JustPearlyThings - November 12, 2023


Leftover Women Get Reality Checked At Home Depot


Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

205.0977

Word count

2,414

Sentence count

238

Harmful content

Misogyny

30

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Toxicity

18

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Hate speech

9

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Summary

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In this episode of Just Hurley Things, I'm talking about how to deal with a guy who stole your shoes and how to get back at him. I also talk about how men at Home Depot are not interested in you and why you should not be either.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I am low, cannot find my shoes.
00:00:02.060 My Marjella Mary Jane Tabby's.
00:00:04.200 His profile is gone.
00:00:05.440 I'm like, oh, this stole my shoes.
00:00:07.520 He is actually deleting my number. 0.99
00:00:08.860 So I go and I make a TikTok and I expose that bitch for the thief that he is. 1.00
00:00:13.120 Find out he cheated on his girlfriend. 1.00
00:00:15.100 He gave the girlfriend my shoe. 0.98
00:00:16.500 He calls me and says, I didn't steal them.
00:00:18.520 I didn't take them.
00:00:19.120 I don't know what you're doing.
00:00:19.880 People are calling me and harassing me and telling me that I've done something I haven't done.
00:00:24.000 Can you please like go back to your apartment and like, look, like he's literally telling me to go look.
00:00:28.240 Later, I get the screenshot of his girlfriend wearing my shoes.
00:00:31.100 I send that to him. 0.97
00:00:33.060 What the hell? 0.98
00:00:34.580 Okay, this is a crazy story. 0.93
00:00:36.260 When and what time and I'll bring you your shoe.
00:00:37.960 I go pick up my shoes.
00:00:39.000 He is so smug.
00:00:40.060 He is literally like smiling and like giggling.
00:00:42.580 And I just go up to him. 1.00
00:00:43.500 I say, what the fuck is wrong with you? 1.00
00:00:44.780 Why would you do this? 1.00
00:00:45.840 And he's like, I don't know.
00:00:47.340 I thought I could get away with it.
00:00:48.620 Did you ever talk to him again?
00:00:50.420 Actually, he contacted me after I picked up the shoes.
00:00:53.180 He was telling me to take down the video.
00:00:54.920 He was like, I feel like.
00:00:56.180 He got it.
00:00:58.240 What?
00:00:58.940 What up, guys?
00:00:59.840 Welcome to the Just Hurley Things YouTube channel.
00:01:02.860 And welcome to my reaction series.
00:01:05.040 Before I start, don't forget to subscribe to the channel.
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00:01:11.240 Like the video on your way in.
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00:01:15.220 The link to these are in the description, guys.
00:01:16.880 They are so soft.
00:01:18.100 And literally the best material.
00:01:20.280 And you'll get women coming up to you left, right, and center to say how awesome you are.
00:01:24.620 Okay, so this video says men at Home Depot show women what dating over 50 is really like.
00:01:32.520 Logical reactions 101.
00:01:34.480 Finally, my first time getting hit on in Home Depot.
00:01:36.640 And he's not even attractive.
00:01:38.620 I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but I'm here all the time.
00:01:42.240 So for all you people who are like, go to Home Depot.
00:01:44.880 That's where all the men are. 0.56
00:01:46.060 No, they're not.
00:01:46.600 Well, I would probably say that one of your issues is that you're on TikTok
00:01:49.780 doing exactly what men don't want to be involved in.
00:01:53.200 Trashing them.
00:01:54.040 He wasn't even fine.
00:01:55.200 But you went to Home Depot to be approached.
00:01:58.140 And a man approached you.
00:01:59.560 That's number one.
00:02:00.520 Number two, you're not the center of the universe.
00:02:03.480 Everybody is doing their thing.
00:02:05.100 These men might be married.
00:02:06.500 They might have kids to get back home to.
00:02:08.400 Or they may not care about what you're doing.
00:02:10.840 They might just glance at you and say, oh, she's cute. 1.00
00:02:12.960 And continue walking on.
00:02:14.700 I'm not interested.
00:02:15.720 I'll say this because I know men won't get offended.
00:02:18.160 And they'll understand what I mean.
00:02:19.460 You can't condition a dog to do a certain trick and then get frustrated
