JustPearlyThings - April 21, 2023


@JWALLER BREAKS DOWN Cheating To Modern Women


Episode Stats

Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

223.56017

Word Count

1,739

Sentence Count

34

Misogynist Sentences

13

Hate Speech Sentences

7


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Every single person that's gonna be like that. I don't remember if you said earlier
00:00:04.700 Do you want to be married in the next couple years married in the next couple years?
00:00:07.940 So wouldn't it make sense to present yourself like a wife? Yeah, of course. Okay, so like yes
00:00:14.400 Can we take out the nose ring? I'll be so happy
00:00:18.240 She got two in her tongue
00:00:20.240 One in her belly
00:00:22.240 You have a tongue ring too?
00:00:24.240 She's got two
00:00:26.240 I think if you like it you like it. Yeah, I don't feel like that determines the type of person I am
00:00:31.520 Because if any of you took just ten minutes out of your day to sit down. No, you're very sweet
00:00:36.720 I've spoken to you all so
00:00:38.720 Yeah, but it's it's more the way I present myself. I agree
00:00:41.520 I'm not saying anything against like the way I look the way I present myself. I completely agree the tattoos the piercings the crop top
00:00:48.560 It does say something. Yeah, I'm just saying just doesn't know the reason I'm saying this is because I want you to win
00:00:53.360 Yeah, like I want you to win in life. Yeah, and and it's like, you know as as nice as it is for for people to say
00:01:00.720 Oh, wear what you want do like do what you want
00:01:02.720 It's like it's not going to help you get the outcomes you seem to want
00:01:07.840 It could to be honest, I've come across a lot of different people in my life
00:01:12.240 I present myself in this way, but I get a lot of different reactions like
00:01:16.320 It's all about how you are as a person like this is all about appearance
00:01:19.840 No, but okay, but that's wrong appearance. That's wrong because men judge you on the way you look
00:01:24.000 Yeah, men judge on appearance, but then when they actually take that extra step to see how you are
00:01:27.920 No, but they're not going to take the extra step to see how you are because they already put you in a box
00:01:32.480 Then then that's their choice
00:01:34.000 And what they're going to think is this hey if I if I make her my wife if I if she's my girlfriend
00:01:38.640 She's going to dress like oh, yeah, like this and this is going to represent
00:01:43.120 I'm not saying anything against it like I agree men will think that if I just set away
00:01:47.360 But that's just not the way I am personally
00:01:49.680 But like surely if a guy came to you and said like
00:01:53.920 Like first glance and didn't give you the time of day just because of your tattoos and the crop top and the nose ring and whatever
00:01:59.200 You're you're emotionally intelligent enough to the clock on to that and be like, okay, well, you're not the type of guy
00:02:03.360 Oh, yeah, that you would want anything
00:02:04.960 You couldn't put me in a box like that. I'll show you in the box
00:02:07.440 I choose to put this on my skin. I'm not that type of like cool. Maybe you can think all sorts of crazy things
00:02:13.280 Trust me. I get all sorts of crazy reactions of the type of tattoos. I've have with the types of just like the way I dress
00:02:19.840 Do you do you judge men based on how they dress like if a guy is dressed like a homeless man as?
00:02:29.920 Okay, right, right
00:02:31.840 So so I'm saying like you started shaming men for judging her and say well, that's no, no, no, not you
00:02:37.440 You and you were saying that oh, well, that's not the type of man. I would want anyways
00:02:41.120 But how do you know that because if you saw a guy that was homeless that looked homeless even even though he wasn't
00:02:46.880 You might disqualify him based on everyone disqualifies everyone based on looks not not shaming men as such
00:02:52.960 But i'm just saying like for her like I'd hope that she was emotionally intelligent enough to be like, okay
00:02:58.000 Well, if you're gonna put me in that box
00:02:59.760 I have the equal right to then say okay
00:03:02.320 Then if you're gonna put me in a box like that
00:03:04.400 I can equally put you in a box and move on in my life
00:03:07.680 It's you're taking a defensive stance and I think it's more about kind of being conscious and aware of of things
00:03:14.160 I think I think the difference is is like is unnecessary. You don't have to defend yourself spiritually
00:03:19.200 I think you just have to be more conscious that like those high-level guys will notice the tattoos
00:03:23.680 But I don't care personally, but some guys will
00:03:26.800 You gotta just accept that like I would say maybe if I wanted to date like bill gates son or like, you know
00:03:32.320 Some aristocrat from france
00:03:34.800 Maybe he won't be into that
00:03:36.800 Unfortunately, because you're beautiful. He'll probably lie to you
00:03:39.200 Thank you
00:03:39.680 Wait, sorry. I just lost my train of thought
00:03:41.840 Yeah, I called you beautiful
