JustPearlyThings - Man Dates A Boss Babe And Gets CUCKED!!!

00:00:00.000 so we're going to be talking about um what type of jobs you guys like to date

00:00:05.520 so um if you i'm curious in your last relationship or your current relationship what does he do

00:00:12.800 um so you can start here yeah you go first were you taken or single i can't remember

00:00:18.000 all right i forgot to say i'm actually single right now um the last person i was speaking to

00:00:22.400 um i think he had like multiple jobs i think one of them was like in like um you know there's like gym

00:00:32.560 membership things i think he was in like a gym and then he also did football on the side but not like

00:00:38.240 professional and then i think that was it i think okay so he worked in a gym yeah and then football

00:00:46.080 as well okay yeah yeah go ahead what did he do oh um my current the current person works as a private

00:00:55.520 banker okay and previously oh entertainment like artist okay so like a musician yeah okay

00:01:07.040 so he's an entrepreneur but he runs a removal company but it's not like low level it's

00:01:14.240 he's worked hard at it yeah he does really well okay um he's a rapper yeah he's a really good

00:01:23.040 rapper actually amazing um what is your the person i'm kind of just met now she's a like a dance

00:01:29.840 teacher um and a model as well okay but you know just to add out there like do you know what i wouldn't

00:01:35.200 what i've realized later in life what i don't want is i don't want like a boss woman i'd rather just have 0.99

00:01:39.840 like my woman which i mean not be doing all that stuff what made you what made you decide that have 0.84

00:01:47.040 you dated a boss woman before yeah do you know what i just i just came to realization that i like

00:01:52.640 i believe more in a traditional um relationship and you know speaking to my own mom my own family

00:01:58.880 and they think the same thing and i think it's the best way to progress for me personally have you

00:02:03.680 ever dated a girl that made more than you uh yeah when i was younger when you were younger yeah do

00:02:09.520 you feel like she still was able to respect you in the relationship yeah definitely she was on me when 0.97

00:02:13.760 when i was on the way up as well like when i was younger i was trying to pursue a career in uh basketball

00:02:17.600 okay and she had like a good job in um she was like a lecturer and stuff so that she'd lend me a car to 1.00

00:02:23.520 get to go to trials and like even amount of food and stuff she'd like bust me a card and that and um 1.00

00:02:28.320 it does it makes you feel like demasculated and that so now i'm in a position where that's not the case and

00:02:32.480 yeah i wouldn't want to go back it made you feel demasculated when she paid for things most 1.00

00:02:36.000 definitely when i was young it would happen like once by the way when she passed me the card but

00:02:40.800 okay yeah um what what did your either no you said you were single so your last boyfriend what

00:02:46.000 did you do um i've dated but i've never like had a boyfriend um okay the last guy you were really

00:02:51.600 into yeah um like for me it's it's more about if you make the same income with me with of of me

00:02:58.720 or higher so it's not really about the job for me you can do anything if you're passionate about

00:03:03.280 if you love it i don't mind but it's are you are we making are you right so what what did he do

00:03:09.600 uh i haven't actually asked when i go on days i haven't asked it's like i go on days i get to

00:03:13.520 know you how would you know if he makes the same or more you you know by like the way you act and um

00:03:20.320 where we go and i think for me before jobs i think i want to know you can put that date on

00:03:25.200 a credit card i feel like i want to know if you're like a family man what you but okay um i would

00:03:29.840 say like business just normal business so um international business okay so like sales maybe

00:03:35.680 type stuff yeah okay so you're dating the cannery wharf guys yeah yeah like the business center

00:03:41.840 but but i was just there today i was like a lot of suits um okay um what did your last boyfriend

00:03:50.800 do oh the last guy i was dating banked fraud

00:03:58.800 no shade with it

00:04:02.960 so you dated a criminal yeah basically i love it yeah never again

00:04:07.280 how did how did a criminal get in the like you seem like a level-headed woman like how did 1.00

00:04:13.120 a criminal get in the door with you like i'd imagine back you know if i hear crime i'm like

00:04:18.320 ah i don't i don't like the crim you know no crime for me you know back in the day like i just wasn't

