Man BREAKS UP With Single Mother For This Reason
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Summary
Single motherhood is a huge issue in our society. Single motherhood leads to a lot of problems, especially when it comes to raising a child with a single parent. I talk about single motherhood and why it s a problem.
Transcript
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Men dating single mothers comes with a bunch of problems.
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As a sister, I would never want my brother to date a mother with a child.
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I really think that once you have a kid, you've kind of made your bed.
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If you get lucky and find a husband, that's great.
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Like, honestly, I really don't think you should make a child with a man and not marry him.
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And I think you should never leave if you have a kid with someone.
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But there is a single mother who recently was dumped because her child was so poorly behaved.
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There is a clip going viral on Instagram of a man dumping a chick for her son.
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Okay, so you're going to break up with me because of my son?
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So you're going to break up with me because of my child?
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That's a petty reason to break up with somebody.
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Okay, but that's not no reason to break up with nobody.
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So you're going to throw all these years down the drain?
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You know what the crazy thing about that clip is?
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The kid is actively disrespecting the stepdad, and she's not doing anything.
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But I bet if he disciplined the child, then World War III would break up.
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If single mothers want to be married, they have to give the stepdad authority to discipline
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It's already an unfair deal coming into a marriage with another man's kid.
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And it becomes even more unfair when now he doesn't even have the authority to discipline
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This is why a lot of men will pass on single mothers, because they don't want to be disrespected
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And at the end of the day, that child is not his.
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And now he's dealing with another man's mess, another man's problem.
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And maybe that's an insensitive way to talk about children, but I'm sorry.
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And this is just a whole headache that a lot of guys don't want to sign up for or sign
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up for without realizing what they're signing up for.
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And what percent of single mothers would give full authority to the stepfather to discipline
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their kid, would allow the stepfather to discipline their kid even when they disagree
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And this is why we keep going back to responsibility.
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The responsibility of having that child without the authority over it, it's not a fair deal
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It's the same thing with women having the responsibility of looking after a woman, but
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And so my question is, can we really blame the men for not wanting to date single mothers?
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Can we really blame the men for not wanting to date older women and all the problems that
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And I think we should really warn younger women that if you get pregnant, you've really
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made your bed and your chance of having a successful relationship after being a single
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mother is low because one, men aren't going to want to date you.
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And even if they do, it comes with these type of problems.
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That's a more honest message than the simping and pandering that I see today that, oh, men
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You could still get remarried and all this stuff.
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But you're really shooting yourself in the foot.
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And we need to stop putting single motherhood on a pedestal.
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We need to stop putting these women on a pedestal that we should praise them.
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When single mother homes contribute to every problem in society.
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Every problem that you can look at in society really is linked to single mother homes.
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So the question is, one, why do women automatically get custody?
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And two, why are we putting single motherhood on a pedestal like this is something that men
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should sign up for when it is clear that these are the issues?
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And it's clear because he's had a decade of living with a mother that does not allow the stepfather
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to discipline him and is not getting proper discipline at home.
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That's why, honestly, guys, I think it's quite weird when you see female bosses like yelling
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It's a weird dynamic to see like women having power over men.
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And I think it's an improper authority structure.
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I think I think it's actually meaner to tell women that the proper authority structures
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I think that's mean because as women, we damn near believe anything.
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You can really our minds are basically like kid minds and they can propagate us.
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They can just make us really believe damn near anything.
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So I think it's mean to tell women that we are equal to men because it messes up the authority
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And it has us live in this delusional world where we think we're equal to men when we are
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We do not bring equal value to the family and we do not bring equal value to the society.
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If we were able to do that, if we brought equal value, then we could go off on our own,
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If we brought equal value to society, then we would go off and make these matriarchal world
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powers with all of our brain power because we're such geniuses.
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Like they have just told us that we're queens for so long.
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They've told us, they've even brainwashed us in the church telling us, oh, we need to
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Anything that implies we're equal is evil and it is brainwashing and it is meant to break
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Maybe I'm just talking these conspiracy theories, just acting wild.
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Let me know in the comments what you guys think.
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