JustPearlyThings - @JWALLER Loses His Cool With This Modern Woman

00:00:00.000 out of curiosity what do you what do you think that men want me personally 0.99

00:00:05.380 i think men want an outlet an emotional outlet when they come home you know and when they've

00:00:16.640 had a shitty day and whatever i think they want an emotional outlet i think they want

00:00:21.280 someone that they can like it's it's difficult you need to burn that book burn that book on 0.94

00:00:27.800 your bedside i need you five things five things that i think that you think that no i'm gonna

00:00:38.280 have you do it and then i'm gonna have alex do it so i'm gonna pick two yeah so an emotional

00:00:44.040 outlet what else emotional outlet loving i think they want a mother you want a mother

00:00:53.200 i think they want

00:00:55.360 i do i will go as far and say say stability i think they do want stability i i know they do

00:01:08.680 silly things but i do deep down believe they want stability somewhere what's what's one skill

00:01:14.400 that a girl would have to have or like trait watching it for a man yeah for a man that 1.00

00:01:19.920 like what would he value don't say ironing do you know what today's is i'm just gonna say it

00:01:26.180 being be his mother be his mother that's what men want just get rid of this book listen 0.99

00:01:31.120 okay this is the most delusional shit i've ever heard in my life you are describing a child 1.00

00:01:37.360 i think she's describing a child i think there's also the undertone of disrespect to say to a man 0.99

00:01:44.940 that you're going to be his mother i think it's that where you see like the modern feminism that 1.00

00:01:49.120 ego come in yeah that like you you look at she's definitely because if you want to play the mother

00:01:52.960 then you must on some level look at him as your son right which is disrespectful to do you date

00:01:57.460 men that are children no but you just said they don't want to know but i think i think i think she's

00:02:05.040 dated italians i think i think that a lot of men do have some really deep rooted issues that stem

00:02:11.740 from the family environment and where they've grown up and who's been around and if they've had a father

00:02:16.920 figure if they've had a mother figure i think a lot of issues that they deal with in their present

00:02:21.280 modern day relationships does stem from that is that the type of men you've dated no i'm not saying

00:02:26.140 that but i'm just saying i'm asking you from seeing my girls and how i've seen other people's and other

00:02:31.100 people's relationships so what about the men you've dated so they don't have those issues

00:02:34.680 so i'm asking about you in my past yeah but that's something that i've recognized like my mom

00:02:42.580 um she's a lawyer and she deals a lot with like narcissistic relationships and stuff so i've

00:02:46.340 learned how to kind of navigate through that so why do you why do you think you attract those men

00:02:51.680 do you know what i'll tell you why i attract those men because i'm a fixer that's what type of person

00:02:58.660 i am i like to fix people and you've got that motherly you've got that motherly yorkshire accent as

00:03:03.740 well i'll be all right all right all right all right have a have a have a don't put something

00:03:08.060 like don't worry about it so so it's it's there's nothing of it's it's just that you're a fixer i

00:03:13.560 just think i'm a fix i naturally like to tend to people and tend to people's emotions and i like to

00:03:18.780 know that you're all all right and that's just naturally who i am if i can't fix you but if you

00:03:23.200 keep giving me problems i'll try and fix and fix and fix and fix and fix and fix and if i can't fix

00:03:29.400 can i have an example of a problem um let me think let me think i just you kept saying fix and

00:03:40.300 fix i thought there was like this would be easy well the first problem is coming home and crying 0.96

00:03:48.000 to you in the first fucking place what the hell are you gonna do about it right not crying like 0.98

00:03:52.680 that but i mean emotional outlet a man's job is to be the mountain that a woman's emotional waves 0.99

00:03:57.400 crash into if he needs you to be strong enough to go to work the next day you need to find a new

00:04:01.740 man or find a man in general but then that bleeds into toxic masculinity don't it does it 0.99

00:04:06.240 a man has emotions himself oh yeah okay yeah cool so how about he keeps them to himself and maybe 1.00

00:04:13.160 talks to his colleagues at work about fixing the problem not coming home like a little bitch to his 1.00

00:04:17.260 wife if he can't make her feel safe truly feel safe you think him coming home and telling you 0.99

00:04:22.220 about his problems at work is going to come to me and tell me safe and protected you're going to 0.99

00:04:26.560 feel safe and protected i see what he's supposed to be the fucking hero he's supposed to have charge 1.00

00:04:30.400 of the situation coming home and crying to you like a little bitch is going to do nothing but 1.00

00:04:33.600 dry your pussy up i'm telling you right now you're wrong crying not crying yeah crying so to his 1.00

00:04:38.680 mother i think a man has to be comfortable enough to be able to tell me if he's not comfortable 1.00

00:04:42.500 enjoy your cats i'm not saying no i'm not saying that you don't i'm not saying that you don't tell

00:04:47.380 me but i'm just saying that i want you to know that you can talk to me exactly but it's a double

00:04:53.220 it's like a double-edged sword because you also said that you're mothering him and that you keep

00:04:57.660 having to fix these problems so why would he bring the problems to you because you're the

00:05:03.240 man should never bring his problems no but i'm saying based on your that's what you said you said

00:05:07.140 you kept having to fix the problem and fix and fix and fix no i'm saying like within me like

00:05:12.380 if i can't feel like you don't have a problem and maybe that is the man i attract i don't know

