JustPearlyThings - April 04, 2023


Man Explains Why Men Age Like Wine


Episode Stats

Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

217.13757

Word Count

1,724

Sentence Count

160

Misogynist Sentences

12

Hate Speech Sentences

9


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Who wants to compete for the same men that was fighting one in 15 years ago?
00:00:04.380 No, I'm the same kind, type of guy.
00:00:06.640 You're competing for the same 20% of guy, even though you think it's a new guy.
00:00:10.180 Guys, guys, let me help you speak.
00:00:11.520 Because, okay, I'm 25, right?
00:00:13.420 I could date a guy up to 45.
00:00:14.780 I'd be fine with it.
00:00:15.960 And so, like, even now, we're competing for the same guy.
00:00:20.060 And so that's what he's saying.
00:00:21.660 Yeah.
00:00:22.040 So you've got the advantage.
00:00:23.060 You're 25, I get it.
00:00:24.440 And just to clarify, I wasn't saying that, like, you know, women are less valuable with age.
00:00:28.700 It's just that, obviously, it becomes a bit harder for women because of age in the dating market.
00:00:33.100 Because, obviously, there are certain trends, right?
00:00:35.360 Men tend to prefer younger women.
00:00:37.260 There are certain elements of being younger that are advantageous in dating, like vitality and having a certain mindset that men can find refreshing at times.
00:00:43.520 It gets harder for women.
00:00:44.460 I think we all understand that, right?
00:00:45.920 But for men, you know, the older you get, the better you learn to engage with women.
00:00:51.040 You're better, you know, you don't say the goofy stuff you used to say when you were, like, 20.
00:00:54.360 No, the younger women are more susceptible to your bullshit.
00:00:57.620 I was going to say, I think, as you get older, you tend to not really, you can't do the bullshit.
00:01:02.940 And you can see it coming, like, straight at you.
00:01:05.220 Right, but this is where you go back to.
00:01:07.360 It's the same prize, lower value, higher price.
00:01:11.340 Yeah.
00:01:11.580 And that's the biggest complaint I hear from men with older women.
00:01:14.880 I'll tell you a story, actually.
00:01:16.200 This happened to me a few weeks ago.
00:01:18.760 There's two, but I'll tell you this one first.
00:01:20.140 So there was this girl I met in a club.
00:01:22.180 She was great.
00:01:22.680 She was in a similar scene as me.
00:01:24.600 And she looked very good this night.
00:01:26.160 I'm very direct with my interests.
00:01:27.540 I was like, damn, yeah, you're looking good, whatever, talking all that crap.
00:01:32.060 We're having a chat on the side.
00:01:33.560 And she's, you know, acting a little coy.
00:01:35.220 And she's like, I don't date in this scene.
00:01:38.620 I was like, all right, all right.
00:01:39.960 So, like, so, you know, you're kind of a dinner date kind of girl.
00:01:44.260 Cool, cool, cool.
00:01:45.620 I found out that girl's been with almost all of my boys, right?
00:01:49.180 So, so for me, for me, she, you know, she, she kind of.
00:01:52.980 You didn't continue?
00:01:54.060 You didn't take it?
00:01:54.540 Oh, no.
00:01:55.180 I did her, I did her Instagram.
00:01:56.480 I got her number.
00:01:57.000 I never spoke to her again.
00:01:58.260 And now she looks at me like I'm some kind of alien every time she sees me.
00:02:00.940 It's like, but that's, that's the kind of story of how it works sometimes.
00:02:04.420 Did it make you improve?
00:02:06.060 Absolutely.
00:02:06.660 Because you knew that you was at disadvantage when she told you that, right?
00:02:10.360 Yes.
00:02:10.820 I knew that there was something I didn't understand.
00:02:14.020 And then when, when, when my boys told me like, yeah, like she's, she's been with that
00:02:17.440 better, these man.
00:02:18.260 I was like, oh, okay.
00:02:19.240 I get it.
