JustPearlyThings - Lizzo Exposed this Fact About Modern Women

00:00:00.000 the one thing that i find that modern guys do which no what modern guys don't do which my man

00:00:08.040 does regular is tell me the truth whether i like it or not thank you you can't do that in this game

00:00:12.260 no no you can't no no you can't tell me the truth whether i like it or not 100 i agree and i think

00:00:18.080 that you need to and sometimes i this is right i can't say that you don't care about my feelings

00:00:23.220 but evil my man will tell me the truth whether i and it's not like i know how we fit what kind

00:00:29.320 of truths everything anything everything listen right you look fat you look fat look at your face

00:00:34.900 you know like you've got two bits of liver hanging down if you did that now he'll be he'll be in jail

00:00:39.080 for emotional abuse he'll be on some blog so so auntie i i agree with you like i i think a lot of

00:00:44.580 men are afraid to tell women the truth and i think more women would respect it if they did but at the 1.00

00:00:49.860 same but at the same time um modern women i i think on some level like to be lied to and don't want the 1.00

00:00:56.180 truth and they want to be sold a fairy tale because we've been told our whole lives we're

00:00:59.360 queens princesses and tens i realized that because i heard everybody talking about this lizzo

00:01:04.040 and i saw lizzo for the first time last this week yeah she's a big uh big she's a she's and i just

00:01:14.900 thought to myself when i heard always talk about lizzo and i just thought wow is that is that is that her

00:01:20.720 and i was just surprised that all the yeah but there are no but there are no standards for women 0.99

00:01:26.760 right so lizzo can can kind of have a physique that is not as in line with what we generally consider

00:01:35.540 fit healthy attractive and flaunt it in this like you know over over kind of zealous way

00:01:40.520 but men will be scrutinized for like leonardo dicaprio will be scrutinized for dating like

00:01:44.520 a 25 year old even though he's a grown man that's a grown woman yes i had no problem with

00:01:50.720 her uh her size if she wants to be fat that's her business i hope she stays healthy i but 1.00

00:01:57.480 me personally i'm skinny and i wouldn't wear what she's wearing but what but what i found out that

00:02:04.300 totally shocked me is that she can play the flute she's talented and she is extremely talented

00:02:14.960 but when i looked at this woman on there shaking her stuff and doing her thing 1.00

00:02:20.400 yeah i didn't put the two together and i thought to myself why doesn't you lead with the fact that

00:02:27.720 you can really play the flute really good rather than at the shaking your stuff and

00:02:35.220 everybody's following her shaking and she's leading with that and she's leading the people away 0.82

00:02:40.600 rather than how did she get to play the flute so good she must have studied it or whatever

00:02:46.280 but she's not out there promoting that for the young people for the modern people to say

00:02:50.120 do you know what i studied this i studied music this is what i'm doing she's promoting all the

00:02:55.420 things what i would see as negative when she's got so much positive to give and that's i did i

00:02:59.500 couldn't understand that why people are following her that way i would respect her more as she went

00:03:04.200 out there and she like dressed professional as a proper it's not that's not that's not what the 0.98

00:03:09.940 modern woman has been programmed to do no forget the programming it's just not cool can i say 1.00

00:03:14.120 something like trying to like even she sleeps with sorry i'm gonna make this point she i've heard

00:03:20.820 stories that like she will sleep with guys and then throw them out of a room as a power play 1.00

00:03:24.660 like i've heard she's deeply insecure in the way she she handles herself and to me that sounds like 0.69

00:03:30.340 you're trying to be a man in it you're trying to be like this alpha male who has his way but you're

00:03:34.780 not a man you're you're female that's the only time i saw her was playing the flute i've never seen

00:03:38.540 anything from her before except her playing the flute and i was impressive her playing the flute but

00:03:43.720 i thought why are you playing the flute with a swing costume on uh juicy what are you gonna say

00:03:50.080 oh did you have something i do i was just gonna say like i think that people like liza will do 0.98

00:03:58.380 things like this because beauty standards especially for the woman reality yeah but no beauty standards 0.98

00:04:04.580 like for or like what a woman wants to aspire to look like is actually based on the standards that

00:04:10.420 men also you know set because men like bitches they've been liking bitches since like maybe like 1.00

00:04:17.640 80s publicly publicly like through music through like even culture through some some of the things

00:04:24.300 that are being shown to us right which means that now we got to a stage even like my friends whenever

00:04:29.000 they meet a guy first thing they do is check who they're following because that shows you like

00:04:33.060 really most a lot of men promote the bitch culture so i know that obviously modern women have to 1.00

00:04:38.540 take accountability but i think it goes both ways and women like lizo are literally showing okay 0.99

00:04:43.380 well i'm fat and i'm all of this but if this is the beauty standards that i'm not gonna let my body

00:04:47.760 stop me i'm gonna be wearing this the same thing that every guy thinks it's not why is it the men

00:04:53.680 promoting it no man's making a go out there she's trying to set those standards and stupid people are 1.00

00:04:57.780 following her and then they're gonna turn around and say oh it's self-love obesity is self-love all

00:05:02.380 of a sudden and that's what she's promoting but it's a man's no it's a man's fault it's release

00:05:06.180 i don't think she's obese i think she's generally like just like wider frame no she's not wider 1.00

00:05:11.000 frame unless she's a blast dinosaur i feel like she looks like someone like she can't no matter 0.99

00:05:16.320 what she does she would still have like a very wide no she's a tone tone okay fair enough 0.99