00:02:23.500 when they do that certain trick to a tee.
00:02:26.480 What are you calling me, a dog?
00:02:28.000 The men get the analogy. 0.98
00:02:29.500 Modern women have taken it upon themselves to be absolutely obnoxious 1.00
00:02:33.300 out here in these dating streets.
00:02:35.020 And then wonder why a man is not interested, doesn't approach,
00:02:38.360 and in fact, will avoid you at all costs.
00:02:41.020 Thank yourself next time you look at this video.
00:02:43.400 Modern Women Logic. 1.00
00:02:44.800 What's the worst date you've ever been on?
00:02:46.460 I was walking around in Soho, and I crossed paths with this guy who's very cute.
00:02:50.460 I find out that we had matched on Tinder because he messages me.
00:02:53.520 So we go out for a drink.
00:02:54.520 We eventually hang out again.
00:02:56.040 So he comes over.
00:02:57.220 Everything's great.
00:02:57.980 We hook up.
00:02:58.720 And then the next morning, we're chatting.
00:03:00.800 Like, I go brush my teeth.
00:03:02.100 He even offers to show me a Spotify playlist.
00:03:04.720 So he's like, oh, can't find it.
00:03:06.460 I'm like, all right, whatever.
00:03:07.440 I have work.
00:03:08.620 I say goodbye.
00:03:09.760 I'm just chilling in my bed.
00:03:11.020 And then I look over to my shoe rack, and I see there's a space where shoes belong.
00:03:15.720 I look high and low, cannot find my shoes.
00:03:18.200 My Marjella Mary Jane Tabby's.
00:03:20.320 I go to the app.
00:03:21.540 Nowhere to be found.
00:03:22.360 His profile is gone.
00:03:23.640 I'm like, oh, this stole my shoes.
00:03:25.740 So I go then to my call log, because I know he called me when I buzzed him up.
00:03:29.760 Call deleted.
00:03:30.320 So when he is looking for a Spotify playlist, he is actually deleting my number.
00:03:34.400 So I go and I make a TikTok, and I expose that bit for the thief that he is.
00:03:38.660 Find out.
00:03:39.620 He cheated on his girlfriend.
00:03:40.620 He gave the girlfriend my shoe. 0.98
00:03:42.040 He calls me and says, I didn't steal them.
00:03:44.060 I didn't take them.
00:03:44.660 I don't know what you're doing.
00:03:45.420 People are calling me and harassing me and telling me that I've done something that I haven't done.
00:03:49.540 Can you please, like, go back to your apartment and, like, look?
00:03:52.400 Like, he's literally telling me to go look.
00:03:53.980 Later, I get the screenshot of his girlfriend wearing my shoes.
00:03:56.580 I send that to him.
00:03:57.300 No message.
00:03:57.800 Just that.
00:03:58.200 And he's like, all right, you got me.
00:04:00.400 He's like, just, um. 0.94
00:04:01.960 What the hell?
00:04:03.380 Okay, this is a crazy story. 0.88
00:04:05.120 When and what time, and I'll bring you your shoe.
00:04:06.840 I go pick up my shoes.
00:04:07.880 He is so smug.
00:04:08.920 He is literally, like, smiling and, like, giggling.
00:04:11.440 And I just go up to him. 0.99
00:04:12.360 I say, what the fuck is wrong with you? 1.00
00:04:13.620 Why would you do this? 1.00
00:04:14.660 And he's like, I don't know.
00:04:16.220 I thought I could get away with it.
00:04:17.500 Did you ever talk to him again?
00:04:19.320 Actually, he contacted me after I picked up the shoes.
00:04:21.880 What?
00:04:22.160 He was telling me to take down the video.
00:04:23.780 He was like, I feel like an.
00:04:28.200 He got it.
00:04:30.280 What?
00:04:30.980 Innocent person is getting hurt.
00:04:32.440 His ex-girlfriend.
00:04:33.620 You know the irony in this?
00:04:35.160 And I want to say that I am glad that she actually did make a TikTok to expose this guy.
00:04:40.980 Because we all know that you don't take things that don't belong to you.
00:04:45.080 But it's the thing that I've heard multiple times by modern women. 0.81
00:04:49.380 And that is, these men out here are moving sloppy.
00:04:52.800 You invite a woman back to your house and you don't even know her.
00:04:56.140 You know what?
00:04:56.900 I'm going to start stealing from these men.
00:04:59.500 And they'll get the picture not to let anyone in their home.
00:05:02.780 But when they do it, then it's a travesty.
00:05:05.360 And everybody should be.
00:05:06.380 Yeah, that's really true.
00:05:07.640 Like, how many women have gotten so much money out of guys? 1.00
00:05:10.920 No one cares.
00:05:12.040 But the Tinder swindler was huge.
00:05:14.740 Was literally huge.
00:05:15.840 Because he could get resources from women. 0.79
