JustPearlyThings - March 30, 2023


Man Breaks Down Why Men Simp

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

116.56

Word count

1,179

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

5

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

2

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Summary

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In this episode we talk about cheating, cheating on your ex, cheating in the friend zone and cheating in your ex's ex's friend zone. We also talk about how to get out of the "friend zone" and how to move on from your ex.

Transcript

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00:00:05.520 there's no mix it's usually one or the other you think so yeah i mean like i don't think most
00:00:12.640 most like stable guys also have that bad boy side to them and i think if you find one you
00:00:18.400 you you try to hold on to them yeah because you know what they pro those stable guys provide
00:00:22.960 peace and obviously peace doesn't mean continuous uh yeah but you're aroused by the drama
00:00:29.120 yeah yeah and i don't think girls this is a much more honest like panel because the girls like we 0.99
00:00:35.040 don't like to admit that like i meant what like okay like why do girls okay what girls like getting 0.99
00:00:42.560 cheated on on some level it's not it's not fun but like why is every girl obsessed with the ex that
00:00:48.640 cheated on her that's always the one she goes back to yeah and i feel like you should when you're going
00:00:54.000 into something new you shouldn't be talking about oh my god like my ex done this and that to me you
00:00:57.680 need to no one needs to know where you wasn't valued you need to be completely that's just
00:01:03.040 healthy and just really just listen this is what i expect that's it anything less regardless of my
00:01:09.120 feelings i need to i need to leave you need to put your feelings aside but then girls also go for guys 0.99
00:01:13.680 that they know are likely to cheat on them so there's the ex who cheated excitement and there's the new
00:01:18.720 guy he's just like you know this guy's probably gonna cheat on me but in your head like i can change
00:01:23.200 him i can make him a better man or maybe maybe he won't maybe he won't do it to me like i'm me
00:01:28.160 because you ask your like what value do you bring well at me well that's and that's the thing like
00:01:32.240 because women are kind of narcissistic because they they like like we think we can we're the one that's 1.00
00:01:37.360 going to change him but it's like there's only one there's only one there's a million there's a
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00:06:21.040 it's true though i mean go up to your guy friend and just be like listen like
00:06:30.400 i need something from you but i don't know like what we're gonna do if i put it on you right
00:06:34.480 now what are you gonna are you gonna tell me no i don't think so exactly he's bending you over
00:06:43.280 literally he's slamming cheeks asap have you guys ever had a guy make it out of the friend zone
00:06:50.160 um there's there's been i mean are they really in a friend zone if they're really in the friend
00:06:55.440 zone then i'll be like oh what are you doing but then if they're if it's like a half-hearted
00:07:00.560 friends it's like a will they won't they it's like you guys had a work husband before okay would you
00:07:06.800 what's that you don't know what a work husband yeah yeah yeah it's like it's like yeah it's like
00:07:10.880 the person you hang out with at work all the time it's like the opposite but you've never done
00:07:15.280 anything yeah like i think that's more i think that's more likely to happen than a friend zone
00:07:20.320 okay would you agree i feel like for girls there's three categories there's like absolutely
00:07:25.440 yes absolutely no and maybe yeah yeah like it was everything the absolute maybe would be um like
00:07:34.880 like like i like like the maybes are like oh he's kind of cute but i know why is that but yeah it's
00:07:41.040 like a but where the yes is like yeah that's what he's talking about where at some way at some point
00:07:46.640 he took a wrong turn and landed in the friend zone so it's like you were going in the right direction
00:07:50.640 when you've done something that didn't quite tick the box so you're a maybe yeah there's a chance
00:07:55.280 one day in under the right circumstances but for now you can chill there i've got or i've got better
00:08:00.800 options available right now yeah so i can put you the back burner interesting and guys will wait as
00:08:07.440 well so 100 it's crazy that goes away but i find that quite they're not waiting they're not waiting
00:08:13.840 they're doing their thing yeah it's just they may not opportunistic so it's like it's like cool if
00:08:18.960 if i got a girl i'm serious about like okay i want you and i know you're not going to give it up
00:08:23.680 to me easy i might still be doing the nice stuff breaking it down little by little i'm still breaking 0.95
00:08:28.320 it down i'm breaking it down just chipping away slowly but i'm still at it cock on shoulders like 0.94
00:08:33.200 you know what i'm saying you think men like that sorry do you think men like um moving from the friend
00:08:38.640 zone to something more i think that's one of those it's a proud moment is that more satisfying than
00:08:44.160 like hooking up with somebody you meet at the club yeah yeah yeah it's like it's like in sales
00:08:51.440 when you've got not the sales reference when you've got them deals that stretch for ages and you fight
00:08:55.600 you close the deal and you close it you're like oh my god i closed the deal it's gas you want to go
00:08:59.680 out on a friday night drink with the boys do you ever i hear some guys say that they'll get like
00:09:05.840 resentful in a way because they're like i waited all that time for that yeah because they built it up in
00:09:12.240 their heads yeah yeah because they want to keep grafting it never lives up to your expectations
00:09:16.800 that's why now i probably like the chase more than the outcome i agree with you i like the chase more
00:09:21.840 than the outcome interesting no like like you know when you're seeing someone like let's say work
00:09:27.520 husband hypothetically scenario it's like a will they like will we won't we that's more exciting than
00:09:34.000 like if we just date straight away and i know okay he's definitely attracted to me he definitely wants
00:09:38.880 to see me as a girlfriend then if it's like i don't know you know i was just banned on tick tock
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