JustPearlyThings - April 07, 2023


Man EXPOSES How To run Game On Club Girls


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In this episode Sam and Sam talk about how to get a wife, how to find a wife and what to look for in a woman and how to attract a wife. They also talk about the ridiculous standards men and women have set for women and what it takes to be a good wife.

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00:00:00.000 I think there's a lot of delusional men too as much as um this is probably the only bit I'll
00:00:04.440 stick out for me so I might as well get out of the way now um I've seen men in just just going 0.93
00:00:10.580 out nightclubs and such I've seen men get upset when they can't get the baddest girl in the club
00:00:16.020 and I'm looking at them thinking like what do you what are you what what's what are you like
00:00:19.880 are you an average looking dude for starters do you have swag do you have money and you're upset
00:00:24.280 that you can't get the baddest girl in the club like it's like yeah there's a lot of delusional
00:00:29.620 men too I can't just throw it all on women I've seen many things in my life like I'm just looking
00:00:33.480 at dude like you're not gonna get that short I got a question for you Sam so you mentioned earlier
00:00:38.100 you like to bring up to um to women you know just look in the mirror right yeah yeah well I'm not
00:00:43.720 sure about down south but where I'm from up north most of the women and I'm sure anyone from the 1.00
00:00:49.120 north would agree with me I rat it right and um if you even start to bring up accountability they
00:00:55.800 will fly off the handle and it will not end well for you know like even if you put your foot down
00:01:00.940 they'll throw a pan at your head you know what I mean so they're crazy so what what would be your
00:01:06.540 advice for the you asked me how to draw women because I can give you the crazy I can give you 0.95
00:01:10.440 the quick strategy boy I I know how to well I gotta show you now I can give you the I can give any guy
00:01:16.560 that's watching how to get a girl in a nightclub anyway if you want to know that like okay this is the
00:01:21.580 most simplest method that's worked for me when I was single by the way so I got multiple examples 0.82
00:01:28.220 I do me and my friends do this shit all the time right so you see a girl that you're attracted to
00:01:32.800 at the bar right I walk up there's a there's a long queue I use my structure I use my stance I use my 0.98
00:01:39.360 size I'm not gonna lie I walk right to the front they'll be like you got what you guys drinking
00:01:43.160 they'll tell you want to drink I said cool no worries don't say another word right
00:01:46.100 go to the bar ordered my drink ordered them a drink give it to them and walk off 0.99
00:01:53.300 and I I promise you yeah the amount of times them same girls think what the fuck you didn't ask me 1.00
00:02:00.420 for my number you didn't ask for my snapchat what the hell I literally go cool walk off here 0.98
00:02:05.300 they find you that same night boy because you're you're you you're making them think you're adding
00:02:11.060 you're adding some sort of like doubt in the world why did not speak to me why didn't you ask for my
00:02:14.700 number like just walk off and then obviously there's there's gotta be something about you
00:02:18.700 though I don't want to tell like some any dude you can just do this and it's gonna be successful 0.60
00:02:22.440 like you have to have something about you like me and my friends we're very shit we go out all over
00:02:27.040 the UK we're simple we get a table VIP that's it because as we know American culture UK culture
00:02:33.420 they appreciate women appreciate that but it depends what your goal you're trying to find a
00:02:37.640 wifey that's one thing you're trying to have fun that night that's another thing but I think when men 0.98
00:02:42.020 give it all out on the table there and then women are not interested because they know that what they 1.00
00:02:45.360 can get from there and it's like even even the one guy in the reaction video he said like just don't
00:02:49.960 touch her and yeah we're about to say the last two videos in that uh that video the tiktok videos
00:02:56.360 was guys basically ignoring them and the ladies were like I've never been more attracted in my life 0.91
00:03:02.200 so uh it's just you always want what you can't have that's why what what are the most ridiculous