00:05:18.480 And I think you're going to keep seeing this phenomenon in society.
00:05:22.000 I think women are going to keep being overpaid for their work. 1.00
00:05:25.220 So I think that some men are just going to look at the market and say,
00:05:29.580 if I become really good looking, if I go to the gym a million hours a day,
00:05:33.240 I can just get a rich lady to pay for everything. 1.00
00:05:36.220 I think you're going to see this more and more.
00:05:38.440 To justice.
00:05:39.220 The thing that I wish the most is that that female intuition would have kicked in in this situation. 0.94
00:05:45.460 And then she could have avoided all of this.
00:05:48.040 Interesting.
00:05:48.480 So I have a legitimate question for all the women out there dating. 0.99
00:05:53.300 And dating in your 40s is like, don't really want to do it.
00:05:57.240 But would you dismiss a potential partner?
00:06:01.500 Because he doesn't check a lot of the boxes that you have.
00:06:06.240 Like, I mean, he's got a great job.
00:06:09.560 He is respectful.
00:06:11.180 He is kind.
00:06:12.640 He's a gentleman.
00:06:14.120 But, like, he doesn't have kids.
00:06:16.760 And that is, like, a big deal.
00:06:18.700 I've dated men that don't have kids.
00:06:20.700 And they don't understand.
00:06:21.880 And so I'd like to know.
00:06:25.980 I mean, how picky can you be at 40?
00:06:28.620 Am I crazy?
00:06:29.460 Like, how picky?
00:06:30.280 Would you give up this person?
00:06:34.100 Or would you give him a chance?
00:06:36.600 Let me know in the comments.
00:06:37.860 Can I ask you a quick question?
00:06:40.560 You don't know these women. 1.00
00:06:42.220 Why, instead of having a conversation with him and making sure he knows,
00:06:46.940 hey, I have children.
00:06:48.300 Are you cool with that?
00:06:49.580 And exploring the dynamic.
00:06:51.360 How come it makes sense to ask a total stranger?
00:06:54.160 What would they do in this situation?
00:06:56.040 I could see if you asked your neighbor or somebody in the community.
00:07:00.560 But you don't know these people.
00:07:02.100 They could be all the way across the world.
00:07:04.120 Totally different situation.
00:07:05.660 Totally different personality.
00:07:06.900 Totally different set of circumstances.
00:07:08.580 You'd be taking the advice and end up single and lonely.
00:07:12.360 Because if it's one thing that modern women like, 0.99
00:07:15.420 that single, strong, independent women like, 0.96
00:07:18.440 is keeping other women single and lonely. 0.98
00:07:21.800 Be careful out here in these streets.
00:07:23.340 Yo, I keep saying I want a husband.
00:07:25.520 And I really do want a husband.
00:07:27.160 But the main reason why I want a companion is because these bills,
00:07:32.500 these bills are annoying and I want some help.
00:07:35.100 Okay, I want to go 50-50, 60-40, 70-30.
00:07:37.640 I don't want to do 100% of any of these bills by myself no more.
00:07:42.640 Like, that's the real reason.
00:07:44.260 And I think that that's a really good reason.
00:07:46.240 Because I'm sure it's a next day that I want to go 60-60.
00:07:48.840 Yeah, I do think as the economy gets worse,
00:07:52.220 I do think you're going to see more couples get together.
00:07:55.640 Like, you saw a lot of people get together during COVID.
00:07:58.380 But, you know, I don't know if that's the number one reason
00:08:01.620 you should get with someone.
00:08:02.780 But, honestly, after a certain age,
00:08:05.180 I don't really think it's about feelings anymore.
00:08:07.780 Like, after a certain age,
00:08:09.420 I literally think a lot of people,
00:08:11.480 it's just going to be an economic decision.
00:08:13.300 Because, like, what's the alternative?
00:08:15.420 Living alone with a bunch of chicks 0.94
00:08:16.920 for figuring out how to get along with a guy.
00:08:19.400 Be 50-50, 70-32 with me.
00:08:22.360 You feel me?
00:08:22.800 I'm tired.
00:08:24.300 I'm just tired of doing it by myself.
00:08:28.260 Like, I'm sick and tired.
00:08:29.860 Like, I wish somebody would just say,
00:08:31.820 you know what, Jackie?
00:08:32.920 Today, don't worry about it.
00:08:34.580 I got this today.
00:08:35.920 I got this today.
00:08:37.300 And I got this today.
00:08:39.120 I'm tired of doing everything by myself.
00:08:41.920 I'm sick and tired.
00:08:42.900 I'm sick and tired.
00:08:43.640 God, I see what you've done to other people.
