JustPearlyThings - @JWALLER EXPOSES Her Hypocrisy

00:00:00.000 dollar in my bank account that neither one of you would leave drake

00:00:02.640 you're both like degrading myself because why am i letting a man cheat on me yeah while you're

00:00:11.840 flexing on all your girlfriends going and living in a mansion no it's not about that because if my

00:00:19.680 girls had happy relationships completely living normal lives and i was seeing drake they'd say 1.00

00:00:26.720 rue yeah you're living this mad life but he's cheating on you he don't love you it's not real

00:00:32.000 it's not real well that's why that's why women keep i like how she'll i'm sorry i don't mean to

00:00:36.480 cut you off i like how you let your friends define your relationship with your man instead of thinking 0.70

00:00:40.800 for yourself no no that's what you just said it's literally what you just said i'm just saying like

00:00:44.880 it's literally what you just did no i'm just saying as an example no as an example you literally just

00:00:49.680 said i i would disregard how i feel and take in consideration my friend's opinion but is that

00:00:55.520 not and i'm dating drake is that not true it is not who i'm dating it doesn't matter it does matter 0.99

00:01:00.240 it matters how you feel about the situation not your dumb ass friends we're gonna get divorced in 0.96

00:01:04.480 three years i would feel the complete yeah but i would feel the complete same i'd be betraying myself 0.96

00:01:11.760 everybody here said they're in a situationship before so you've done it it's interesting because

00:01:15.840 in this case you get more so you get you get everything paid for okay and and you're married and

00:01:24.080 you're married to him um and he does the same thing that the guys you you have seen before have

00:01:30.160 done yeah but your past don't define you like just because you've done something before doesn't mean

00:01:34.240 that you're not gonna like do your past counts with a man i'll tell you that the past tends to

00:01:39.920 repeat itself so no but i mean if it's something that you say you don't want to do like you don't have

00:01:44.480 to do it anymore you're the you decide yeah but men don't forgive you for your past of course not

00:01:51.600 i mean like your past doesn't define you in the point of no but i mean like in the point of um

00:01:57.120 you just said oh you've all been in a situationship so like why wouldn't you be in a situationship with

00:02:03.520 someone that you know is giving you more money no my point is it's cap like it's it's cap because

00:02:08.480 everyone here has done it that's i don't believe it yeah but then you wouldn't be looking for love in that

00:02:12.160 situation so i'm saying i'm saying i'm saying in a situationship you guys got less out of it

00:02:16.880 because i'm sure in a situationship it's you're usually not being taken on crazy days you're not

00:02:21.680 but then you learn from it so you choose whether you accept that's why like the same reason of a man

00:02:26.640 cheating on you so i i know a boy and a girl that are in a relationship but he actively cheats on her

00:02:35.360 and he tells her this is what's happening she chooses to accept it and move on at the

00:02:42.000 end of the day that's her choice she can't come to me and cry about the situation because she 0.99

00:02:48.080 accepts him she chooses it she chooses that lifestyle but if she didn't didn't choose that

00:02:52.720 lifestyle she wouldn't be with him you don't think it's a choice by dating a footballer yeah

00:02:57.120 it is a choice so that was my point when the question in the question i'm saying was she was

00:03:02.400 she wrong to leave or should she have stayed and i'm saying she picked that lifestyle by 1.00

00:03:06.480 picking a guy that is going to cheat yeah at the end of the day as you said maybe all ballers and

00:03:11.360 all rappers and all these people maybe they might not cheat but that's a maybe the majority of them

00:03:17.360 do cheat and do this so what about them individuals that don't cheat that are rappers or things you

00:03:21.920 still have to get to know people as they are right but it's like this is what women do it's like you're 1.00

00:03:25.920 looking for a lottery ticket that doesn't exist because it's not you like the majority of you it's

00:03:30.160 not it's not going to be you you're not like the magical woman that's going to change this guy that has

00:03:34.880 always tweet cheated that is what if what if doesn't cheat on me what if i'm the one who

00:03:42.720 i'm gonna change drake how come like how what makes like i know our some of our opinions differ

00:03:51.760 but like how come you're you think like this like what yeah do you know what i mean like why do you

00:03:57.200 think like that why why do i think that cheating is natural to men because eight eight thousand years

00:04:02.000 ago um 17 women reproduced for every one man so i think it's actually really common for um and

