 But guess what?
00:02:59.100 We're going to keep on going.
00:03:00.180 But you're going to be competing with the people in their 20s and their 30s.
00:03:04.000 There's no competition.
00:03:05.240 There's no competition.
00:03:06.420 It is.
00:03:06.780 Because if you look...
00:03:07.880 I'm telling you...
00:03:08.140 There isn't for you, but there is a competition.
00:03:09.980 There is a competition, but I can't look on that.
00:03:12.680 I promise you that business is absolutely a competition.
00:03:15.900 Oh, my God.
00:03:16.420 It's a big competition.
00:03:18.160 Can I just say one thing, please?
00:03:19.300 Go ahead.
00:03:20.000 Babe, you know you're saying you're not in competition.
00:03:22.300 My daughter's going to be 18 in July.
00:03:24.140 So you really think that you're going to have the same sort of...
00:03:27.440 The same energy.
00:03:28.400 That's what she's just saying.
00:03:29.160 The same energy and the same drive and the same opportunities that my 18-year-old daughter
00:03:32.940 because you're going to be in the same gym.
00:03:34.600 But would your daughter be doing the same things that I'm doing now?
00:03:38.160 Who knows?
00:03:38.920 She could be.
00:03:39.840 Probably not if she wants to be successful. 0.98
00:03:42.540 She could be.
00:03:43.880 You know what I mean?
00:03:44.800 She could be.
00:03:45.460 But we're going to be in a whole different category.
00:03:47.880 I'm going to be in, say, the 40 to 45.
00:03:50.380 She's going to be 18 to 25. 1.00
00:03:51.800 There is a lot of things a 40 and a 45-year-old can do.
00:03:55.880 This is my point, though, for you.
00:03:57.420 It's like you're 39.
00:03:58.700 It doesn't sound like...
00:04:00.000 Can you talk about it?
00:04:00.540 No, no.
00:04:01.820 I'm just being honest.
00:04:03.300 It doesn't sound like you're on track to be a millionaire.
00:04:07.000 It doesn't sound...
00:04:08.000 Well, maybe you could have said that to Henry Ford.
00:04:10.380 Okay, okay.
00:04:11.400 You could have said that to Henry Ford.
00:04:13.640 It doesn't...
00:04:14.360 Based on what you're saying, it doesn't sound like you're on track.
00:04:18.460 You might be.
00:04:18.960 I don't believe in statistics.
00:04:20.640 Okay, okay.
00:04:22.040 Yeah, I don't.
00:04:23.920 Of course not.
00:04:24.740 I don't.
00:04:25.220 But business...
00:04:25.760 You can't.
00:04:26.140 Okay, okay.
00:04:26.720 I'll give you something.
00:04:27.500 Business people usually believe in statistics.
00:04:30.220 I understand that, but...
00:04:30.760 You're going to look at your market.
00:04:32.220 You're going to look at the people you're selling.
00:04:33.520 You believe in statistics.
00:04:34.780 But then...
00:04:35.220 If you want to be a millionaire, you probably should believe in statistics.
00:04:38.040 If you're a kind of evolving person...
00:04:38.640 So, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:04:40.520 So, now you're at the point...
00:04:42.000 It's like you want a family with the right guy, and I can tell you do.
00:04:45.460 But it's like you're curving the guy that you said would be a good relationship for you
00:04:49.280 for 15 years.
00:04:50.380 But attraction is everything.
00:04:52.080 No, it's not.
00:04:53.120 It is.
00:04:53.720 It is when you're younger, but when you're older, it's like you've got to pick your poison.
00:04:56.960 Do you have money that you could be saved for retirement?
00:05:05.360 Like, what do we need?
00:05:06.200 1.5 million to retire?
00:05:08.000 Are you on track?
00:05:08.820 We're all working on it because I wasn't around the people that was going for those goals.
00:05:14.040 I had to take myself out of my environment.
00:05:17.080 But this is...
00:05:17.960 You can't blame your...
00:05:19.600 The generational curse environment. 0.94
00:05:21.840 Yeah, look, my dad grew up on the south side of Chicago with 13 kids.
00:05:27.540 He didn't grow up in a good environment.
00:05:29.020 None of his siblings are successful.
00:05:30.700 It's either you're going to be successful or you're not.
00:05:32.760 And most of the time, people that are going to be millionaires are on the way by the time
00:05:36.260 they're your age because you'd have to compete with the people that are in their 20s and 30s
00:05:40.660 and have way more energy than you're going to.
00:05:42.340 That does not matter because everybody's going to be evolving differently.
00:05:46.760 Pearl, this is like the reason I think some of us are a little bit taken back is like
00:05:51.820 you're obviously intelligent.
00:05:53.460 No, I'm just happy with my life.
00:05:56.120 Can I add something?
00:05:58.480 I really feel like with the cost of living, a million pound is nothing as well.
00:06:03.140 And that's the sad part.