00:05:16.660 but like i i that's who i naturally am i'm a fixer like if i can see a problem i'll just try and try

00:05:24.180 and chip away at it chip away until i get to the root of it and then it's sorted see i i personally

00:05:31.140 i interpret what you say with like such an undertone of disrespect because to fix someone you must think

00:05:35.680 that they are broken on some level and to to think of yourself as their mother you must think of them

00:05:40.340 as a son i i feel like i hear a lot of undertones of like i don't really rate this guy and he's kind

00:05:46.000 of my project when i look at him as like something that i kind of add new bits onto a garage workshop

00:05:51.540 and then i think women a lot a lot of the time use that as a defense mechanism because when they 1.00

00:05:55.140 break up they say oh he had all these issues you know he couldn't do anything he was always crying

00:05:59.620 xyz i think if you're going to support someone you have to respect them and if you respect them you

00:06:05.060 wouldn't you wouldn't say i think an old school woman wouldn't say oh i'm always fixing my

00:06:08.700 husband's issues yeah i mean he cries to me at night i'm definitely his like mother figure you

00:06:14.620 would never say that because you'd respect him as a man completely if you were such a high value man

00:06:18.220 then you wouldn't even have to have those problems to fix exactly everyone has problems everyone's

00:06:24.100 how they fix of course but then you saying that you can't come home and like if you came back to 1.00

00:06:29.060 your girl and saying oh babe this happened this happened you're automatically a bitch like 1.00

00:06:33.580 everybody has problems yeah but i was saying that based on what you said because you said that you 0.99

00:06:38.840 kept having to fix these problems that's what you said no that's what so so i'm saying based on that

00:06:44.440 why would a guy bring you his problems if you you you said yourself you don't like that you keep being a

00:06:49.720 fixer no i'm not saying that i don't like being a fixer i'm just saying that's who i naturally i'm like

00:06:57.180 that's the energy i vibrate is i'm just a fixer like but that's not even like in relationships

00:07:03.520 that's like every part of my life that's my friendship like if if i'm having an argument

00:07:08.940 with one of my girls and her kind of vibe is like okay i need to step back and shut myself out of

00:07:15.140 this i don't work like that i'm like come on bro we need to try this we need to fix this i'm gonna i'm

00:07:20.660 gonna give you some advice real quick and i hope you don't take this disrespectfully i think 0.98

00:07:24.440 you should burn whatever that book why men love bitches but burn that on a bonfire and read a book 1.00

00:07:30.640 about divine feminine etc because i think you have a naturally strong feminine energy but what's 0.99

00:07:35.540 going to happen is you're going to get used up you're going to go to the club and give all this

00:07:38.600 feminine energies to guys who go to the club every day and run through girls and after you finish 0.99

00:07:42.840 using that up you're going to convince yourself that men are trash men ain't shit and that you need 0.98

00:07:47.780 to change and you're going to adapt more and more toxic behaviors until at 28 none of no trace of 0.97

00:07:53.720 the woman the woman right here who says she's a fixer exists because you've been used up and 1.00

00:07:57.880 disrespected for about five six years so i would say work on your strengths and develop that feminine 0.95

00:08:02.500 energy for sure but like i would say don't put yourself in situations yeah but like a man a man

00:08:08.020 will never cry to you about his problems he's gonna go to someone else because like trust me i had so

00:08:13.340 many men's then that they were crying in my shower and i was like all right what i what am i doing now

00:08:17.680 real men don't cry in prostitute showers either 0.99

00:08:20.060 no seriously no they don't they fucking don't bro like they don't okay 0.99

00:08:27.240 you know them because like everyone comes from trauma everyone has trauma i've got trauma she has 0.99

00:08:37.240 trauma she has trauma she has trauma probably he has trauma and you have but a man but a man has a

00:08:42.600 responsibility i don't claim no i want to say i don't claim trauma i'm so sick of hearing about

00:08:46.880 this trauma i don't have trauma trauma supposed to be coming back from war that's what trauma is

00:08:52.340 supposed to be it's supposed to be i had a real traumatic situation not my ex-boyfriend cheated on 0.93

00:08:57.420 me not my parents weren't around enough and i have some attachment style that nobody gives a shit 0.86

00:09:04.400 about because nobody cares about your problems like it's just i'm so tired of hearing about this

00:09:08.900 trauma so how do you call it then because like people call it problems i mean problems but it's

00:09:14.120 not trauma like issues they used to they used to use the word trauma when men came back from war

00:09:19.140 yeah for pts and now women have claimed the word and use it for freaking everything do you agree with 0.78

00:09:26.780 that term mental health is that something no i think there are exceptions but i think in 2023 the

00:09:35.240 majority of people that claim mental health do not have mental health oh that i agree with today 1.00

00:09:40.080 in today's day and age a lot of people do claim it i think that everybody everybody's depressed

00:09:45.100 everybody's anxious everyone's this and i feel like it's just all on the internet they believe

00:09:49.540 everything they read it's like a trend if a lot of people if a lot of people turned off their phone

00:09:55.840 lived in the real world went outside spoke to people they would be a lot of happy

00:10:00.480 these girls are on tiktok and they fake dopamine and yeah and then they convince themselves that 1.00

00:10:07.420 they are depressed anxious and feminists yeah feminists too 1.00

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JustPearlyThings - May 19, 2023

@JWALLER Loses His Cool With This Modern Woman

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