00:03:43.040 I don't really judge people really like I know people would a hundred percent think things of me just because just purely based on my tattoos
00:03:57.520 Just on that fact alone, I never let that really play into my mind like I have a very realistic mindset
00:04:05.120 Well, I would just say if you if you do want to be married or you do want a long-term relationship
00:04:09.440 Then I would dress like someone that wants to be in one
00:04:13.040 Yeah, but I don't want to get married right now
00:04:15.760 I don't need anyone to like guide the way I dress right now
00:04:19.280 But obviously if I'm married if I have a man, no, no, I'm not gonna be
00:04:22.560 You said you wanted to get married in the next couple years a couple years a few years more likely few years than a couple
00:04:29.280 Okay, okay, maybe we need to add into that one percent though
00:04:32.560 Like if you want to get married to somebody from that one percent. No, it's not. No, I'm sorry. No, it's just
00:04:39.840 um, no men across the board judge women with tattoos
00:04:46.560 You know if we're gonna say a balance of probability like there's exceptions
00:04:50.000 But if we're gonna talk about across the board the men you want like i'm i'm from a pretty well-off community
00:04:55.200 And like most of my brothers make six figures
00:04:58.160 Most people in our circles make six figures and I can tell you that they they absolutely judge you if you have tattoos
00:05:03.440 They absolutely judge you if you have piercings and I didn't always like this when I was younger
00:05:07.280 I was like mom you're so judgmental
00:05:10.240 Why like I was so mad that she wouldn't let me like do this stuff and then the older I get the more I see that she's right
00:05:15.360 And I just you know, I really you know if if I can encourage you in a different direction, that's probably what I'm gonna do
00:05:22.800 It's not the be all and end all though. Not at all
00:05:24.880 I think I think you could actually end up making it something that works for you
00:05:27.520 You can a classy woman with tattoo does stir some intrigue that could be interesting
00:05:32.000 So when I'm not we're not giving you like some kind of final judgment. Yeah, it's not a death sentence at all
00:05:36.080 Yeah, just just get a couple of sundresses
00:05:38.640 You'll be fine
00:05:39.360 Yeah, no one's gonna watch you
00:05:41.040 Everyone in this room hated my tattoos. I love them. They're great tattoos. They're lovely. They're beautiful. Yeah
00:05:47.040 I personally don't have a thing against tattoo, but i'm not gonna lie if I saw someone with tattoos
00:05:50.800 It doesn't scream take me out to dinner talk to me every night treat me like wifey
00:05:55.120 It kind of screams like you've probably had two or three toxic relationships
00:05:59.440 Like you know, yeah, I get what you're that's my first impression. It's not on the journey. Yeah, you know
00:06:04.400 But for real girls, I would say look at I do agree with feminists on one thing in that you you go
00:06:11.600 You women have a lot against you now more than ever and that you have the worst role models ever
00:06:15.600 Like when I look at modern women
00:06:18.320 There's very few role models and I always get the impression when I speak to
00:06:22.080 When I see the women others look look up to other women look up to I just like you're looking up to people who don't have what you want
00:06:27.520 You're looking up to women who are coping with their bad decisions
00:06:30.480 34 year olds 32 year olds who are still in the club who are trying to sell you on this
00:06:35.200 Whole culture and accept yourself and spirituality and they're not they're missing out the little bit where it says I messed up
00:06:41.040 I missed the boat. I had all these opportunities at uni. I had all these opportunities
00:06:44.480 I messed up and i'm still in this club with 21 year olds trying to pretend that i've got it all
00:06:48.720 I guarantee you these women if they found a decent guy
00:06:51.600 They'll fight you tooth and nail for that guy
00:06:53.200 So just just remember that not everyone wants the best for you and those who there's all all women
00:06:57.840 Not every woman wants the best for you either
00:06:59.680 Misery loves company
00:07:00.720 Yeah, they will lie to your face straight straight up like devil doesn't break into empty houses
00:07:05.040 Does it and you're young you're young?
00:07:06.720 They're gonna lie to you take your time. It's chill doesn't matter, you know, accept yourself, you know
00:07:10.560 You got you got time
00:07:11.680 Trust me after uni the amount of high-quality guys you meet on the dating scene reduces significantly
00:07:16.560 In uni you're in a pool of just young people who are quite focused and going towards somewhere when you come out
00:07:21.920 You're on tinder right on tinder anyone could be on tinder anyone could be on hinge people are trying to mess around people broke
00:07:28.240 It's long and under more time as many of you know
00:07:31.440 I was just banned on tick-tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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