JustPearlyThings - Man Exposes Male Psychology

00:00:00.000 like i'm saying women fall in love through sex men fall in love through quality time and loyalty

00:00:04.640 typically i must be a man then i want to just go back to that how what do you consider a long-term

00:00:10.860 relationship um so my first was six years um how old are you 28 28 yeah go on uh my last one was

00:00:19.320 three years three years okay and then i had like a one-year one so you had three long-term

00:00:25.740 relationships and you and you said that you you had sex and you took it away because you because 0.64

00:00:31.140 it wasn't about no it was one of those things where before i slept with them that connection

00:00:37.340 was kind of built first like i had to trust that person and know that um it's not just going to be

00:00:43.140 physical there's going to be something more there right that's what that's what i thought you meant 0.98

00:00:46.740 but i'm saying that's for you a man i would want to have sex with you the moment i see you like 0.99

00:00:52.240 it's like it's not i don't i want to build a connection and i want to get to know her and 0.98

00:00:56.480 the more you make me wait the less i probably want to um that's a bit harsh to say the longer

00:01:05.040 you make me wait the more i want to be spiteful yeah i want to be spiteful because you gave it to 0.68

00:01:13.720 that guy for in what on the one night stand he wasn't he wasn't crap to you yeah but me you saw 0.94

00:01:19.020 me coming along and you thought you know what you know what i'm saying like i'm not getting

00:01:24.440 digmatized yeah like okay i'm gonna be proper this time i'm gonna i'm gonna keep it closed i'm

00:01:30.020 gonna be proper and he's thinking wait hold on a minute like michael got it on day one like

00:01:34.640 you you're trying to make me wait four months yeah all right wait till four months is done

00:01:38.680 and i've and i've pressed you now we'll see when i've got my post not clarity if i want to stay

00:01:43.940 firstly that's assuming that a i'm someone who has one night stands and b so i've also spoken to a

00:01:50.400 lot of guys who say that when they sleep with somebody straight away they tend to lose a little

00:01:53.840 bit of respect for them it depends and then they no longer really look at them as a long-term partner

00:01:59.240 because they thought okay this was really easy so how many other individuals is she sleeping

00:02:03.720 i think the question is is it genuine because the thing is like what he's referring to is a girl

00:02:08.820 that gives and i don't i don't know you maybe you've never had a one night stand that's fine

00:02:12.260 but i'm saying what he's referring what he's referring to is girls like give it up on the 0.97

00:02:16.000 first night for some guys and then make another guy wait and so it's kind of like to him well i

00:02:21.760 had to put all this investment where the other guy just got it for free so it's really frustrating

00:02:26.280 to men because they feel like you're not really attracted to them because you gave it to the other

00:02:31.860 guy isn't it a compliment to the man though exactly it shows that the woman is taking you seriously

00:02:37.980 perhaps no i think i think that's like a woman's point of view yeah yeah like i like i'm making you

00:02:43.680 wait because i like you please wait a few months until i feel like sleeping with you it's a compliment

00:02:49.120 that's the assumption i'm making you wait because i like myself yeah i think women have a fear if they

00:02:54.940 genuinely like a guy of then being rejected okay so you're saying the reason why you make me wait is

00:03:01.920 because if you think you give it to me early i'm not going to respect you as much as if you made me

00:03:06.060 wait potentially but then you disrespected me by giving someone else no chance to wait

00:03:10.700 why are you comparing yourself because we're men we're we're very territorial we're very competitive 0.95

00:03:17.740 we're very com i don't want i don't want to have intercourse with a girl that that's well i don't 0.99

00:03:24.760 want to be taking a woman seriously when she's had um intercourse with my friends yeah see men can't 0.99

00:03:29.520 undo their biology yeah and and the thing is um men are but their predisposition to be repulsed by

00:03:36.220 women that sleeps around so and the reason is because historically they had to ensure paternity 1.00

