Lizzo Exposed this Fact About Modern Women
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about what it means to be a modern woman in the modern world and why modern women are so obsessed with beauty standards. We also talk about the importance of accountability and why women should be held accountable for the things they do.
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the one thing that i find that modern guys do which no what modern guys don't do which my man
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does regular is tell me the truth whether i like it or not thank you you can't do that in this game
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no no you can't no no you can't tell me the truth whether i like it or not 100 i agree and i think
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that you need to and sometimes i this is right i can't say that you don't care about my feelings
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but evil my man will tell me the truth whether i and it's not like i know how we fit what kind
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of truths everything anything everything listen right you look fat you look fat look at your face
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you know like you've got two bits of liver hanging down if you did that now he'll be he'll be in jail
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for emotional abuse he'll be on some blog so so auntie i i agree with you like i i think a lot of
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men are afraid to tell women the truth and i think more women would respect it if they did but at the
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same but at the same time um modern women i i think on some level like to be lied to and don't want the
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truth and they want to be sold a fairy tale because we've been told our whole lives we're
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queens princesses and tens i realized that because i heard everybody talking about this lizzo
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and i saw lizzo for the first time last this week yeah she's a big uh big she's a she's and i just
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thought to myself when i heard always talk about lizzo and i just thought wow is that is that is that her
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and i was just surprised that all the yeah but there are no but there are no standards for women
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right so lizzo can can kind of have a physique that is not as in line with what we generally consider
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fit healthy attractive and flaunt it in this like you know over over kind of zealous way
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but men will be scrutinized for like leonardo dicaprio will be scrutinized for dating like
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a 25 year old even though he's a grown man that's a grown woman yes i had no problem with
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her uh her size if she wants to be fat that's her business i hope she stays healthy i but
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me personally i'm skinny and i wouldn't wear what she's wearing but what but what i found out that
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totally shocked me is that she can play the flute she's talented and she is extremely talented
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but when i looked at this woman on there shaking her stuff and doing her thing
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yeah i didn't put the two together and i thought to myself why doesn't you lead with the fact that
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you can really play the flute really good rather than at the shaking your stuff and
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everybody's following her shaking and she's leading with that and she's leading the people away
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rather than how did she get to play the flute so good she must have studied it or whatever
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but she's not out there promoting that for the young people for the modern people to say
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do you know what i studied this i studied music this is what i'm doing she's promoting all the
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things what i would see as negative when she's got so much positive to give and that's i did i
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couldn't understand that why people are following her that way i would respect her more as she went
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out there and she like dressed professional as a proper it's not that's not that's not what the
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modern woman has been programmed to do no forget the programming it's just not cool can i say
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something like trying to like even she sleeps with sorry i'm gonna make this point she i've heard
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stories that like she will sleep with guys and then throw them out of a room as a power play
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like i've heard she's deeply insecure in the way she she handles herself and to me that sounds like
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you're trying to be a man in it you're trying to be like this alpha male who has his way but you're
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not a man you're you're female that's the only time i saw her was playing the flute i've never seen
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anything from her before except her playing the flute and i was impressive her playing the flute but
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i thought why are you playing the flute with a swing costume on uh juicy what are you gonna say
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oh did you have something i do i was just gonna say like i think that people like liza will do
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things like this because beauty standards especially for the woman reality yeah but no beauty standards
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like for or like what a woman wants to aspire to look like is actually based on the standards that
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men also you know set because men like bitches they've been liking bitches since like maybe like
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80s publicly publicly like through music through like even culture through some some of the things
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that are being shown to us right which means that now we got to a stage even like my friends whenever
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they meet a guy first thing they do is check who they're following because that shows you like
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really most a lot of men promote the bitch culture so i know that obviously modern women have to
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take accountability but i think it goes both ways and women like lizo are literally showing okay
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well i'm fat and i'm all of this but if this is the beauty standards that i'm not gonna let my body
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stop me i'm gonna be wearing this the same thing that every guy thinks it's not why is it the men
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promoting it no man's making a go out there she's trying to set those standards and stupid people are
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following her and then they're gonna turn around and say oh it's self-love obesity is self-love all
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of a sudden and that's what she's promoting but it's a man's no it's a man's fault it's release
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i don't think she's obese i think she's generally like just like wider frame no she's not wider
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frame unless she's a blast dinosaur i feel like she looks like someone like she can't no matter