00:03:08.580 standards that you've heard men and women say men and women yeah so so give me like it doesn't have
00:03:15.260 to be that high maybe you haven't heard one that's that high for one or the other but for a man to
00:03:19.980 like wife a girl and for a girl to wife to marry a guy what are like the highest standards you've heard
00:03:24.600 a girl and a guy say um well uh one of them has got to be a single mother talking to me and saying
00:03:31.680 like oh I want this I want this I want this out of a guy like what did she say specifically um you
00:03:36.980 know just having money having a car uh having his own house and you know accommodate yeah how old was
00:03:43.200 she she was like my age 19 she wanted to do with a house yeah yeah so um and maybe she wasn't on about 1.00
00:03:49.920 right now but regardless no matter the age it's it's very rarely gonna happen unless if you're
00:03:55.620 gonna find a simp okay right and we all know how that's gonna end now what about the most picky guy
00:04:01.040 you know uh the most picky guy um I don't really think I know that many people okay okay fair enough
00:04:10.720 go ahead I'll start off with the guys I know some guys that are very picky and uh they don't have
00:04:16.600 the qualities to be that picky so I've heard guys like 30 plus talking about my girl can't have more
00:04:23.480 than three bodies my girl can't have more than four bodies and I'm like I mean first of all what are
00:04:28.480 you offering you still live at your mom's crib like have you got your own paper like have you got
00:04:32.500 your own crib no so how are you asking a girl you're trying to find a girl that's only got three
00:04:36.080 bodies what does that mean how many people they've heard sex with yeah uh for women I mean I've seen 0.91
00:04:42.720 some bang average looking women talk about I want a guy that's got six figures I want a guy that's 1.00
00:04:47.940 got his own crib and they're like if my guy's still living at his mom's house at 22 20 I don't want
00:04:52.520 and I'm looking and thinking right okay what do you have to offer I think I'm very blessed that I
00:04:59.040 surround myself with wonderful people and I'll be very honest from a personal level I have I see
00:05:04.720 many beautiful examples of relationships that work really really well men and women so for me I it
00:05:12.460 would just be quoting things on the internet to be honest so you've never heard anyone in real life
00:05:16.360 have a surprise because I have high standards of people that I surround myself with so that's why
00:05:21.760 so no answer okay pretty much the usual like six figure and all that stuff but the craziest one I
00:05:27.160 had was the the 200k engagement ring oh from that just oh I forgot that oh yeah oh my lord she
00:05:34.380 literally wants a house on her finger I can't imagine that's just the engagement ring that's 0.99
00:05:38.980 not even the wedding no I'm cheap you see so I just couldn't imagine even if I had the money I would
00:05:44.220 never spend 200k on an engagement ring and I was actually thinking about that today this morning like
00:05:48.740 girl is advertising so she wants a man who can afford that but then doesn't she respect him like 1.00
00:05:54.840 she doesn't connect you could tour Europe and see all of Europe India like you could go all around 0.99
00:06:01.140 the world for 200k you're gonna spend that on a ring yeah and a smart a smart guy who has made that
00:06:05.980 money by himself is not gonna spend that money at all on a ring that is the that is the worst
00:06:11.540 investment as a businessman you could make it's just not worth it so she gains his respect by
00:06:16.060 building this wealth and then she loses it like he loses the respect by making such a bad investment
00:06:21.500 oh what if she lost the ring oh my god oh my god I don't even like wearing expensive jewelry
00:06:30.840 can we talk about in London I genuinely had to tell one of my friends from Hong Kong who has a
00:06:36.400 big ish ring for UK standards which is not big for US but big for UK and I actually told her to
00:06:45.100 please can you swing your ring around because you are going to get your finger chopped off
00:06:49.600 yeah you don't know it's it's like why are you she was traveling why are you wearing this
00:06:54.920 wear it at home but I was I personally think that people are like they just think they they're doing
00:07:00.920 it for their ego so they want to look flashy they want to look amazing right usually these people are