00:04:23.280 the person i am today like i was very like immature and just not as level-headed as i used to be i used

00:04:28.880 to be very much like a just out there girl so that was the type of people i was attracting

00:04:33.280 so that's that's the best way to describe it i was attracting where i was but i've never banged

00:04:36.800 forward in my life i keep my credit card is the video ready yeah um okay so have you guys i've seen

00:04:47.440 this video i have i've seen it no i actually haven't you know i've seen it found it really funny okay don't

00:04:53.280 you know i'm gonna interview but you you about it last but everyone else okay god

00:04:57.680 md phds we also are the fastest growing group of entrepreneurs along with latina women in america

00:05:09.840 pew research said that women are now out earning men out earning men in 22 of the largest cities

00:05:16.800 in america including where i live new york dc la you name it when we talk and i know that you've said

00:05:23.680 that you cannot teach a man or tell a man how to be a man so i will not ask you to indict men in this

00:05:28.880 question but i do want you to speak ayonla to how women need to uh i don't know position ourselves 1.00

00:05:39.920 so that we can be in our divinity so we can have our crowns right how we can create and not build

00:05:46.640 when some of us quite frankly feel that the men that are available to us and i'm talking about across

00:05:52.320 the color spectrum across the age spectrum trust me i've done them all um they are not positioned

00:05:58.400 to protect nor provide because of some of the statistics we just talked about they're not

00:06:02.720 earning the incomes they're not having the resources and some of them are not even showing

00:06:07.040 up in the leadership would you date a bus driver

00:06:13.360 you would you date if he owns the bus if he owns it if he owns the bus that's no that's a problem

00:06:20.320 that's a problem because the standards and requisites and i'm not talking about him laying on his sofa

00:06:26.400 playing video games all day i'm not talking about that but the standards and the criteria that we use

00:06:34.080 to measure men is off for who we are as women and who they are in this society i would date a bus driver

00:06:42.080 if he was if he loved driving the bus if he was a man of integrity if he was good to his mama if he

00:06:49.840 treated me well i would date a bus driver but we think that it's another human being's responsibility

00:06:58.320 to give us what we need instead of us building together i can build with a bus driver i'd have my

00:07:04.160 little stash over on the side in my prenup but i could build with a bus driver

00:07:09.680 so i think some of the criteria that we look for in the reality of today keeps us unhappy keeps us

00:07:18.720 angry keeps us in balance and then when the men show up we want to beat them up because they're not

00:07:24.880 living up to our standards and criteria and and it's not working beloved it's just not working so it's not

00:07:33.200 that it's bad or wrong it's obsolete it's obsolete we have to come up with a new way of being i don't

00:07:40.320 believe in carrying a man a man has to do for himself my son got his first job when he was nine 0.99

00:07:47.680 nine okay because you're a black man you will know how to take care of yourself but i think the way we

00:07:54.320 measure it it's it's just obsolete i think that's a factual analysis whatever we want expect okay so

00:08:05.760 my first question would you date a bus driver no no if you own the bus

00:08:13.040 what she said no i'm joking um

00:08:20.080 ah that's it's just so surface level to arcs that though isn't it no there's bus drivers that are

00:08:25.600 trying to take women on like like you guys on dates and they want to know if you would you

00:08:29.840 know you would date them how much do bus drivers earn um um there's probably like levels though isn't

00:08:39.920 that like i mean i'm just gonna look it up bus driver's salary london uh 15 pounds an hour

00:08:47.840 so like i mean that's like 18 us dollars 15 pounds an hour

00:08:51.120 so yes no i'm gonna say no now but come back to me okay so no no i think i very much agree with

00:09:04.960 with what she said like if you're passionate in what you do a lot of people earn way less

00:09:10.000 than 15 pounds an hour you're you're grafting and at the end of the day you might be able to change

00:09:16.720 that later on down the line so yeah if i get along with you well you're presenting yourself well you're

00:09:21.040 treating me well 100 yeah as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized

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JustPearlyThings - May 21, 2023

Man Dates A Boss Babe And Gets CUCKED!!!

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