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what she does she would still have like a very wide no she's a tone tone okay fair enough
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does she seem like she squats no she's she's trying come on she's potentially um she's potentially
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clinically obese but she you can be obese and healthy yes you can be a fit obese and you can
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also be a very unhealthy um skinny skinny person i got a hot take so she's probably she's probably
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metabolically she's metabolically fit because for her to play the flip like that with those
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lungs dance jump up and down despite the size despite the size but then if you take height and
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weight and do the calculation she's probably is it that ivy yeah i've got a hot take yeah but there
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has to be i just i just genuinely don't believe you can be big for that long i'm not i'm not going
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to pretend i'm a science through a nutrition like nothing but like i i genuinely don't believe you
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can be big for that long and not have health issues we can eventually must be putting a lot of
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strain on her heart eventually potentially yeah but she's better off than someone who's completely
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sedentary she's mobile she's mobile does that make sense but then now it's yeah but anyways oh
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sorry i remember what i wanted to say sorry the only thing i wanted to say is that why liza did not
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lead with um um the flute and everything because education is not valid these days as well guys
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that's hard just so you people know it's not cool to go to uni i am juicy j i am a host and
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presenter for and i cover afro beats events but nobody knows i did my master's nobody knows i
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did undergrad nobody knows i'm a stem student and now i'm a bsc and i'm actually a geek no one knows
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that no one cares for that no one asks that was a fun fact why didn't you say it you should have
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promoted because it's boring because it's boring who is it boring for yeah i didn't i ain't gonna
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and maybe that's the same thing liza was saying exactly modern people think it's boring i find that i find
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it really fascinating and that for me that's something you should lead with yeah that's true
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because liza liza does that way that's special that's special that is something that be careful
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makes you not everybody that is something that not everybody else you know exactly but at the same
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time as a black woman and you're now what you're educated double educated you're you know this that
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you want to be among you scare men away guys i want to get married
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no no no but that's what society no that's what society makes you believe men aren't scared by
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that unless you act like you're better than them because of it no but you're a woman no man no an
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average guy can beat you up no man is intimidated by you no not physically not physically but i have
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had people no people come to me and tell me they're intimidated
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and i look at them and i'm like excuse me they're not the ones for you no no of course you're not
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you can't be intimidated by me you have to see me and love my energy but what when women say this to
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you that what does that typically mean no it means like she's she's mad egotistical when they say what
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sorry like men are intimidated might be this and that and it's men judge you by your body language and
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like how feminine you are and so if if guys looking at you being like i'm intimidated because of like a
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a degree or something like that i've never met a guy who gave a flying fuck anything no one ever no
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one cares i think it's the type of people that say that always people who behave in a way that
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creates that image and then they say oh it's because i'm a woman because i'm this and that
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that's my experience no okay but i'm saying to you that i don't wake up like this okay i came here
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even just be myself not here as in here here to the uk in general even the way i speak because i speak
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with an italian mentality to say it's rude it's too strong it's too forward you know a lot of people
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don't cannot work with that you understand i'm not saying that i'm intimidating i'm saying i'm
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being told i'm intimidating i don't think i am then navigate it navigate it if you understand
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enough that it's like part of your italian habits habits from another language then surely you can
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just like you know self-evaluate and be like all right i'll adjust there's there's a lot of italians
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there who manage to not be seen as rude it's very difficult it's not it's not you see now it's
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adjusting yourself so i have to be myself have self-love instead at the same time adjust myself
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like this is why this society is going this is another fallacy right this is another fallacy
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i have to be myself i appreciate myself have self-care but at the same time i need to adjust
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myself i don't understand that's a fallacy to not scare somebody that's a fallacy now when you're
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saying about the italian i've got a ghanaian friend and she's italian yeah and she's the most
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calmest no no no and i don't understand about it don't make no difference i'm just talking about
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adjusting yourself as an italian yeah because italian is who you are the culture and all of
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the the fieriness is something that can be toned down so that's what i'm asking about what is it
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about your italian that they find intimidating sometimes it's also a regional regional people
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from like the south or from rome and stuff sometimes a bit different but it's just how
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the tone of voice comes out it's not really what i'm saying like if i if i speak i can speak
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normally to me a lot of italian people sound passionate when they talk yeah yeah and people
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will take that the wrong way as arrogant ignorant loud but i just think they're passionate i was just
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