00:07:05.300 broke by the way because they spend it they spend it all on stuff that they then wear rather than put
00:07:09.340 it in their wealth and then they and then they they cry when they get mugs they get robbed like
00:07:16.000 well you're the one who's literally advertising yourself unfortunately in a certain way and
00:07:22.220 girls don't like hearing that you if you dress a certain way you're gonna attract a certain type 1.00
00:07:27.380 of attention the same breath say uh I can protect myself and I don't need a man that's the problem
00:07:32.600 because if you get if you're a female you get robbed do the first person you're gonna call 0.96
00:07:35.820 is a man that is one of the most ridiculous statements I've ever heard I don't need no man
00:07:40.120 because like whether you have men personally in your life or not you're gonna depend on a man at 0.98
00:07:45.960 some point if your boiler breaks down if uh even if your tires go flat maybe not tires flat maybe they
00:07:51.740 can do that but um you know just like proper grafting stuff so hard labor stuff they're gonna depend 0.89
00:07:57.240 on a man right so like it's kind of just a lie is that the day is that a red flag do you guys when
00:08:04.160 you're talking to girls if they say like I'm strong and independent that sort of thing a hundred percent
00:08:08.840 I don't even want to be associated with that kind of delusion yeah like that no yeah now you can say
00:08:15.180 that because the infrastructure everything's but like you can just reap now and men are just
00:08:18.960 expendable commodities they could just isn't it isn't it crazy how men built the world for us 0.99
00:08:25.540 and then we shit on them as a thank you that's what I'm saying it is crazy I think I I find it 0.97
00:08:30.280 incredibly incredibly incredibly sad incredibly sad because we're supposed to be coming together 0.99
00:08:36.260 as as as people who who should love each other and and spread joy rather than literally it's hate
00:08:43.200 hate and anger all the time and I see all these people and I'm just like why do you like all this
00:08:49.800 drama by the way why do you want to come home your man's tired and then you're gonna I don't know
00:08:56.100 yell at them because oh I'm tired and he put his foot up on the table you know something really
00:09:02.340 silly and why can't you just have an adult conversation and respect the fact that hey he's
00:09:08.000 tired too and yes okay we maybe there are things that he's ironing out but why don't we have an adult 0.99
00:09:13.060 conversation why do you have to raise your voice and be disrespectful to each other yeah um did you
00:09:17.920 did you guys see that video it was a tiktok video and it went pretty viral of this uh military wife
00:09:23.860 and um she were bitching her husband trying to uh get him to do the laundry and this is while he was 0.76
00:09:30.840 like off for like I don't know I don't know how it works in the US but it's like they're off for two
00:09:35.800 two weeks on for a certain period of time but it was off and um she was like complaining about him
00:09:43.660 doing the laundry while you know when he's on duty he's risking his life even in training you know
00:09:50.820 because training deaths happen a lot so like it's just mad to me that that's even like
00:09:56.400 a thing wait so she filmed it oh yeah yeah no I saw that yeah you know what I'm talking about
00:10:02.280 and then they ended up getting divorced didn't they did they I thought they did I hope you're right
00:10:07.700 that guy deserves so much better yeah can I just point out what the problem is it's not even the
00:10:13.500 fact that she did it it's the fact that it's even public um men deserve men deserve it's a
00:10:19.960 problem no no no no I'm not saying that that's not even the worst bit is what I'm saying the fact
00:10:24.920 that she made it public yeah she's literally publicly humiliating this poor man I'm sorry if
00:10:29.920 you have a problem be an adult talk to each other as adults you trying to air your dirty laundry
00:10:36.020 literally to other people so if you girls do this all the time I see it and it's I hate it 0.99
00:10:40.960 they they will they will go to their friends they hang out together and then all of a sudden
00:10:45.040 they're gonna say oh my god what's the problem with the man they're like can't they just like
00:10:48.900 put like their trousers like can't they just put it in the basket I even got a really nice basket