00:04:07.120 natural for them to be non-monogamous i'm not saying that um every guy is going to cheat on you i don't

00:04:12.400 believe that but what i do believe is that women go after the men that will cheat and then they cry

00:04:17.280 about then they cry about it later and i just don't have a lot of sympathy like if you're going after

00:04:21.680 the top 20 percent of men if you're going after basketball players um entertainers rappers and you're

00:04:28.160 going to cry later that you got cheated on i got no yeah or even even the top five percent of men

00:04:33.680 it's like these men have worked their whole lives to get to a certain point you weren't with them when

00:04:37.440 they were broke and now you walk in and say oh be faithful to me why would he again it's the problem

00:04:42.960 of it's the problem of looking at it in a disney-fied way as opposed to looking at it in this sort of

00:04:47.120 sort of more harsh darwinian sort of um economic marketplace kind of a way which is what it really is

00:04:53.200 where the people who are at the top who have the more opportunities are going to

00:04:56.400 act on those opportunities you know these high value dudes are going to act on the opportunities

00:05:00.400 that they have because any guy would every this is what we're saying every guy would want to act

00:05:05.440 out in that way not every guy has the opportunity to do so but those are the top absolutely do and

00:05:09.440 they're going to they're going to utilize that for the most part and i'll tell you another thing yeah

00:05:12.560 any girl will take the opportunity to be of a guy like that exactly exactly exactly exactly and

00:05:16.720 another thing that happens because i see this quite a bit myself in my inbox yeah is the the average guy

00:05:22.880 that's coming home every night when he gets cheated on he gets cheated on with a guy that's

00:05:29.440 that other dude and he's sitting there being loyal and being a good man etc yeah and and she's sliding in 0.78

00:05:36.480 some footballers inbox yeah and if he bites and she's foolish enough to believe it'll be anything more 0.99

00:05:42.320 than just sex then she tried she she'll probably just do the sex and at the same time she would leave 1.00

00:05:48.800 him for that footballer yeah it's ugly it is ugly and i'm not saying i like it but it's absolutely 0.99

00:05:54.640 true it's the huge majority but it's not the whole of females the whole of males look i'm not shitting 0.99

00:05:59.280 on women i'm just saying when that guy gets cheated on by because women cheat too yeah yeah of course and 0.88

00:06:03.520 when they do they're generally not going downstream to do it they're going at least across yeah but mostly

00:06:09.360 they're going up yeah so i mean it is it is the harsh reality that's why when he says darwinistic

00:06:15.360 it's very it's very darwinistic in that way yeah but it's an important message because nowadays

00:06:20.080 people people idolize celebrities in such a way that i think a lot of women don't don't think about

00:06:25.360 stuff like this really like if i it's just hearing you talk right now even they're thinking for love

00:06:30.880 when you're going for a man like that like a lot of no i feel like the woman is not thinking oh

00:06:35.840 like this is he this man's gonna love me like i need to be loved i think she's thinking i want

00:06:40.080 money you'd be surprised i'm using i'm using rappers athletes and ballers as an example but i see it

00:06:45.840 with the with girls going after the same guys at school or girls going after the same like it

00:06:51.120 doesn't necessarily mean they have to be famous but i i see girls date the same guys or go after the

00:06:56.080 same guys all the time and then cry and whine yeah when they cheat when it's like you're getting the

00:07:01.600 same result every time and my issue is not it's one we're trying to make men into something they're

00:07:09.440 not when at the end of the day most men if they had women pursuing them like the top percentage of

00:07:15.360 men do so these are all like there's um athletes have girls on the side that that will the like the 1.00

00:07:22.320 most beautiful women you've ever seen nines and tens begging them to have threesomes you don't think 1.00

00:07:27.360 any man like in 20 years a man is going to turn that down or is going to turn that down every even

00:07:32.160 a good godly man no no he ain't a good godly man he doesn't godly man in his insta caption i'm

00:07:40.960 no but that's my point even a man that is godly like he's still a man yeah no i and so my my issue

00:07:47.520 is when we go after these men that all the woman want and then we're shocked when they cheat when it's 1.00

00:07:52.960 like okay well why don't you go lower he doesn't have to make that much money he doesn't have to be

00:07:57.200 that cute oh well i can't do that well no but you know what it is that's why that's why i think that's

