JustPearlyThings - Logical Woman Beautifully DEBUNKS The Wage Gap

00:00:00.000 do all of that are men forced to be feminine when they're single fathers um yeah because there's no 0.75

00:00:04.800 woman in the home not necessarily they can go from a female to a place that i feel like they 0.96

00:00:08.880 would have to tap into certain feminine roles i wouldn't say they have to be feminine but they 1.00

00:00:14.400 might have to um do something that they wouldn't have to do like for example if they have a like

00:00:19.200 for example i lived with my dad for a period of time my mom wasn't in the home he had to tell me

00:00:23.680 about which was very awkward monthly your period yeah to have that conversation with me whereas if

00:00:29.280 her woman was in the house right but does he start acting like a girl like is he like hi

00:00:34.960 no definitely how you doing he's definitely not be doing that but it's like i'm in my feminine

00:00:41.280 today but he had he had to step into a feminine role right but he was still very masculine right

00:00:46.480 but i feel like how can i but i think that's how guys hear it when we when we say we have to be

00:00:51.520 masculine yeah because there's no masculine because there's not a guy around or we have to do masculine

00:00:56.720 things i feel like for me when i had to was in masculine energy is when i was in a relationship

00:01:00.720 where the man wasn't leading so i wasn't able to be feminine he was allowing me to make this like i

00:01:07.040 don't i like making decisions but it was a thing of where i was making all of the decisions like oh it's

00:01:12.720 fine now you have the last saying it was that okay like oh you do this you do that i was in a masculine

00:01:18.640 energy because the man wasn't operating in the masculine energy yeah so i was basically like struggling and

00:01:24.000 fighting every single day for them well why are you picking feminine men do you know well i was 1.00

00:01:30.560 very young when i met him i was 18 so i didn't know about feminine masculine energy you're young

00:01:35.200 oh he looks good or he's nice and you just go with the flow so i didn't know that then it wasn't until

00:01:41.200 seven years have gone past wait okay so you didn't notice it for seven years i noticed it but i was like

00:01:46.960 ignoring it because i was like oh this is who i love i want to be with and you ignore when you're in love

00:01:51.520 you're blinded so for seven years you were masculine masculine yeah so how how did you stop

00:01:56.960 being masculine because i'd imagine like if you do something for seven years how do you just break

00:02:00.960 that habit to be honest with you i'm still in therapy i'm still healing and learning i haven't

00:02:06.240 stopped being masculine i'm learning how to not be masculine so i'm single at the moment because i've

00:02:11.040 had to learn that i basically stopped by not being that person anymore and realizing that oh my gosh i was

00:02:17.200 operating in masculine energy because they wasn't and it wasn't even their fault it's just something

00:02:21.120 that they couldn't do wasn't within them so now i'm in a learning process like okay i don't want to

00:02:26.800 be masculine anymore i want to be feminine i want to be soft but still i'm not a type of soft person

00:02:31.440 that just sit at home no i like to work i like to earn but i want to be able to be for a man to look

00:02:36.880 at me and be like this is a woman she's not trying to be strong oh like aggressive i don't want to be like 0.99

00:02:42.400 that but yeah so i'm still in the process of so for the single fathers what actually stops the guy

00:02:48.240 from getting a replacement woman what stops him what stops him getting a replacement woman

00:02:56.240 i mean maybe he doesn't like the modern women today a lack of wives 1.00

00:03:03.040 um common law marriage i mean the risks that come with marriage not wanting to bring a bunch of women 1.00

00:03:09.680 in and out of the home knowing they might leave and like knowing that's hard on a child yeah but

00:03:14.400 and even if he just finds a girlfriend to just facilitate the mother being there so he doesn't

00:03:18.960 have to be a full-on feminine single dad he might not want to be introducing women to his child because 0.99

00:03:25.920 it's not easy he might think oh if i introduce this woman how long is she going to be there for i mean