00:10:53.520 it's like there I put it in the spot where he drops it and and he just wouldn't do it I don't get
00:10:58.020 it like what's wrong with him and I'm just like why are you doing this to him um so questions go
00:11:04.120 around what are your personal standards yeah so what would you expect from a woman and what would 1.00
00:11:10.180 you guys expect from a man like minimum requirements to date them well I'd say right 0.98
00:11:14.420 now I can't expect much um but I'm you know in the process as I said I'm young and uh I do plan on
00:11:22.460 you know making six figures eventually I got the six foot down on lock and I think I'm pretty cute
00:11:27.420 so eventually I'll have the standards set in place but right now I'm focused on on my career but I do
00:11:32.960 have you know anticipations for my standards such as um you know submission like um and
00:11:40.660 just peace of mind someone who can offer me peace of mind you know someone that's not always in my
00:11:46.480 you did this wrong I don't want that you know like if I'm if I'm willing to provide right um and be the
00:11:54.020 breadwinner then um if she wants to work fine but obviously the the common thing is that prefer she 1.00
00:12:03.720 stays home yes but if she does want to work right everyone says you need a you need the masculine 0.99
00:12:11.600 trait to work right um especially in a career so but like when she gets home she drops that 1.00
00:12:19.220 masculinity at the door because I'm not I'm not competing in my own household I got to compete
00:12:24.620 with other men out in the world they look at me six foot tattoos beard and then they just like assume
00:12:30.200 I'm top dog and then competition time I don't know if that's more of a you thing so like because I'm a
00:12:36.540 you but uh yeah it's certainly what I'm experiencing right now so I definitely do not want to have that
00:12:43.040 in the household that I'm paying for yeah tell them tell them king yeah let's go you go yeah I agree
00:12:51.200 I think for me my woman must offer peace man because I know how much I work I know how when I come home
00:12:57.820 I want her that my household to be my my safe space to be you know peaceful and relaxed and also
00:13:04.000 I think the most number one thing is she's got to be she's got to be feminine she has to be able to 1.00
00:13:10.200 submit um she has to be family orientated because I don't have kids yet but that's that's the main 0.98
00:13:15.580 goal I want to have kids I want her to be a family-based person um preach yeah is that how
00:13:22.060 your girl is now yeah yeah yeah yeah she's like that one's the wedding smile we're working on it
00:13:29.740 so don't put me under pressure so um I do want in my terms I do want a a man who respects me
00:13:40.020 I want a masculine man so exactly what you guys are saying a man who has great achievements he has
00:13:48.600 a path he's ready to work on himself to make himself better and he also respects me and someone
00:13:55.680 that I will feel proud of and I would want to nurture give him the love and support as you said
00:14:01.660 as a woman and be his his number one fan I want to be his home I want to be the person that he can come
00:14:08.020 to me where everyone else he'll be a bit on guard and he will feel comfortable to just drop it a
00:14:14.540 little bit because I am his home so what what does he have to have because you're kind of describing
00:14:19.220 what you want to be for him but the question was like what what does he have to be in order to get
00:14:23.840 that so for me it's rather than the do you have a height requirement no no he can be short at five
00:14:30.640 foot I dated a man that was shorter than me before for two years okay I'm not I will say this
00:14:36.480 I'm not very normal but for me I have learned the value of the true value of a person isn't their
00:14:44.980 exterior it's it's their insides it's their personalities it's whether they fit me so for
00:14:49.920 example one of the things because I did a personality test of Jordan Peterson's okay and one of the things
00:14:55.180 he looks at is agreeableness and one of my criterias I want for my man is I want him to be less agreeable
00:15:02.280 than me why because I am quite agreeable and I'm always worrying that maybe I might step on someone's
00:15:10.440 toes but someone who's less agreeable is not going to be as easily uh you know like offended so I like
00:15:16.880 that I don't have to feel you know like can I tell you are you going to get offended so for example that's
