Man Dates A Boss Babe And Gets CUCKED!!!
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the types of relationships we like to date, the type of jobs we're attracted to, and what we're looking for in a potential partner. We also discuss the benefits of dating a boss woman and why we don't want to date someone with multiple jobs.
Transcript
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so we're going to be talking about um what type of jobs you guys like to date
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so um if you i'm curious in your last relationship or your current relationship what does he do
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um so you can start here yeah you go first were you taken or single i can't remember
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all right i forgot to say i'm actually single right now um the last person i was speaking to
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um i think he had like multiple jobs i think one of them was like in like um you know there's like gym
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membership things i think he was in like a gym and then he also did football on the side but not like
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professional and then i think that was it i think okay so he worked in a gym yeah and then football
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as well okay yeah yeah go ahead what did he do oh um my current the current person works as a private
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banker okay and previously oh entertainment like artist okay so like a musician yeah okay
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so he's an entrepreneur but he runs a removal company but it's not like low level it's
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he's worked hard at it yeah he does really well okay um he's a rapper yeah he's a really good
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rapper actually amazing um what is your the person i'm kind of just met now she's a like a dance
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teacher um and a model as well okay but you know just to add out there like do you know what i wouldn't
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what i've realized later in life what i don't want is i don't want like a boss woman i'd rather just have
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like my woman which i mean not be doing all that stuff what made you what made you decide that have
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you dated a boss woman before yeah do you know what i just i just came to realization that i like
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i believe more in a traditional um relationship and you know speaking to my own mom my own family
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and they think the same thing and i think it's the best way to progress for me personally have you
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ever dated a girl that made more than you uh yeah when i was younger when you were younger yeah do
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you feel like she still was able to respect you in the relationship yeah definitely she was on me when
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when i was on the way up as well like when i was younger i was trying to pursue a career in uh basketball
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okay and she had like a good job in um she was like a lecturer and stuff so that she'd lend me a car to
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get to go to trials and like even amount of food and stuff she'd like bust me a card and that and um
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it does it makes you feel like demasculated and that so now i'm in a position where that's not the case and
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yeah i wouldn't want to go back it made you feel demasculated when she paid for things most
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definitely when i was young it would happen like once by the way when she passed me the card but
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okay yeah um what what did your either no you said you were single so your last boyfriend what
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did you do um i've dated but i've never like had a boyfriend um okay the last guy you were really
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into yeah um like for me it's it's more about if you make the same income with me with of of me
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or higher so it's not really about the job for me you can do anything if you're passionate about
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if you love it i don't mind but it's are you are we making are you right so what what did he do
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uh i haven't actually asked when i go on days i haven't asked it's like i go on days i get to
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know you how would you know if he makes the same or more you you know by like the way you act and um
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where we go and i think for me before jobs i think i want to know you can put that date on
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a credit card i feel like i want to know if you're like a family man what you but okay um i would
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say like business just normal business so um international business okay so like sales maybe
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type stuff yeah okay so you're dating the cannery wharf guys yeah yeah like the business center
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but but i was just there today i was like a lot of suits um okay um what did your last boyfriend
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so you dated a criminal yeah basically i love it yeah never again
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how did how did a criminal get in the like you seem like a level-headed woman like how did
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a criminal get in the door with you like i'd imagine back you know if i hear crime i'm like
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ah i don't i don't like the crim you know no crime for me you know back in the day like i just wasn't
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the person i am today like i was very like immature and just not as level-headed as i used to be i used
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to be very much like a just out there girl so that was the type of people i was attracting
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so that's that's the best way to describe it i was attracting where i was but i've never banged
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forward in my life i keep my credit card is the video ready yeah um okay so have you guys i've seen
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this video i have i've seen it no i actually haven't you know i've seen it found it really funny okay don't
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you know i'm gonna interview but you you about it last but everyone else okay god
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md phds we also are the fastest growing group of entrepreneurs along with latina women in america
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pew research said that women are now out earning men out earning men in 22 of the largest cities
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in america including where i live new york dc la you name it when we talk and i know that you've said
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that you cannot teach a man or tell a man how to be a man so i will not ask you to indict men in this
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question but i do want you to speak ayonla to how women need to uh i don't know position ourselves
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so that we can be in our divinity so we can have our crowns right how we can create and not build
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when some of us quite frankly feel that the men that are available to us and i'm talking about across
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the color spectrum across the age spectrum trust me i've done them all um they are not positioned
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to protect nor provide because of some of the statistics we just talked about they're not
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earning the incomes they're not having the resources and some of them are not even showing
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up in the leadership would you date a bus driver
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you would you date if he owns the bus if he owns it if he owns the bus that's no that's a problem
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that's a problem because the standards and requisites and i'm not talking about him laying on his sofa
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playing video games all day i'm not talking about that but the standards and the criteria that we use
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to measure men is off for who we are as women and who they are in this society i would date a bus driver
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if he was if he loved driving the bus if he was a man of integrity if he was good to his mama if he
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treated me well i would date a bus driver but we think that it's another human being's responsibility
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to give us what we need instead of us building together i can build with a bus driver i'd have my
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little stash over on the side in my prenup but i could build with a bus driver
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so i think some of the criteria that we look for in the reality of today keeps us unhappy keeps us
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angry keeps us in balance and then when the men show up we want to beat them up because they're not
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living up to our standards and criteria and and it's not working beloved it's just not working so it's not
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that it's bad or wrong it's obsolete it's obsolete we have to come up with a new way of being i don't
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believe in carrying a man a man has to do for himself my son got his first job when he was nine
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nine okay because you're a black man you will know how to take care of yourself but i think the way we
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measure it it's it's just obsolete i think that's a factual analysis whatever we want expect okay so
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my first question would you date a bus driver no no if you own the bus
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ah that's it's just so surface level to arcs that though isn't it no there's bus drivers that are
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trying to take women on like like you guys on dates and they want to know if you would you
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know you would date them how much do bus drivers earn um um there's probably like levels though isn't
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that like i mean i'm just gonna look it up bus driver's salary london uh 15 pounds an hour
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so like i mean that's like 18 us dollars 15 pounds an hour
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so yes no i'm gonna say no now but come back to me okay so no no i think i very much agree with
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with what she said like if you're passionate in what you do a lot of people earn way less
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than 15 pounds an hour you're you're grafting and at the end of the day you might be able to change
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that later on down the line so yeah if i get along with you well you're presenting yourself well you're
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treating me well 100 yeah as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized
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