00:06:04.500 We're all going to struggle.
00:06:06.600 Right.
00:06:06.880 Okay.
00:06:07.100 Sorry.
00:06:07.380 Go ahead.
00:06:07.800 Go ahead.
00:06:08.180 So, sorry.
00:06:09.200 I forgot your name.
00:06:10.380 Abby.
00:06:11.180 Abby.
00:06:12.440 Abby.
00:06:12.940 Abby, I apologize for that.
00:06:14.180 You're obviously intelligent.
00:06:15.860 Like there's no question.
00:06:16.680 We can tell it like your thoughts are there.
00:06:19.080 You're, you look nice, you know, like you're a nice looking lady. 0.83
00:06:22.900 You're smart.
00:06:23.560 Your verbal intelligence is fairly high.
00:06:25.940 Like you think fast, you talk fast.
00:06:28.460 There's, there's a lot of opportunity, a lot of potential.
00:06:31.540 You recognize your own potential, you know.
00:06:33.320 Yeah.
00:06:33.600 So that's why I'm not involved by competition or anything.
00:06:36.900 Because once you're in your ton of vision, let them finish.
00:06:39.480 Let them finish. 0.53
00:06:40.080 The delusion, like you don't have to sell us anymore on that.
00:06:42.780 We already know.
00:06:43.540 But you're smart.
00:06:44.480 You're, you're well-spoken.
00:06:45.600 You're, you're, you're beautiful.
00:06:47.160 Like you have a lot of, the potential is incredible.
00:06:50.140 The potential is incredible.
00:06:52.200 But, but there's the, I had this situation, this situation, this situation, this situation.
00:06:56.800 Now, Pearl's dad, one of 13, certainly didn't grow up very privileged, right?
00:07:01.280 Tell you guys me, like real simple.
00:07:02.700 Like I grew up as a Jew in the Soviet Union, which was not a happy place for Jews.
00:07:06.580 We immigrated to Canada in 92, which we're eating at the food bank.
00:07:10.920 And then here, here, here's what happened to me.
00:07:13.660 I'll tell you guys a quick story.
00:07:14.600 And I hope it's interesting, right?
00:07:15.680 I was rollerblading, like a complete loser, rollerblading, like four or five kilometers to go from my parked car on the highway to my university because I couldn't afford the 75 cents a day they were charging for parking at my university because I was paying my own school.
00:07:31.140 So I was rollerblading, I would park on the highway and I would rollerblade like a good hour to get to my university campus.
00:07:38.320 And somebody saw me do that and they go, wow, you're so motivated.
00:07:41.980 You know, I can see you like you want to stay in shape, blah, blah, blah.
00:07:44.240 And I'm too embarrassed to tell this person I'm just freaking poor.
00:07:47.620 Like I can't afford the 75 cents, you know?
00:07:49.880 But you're motivated.
00:07:51.040 But, but here, but here's the thing.
00:07:52.980 I was lucky because I met a mentor, somebody that said, hey, you know, you want to do better than this?
00:07:58.300 I was like, yeah.
00:07:58.940 And that's a dangerous thing.
00:07:59.940 I was like 19 or 20.
00:08:01.140 It's a dangerous thing.
00:08:01.840 And this person said to me, hey, I work in this company and what this person was doing is selling encyclopedias door to door.
00:08:06.620 And they said, you can go do this.
00:08:09.000 And that's what I did for six years.
00:08:10.720 How I paid for university and I got like two degrees by selling encyclopedias door to door for six years.
00:08:16.720 Luckily, fortunately for me, I met a mentor that saw my potential, saw my energy.
00:08:22.180 And I was delusional because whatever I was doing, I couldn't afford 75 cents for parking.
00:08:26.200 So I knew that I was delusional because what I wanted was not what I had in my life.
00:08:30.620 Fair enough?
00:08:31.880 I'm going to give a plug.
00:08:33.000 So that's what we do at our company.
00:08:34.580 53% of our salespeople make six figures within 18 months.
00:08:39.280 53%.
00:08:39.720 The reason I plug us here is lgv.com, really simple.
00:08:44.600 What you need is like to be around somebody that's actually done what you want to do and not make up stories of how it works.
00:08:50.820 Like there are people that have done what you want to do.
00:08:52.720 Find those people and they will be so happy to mentor you because that's what we do in our company, isn't it?
00:08:58.820 What makes you think I'm not in those group of people?
00:09:01.660 What makes you think I am not evolving around those people?
00:09:04.800 The answer is results.
00:09:05.760 But my journey actually started properly at 26 years old when I moved to London.
00:09:12.240 That's 13 years ago.
00:09:12.940 But I still had to educate myself.
00:09:14.120 I came here with £108 in my pocket.
00:09:17.460 Tell me how I'm going to sort myself out, get my house a crib.
00:09:20.480 I kind of understand her.
00:09:22.140 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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