00:15:23.000 something I want so okay this is like kind of broad so I just I want to be a little bit more specific
00:15:28.360 so you want someone disagreeable what else so what some more disagreeable does he have to have an
00:15:33.540 respectful income income requirement I would like him to be um from a skill set knowledge income level
00:15:41.800 equal to me okay which is roughly well I um I earn around three thousand a month so maybe something
00:15:48.720 like that okay um is there anything else so you want roughly like at your income or more would you
00:15:55.280 ever submit to a guy that makes less than you yes because it's not about the now people are changing
00:16:02.860 no no he's staying at that it's not build a man so he's no no no it's not I'm not saying that I'm
00:16:08.640 trying to build him but this is the thing like just because a man may not be as good now doesn't
00:16:13.320 mean he isn't later it's about it's about realizing no but I'm saying like a lot of times like girls we
00:16:18.560 we try to build a man like we go to build a bear but but guys like like typically no no no but I'm
00:16:25.340 saying I'm saying like when you said it's not about the now it's about the later that's implying that
00:16:29.700 you're you would want him to his income to increase but I'm saying like most guys kind of are where
00:16:35.160 they're at especially like you said you're 34 so if a guy's 35 like 35 like I'd imagine you want
00:16:42.420 roughly your age or older so so maybe for me that's the thing like so for me I honestly
00:16:50.280 all I'm gonna say is I've realized that the physical shell of things
00:16:55.380 they're not as important as peace and the the person that's inside does that come of age though
00:17:03.400 did you realize that 100% this is and this is the thing like this is something I've learned
00:17:08.620 this is something that I internalized I had to go I was single for I've been single still single
00:17:14.520 for a long time because guess what I needed to work on myself like if I'm broken and I'm not in
00:17:19.640 the right frame of mind I'm gonna end up damaging another person I don't want that if I'm not ready
00:17:24.480 then I'm gonna work on myself and to be honest like yes I'll be it's difficult to give you a figure
00:17:31.080 but the people with the six figures who are getting all these girls and driving lambos I don't want them 1.00
00:17:36.520 either is is monogamy a requirement for you for me yes okay do you feel like that's a fair deal
00:17:42.800 for a guy um because he's not getting you for your best years that depends on what the man wants
00:17:50.420 so I'm saying like long term like I'm and this is going for like me too none of us are virgins anymore
00:17:56.200 so I think like men value purity and youth right and they're not getting that anymore so do you think
00:18:02.100 it's a fair deal for men when they're not getting that to be monogamous to us to comprise them
00:18:06.420 their mating strategy when we don't fulfill theirs because we're not virgins anymore 0.87
00:18:09.940 because I feel like when you talk about something and saying that that's the only reason you have
00:18:15.860 value I think that's wrong it's not it's not it's not I'm not saying that's the only reason you have
00:18:20.540 value I'm talking about your value in the dating market and like like results are harsh the world's
00:18:25.680 harsh and like the truth is modern women are less pure than they've ever been and we're older than 1.00
00:18:31.160 we've ever been so I'm asking do you think that's a fair deal for men when they have to be more
00:18:35.220 and more less if a man is going to look at me and say that the only value I come I can bring to the
00:18:41.820 table is because of my no I didn't say the only value so I'm not saying that's the only value like
00:18:47.480 you seem like a smart girl I know you have more than just that but I'm saying in the dating market
00:18:51.120 like this is what it starts with and it's harsh but it's reality but we're sorry I'm just I'm but
00:18:57.440 you're saying we're going with age and we're going with well it's like men men value purity and youth
00:19:02.800 so they like young virgins that's the that's the ideal just like our ideal is like rich men
00:19:08.740 right but I'm saying now in today's day and age like women have higher standards than ever but bring 1.00
00:19:14.260 less to the table than ever we're older we've slept with more people and we have less loyalty because
