Man EXPOSES Women's Darkest Fantasy
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Summary
In this episode we discuss sexual assault in the modern society and how it affects the way of sexual education in schools and in the media. We talk about the dangers of sexual assault and how to deal with it. We also talk about sexual abuse in the public eye and what we should do if we find ourselves in a situation where we are sexually abused.
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well that's the i mean i had a male um only fans model on here and he you know what he said his
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number one request was guess from women because he had women people watching him that she doesn't
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post her body online no no like for for hughes and only fans model so women requested something
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of him like for private video or like like choking i don't know abs and like sauce or something
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abs and sauce you think choking what do you what do you think it was
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i don't know like oh what's that thing called when that they're very aggressive like with toys
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what do you think i have the words i can see it and i can't say it but it's just that
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kind of i think that tantric way of like a dark room or things like that like that type of what
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do you think it was but he's on his own in a room so you can't it's like the situation no he works
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with other people i saw what like spanking or something then grape great yeah that's what i
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wanted to say what's the two two two very pretty girls that i dated fully said that was a fantasy
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and i thought wow i mean what what's the what's the number one like woman's sexual book 50 shades
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of gray i mean i've never read it i've just heard things that's crazy great yeah yeah but it goes
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back to like we always needed men to protect us so if a guy's aggressive he would have been able
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to protect us back in the day so there's like there's something biological there you don't you
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don't just just because we're in a more modern society you don't get rid of our biological roots
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monkey brain i do think that's very sad though yeah you think it's sad yeah i do think it's sad
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and like also like i should to be totally honest i was part of a demographic of women that when i was
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younger i thought that i was supposed to want those things and it wasn't until i got a little bit older
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that i was like oh i like don't have to have violent sex like i can just like why did you think
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you were supposed to want it because of corn because of all the corn that i'd seen in my life
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i thought like women are supposed to have there was a documentary like violent really i remember
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seeing like a form of documentary with parents coming out about corn saying that what is exposed
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on the internet they're scared for their kids to go up and see because they couldn't they would
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never want their kids to experience yeah and it's almost like it's pushed you to think that is okay
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for a man to do that or that is okay to do that without asking a question and i think that's the
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borderline with men as well i think it's hard with men and women because i mean obviously i've got two
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brothers and you know have cousins and stuff and i i always say like sometimes actually just let a
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woman show that she wants you so there's no there's no question of you didn't ask or i don't know if i was
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emotionally ready and i say where i say we're quite more emotional with men like than men so i feel like
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sometimes we might think we want something until it happens and sometimes when you're taking more
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baby steps in a process we have more time to back out and i think if you're not given that time or a
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man doesn't allow you to have that emotional moment sometimes the lines can be blurred and i think
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women that don't want to take accountability for saying no to things or to maybe be a bit more open
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about things then push that um anger or like regret feeling onto the man which then turns into
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great do you see what i mean and i think there's a fine line they regret the sex that they had or
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whatever they did and then they turn it into great 100 and i think that you know how can i put it like
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they do that because they don't like the fact that they're angry at themselves and i guess we they're
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not taking accountability for that and it goes back to society where women are pushed to kind of
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be in that bubble of being okay with not doing that and it is wrong i mean did you hear that case
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in the u.s there was a guy who um the girl accused him of grape and then there there was footage that
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came out of her pulling him back to the dorm and her pulling him in to kiss her and he still got kicked
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out of school wow this is the way that the world's going and it's scary and that's going back to your
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point that's why i can understand why people don't even want to have kids anymore because
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and this is the reason why as well men feel like they can't even speak about things because when
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they do you're misogynistic you're controlling patriarchy all of these buzzwords and yeah men
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don't feel like they could even say their own point anymore without being looked at a certain way
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i do think that that when you talk about like false grape accusations just to throw out the
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other side of that it's just it's such a small issue and i understand that when it does happen
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to somebody it totally ruins their life and that minority of people like they are ruined they get
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kicked out of university they lose all their friends it is awful but it's such a minority when
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you look at like grape cases in general how many actually go to trial and then how many actually
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like the person goes to prison over it but it's just it's so hard to prove especially if your
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partner does it to you there's no proof you can't prove it but that also in between going to trial
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in between actually was it innocent until proven guilty it's actually you're guilty until proven
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innocent well you have the court of public opinion yeah i totally agree with you but i just think that
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that's such a minority i don't know any woman that's accused a man of great do you yeah i don't know
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really i know someone that that's happened to what if he's a school teacher what if he's a school
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teacher you know this world is so small all it takes is for the wrong person to hear the wrong
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thing and it can ruin someone suspended with full pay for a period of time it's not as small as issue
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as you think i hear what you're saying like how many like actually make it to court but then you've
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got to remember that social media is everything now and you've got to remember as well with women
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that have experienced that or they've got a friend that's experienced that or women kind of you
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know they're group thinkers in a way like they will all you know jump in the manway if they feel like a
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woman's being abused quite rightly but in certain circumstances if it is a false allegation that
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guy's life is ruined his reputation is ruined just by someone saying something well is johnny
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depp's life ruined or is he doing absolutely fine yes absolutely not actually i just want to test
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something i'm just curious who here knows someone that was falsely accused of grape or assault or
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something that you personally know and you believe was false so two three so this is one two three
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four five six seven so out of seven people that i don't know there's three you don't think that's a big
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problem massive problem massive i think that's really hard though because i don't know the people
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that you know i don't know if you like if somebody accused somebody i was very very close to of
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grape if somebody accused my brother there was nothing in me that would ever think that my brother
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would do that does that mean that i know a hundred percent no you never know you know that's with
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anything though that's like that's like saying people that are exactly on death row you know
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there's a lot of people that have been sentenced to things they should never ever have been sentenced
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to court and they've been dealt with by a judge these are people that often haven't i'm guessing
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most of these cases have sometimes being dealt with by a judge doesn't also mean that it's fair
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and it hasn't actually half the time isn't right but it's based on evidence no it's not but we just
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went over that it's not in family court and i i talked to these men like they've had their entire
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reputation ruined like one guy even his whole family thought that he did it like she convinced
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him them that he did it and that he do not think that that's odd though if i was accused of something
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heinous i don't think my family believe i did it and because i didn't you know because i think a lot
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of times when women cry people believe them um i think that if she really that really happened to
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her i think she would have went to court and i think you should go to court that's a dangerous
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mindset to have there's a lot of people that don't go to court for a lot of reasons
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um it is an extremely traumatic thing well i i think that you shouldn't be speaking about something
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publicly that that a guy has not had a chance to defend himself i think that's not fair i i think if
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if you're going to accuse me of a crime and go around saying that i committed a crime i should have
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the right to go to court and defend myself but the problem is women will accuse men of things
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ruin their jobs ruin their reputation and it's all about it's all from family court or the court
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of public opinion neither of which that he gets a fair trial but then he can do what johnny depp did
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and defamation sue like i think i think you make it you know and you're right johnny depp was able to do
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that but even a man with money status and fame she still ruined his life for a couple years
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what what happens to the average guy the average guy can't afford to do that yeah you know expensive it
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and i know because i'm i'm there's some people some of y'all can get it um but i know i know because
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like i'm going to court with certain people so it's like it's like it's expensive so if a guy's making
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40 000 a year and his ex-wife just financed he's now homeless what he's going to go to court to defend