00:08:46.260 Please, please, please, please, please, please, please.
00:08:49.900 I'm patiently waiting,
00:08:51.180 but a girl can only wait for so long. 1.00
00:08:52.880 But this is the thing.
00:08:53.820 The church leaves chicks single, too,
00:08:55.720 because it pushes a lot of feminist stuff. 1.00
00:08:58.080 And it tells you that you should just sit
00:09:00.140 and wait for God to send you a husband
00:09:02.220 instead of going to become the thing that men desire.
00:09:05.420 They also, yeah.
00:09:06.300 So that's why you see a lot of, like,
00:09:07.940 older single women in churches. 0.96
00:09:12.120 The interesting thing about this
00:09:13.720 is that you have a lot of men
00:09:15.720 that actually see these strong,
00:09:18.080 independent women struggling. 0.53
00:09:19.880 And they say to themselves,
00:09:21.280 wow, it really looks like she needs help.
00:09:23.960 But unfortunately, in today's society,
00:09:25.960 because you don't want me to approach you
00:09:27.700 in the parking lot, the gas station,
00:09:30.160 church, the bar, work, the gym,
00:09:33.220 your home, the grocery store,
00:09:35.480 the post office, almost quite literally anywhere,
00:09:38.540 then you don't get approached.
00:09:40.140 It's gotten to the point in some situations
00:09:41.860 where if a woman is knocked out,
00:09:44.240 a man doesn't even go in there and help. 0.86
00:09:46.700 She could be unconscious
00:09:48.380 and the man still would be like,
00:09:50.800 hey, can somebody call the police? 1.00
00:09:53.160 As silly, stupid, and ludicrous as- 1.00
00:09:55.700 Well, we just watched a video 1.00
00:09:56.940 where a woman literally is suing a guy over CPR.
00:10:01.620 CPR, you can't make this up.
00:10:03.340 You can't.
00:10:04.160 Sounds, you might think,
00:10:06.000 as a man, she's knocked out.
00:10:08.240 Surely she'll want somebody to help.
00:10:09.960 She's unconscious.
00:10:11.080 It's better to get help
00:10:12.060 than to have a serious injury.
00:10:14.240 But modern women, strong, independent women,
00:10:17.040 have been taught by society,
00:10:19.020 regardless of what situation or state you're in,
00:10:22.140 you don't need a man's help.
00:10:24.360 You don't need anyone's help,
00:10:25.960 but specifically that of a guy.
00:10:28.700 And so if a man comes over and tries to help,
00:10:30.720 then he runs the risk of,
00:10:32.300 I didn't need you to protect me.
00:10:33.780 Get your hands off me. 1.00
00:10:34.800 What are you trying to do to me?
00:10:35.780 Are you trying to take advantage of me?
00:10:37.140 I'm taking you to the hospital, lady.
00:10:39.200 You see the ambulance right here?
00:10:40.640 Oh, he tried to do something to me.
00:10:42.480 He tried to take advantage of me.
00:10:44.480 It's then that men have that movie play in their mind
00:10:47.800 almost quite literally a hundred times in five minutes.
00:10:51.720 And they step back and say,
00:10:52.940 you know what?
00:10:53.660 Maybe I'll let some of these other women 1.00
00:10:55.200 around here handle it.
00:10:56.420 Maybe I'll see if another guy can handle it.
00:10:58.280 Maybe I'll step back and call 911.
00:11:00.180 It shouldn't be this way.
00:11:01.380 But unfortunately, like I said,
00:11:02.820 with the conditioning that society has put
00:11:05.280 in some of these women 0.88
00:11:06.220 and not only preached it,
00:11:08.060 but the women have taken hold of it 1.00
00:11:10.420 and adopted it,
00:11:11.600 then you get what you get.
00:11:12.920 And that's unfortunate.
00:11:13.980 But that's just my opinion.
00:11:15.260 Until the next video, I'm out.
00:11:17.140 Yeah, guys,
00:11:18.200 you're going to see a lot of societal changes
00:11:20.500 in the next 10 years.
00:11:21.960 And there was someone on the show last night
00:11:23.700 who even said,
00:11:24.360 what is it going to be like
00:11:25.220 after AI girlfriends come in? 0.80
00:11:27.380 AI robot girlfriends?
00:11:29.120 Like imagine these chicks can cook. 1.00
00:11:31.300 They do everything for the guy.
00:11:33.260 They like deliver him a meal, whatever.
00:11:35.500 Oh no, that's going to be an interesting world.
00:11:37.800 But let me know what you guys think in the comments.
00:11:39.620 Like the video on your way out.
00:11:40.920 Subscribe to the channel
00:11:41.760 and get yourself a women shouldn't vote t-shirt today. 1.00
00:11:44.760 I'll talk to you next time.