00:03:40.780 so if they were wifing basically like wifing a hoe back in the day they could be raising a kid that's 0.98

00:03:45.660 not theirs and even though we have birth control nowadays you can't undo their hard wiring so and

00:03:51.020 the data supports it because women that have sex with one person and that's their husband have an 80 0.95

00:03:56.880 chance of being in a happy marriage and if they have sleep with more than five people that

00:04:00.440 drops down to 20 after 10 years wow but is that not contradictory to what he just said about

00:04:06.700 if you make somebody wait then they kind of become spiteful and but then you're saying

00:04:12.060 no depends how you make me no but i'm saying like it depends if it's genuine is did the girl did the girl

00:04:18.200 sleep with 20 dudes and then make him wait or is she a virgin and making him wait because she's a virgin 1.00

00:04:23.220 like there's two very different ways to go about it but when you kind of start dating somebody you

00:04:28.680 don't necessarily discuss your sex life with that individual anyway so like for example how would

00:04:33.780 you know that i've slept with x y and z when i'm getting to know you and i'm dating you how would

00:04:38.920 you know because okay you know woman's intuition you know that feeling you get when it's like no this 0.63

00:04:44.200 guy is cheating a man has an intuition as well he could smell the hole you could smell it he could be like

00:04:51.900 no this like not she'll be like i've never done this before

00:04:55.580 i don't believe you don't believe it i mean your your woman intuition isn't always correct but

00:05:12.500 a majority of the time it's on point it's on point so you know like i might not every girl

00:05:17.840 i would second guess i'll be like you know what i'm going with my intuition not every time i'll be

00:05:22.120 right but majority of the times i'm right because there's certain signals that girls give off 1.00

00:05:27.460 when they tend to be more perspicuous um promiscuous what signals are these i'm not

00:05:32.900 no no no no no that's for the that's for the men code no no no there's no man that's the men code

00:05:37.180 that's for the brothers yeah you're saying um signals women give off about being more promiscuous 0.99

00:05:42.240 yeah i'm very open sexually um i grew up in a family that was very like sex wasn't a taboo

00:05:49.720 subject my daughters i speak very openly with freely with them about sex um i had slept with

00:05:56.780 one person from i was 15 till i was 33 in a whole 18 year relationship and i was very open sexually

00:06:02.560 but i find that some people will look at that as being oh that you can openly talk about sex and

00:06:11.340 orgasms and think that they would think that's she must be promiscuous because she can talk about 1.00

00:06:17.780 sex or she she loves what you said no no no i'm not i'm not i'm not i didn't say that no no no i said 0.96

00:06:22.520 i'm saying to you that's i think sometimes the signs might be misconstrued because absolutely i think 0.51

00:06:30.320 men think that women being open talking about sex and talking about orgasms being very like

00:06:39.120 sometimes talking to another man sometimes men are wrong you're right like sometimes they don't

00:06:43.620 guess correctly but i just like the point is that when men realize that a girl has been ran through

00:06:49.780 it repulses them and they can't help it it's their biology yeah the same way women want a guy that's 1.00

00:06:55.460 taller than us because we wanted a guy to protect us that's our biology but we're in control of body

00:07:00.560 count men aren't in control of height yeah i agree so like you don't think okay

00:07:08.300 if your friend has done something yeah that she wasn't supposed to do can't you just feel it on

00:07:14.660 her like she's just done something like i like you i you can't put your finger on it yeah but it's

00:07:20.240 something about your friend like you know you did something you did something with him and it's like

00:07:24.580 that intuition that men has when you've been around enough women to know like there's this there's

00:07:28.800 just like triggers that's like wait hold on i've seen i've seen that before okay i would stop and

00:07:33.920 i wouldn't immediately um give her the um i'll give her the benefit of the doubt and be like okay that

00:07:39.820 was just one time and then i see another one it's like oh it's starting to compile now yeah so when

00:07:45.200 there's compound now of certain things that you look out for as a man to know like a promiscuous

