Man Claims That He's Masculinity Is Toxic
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about how to deal with a cheating cheater and how to handle a situation where a partner cheats on you. We also talk about our experience with cheating in our past relationships and how we dealt with it.
Transcript
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Or he has another Instagram that you don't know about.
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He might have bended to your rules for that curve,
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My last relationship and the most healthy I had, to a point.
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But do you need to have Instagram to make money out of it?
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You should all go through the proper cheating to understand something.
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for her to upload pictures on Instagram or anything.
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Maybe family, friends, if she lives abroad whatsoever.
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Family friends, she can send her mother on WhatsApp.
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And because she was like a bit famous for what she was doing
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So yeah, I didn't want all these people to just follow her and watch her.
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I'm saying toxic because it was like overruled.
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For example, you don't like something, let her go.
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If she really wants you, she will understand on her own.
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Because you said she was known internationally.
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It was a bit of promotion, but she wasn't like actively making money from Instagram itself.
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Can I ask how long the relationship lasted after this?
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Do you guys think that a man should be allowed to go to a strip club in a relationship?
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As long as he's okay with me, it's okay to go to a...
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But we don't have to do it back if we are now and we agree with this.
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Have you guys ever had a celebrity DM you or message you?
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I don't know if he's technically a celebrity, but he's well known in his field.
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Back in the days, I met someone that is actually really, really famous now.
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One, two, three, four, five, six, seven random women that...
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That's why guys don't want you to have Instagram.
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Because out of seven random chicks, more than half have been messaged by a celebrity.
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And so, when you're in a relationship, a guy can message you at any time and ruin it.
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But also, just on that, surely it's what you do in response.
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You, like, delete, block, don't get involved, right?
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Would you want your boyfriend to go to a party where every single girl wants to sleep with him?
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But it's not quite the same thing, because one is physical, they're in your face, and one is, like, an electronic device.
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He just wants to see the women that message him.
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Have any of you been messaged by a celebrity woman?
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They weren't famous at the time, and then they got famous, and then they messaged me.
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No, just like friendship, common friends, you know, people in the industry, and then someone
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gets famous, and they're like, oh, shit, you exist, hey.
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I had a relationship with a celebrity, but we've met, like, in person.
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Anyone want to give me the names who messaged you?
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Right now, I don't even know how to pronounce his name.
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You're very brave, you know, today, saying things straight, raw, straight.
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If you refuse to sleep with your husband, do we feel bad if you get cheated on?
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I mean, first of all, why would you refuse to sleep with your husband?
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Why did you have a sexual interaction in the first place?
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But so, I've talked to divorce attorneys about this.
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Like, what happens typically is the woman, they'll have two kids and then just stop sleeping
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I mean, like, because it's like, they'll sleep with him if he does chores.
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Now it belongs to me and I can do whatever I want.
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I think it comes, so, I've seen it happen in my surrounding, whether it was friends or
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family, they had a great foundation, great relationship, five kids, but two or three kids
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down the line, things started crumbling slightly.
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And it's not because someone cheated or maybe they did, but they worked around it and they
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And it was a decade solid example, multiple decades that I've seen solid.
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And it could have been from the woman's side, from the man's side, whether either side left.
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So my, my, my question is if the woman stops sleeping with the husband, can he cheat?
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In all honesty, that is a very weird situation.
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I think it's not from both sides to perspective.
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Everyone should be loving each other and giving to each other.
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What should a guy do if he, if his wife won't sleep with him?
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Have a conversation and say, Hey, what's going on?
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Because there's got to be something that's not quite right.
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If she's got five kids like this example over here, you know what I mean?
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But like, well, should he get tired and then just stop paying the bills?
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What I'm saying is when, when there's a, when, when there's a, like a, an issue, whether it's
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from the guy or the girl or whoever, whatever, they should work it out together.
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And if she's like, no, no, no, then he has like, he technically, yes.
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Cause he, if he still is desiring that he has a sexual drive and she doesn't, then why
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If so, if she can't provide it, then, you know, but, but I think they need to have a
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conversation before he just says, Oh, well, forget you.
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They'll usually have a conversation and she still just won't do it.
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Well, if she's like that, then he should be, that's what I said.
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But breakup before, like, I think, you know, if he gets to the point that you talk, talk,