00:19:19.520 we're the ones leaving them so is it a fair deal yeah so I'm saying do you think that's a fair deal for
00:19:25.080 men I think it generally depends on the person I'm sorry I can't answer that question
00:19:30.620 okay go ahead what are your requirements for a guy uh that he's aware of the the traditional
00:19:37.620 gender roles okay and I have to like and I expect that and he expects that from me 0.98
00:19:41.880 and reciprocity and I think respect is earned I can't I don't expect him to sort of respect me
00:19:46.820 just like that because I'm a woman I think he needs to get to know me and um the relationship
00:19:50.900 has to be reciprocal and I I'm 28 and I don't I actually want him to be polygynous
00:19:58.560 really yeah what they're gonna they're gonna fall in love with you in the chat
00:20:03.640 explain no go yeah the reason why and um I could speak so much about this they're calling you an
00:20:10.960 Indian queen right now oh my god the reason why is because I'm the biggest introvert I know
00:20:18.880 I'm like I need my solitude and I I hate saying that because people are like oh god you know she's
00:20:25.080 so up there but I really like I get drained so me coming today I was like I really need to prepare
00:20:29.160 myself yeah um because I I get drained with interaction and I'm I if I love my husband and I
00:20:35.300 need to get over the fact that I don't need to be clinged on to him because that's unrealistic
00:20:38.160 um but if I love my husband I want him to be taken care of and and if I don't have to worry about that
00:20:43.880 yeah that's great wow and that's as simple as I can put it how are you how are you single
00:20:49.000 what's like no no I'm not oh okay sorry guys sorry I forgot I thought you said you were
00:20:54.900 no but yeah I mean I know that there there is so much that could be said about polygyny yeah
00:20:59.900 hard eyes hard at Indian synth Indian woman I was like the chat's gonna love her oh no sorry
00:21:05.460 I've got I've got a question um are you in a polygynous relationship uh I'm with somebody who
00:21:13.080 is open to that and and and hey that's great for me would you want multiple wives or would you just 1.00
00:21:19.880 want like he could step out whenever he wants the thing is I I I would that he would they would have
00:21:25.160 to be wives okay because you know because then I'll because I would lose respect for him because
00:21:32.100 then I'm like then you know you guys are using each other and no yeah so if we can actually marry 0.89
00:21:37.080 them and you know then might if there's children out there accidentally you know I want my children to
00:21:41.620 have you know honorable half siblings not like just some you know some stray child do you have
00:21:47.620 to be the main though do you have to be no I don't care if I'm two I just you know I'm so over it like
00:21:53.340 you know and and guess what it's very freeing yeah it's very freeing is that um are you are you from
00:21:59.480 India or like like is that is that common in India or no is that like no I don't know I haven't seen
00:22:05.000 it like well yeah actually yes it is it is okay but not as common but it does happen that answer
00:22:11.120 your question another question they have in the chat is what age do you see women divorce men
00:22:16.880 typically what age yeah say around 40s I've seen a lot of that really 40s I thought it'd be like
00:22:25.980 30 yeah yeah actually yeah 30s yeah late 30s 40s
00:22:31.120 because oh you know what I bet it is you could still maybe move on in 30s to 40s but if you're
00:22:39.200 in your 50s like what's no that's I actually dealt with somebody who's the white the ex-wife is 38
00:22:44.760 and she's like I can see the window I'm gonna take it yeah yeah no well good luck to her for those
00:22:51.880 so it's like their hypergamy would you say yeah yeah okay I'm gonna take a second to read super
00:22:56.760 chats that's they're like he's the luckiest man alive and we've got a unicorn here yeah no I don't
00:23:04.440 think I've ever had a girl I don't think I've heard that have we had a girl on the show ish that said 1.00
00:23:08.320 she was open to that no I've had like 20 people a week the last episode in the building it happens 0.67
00:23:17.320 yeah for real episode 69 yeah yeah hell yeah it's just like you writing earlier when he was talking
00:23:27.380 yeah I was taking notes I had to like who was talking I need to learn something you know I'm
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