Man Explains Why Men Age Like Wine
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the age difference between men and women in the dating world and why women are more attracted to younger men. We also discuss why women tend to cheat at a younger age and how to deal with it.
Transcript
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Who wants to compete for the same men that was fighting one in 15 years ago?
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You're competing for the same 20% of guy, even though you think it's a new guy.
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And so, like, even now, we're competing for the same guy.
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And just to clarify, I wasn't saying that, like, you know, women are less valuable with age.
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It's just that, obviously, it becomes a bit harder for women because of age in the dating market.
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Because, obviously, there are certain trends, right?
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There are certain elements of being younger that are advantageous in dating, like vitality and having a certain mindset that men can find refreshing at times.
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But for men, you know, the older you get, the better you learn to engage with women.
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You're better, you know, you don't say the goofy stuff you used to say when you were, like, 20.
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No, the younger women are more susceptible to your bullshit.
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I was going to say, I think, as you get older, you tend to not really, you can't do the bullshit.
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And you can see it coming, like, straight at you.
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It's the same prize, lower value, higher price.
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And that's the biggest complaint I hear from men with older women.
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I was like, damn, yeah, you're looking good, whatever, talking all that crap.
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So, like, so, you know, you're kind of a dinner date kind of girl.
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I found out that girl's been with almost all of my boys, right?
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So, so for me, for me, she, you know, she, she kind of.
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And now she looks at me like I'm some kind of alien every time she sees me.
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It's like, but that's, that's the kind of story of how it works sometimes.
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Because you knew that you was at disadvantage when she told you that, right?
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I knew that there was something I didn't understand.
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And then when, when, when my boys told me like, yeah, like she's, she's been with that
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Do you not think it's the same the other way around though?
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So like if, if I meet a guy and I know that he's slept with everyone in this community,
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all of my friends, like, do you really think I'm still going to be interested?
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That's because he's famous and people have this ludicrous kind of imagery of celebrities.
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But in, in general, women pick men that other women want because it's a sign, it's a sign
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Women say men are trash all the time and they lie and they cheat.
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I think that comes down to like going back to the age thing as well though.
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Because maybe when you're younger, you think about that.
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But when you get past a certain point, you're kind of looking for more stability and somebody
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Because, but that's, that's what happens though.
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Women below the age of like 27 tend to date the bad boys, but, and then, and then they
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get ran through by the bad boys and then ask for a nice guy to pick up the pieces.
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Like why, why should I have to deal with your, your issues after you've just, you had the
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chance when you was 21, the chance when you was 22, 23, 23, no, I want to go club.
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On the count of three, everyone shout out their body count.
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If, if it's, no, no, you're not ashamed of it because it's five.
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If I was 55, it wouldn't have, it wouldn't necessarily me staying quiet because we know
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what the, um, what it's like, like it's not, it's not a bad thing necessarily for me to
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Can I just say something that I've, um, myself, obviously I've had long-term relationships,
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But what I will say is for the younger generation, it's very difficult to have a low
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body count now because, and it's, it's because the older women, not even, you lot lie to
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No, because you lot want them to be just like them.
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Like you're saying dating and we're saying connections and we're giving out all this.
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There's so many people, the social media has ruined dating.
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There's so much what you should be expecting, what you shouldn't be expecting.
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How, how are young girls expected to keep their body count down when there's, there's
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Like it's not like back in the day where you had a long-term like relationship, mostly
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our age were the last of the long-term relationships.
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Well, men have definitely dropped their standards for what they used to accept.
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Listen, and I've seen, I've seen guys, I've seen a lot of husband got wifed.
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But they're also the first divorced because I always say a woman sleeping around, it hurts
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herself more than anyone else because it impacts her ability to pair bond.
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And so women have a hard time staying when they've slept with too many people statistically
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because yeah, because women that have slept with more than five men, their, their chance
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of a happy marriage drops from at one 80% after 10 years, they're going to be in a happy marriage
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So I can't sleep with any more guys or else I'm going to drop in a percentage.
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But that's what I'm saying is like there's reasons behind it.
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Do you think, do you think that's going to work?
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Do you like, that's what I mean when I say you making him wait and you making him wait.
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No, I'm just going to have to go back to someone I've had sex with.
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I know you explained it to me, but that's why at first I said you should have married
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If you married your partner in year one, you would have divorced when your problems happened,
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She religiously, I stayed at her house most days when my mom was working.
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She used to dress me in a trouser suit and she dressed up in her communion dress and made
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us play weddings, like in the living in front of everyone.
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And it really daunted me that she always made me be the guy.
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I don't dream of the commitment that is for the government to say you're married.
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And when I left, I realized that I failed in that business transaction.
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