00:02:19.880 You just believed what your friends said.
00:02:21.880 Why would they lie?
00:02:23.000 Why wouldn't they lie?
00:02:25.100 Do you not think it's the same the other way around though?
00:02:27.560 Yeah.
00:02:27.800 So like if, if I meet a guy and I know that he's slept with everyone in this community,
00:02:32.260 all of my friends, like, do you really think I'm still going to be interested?
00:02:35.900 Most women are still attracted to him.
00:02:37.960 I mean, look at Drake.
00:02:38.760 Women are stealing his condoms.
00:02:40.520 That's because he's famous and people have this ludicrous kind of imagery of celebrities.
00:02:45.600 That's true.
00:02:46.520 That's true.
00:02:47.200 But in, in general, women pick men that other women want because it's a sign, it's a sign
00:02:53.200 of preselection.
00:02:53.740 Even other people's men.
00:02:54.480 And the reason, and I can give you an example.
00:02:56.400 Women say men are trash all the time and they lie and they cheat.
00:02:59.300 Well, who are they lying and cheating with?
00:03:01.680 I think that comes down to like going back to the age thing as well though.
00:03:05.660 Because maybe when you're younger, you think about that.
00:03:08.160 But when you get past a certain point, you're kind of looking for more stability and somebody
00:03:12.700 you can trust.
00:03:13.680 So I think that really changes.
00:03:14.900 Yeah.
00:03:15.000 Because, but that's, that's what happens though.
00:03:16.520 Women below the age of like 27 tend to date the bad boys, but, and then, and then they
00:03:21.500 get ran through by the bad boys and then ask for a nice guy to pick up the pieces.
00:03:24.620 Like why, why should I have to deal with your, your issues after you've just, you had the
00:03:29.680 chance when you was 21, the chance when you was 22, 23, 23, no, I want to go club.
00:03:33.400 I want to do this.
00:03:34.060 I want to go, please babes.
00:03:35.740 I want to wire for you.
00:03:36.420 No, no, no, no.
00:03:37.240 I ain't got time for you.
00:03:38.320 Do you know what?
00:03:38.860 On the count of three, everyone shout out their body count.
00:03:41.620 Five.
00:03:42.720 But do you get my point?
00:03:44.560 Do you get my point?
00:03:46.260 If, if it's, no, no, you're not ashamed of it because it's five.
00:03:48.960 If it was 55, you'd stay quiet.
00:03:52.200 Yeah.
00:03:52.820 No, you would stay quiet.
00:03:54.260 If I was 55, it wouldn't have, it wouldn't necessarily me staying quiet because we know
00:03:59.760 what the, um, what it's like, like it's not, it's not a bad thing necessarily for me to
00:04:04.920 be sleeping around.
00:04:05.760 Can I just say something that I've, um, myself, obviously I've had long-term relationships,
00:04:10.520 so I'm fine.
00:04:11.440 But what I will say is for the younger generation, it's very difficult to have a low
00:04:18.880 body count now because, and it's, it's because the older women, not even, you lot lie to
00:04:24.820 the younger women.
00:04:25.660 Why are you lying?
00:04:26.240 No, because you lot want them to be just like them.
00:04:27.860 Can I just say something?
00:04:28.800 Can I just, let me just say something.
00:04:30.420 Yeah, you got time.
00:04:31.600 Like you're saying dating and we're saying connections and we're giving out all this.
00:04:36.240 There's so many people, the social media has ruined dating.
00:04:40.300 It's like, there's so much variety.
00:04:42.600 There's so much what you should be expecting, what you shouldn't be expecting.
00:04:46.420 So it's so fickle.
00:04:48.240 Dating is so fickle now.
00:04:50.320 How, how are young girls expected to keep their body count down when there's, there's
00:04:56.800 no relationships now?
00:04:58.020 Like it's not like back in the day where you had a long-term like relationship, mostly
00:05:02.700 our age were the last of the long-term relationships.