00:05:20.480 does she seem like she squats no she's she's trying come on she's potentially um she's potentially

00:05:29.240 clinically obese but she you can be obese and healthy yes you can be a fit obese and you can

00:05:35.200 also be a very unhealthy um skinny skinny person i got a hot take so she's probably she's probably 1.00

00:05:40.680 metabolically she's metabolically fit because for her to play the flip like that with those 1.00

00:05:45.040 lungs dance jump up and down despite the size despite the size but then if you take height and

00:05:51.220 weight and do the calculation she's probably is it that ivy yeah i've got a hot take yeah but there 0.71

00:05:55.360 has to be i just i just genuinely don't believe you can be big for that long i'm not i'm not going

00:06:00.480 to pretend i'm a science through a nutrition like nothing but like i i genuinely don't believe you

00:06:05.020 can be big for that long and not have health issues we can eventually must be putting a lot of

00:06:09.040 strain on her heart eventually potentially yeah but she's better off than someone who's completely

00:06:14.920 sedentary she's mobile she's mobile does that make sense but then now it's yeah but anyways oh

00:06:21.500 sorry i remember what i wanted to say sorry the only thing i wanted to say is that why liza did not

00:06:26.480 lead with um um the flute and everything because education is not valid these days as well guys

00:06:32.180 that's hard just so you people know it's not cool to go to uni i am juicy j i am a host and

00:06:37.660 presenter for and i cover afro beats events but nobody knows i did my master's nobody knows i

00:06:42.000 did undergrad nobody knows i'm a stem student and now i'm a bsc and i'm actually a geek no one knows

00:06:46.920 that no one cares for that no one asks that was a fun fact why didn't you say it you should have

00:06:51.120 promoted because it's boring because it's boring who is it boring for yeah i didn't i ain't gonna

00:06:57.080 and maybe that's the same thing liza was saying exactly modern people think it's boring i find that i find

00:07:03.140 it really fascinating and that for me that's something you should lead with yeah that's true

00:07:07.320 because liza liza does that way that's special that's special that is something that be careful

00:07:11.360 makes you not everybody that is something that not everybody else you know exactly but at the same

00:07:16.560 time as a black woman and you're now what you're educated double educated you're you know this that

00:07:22.880 you want to be among you scare men away guys i want to get married

00:07:25.680 no no no but that's what society no that's what society makes you believe men aren't scared by

00:07:32.700 that unless you act like you're better than them because of it no but you're a woman no man no an

00:07:38.140 average guy can beat you up no man is intimidated by you no not physically not physically but i have

00:07:44.580 had people no people come to me and tell me they're intimidated

00:07:47.240 and i look at them and i'm like excuse me they're not the ones for you no no of course you're not

00:07:54.520 you can't be intimidated by me you have to see me and love my energy but what when women say this to 0.94

00:08:00.140 you that what does that typically mean no it means like she's she's mad egotistical when they say what 0.88

00:08:07.520 sorry like men are intimidated might be this and that and it's men judge you by your body language and

00:08:11.900 like how feminine you are and so if if guys looking at you being like i'm intimidated because of like a 0.98

00:08:16.600 a degree or something like that i've never met a guy who gave a flying fuck anything no one ever no 0.86

00:08:22.200 one cares i think it's the type of people that say that always people who behave in a way that

00:08:27.140 creates that image and then they say oh it's because i'm a woman because i'm this and that

00:08:29.820 that's my experience no okay but i'm saying to you that i don't wake up like this okay i came here

00:08:34.740 even just be myself not here as in here here to the uk in general even the way i speak because i speak

00:08:40.580 with an italian mentality to say it's rude it's too strong it's too forward you know a lot of people

00:08:46.380 don't cannot work with that you understand i'm not saying that i'm intimidating i'm saying i'm

00:08:52.060 being told i'm intimidating i don't think i am then navigate it navigate it if you understand

00:08:57.960 enough that it's like part of your italian habits habits from another language then surely you can

00:09:03.640 just like you know self-evaluate and be like all right i'll adjust there's there's a lot of italians 0.99

00:09:07.980 there who manage to not be seen as rude it's very difficult it's not it's not you see now it's

00:09:12.780 adjusting yourself so i have to be myself have self-love instead at the same time adjust myself

00:09:16.540 like this is why this society is going this is another fallacy right this is another fallacy

00:09:21.480 i have to be myself i appreciate myself have self-care but at the same time i need to adjust

00:09:24.880 myself i don't understand that's a fallacy to not scare somebody that's a fallacy now when you're

00:09:30.060 saying about the italian i've got a ghanaian friend and she's italian yeah and she's the most

00:09:34.520 calmest no no no and i don't understand about it don't make no difference i'm just talking about

00:09:41.120 adjusting yourself as an italian yeah because italian is who you are the culture and all of

00:09:47.680 the the fieriness is something that can be toned down so that's what i'm asking about what is it

00:09:53.040 about your italian that they find intimidating sometimes it's also a regional regional people

00:09:58.460 from like the south or from rome and stuff sometimes a bit different but it's just how

00:10:02.380 the tone of voice comes out it's not really what i'm saying like if i if i speak i can speak

00:10:07.040 normally to me a lot of italian people sound passionate when they talk yeah yeah and people

00:10:11.960 will take that the wrong way as arrogant ignorant loud but i just think they're passionate i was just

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JustPearlyThings - March 31, 2023

Lizzo Exposed this Fact About Modern Women

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