00:07:50.580 woman is not necessarily the same as a woman that's abstaining no i hear what you're saying because i mean

00:07:56.140 i've met men and i thought wow like you you as you said about the protection i'm very like i'm a

00:08:03.500 man's man and i've initially thought yeah and then saw wow you're not about that life and i've do you 0.99

00:08:11.760 know the same way you're saying you can smell a hoe it's like i can smell a pussy yeah like so yeah i get 1.00

00:08:19.100 what you're saying like it's like you could tell like this guy's faking it he's not really he's not 0.99

00:08:23.520 really he ain't he ain't alpha like yeah he's pretending like you don't he does he says the

00:08:29.000 right things yeah but you could just tell it about it no no definitely so that's the intuition that men

00:08:33.800 that men can see in girls and they're like wait hold on i'm not gonna let her know that i know

00:08:37.740 i'm gonna sleep with her first and then i was just gonna ghost or i'm gonna go with her friend 0.93

00:08:42.880 or i'm gonna do you know do you go i'm just gonna um keep on sleep with her and not give her a 1.00

00:08:47.700 relationship i'm gonna do you go i'm gonna say he would do things other than make you his wifey

00:08:53.100 to be walking on road with you holding hands so everyone else could see yeah but then if we make

00:08:58.040 you wait that's an issue as well it depends who if you're all right if you've had um intercourse with

00:09:05.980 someone in the scene london's a very small place and a big place at the same time please be

00:09:11.440 guaranteed that i know at least three people that you've you've you've not necessarily slept

00:09:16.980 with but you was talking to or you was doing things with if i could tell by the caliber of

00:09:21.320 guy that you're around what you're saying and i'm speaking to these guys because men talk to each

00:09:25.320 other on a like man just needs to give another guy the little wink like that's you my g like do

00:09:31.000 know what i'm saying girls they do it as well yeah we do you know what i'm saying girls give 1.00

00:09:34.660 you girls the look like men do things to let men know hey don't go there that's 1.00

00:09:39.780 so so just to understand you're either the girl that you're going to end up with has either got

00:09:46.000 to be a saint that's not slept around and makes you wait or if she's got an open sex life unless 1.00

00:09:53.580 she has sex with you straight away she's not good enough either so what is your no no no 1.00

00:09:57.420 ideal you're trying to put me in the corner with without putting me in the corner i'm trying 0.85

00:10:02.320 to understand what it is that i'll make you understand if you are accustomed to sleeping

00:10:08.980 around yeah and then you find that one guy that you're really interested in want to make him think

00:10:14.100 that i'm a good girl and he's gonna like me i'm gonna put my best foot forward and i'm gonna make

00:10:18.960 him wait and do that he already knows no no no no i already know what you're on i've already seen the

00:10:24.880 whole play already i'm not coming to you ma'am you have an only fan yeah like you know what i'm

00:10:29.220 saying like i don't think the first time i'm coming to you is the first time i've seen you

00:10:33.000 i've already got the play oh what's what's maria saying okay all right all right what would you

00:10:38.280 not do the thing yeah what okay well she's on that yeah all right say no more same okay let me

00:10:43.400 let me holler maria when i see maria hi maria you're right you're so beautiful i love you

00:10:47.160 the you know what i'm saying you're god's angel i love you so much look you in the eyes and talk to

00:10:51.360 you in your ears and whisper and stuff i'll make you think i'm like you know i'm saying like i'm

00:10:55.000 i'm not being genuine but i'm being genuine if you get what i'm saying i'm interested but i'm not

00:10:59.000 going to take you as seriously as you could tell me from a guy's point of view you want to be the

00:11:03.340 guy that she breaks rules for yeah like she made everyone else wait but she slept with you right away 1.00

00:11:08.040 and you're not the guy she's doing it for isn't nice as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok

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JustPearlyThings - April 04, 2023

Man Exposes Male Psychology

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