00:05:06.040 I'm not going to lie.
00:05:06.740 Well, men have definitely dropped their standards for what they used to accept.
00:05:10.400 A girl used to be a hoe.
00:05:11.300 She slept with more than two people.
00:05:12.800 Now a guy prays for five.
00:05:14.120 Listen, and I've seen, I've seen guys, I've seen a lot of husband got wifed.
00:05:22.460 That's true.
00:05:23.440 But they're also the first divorced because I always say a woman sleeping around, it hurts
00:05:27.940 herself more than anyone else because it impacts her ability to pair bond.
00:05:31.320 And so women have a hard time staying when they've slept with too many people statistically
00:05:35.960 because yeah, because women that have slept with more than five men, their, their chance
00:05:41.200 of a happy marriage drops from at one 80% after 10 years, they're going to be in a happy marriage
00:05:45.640 to 30% after five partners, after 10 years.
00:05:49.360 So I can't sleep with any more guys or else I'm going to drop in a percentage.
00:05:53.440 That is, that's a nightmare.
00:05:54.620 Like what?
00:05:55.000 So I need to find my husband.
00:05:55.960 I'm celebrating.
00:05:57.480 It's more, it's more.
00:05:58.680 No more sex.
00:06:01.480 But that's what I'm saying is like there's reasons behind it.
00:06:05.660 Do you think, do you think that's going to work?
00:06:08.460 No more sex?
00:06:09.460 Yeah.
00:06:09.680 Do you like, that's what I mean when I say you making him wait and you making him wait.
00:06:13.560 And the guy just had it like that.
00:06:15.420 It's like now I'm, I'm on my, I'm on my.
00:06:17.960 No, I'm just going to have to go back to someone I've had sex with.
00:06:21.120 Yeah.
00:06:21.480 That's what I said.
00:06:21.940 That's what I asked you.
00:06:22.560 You should have married your partner.
00:06:24.500 Ooh.
00:06:25.080 Come on, man.
00:06:25.820 I explained that to you.
00:06:27.100 I know you explained it to me, but that's why at first I said you should have married
00:06:30.200 your partner.
00:06:30.640 Yeah, you did say that.
00:06:30.960 If you married your partner in year one, you would have divorced when your problems happened,
00:06:35.360 but you would have been married.
00:06:37.260 What's that?
00:06:37.840 That's just.
00:06:38.300 No, a man.
00:06:39.960 Listen, I grew up.
00:06:41.260 Yeah.
00:06:41.460 I grew up.
00:06:42.540 Let me, let me give you this.
00:06:43.560 I don't know if it's my cousin's fault.
00:06:44.820 I blame her.
00:06:45.960 I was a Protestant in Scotland.
00:06:47.540 It's Protestant Catholics.
00:06:48.780 My cousin was a Catholic.
00:06:50.380 I was a Protestant.
00:06:51.340 She got to make a communion and I didn't.
00:06:54.480 She religiously, I stayed at her house most days when my mom was working.
00:06:59.480 She used to dress me in a trouser suit and she dressed up in her communion dress and made
00:07:04.980 us play weddings, like in the living in front of everyone.
00:07:07.500 And it really daunted me that she always made me be the guy.
00:07:09.660 Like, it hurt me a lot.
00:07:11.840 So I just was like, I hate weddings.
00:07:14.420 I don't know if it's instilled.
00:07:15.820 I haven't ever had the wish to be married.
00:07:18.900 I don't dream of the white dress.
00:07:20.760 I don't dream of the commitment that is for the government to say you're married.
00:07:24.180 Like, I dream of real love.
00:07:26.780 Like, that's all I've ever done.
00:07:28.100 But marriage is a business.
00:07:30.420 It is a business.
00:07:31.220 You're right.
00:07:31.880 And when I left, I realized that I failed in that business transaction.
00:07:35.480 Yeah?
00:07:36.160 Because he held most of the money.
00:07:38.940 See, there you go.
00:07:39.640 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on
00:07:46.740 this platform.
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