00:03:29.520 women i mean women leave 70 to 80 80 of the time in divorce like in marriages and so if it's a 0.97

00:03:36.000 girlfriend how long is she really going to be there i'm sure he can find a solution for that

00:03:46.480 i mean i think that's a feminine point of view because for us it's like there's always someone

00:03:51.120 yeah but for men it's not always i mean one in three men are sexless they've been

00:03:54.080 had sex in the past year or they're virgins under 30. and so it's not as simple as oh just find someone

00:03:59.680 i beg to differ it's very very very easy to actually find just a normal genuine female 1.00

00:04:06.000 that can actually facilitate her needs because we have i think it's extremely difficult to find

00:04:11.120 anybody in the world today like yeah when you say when you say like there's men that have gone

00:04:16.160 without being in a relationship for years i'm i'm one of those people like i've gone years without

00:04:20.640 seeing anyone because i'm not for seeing that particular with what i want in my life and then

00:04:26.080 in terms of like having someone around my child i don't believe i could even consider anyone being

00:04:31.760 around my child worthy enough to actually i don't want anybody around my child because i know my

00:04:36.960 partner would be upset about the fact that there's another man around his child so i don't think that

00:04:41.840 i find that very disrespectful unless your man has specifically said i'm happy with that so i couldn't

00:04:47.840 disrespect his principles there but if you really think about it from the beginning when you're actually

00:04:52.480 dating someone there's red flags and you've got green flags and it's very easy to actually suss out

00:04:56.800 the red flags that are there very easy people reveal themselves in many different ways and like i said

00:05:02.160 we have the feminists out there that's revealing that they want to be a feminist so it's now easy for 1.00

00:05:06.160 men to point out okay this is what the feminists display as i now know what i do not want it's very easy 1.00

00:05:13.120 i think women are very smart i can say not just women i say men like once you become entangled in

00:05:18.720 relationships like children marriage you that or living with somebody i think that's when you

00:05:23.840 really get to know someone like people change like people are pretending to be somebody whether it's

00:05:29.440 red or green flags whatever you want to say but once you generally get to know someone things change

00:05:34.240 people change one in four marriages are sexless and it's usually on the part of the women 1.00

00:05:38.960 how is a guy going to predict that one in four it's very easy for me well no one's a mastermind no one

00:05:46.000 can actually hide their true self throughout the whole time that's based to the decision that's

00:05:53.440 up to you if you want to some people get married and they'll buy a house together and like then the 0.57

00:05:58.480 woman or all man will want all of the house like they will lose everything and have to start all over 1.00

00:06:03.200 again then you've got broken men and women in society who are truly broken i've lost the children

00:06:07.520 and everything i know someone that got divorced and his ex-wife killed his dog how would he predict that

00:06:15.520 from the beginning she would have displayed some time i don't think people like you're saying from

00:06:21.920 the beginning but you can meet someone in the beginning and they're amazing and that was their

00:06:24.960 true self and then they've gone through a life experience whilst being with you and they change

00:06:29.120 people change people change monthly daily yearly we're better liars men or women women women definitely 0.83

00:06:35.280 women women definitely women men men are not very good liars i don't think i think you can always see it in

00:06:40.960 that i i think women maybe act better i'm not too sure women women act better but i don't know

00:06:48.160 definitely women i think we're better at hiding things definitely 1.00

00:06:54.640 um but seeing someone and living with them is two different things yeah you never know someone

00:06:59.280 until you live with them and how much are you going to change in 40 50 years a lot

00:07:03.920 yeah if you really want a long marriage i mean people change at times yeah um i agree with you

00:07:11.200 some guys do ignore red flags but i i just think when it's their kid that's at risk it's like a lot

00:07:17.920 of guys just would rather avoid that situation altogether um i think that's the most likely

00:07:22.960 person that is to abuse your child like sexually it's a step parent wow yeah that's actually crazy wow

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JustPearlyThings - May 17, 2023

Logical Woman Beautifully DEBUNKS The Wage Gap

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