00:08:03.120 i think it's so important for a girl to go through her single season because i feel like in that season

00:08:08.320 of just singleness and like reminding yourself you have to reprogram your mind of okay i don't i can't

00:08:13.760 go for these guys anymore and even if you know in yourself i don't want to go for these guys anymore

00:08:17.840 any guy that comes to you that's not like this guy that you've been going through like going for

00:08:21.920 since school it's like that ick to you it's like oh like he's a good man but do you really want that

00:08:27.040 good man like you know when girls say he's a good man you're like oh she don't really like him he's

00:08:30.480 just good because you know he's cheating whatever but it's like you have to literally reprogram your

00:08:34.480 mind and say these are my morals and i have to like stick with it for like a year so when that man comes

00:08:39.760 did this happen to you where you like switched your morals or like i feel like i'm still in the process

00:08:45.040 of it because like even some people talk to me now and it's like oh this is a good guy man like

00:08:50.000 you know he's not like the other one but it's like oh do you still do you actually want that

00:08:53.920 how old are you again 21 20 oh wow yeah how old did you think i was like 25. oh yeah i'm 31. oh okay

00:09:03.040 okay um so when did when did you switch this like thinking like you went to church or something no no

00:09:09.120 no i've been in church but i wasn't always that i wasn't always like with god per se but it wasn't this

00:09:17.440 is not to do with god this is to do with the people that i've been with and um i just realized

00:09:23.440 no like you you preferred the toxic ones like you liked them a little better i think i went for a little

00:09:28.800 like the stage like that yeah a little phase but i feel like it's a young people thing now if you met

00:09:34.480 a guy if you had to pick between the good guy that's in your inbox or this toxic guy you're thinking

00:09:39.600 of i can see it you're thinking you're thinking of someone i don't know who it is someone someone

00:09:45.920 got you which is okay every girl's had their heart broke it's like yeah do you know what it is so it's

00:09:50.880 like even if you want it you just have to tell yourself like stay away distraction but your but

00:09:54.640 your heart you you would still want the more toxic one i gotta reprogram my heart i can't lie

00:09:58.880 no but but if we're being honest if we're being honest like honest honest i'll go for it but in my

00:10:04.000 i'm protecting my heart still i'll still have my barriers up because i'm like he's not going to give you what

00:10:08.080 you want he's not going to give you love he's going to be doing all the things that you don't

00:10:11.520 want and ended you up in that situation after after like this relationship or whatever whatever

00:10:16.880 it was did you go to church was that like your outlet what is this thing i was going to church

00:10:23.440 regardless no but i mean is that you you seem to have had and you could correct me if i'm wrong

00:10:27.520 some spiritual like journey maybe where you were praying more or like i don't know what it was

00:10:33.040 yeah that that's quite a long story um to be honest but um yeah if funny enough after a

00:10:40.560 relationship i did get more like um spiritual and like started talking to god more and like started

00:10:47.120 like getting my it's not spiritual it's like a church it's christian it's um no i don't i don't

00:10:55.200 that's why i don't call my like i'm i'm christian like if i just need to say it easily but i don't say

00:11:00.400 just christian because i don't just say christian because i believe i'm just a woman of god like i

00:11:06.080 just because sometimes you can say christian and it's such a great area like everyone's christian if

00:11:11.280 you go to church if you listen to your pastor but i believe okay cool i'll look into my scripture and

00:11:16.480 actually have a connection with god but to go back so basically though you're trying you're trying to

00:11:21.440 now reprogram yourself to like the good guys um it's not reprogram myself it's not reprogram to be

00:11:27.920 honest i'm not my mind right now is not on men like my mind right now is focusing on myself which

00:11:33.280 and when that person comes i'll know because you're in a season of singleness yeah that sounds very

00:11:38.880 cringe i'm just repeating back what you said yeah i'm seeing like i just want to be single and focus

00:11:43.120 on myself right now but in the future you want the good guys in the future i want the man that's right

00:11:48.400 for me okay okay it sounded like you said good guys earlier you said you have to reprogram your brain

00:11:53.680 so i just to like not like the people that i was lacking before right yeah so i'd imagine this is

00:11:58.880 the good guys right yeah but not in the yeah good guys just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized

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JustPearlyThings - May 19, 2023

@JWALLER EXPOSES Her Hypocrisy

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