JustPearlyThings - April 21, 2023


@JWALLER BREAKS DOWN Cheating To Modern Women

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

223.56

Word count

1,739

Sentence count

40

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

sentences flagged

Hate speech

7

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, we discuss how to present yourself to potential suitors, tattoos, piercings, and more. We also discuss the importance of being conscious of how you present yourself in order to be considered a potential suitor.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Every single person that's gonna be like that. I don't remember if you said earlier
00:00:04.700 Do you want to be married in the next couple years married in the next couple years? 0.95
00:00:07.940 So wouldn't it make sense to present yourself like a wife? Yeah, of course. Okay, so like yes 0.98
00:00:14.400 Can we take out the nose ring? I'll be so happy
00:00:18.240 She got two in her tongue 0.99
00:00:20.240 One in her belly
00:00:22.240 You have a tongue ring too?
00:00:24.240 She's got two 0.73
00:00:26.240 I think if you like it you like it. Yeah, I don't feel like that determines the type of person I am
00:00:31.520 Because if any of you took just ten minutes out of your day to sit down. No, you're very sweet
00:00:36.720 I've spoken to you all so
00:00:38.720 Yeah, but it's it's more the way I present myself. I agree
00:00:41.520 I'm not saying anything against like the way I look the way I present myself. I completely agree the tattoos the piercings the crop top
00:00:48.560 It does say something. Yeah, I'm just saying just doesn't know the reason I'm saying this is because I want you to win
00:00:53.360 Yeah, like I want you to win in life. Yeah, and and it's like, you know as as nice as it is for for people to say
00:01:00.720 Oh, wear what you want do like do what you want
00:01:02.720 It's like it's not going to help you get the outcomes you seem to want
00:01:07.840 It could to be honest, I've come across a lot of different people in my life
00:01:12.240 I present myself in this way, but I get a lot of different reactions like
00:01:16.320 It's all about how you are as a person like this is all about appearance
00:01:19.840 No, but okay, but that's wrong appearance. That's wrong because men judge you on the way you look 0.85
00:01:24.000 Yeah, men judge on appearance, but then when they actually take that extra step to see how you are
00:01:27.920 No, but they're not going to take the extra step to see how you are because they already put you in a box
00:01:32.480 Then then that's their choice
00:01:34.000 And what they're going to think is this hey if I if I make her my wife if I if she's my girlfriend 0.74
00:01:38.640 She's going to dress like oh, yeah, like this and this is going to represent 0.51
00:01:43.120 I'm not saying anything against it like I agree men will think that if I just set away
00:01:47.360 But that's just not the way I am personally
00:01:49.680 But like surely if a guy came to you and said like
00:01:53.920 Like first glance and didn't give you the time of day just because of your tattoos and the crop top and the nose ring and whatever
00:01:59.200 You're you're emotionally intelligent enough to the clock on to that and be like, okay, well, you're not the type of guy
00:02:03.360 Oh, yeah, that you would want anything
00:02:04.960 You couldn't put me in a box like that. I'll show you in the box
00:02:07.440 I choose to put this on my skin. I'm not that type of like cool. Maybe you can think all sorts of crazy things
00:02:13.280 Trust me. I get all sorts of crazy reactions of the type of tattoos. I've have with the types of just like the way I dress
00:02:19.840 Do you do you judge men based on how they dress like if a guy is dressed like a homeless man as?
00:02:29.920 Okay, right, right
00:02:31.840 So so I'm saying like you started shaming men for judging her and say well, that's no, no, no, not you
00:02:37.440 You and you were saying that oh, well, that's not the type of man. I would want anyways
00:02:41.120 But how do you know that because if you saw a guy that was homeless that looked homeless even even though he wasn't
00:02:46.880 You might disqualify him based on everyone disqualifies everyone based on looks not not shaming men as such
00:02:52.960 But i'm just saying like for her like I'd hope that she was emotionally intelligent enough to be like, okay
00:02:58.000 Well, if you're gonna put me in that box
00:02:59.760 I have the equal right to then say okay
00:03:02.320 Then if you're gonna put me in a box like that
00:03:04.400 I can equally put you in a box and move on in my life
00:03:07.680 It's you're taking a defensive stance and I think it's more about kind of being conscious and aware of of things
00:03:14.160 I think I think the difference is is like is unnecessary. You don't have to defend yourself spiritually
00:03:19.200 I think you just have to be more conscious that like those high-level guys will notice the tattoos
00:03:23.680 But I don't care personally, but some guys will
00:03:26.800 You gotta just accept that like I would say maybe if I wanted to date like bill gates son or like, you know
00:03:32.320 Some aristocrat from france
00:03:34.800 Maybe he won't be into that
00:03:36.800 Unfortunately, because you're beautiful. He'll probably lie to you
