JustPearlyThings - June 04, 2023


Jon Zherka on Being Red Pill


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Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

195.41566

Word count

1,401

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

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Hate speech

16

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Summary

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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend John Zirka to talk about what it's like to be a writer, a comedian, a writer and an actor. We talk about how he got his start in the entertainment industry and how he dealt with his mental health issues.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 i think the missing variable is when when masculinity is scarce toxic masculinity is
00:00:06.320 the greatest magnet to the woman and i went on that show fresh fit and she said i would never
00:00:11.520 date yeah she said that canadian girl said i would never date someone like you you're this
00:00:16.560 you're that and totally embarrassed me and i called her a whore for three hours straight 1.00
00:00:21.360 and then she's in my bed in lingerie right no okay i noticed that at shows actually when 1.00
00:00:29.360 i would when i would um like do the shows in london um the the feminists that would like be 1.00
00:00:36.640 arguing with the guy after they'd always try to sleep with them like it would happen every single
00:00:41.200 time and that's why i was like you guys were just like going at each other now you're trying to go
00:00:47.600 home with i don't know yeah and i i've asked a lot of girls in more intimate settings where they can 1.00
00:00:54.480 be honest and they've always kind of said the same answer where it's like as much as i hate
00:00:59.200 what would you talk about i feel safe around you the other people like those same some blue pill guys
00:01:05.520 they feel like those guys are going to do something to them in the hotel room and stuff
00:01:09.920 and uh because if someone's just being unapologetically honest he's more trustful
00:01:15.840 well and like a lot of the blue pill like i realized like so many guys just lie they just pander and they
00:01:21.200 just simp what you're saying destiny i did not say any names you know what's funny i wasn't even
00:01:31.680 thinking of destiny um i was more thinking of like guys on my show that they've literally argued they
00:01:36.320 don't care about body count and i'm just like you guys are just saying that so you can sleep with the
00:01:41.200 girls on the show it's so disingenuous like i know what they're doing and i and i don't like it
00:01:46.720 because it's not honest it's like you know that if you when you're looking like because it's like
00:01:52.080 younger guys in their 20s they're like oh i don't care but they're not looking for a wife 0.70
00:01:56.640 you know and they said no and anytime i'd like go for a hookup right like i'm about to sin
00:02:04.320 if i sat on a show the girls who sleep on the first date are skanks they'd come to my hotel and be like 1.00
00:02:11.920 oh we're not sleeping this is our first date because they they heard it on the show and i'd be
00:02:16.480 like okay that's not how this works you gotta leave my hotel right now but now i know why guys lie
00:02:22.560 because they go they don't want that where she's like blue balls them and just cuddles them so they 1.00
00:02:26.880 go yeah i don't care about your body count just take your clothes off and shit but uh if i do any phony 0.99
00:02:32.640 shit i don't even get hard i don't get aroused i'd be like i i need to be john zirka if i'm gonna sleep 0.84
00:02:37.600 with the girl if i feel like i'm watered down circa i'm an autosexual it's weird i know but like
00:02:45.040 i turn myself on so if it's not circa in the room with the girl it's way less hard for me way less
00:02:52.960 hard if it's circa saying what up nigga then i just can be myself and like i don't feel like the 0.65
00:02:59.360 government's gonna come take take me away i don't know this is weird well i also think that like some
00:03:04.560 guys will say they don't care because in their head women lie anyway so they'll never know 1.00
00:03:10.720 yeah which i i think is a cope i think like they'll figure it out eventually to like that's that's my
00:03:16.720 if they're like i think women tend to tell them themselves in the long run um i don't think any 0.81
00:03:23.680 man can do like a year and a half of celibacy anymore when i did that the year flew by so i was like oh my
00:03:30.400 god i did it i didn't i wasn't like yo every month i gotta push harder and it was easy like
00:03:36.400 a year and a half just flew by and i was just busy in my work and i read books i did all this right
00:03:42.720 um and then i read even more when i had a girlfriend because i felt that urge when the
00:03:46.560 lockdowns were over that you know i've been cooped up i need to do some social things because i already
00:03:50.880 suffered from anti-social personality disorder it actually damaged my career because i wouldn't
00:03:55.600 collaborate with anyone for years just make money alone so when i got out in the world i'm like oh
00:04:01.040 i'm about to be a hole you know because i'm impatient i'm not gonna like wait for the right
00:04:04.720 girl so i just picked my favorite girl who's anti-vax and got banned for that and maga and i was
00:04:10.480 like let's go travel and if i have one girlfriend i don't cheat like i know i know who i am it's very
00:04:16.320 easy for me and so all that extra energy i just put into books and stuff but if i had multiple women i 1.00
00:04:22.640 would have never read these books i wouldn't be in this position in this hotel none of that and so
00:04:27.920 i played the game smart like really smart and that's why that's where myron and i disagree the
00:04:33.440 most it's like he tells men to have like four girlfriends i think men are their best that they
00:04:38.560 have one and zeros how you make a billion dollars but you know you still need to you don't want to
00:04:44.800 waste your youth you know you still want to find the girl right because wasn't einstein a virgin
00:04:50.080 no he fucked his cousin oh i thought i thought there's some guy that was a famous virgin but 1.00
00:04:57.760 i don't remember i thought it was einstein you think you have nick fuentes who made a million
00:05:02.080 dollars and you still don't think about women he just wants his movement to grow and it's such like
00:05:06.720 a like men don't realize having an army and being a general is way better than sex sex you can have
00:05:15.600 for the rest of your life like that'll come but uh yeah actually watching nick is why i went to
00:05:22.000 celibate for like a year and a half and because i i know that that energy if you're not dating where
00:05:27.280 does it have to go you think oh am i gonna die alone no i'm gonna have an empire and then women 0.99
00:05:33.200 will want me and i'll be safe from despair because i can choose pick and choose and if you build a big
00:05:38.880 enough empire you can even have a virgin maybe you have to go into a hut like 1.00
00:05:47.200 i actually i almost think that like
00:05:52.000 the way women are today makes it harder for virgins too because like how does the men gonna know if she is 1.00
00:05:58.000 yeah i mean like because i've heard guys i've heard how guys say that like girls will even lie
00:06:06.000 about that like say they're virgin yeah yeah girls lie about a lot when it comes to dating they lie a 0.97
00:06:14.720 lot because the whole the whole world's pointing at them saying they up and they're always
00:06:19.680 but uh the interesting thing is nobody understands that the biggest turnoff for a girl is if you don't
00:06:25.280 know how to like put a condom on or you're like sexually inexperienced and that translates to
00:06:31.680 every part of the relationship so a virgin has a bunch of trouble unless he knows their nature like 0.77
00:06:38.560 there's only one virgin who gets it it's nick like he dick has beautiful women dming him and or they 0.95
00:06:44.640 try and get on his podcast to win him over like these neocon type girls and uh he understands women 1.00
00:06:51.760 because he's so intelligent but nobody has that kid's iq so all these virgins are kind of you know 0.99
00:06:57.840 and they really need to focus on the trinity uh in of dating which is you know their looks and hygiene 0.94
00:07:03.760 their network the most important one and um
00:07:08.960 the third one