00:03:39.200 Thank you
00:03:39.680 Wait, sorry. I just lost my train of thought
00:03:41.840 Yeah, I called you beautiful
00:03:43.040 I don't really judge people really like I know people would a hundred percent think things of me just because just purely based on my tattoos
00:03:57.520 Just on that fact alone, I never let that really play into my mind like I have a very realistic mindset
00:04:05.120 Well, I would just say if you if you do want to be married or you do want a long-term relationship
00:04:09.440 Then I would dress like someone that wants to be in one
00:04:13.040 Yeah, but I don't want to get married right now
00:04:15.760 I don't need anyone to like guide the way I dress right now
00:04:19.280 But obviously if I'm married if I have a man, no, no, I'm not gonna be
00:04:22.560 You said you wanted to get married in the next couple years a couple years a few years more likely few years than a couple
00:04:29.280 Okay, okay, maybe we need to add into that one percent though
00:04:32.560 Like if you want to get married to somebody from that one percent. No, it's not. No, I'm sorry. No, it's just 0.99
00:04:39.840 um, no men across the board judge women with tattoos
00:04:46.560 You know if we're gonna say a balance of probability like there's exceptions
00:04:50.000 But if we're gonna talk about across the board the men you want like i'm i'm from a pretty well-off community
00:04:55.200 And like most of my brothers make six figures
00:04:58.160 Most people in our circles make six figures and I can tell you that they they absolutely judge you if you have tattoos
00:05:03.440 They absolutely judge you if you have piercings and I didn't always like this when I was younger
00:05:07.280 I was like mom you're so judgmental
00:05:10.240 Why like I was so mad that she wouldn't let me like do this stuff and then the older I get the more I see that she's right
00:05:15.360 And I just you know, I really you know if if I can encourage you in a different direction, that's probably what I'm gonna do
00:05:22.800 It's not the be all and end all though. Not at all
00:05:24.880 I think I think you could actually end up making it something that works for you
00:05:27.520 You can a classy woman with tattoo does stir some intrigue that could be interesting 1.00
00:05:32.000 So when I'm not we're not giving you like some kind of final judgment. Yeah, it's not a death sentence at all
00:05:36.080 Yeah, just just get a couple of sundresses 0.98
00:05:38.640 You'll be fine
00:05:39.360 Yeah, no one's gonna watch you
00:05:41.040 Everyone in this room hated my tattoos. I love them. They're great tattoos. They're lovely. They're beautiful. Yeah
00:05:47.040 I personally don't have a thing against tattoo, but i'm not gonna lie if I saw someone with tattoos
00:05:50.800 It doesn't scream take me out to dinner talk to me every night treat me like wifey
00:05:55.120 It kind of screams like you've probably had two or three toxic relationships
00:05:59.440 Like you know, yeah, I get what you're that's my first impression. It's not on the journey. Yeah, you know
00:06:04.400 But for real girls, I would say look at I do agree with feminists on one thing in that you you go 1.00
00:06:11.600 You women have a lot against you now more than ever and that you have the worst role models ever 1.00
00:06:15.600 Like when I look at modern women 1.00
00:06:18.320 There's very few role models and I always get the impression when I speak to
00:06:22.080 When I see the women others look look up to other women look up to I just like you're looking up to people who don't have what you want
00:06:27.520 You're looking up to women who are coping with their bad decisions 1.00
00:06:30.480 34 year olds 32 year olds who are still in the club who are trying to sell you on this
00:06:35.200 Whole culture and accept yourself and spirituality and they're not they're missing out the little bit where it says I messed up
00:06:41.040 I missed the boat. I had all these opportunities at uni. I had all these opportunities
00:06:44.480 I messed up and i'm still in this club with 21 year olds trying to pretend that i've got it all
00:06:48.720 I guarantee you these women if they found a decent guy 1.00
00:06:51.600 They'll fight you tooth and nail for that guy 0.80
00:06:53.200 So just just remember that not everyone wants the best for you and those who there's all all women
00:06:57.840 Not every woman wants the best for you either 0.94
00:06:59.680 Misery loves company
00:07:00.720 Yeah, they will lie to your face straight straight up like devil doesn't break into empty houses
00:07:05.040 Does it and you're young you're young?
00:07:06.720 They're gonna lie to you take your time. It's chill doesn't matter, you know, accept yourself, you know
00:07:10.560 You got you got time
00:07:11.680 Trust me after uni the amount of high-quality guys you meet on the dating scene reduces significantly
00:07:16.560 In uni you're in a pool of just young people who are quite focused and going towards somewhere when you come out
00:07:21.920 You're on tinder right on tinder anyone could be on tinder anyone could be on hinge people are trying to mess around people broke
00:07:28.240 It's long and under more time as many of you know
00:07:31.440 I was just banned on tick-tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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